FabSwingers.com forum: Does it really matter

By *i015 OP Man
over a year ago

Millbrook, Southampton

What a person looks like or what size they are?

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"What a person looks like or what size they are?

It depends what you want from that person.

For a long term friendship/relationship, probably less important.

For a one night NSA sexual experience, then it is probably more important.

However, everyone is different and will prioritise different things when making these judgements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. 10000% it matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too right i fancy the man i married i have to at least fancy the guys i play with too

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London

Yes.

If I don’t fancy someone I’m not fucking em.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Yes ! No attraction = no action

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Yes ! No attraction = no action "

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

When it's forum communications then it matters not one jot. If any clothes are coming off then it's %100 important.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Yes, definitely!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

If you're asking about looks regarding meeting people then yes it matters. We can't have sex with people we don't fancy the look of.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

"What a person looks like or what size they are?"

Odd question. One could equally say, "does it matter what colour/shape/size car you buy, the answer would logically be the same on most cases.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"What a person looks like or what size they are?"

Yes it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. If you are part of the any holes a goal brigade

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

In the grand scheme of things no it doesn't. If I'm going to be sexually involved with them on a casual basis yes, it matters a whole lot to me

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Yes it does, no attraction no sex. I can't get turned on by someone I don't find attractive X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, I have to be attracted to someone before I’d consider having sex with them.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Attraction is paramount, but good looks and sexy photos aren't the be all and end all - I'm equally attracted to personality, intelligence, sense of humour and sheer pheremone-fuelled animal magnetism. Hence preferring a social meet with no real expectations beyond a natter over some drinks in the first instance. So many people are way sexier than their photos and profile text make out (and vice versa!) so I like to make decisions based on actual face to face interaction.

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By *DGF20Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Yes ! No attraction = no action "

Well said, close the thread please

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Yes ! No attraction = no action

Well said, close the thread please

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By *ldaCouple
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

Weird initial question. The answer is startlingly obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP is that really a serious question?

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

It's what you do with it that matters

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

What I do know is that (in my experience) physical looks have absolutely nothing to do with how good the sex is. Fancying someone on first looks can very quickly disappear once you start chatting and visa versa. It may be just me, but looks are nowhere near the top of my list for a one off or longterm playmate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feelings and attraction are totally different things but we wouldn't just entertain anyone, to us “a fuck is not just a fuck” there has to be a connection in some form

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By *ogostick72Man
over a year ago

Scotland

No it doesnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a person looks like or what size they are?"

To me yes.

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By *az080378Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

"Attraction is paramount, but good looks and sexy photos aren't the be all and end all - I'm equally attracted to personality, intelligence, sense of humour and sheer pheremone-fuelled animal magnetism. Hence preferring a social meet with no real expectations beyond a natter over some drinks in the first instance. So many people are way sexier than their photos and profile text make out (and vice versa!) so I like to make decisions based on actual face to face interaction. "

Exactly this!

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