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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me or is the cock to pussy ratio on this site getting a joke been on and off for 5 years now and at start you could send 10 messages and you would always get at least 5 replies now you can send 100 and get the same really think Fab needs to charge more and limit how many guys join as its beyond a joke these days

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Nah, charging would result in the same situation. Who's to say that timewasters don't have money and genuine people aren't on a tight budget. I'm a site supporter but I probably wouldnt be here at all if I had to subscribe, and I'm no timewaster.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


"Is it just me or is the cock to pussy ratio on this site getting a joke been on and off for 5 years now and at start you could send 10 messages and you would always get at least 5 replies now you can send 100 and get the same really think Fab needs to charge more and limit how many guys join as its beyond a joke these days"

Maybe the answer is to go back to sending just 10 quality messages to profiles who are a perfect fit for you both?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Fab doesn't need to change, the attitudes of men needs to change, they need to lose their sense of entitlement and have a decent profiles.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Is it just me or is the cock to pussy ratio on this site getting a joke been on and off for 5 years now and at start you could send 10 messages and you would always get at least 5 replies now you can send 100 and get the same really think Fab needs to charge more and limit how many guys join as its beyond a joke these days"

Would you include yourself in those limited in joining then? Or is it you just want others excluded?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Fab works just fine as it is - I've been here 3 years and nothing has changed in that time either - the ratios of men to women are still about the same, the number of men moaning they don't get responses to messages hasn't changed, nor has anything else really.

Worrying about how others use the site is a pointless exercise really - much prefer to focus on my own use and experience of it and in that respect I have no complaints at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was soooo much better 10 yr ago. Its hard to keep a private life online now. Hence, 1 picky fat woman to 99 sexually frustrated men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is the cock to pussy ratio on this site getting a joke been on and off for 5 years now and at start you could send 10 messages and you would always get at least 5 replies now you can send 100 and get the same really think Fab needs to charge more and limit how many guys join as its beyond a joke these days"

The thing is fab is a business and they will not limit their profit margins, with all those possible upgrades.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is the cock to pussy ratio on this site getting a joke been on and off for 5 years now and at start you could send 10 messages and you would always get at least 5 replies now you can send 100 and get the same really think Fab needs to charge more and limit how many guys join as its beyond a joke these days"

Could be fixed overnight by only allowing site supporters to message, you don't pay your fiver you don't message, too easy for guys to sign up and bombard you with messages.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Is it just me or is the cock to pussy ratio on this site getting a joke been on and off for 5 years now and at start you could send 10 messages and you would always get at least 5 replies now you can send 100 and get the same really think Fab needs to charge more and limit how many guys join as its beyond a joke these days

Could be fixed overnight by only allowing site supporters to message, you don't pay your fiver you don't message, too easy for guys to sign up and bombard you with messages. "

Use your filters, you can set them so newbies, unverified and non-supporters can’t message

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By *randMrsBlueEyesCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Was soooo much better 10 yr ago. Its hard to keep a private life online now. Hence, 1 picky fat woman to 99 sexually frustrated men."

Picky or just doesn't want to meet any old idiot who messages them? Put in some effort instead of expecting everyone to just open their legs for you.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is the cock to pussy ratio on this site getting a joke been on and off for 5 years now and at start you could send 10 messages and you would always get at least 5 replies now you can send 100 and get the same really think Fab needs to charge more and limit how many guys join as its beyond a joke these days

Could be fixed overnight by only allowing site supporters to message, you don't pay your fiver you don't message, too easy for guys to sign up and bombard you with messages.

Use your filters, you can set them so newbies, unverified and non-supporters can’t message"

Oh don't worry, we have our filters set to maximum

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By *r.NaughtybutNiceMan
over a year ago

oxford

Seems to be that more men are putting the effort in on here.. yet the women just get to take pic of their messages on who to reply/meet up with.. I do respect people who can give a polite sorry but no, have a nice day.. so hats off to Everyone who gets a lot of messages and still takes time to give respect back x

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By *randMrsBlueEyesCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Seems to be that more men are putting the effort in on here.. yet the women just get to take pic of their messages on who to reply/meet up with.. I do respect people who can give a polite sorry but no, have a nice day.. so hats off to Everyone who gets a lot of messages and still takes time to give respect back x "

We try to reply to all but honestly some of the crap we get when we do makes even overly nice doormats like me want to just ignore and delete...

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys seem to think that a ‘let’s meet’ or I’d like to f**k you warrants a response. Sadly they are wrong. Those that put the effort into their first message are normally rewarded with a sensible response, even if its a ‘no thank’. Fab works fine as it is.

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By *r.NaughtybutNiceMan
over a year ago

oxford


"Seems to be that more men are putting the effort in on here.. yet the women just get to take pic of their messages on who to reply/meet up with.. I do respect people who can give a polite sorry but no, have a nice day.. so hats off to Everyone who gets a lot of messages and still takes time to give respect back x

We try to reply to all but honestly some of the crap we get when we do makes even overly nice doormats like me want to just ignore and delete...

Mrs x"

Yeah I can imagine.. some people have the personalities of a chalk board! sometimes I feel like I’m just being genuinely nice and it doesn’t even get read.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is the cock to pussy ratio on this site getting a joke been on and off for 5 years now and at start you could send 10 messages and you would always get at least 5 replies now you can send 100 and get the same really think Fab needs to charge more and limit how many guys join as its beyond a joke these days"

OK then do the honorable thing and delete your account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has been a lot of publicity about fab and Ive noticed a surge in guy profiles, however thet usually just go dormant after a day or two. A well written thoughtful message with a face pic and punctuation will usually get a response. Also use filters ladies!

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

Maybe your messages are rubbish.

As the gentleman above me says, well thought out messages go a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you search any area for new profiles in the last 5 days male then female you get a pretty consistent 10:1 or larger ratio. Let's assume there are more fake women than men so it's probably an even greater ratio.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"Is it just me or is the cock to pussy ratio on this site getting a joke been on and off for 5 years now and at start you could send 10 messages and you would always get at least 5 replies now you can send 100 and get the same really think Fab needs to charge more and limit how many guys join as its beyond a joke these days"
another bloke who thinks he’s entitled to a reply

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We want respectful, interesting men on this site. Filtering them out according to who is prepared to pay will probably cut down numbers but is unlikely to increase the proportion of decent men here.

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By *ayRosesWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Well, as a picky fat woman, if someone hasn't bothered to read my profile notes / sends me an icky one-liner why should I waste my time replying when i can have a conversation with someone who likes picky fat women and makes an effort?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab doesn't need to change, the attitudes of men needs to change, they need to lose their sense of entitlement and have a decent profiles. "

Yes! Exactly!

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Lets face it guys few women.have an.interes t in.the lifestyle. Thise that are are.ij a.relationship.

Those that are.single.can.afford to be fussy.

Yiu are.much.more.likelg to find a.sexual encounter on a normal site.

Look at.swingers clubs. If it wasnt for the single guys paying 80 to 100 quid these places would go bust. So.yes the ratio is ridiculous.

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

Hey bird fancy a fuck ..try that one it may work ..

.or be interesting and fun with respect will help

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

I tried to reply to as many as possible but the majority clearly don't ready my profile or just send a 'hi' message. Must admit when I was on years ago a lot more effort in message content was given by the guys compared to now. Although there are still a few who do have that skill thankfully

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By *eeman1000Man
over a year ago

durham


"Is it just me or is the cock to pussy ratio on this site getting a joke been on and off for 5 years now and at start you could send 10 messages and you would always get at least 5 replies now you can send 100 and get the same really think Fab needs to charge more and limit how many guys join as its beyond a joke these days"

Maybe people who send 100s of msgs are the problem I've not sent 100 msgs in total since I started this years ago.

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

The messages I am more likely to respond to are ones that are not obviously copied and pasted from the million other messages the person has sent, that give an indication that the sender has at the very least read my profile, and that make me laugh. I’d prefer to not get a stream of dick pics in a first message either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It. Ya be just me but I felt a real air of I'm in now pull-up the drawbridge to the o.p. Sorry that your struggling to stand out but the reality is this is a place of transactions. And it’s a buyers market.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Lets face it guys few women.have an.interes t in.the lifestyle. Thise that are are.ij a.relationship.

Those that are.single.can.afford to be fussy.

Yiu are.much.more.likelg to find a.sexual encounter on a normal site.

Look at.swingers clubs. If it wasnt for the single guys paying 80 to 100 quid these places would go bust. So.yes the ratio is ridiculous.

"
£80 to £100 for a single guy? You are obviously looking at the wrong clubs, lots which are much much cheaper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Notice you have no public profile pics, so if you messaged us without adding one, we would not answer,we get loads with, (great photos, would love to meet up) etc, and not a photo added of themselves. = delete

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Well, as a picky fat woman, if someone hasn't bothered to read my profile notes / sends me an icky one-liner why should I waste my time replying when i can have a conversation with someone who likes picky fat women and makes an effort?"

Precisely.

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Notice you have no public profile pics, so if you messaged us without adding one, we would not answer,we get loads with, (great photos, would love to meet up) etc, and not a photo added of themselves. = delete"

This. One liners, no effort, text speak. Every single one of those is a turn off for us.

We appreciate it's hard to write that initial message, but read the profile and pick up on some cues

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Is it just me or is the cock to pussy ratio on this site getting a joke been on and off for 5 years now and at start you could send 10 messages and you would always get at least 5 replies now you can send 100 and get the same really think Fab needs to charge more and limit how many guys join as its beyond a joke these days"

Good idea, get rid of the men with no public pics first

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