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"What is your opinion OP seeing as you have it in your username. I cant help but feel this is a look at me thread and possibly just to create arguments." I asked a question ? Doesn’t mean I feel a way about it | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? " Pure Shaming, what if he's black and dosent have a big cock. Made to feel inferior to others around him. Like he's not even black any more or something it's bullshit. | |||
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"What is your opinion OP seeing as you have it in your username. I cant help but feel this is a look at me thread and possibly just to create arguments. I asked a question ? Doesn’t mean I feel a way about it " So, you dont have an opinion? | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? " I don’t think you know what racism means... | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means..."  | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means..." I think I do. | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. " I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning." Yes that's racist too. I don't think YOU understand the term if you think only white people can be racist. I'm not offended on anyone's behalf and I'm not calling anybody racist. The OP asked what we thought about the term and that's what I think. I'm not putting it forward as fact I even said in my post who cares what I think? But for the record, as someone asked... That's what I think. | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? " You're a black man with a large cock? Do you feel degraded or offended | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Yes that's racist too. I don't think YOU understand the term if you think only white people can be racist. I'm not offended on anyone's behalf and I'm not calling anybody racist. The OP asked what we thought about the term and that's what I think. I'm not putting it forward as fact I even said in my post who cares what I think? But for the record, as someone asked... That's what I think. " Where did I say only white people can be racist? Or did you pluck that one out of thin air? Ffs! I’m glad you stated you’re not putting it forward as it fact, as it isn’t.  | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Yes that's racist too. I don't think YOU understand the term if you think only white people can be racist. I'm not offended on anyone's behalf and I'm not calling anybody racist. The OP asked what we thought about the term and that's what I think. I'm not putting it forward as fact I even said in my post who cares what I think? But for the record, as someone asked... That's what I think. Where did I say only white people can be racist? Or did you pluck that one out of thin air? Ffs! I’m glad you stated you’re not putting it forward as it fact, as it isn’t. "That's the definition of an opinion, honey. Which is what the OP asked for. OK? | |||
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"Not black, so wouldn’t know. However I do find it funny how you’ll see posts from people who ain’t black or sometimes not even men, offended on black men’s behalf. "Exactly this! Posts like this are pointless people are either ok with the term or not. There are no doubt people who think we are racist or being degrading to black men as we use this term in our username and fair enough that’s their opinion which they are entitled to. I don’t think we are racist and even though we use the term BBC this doesn’t mean we don’t appreciate the owner of said appendage  in fact a guy could have an enormous black cock but there also has to be a mutual attraction and good connection or we are not interested. Rightly or wrongly we use it to clearly identify what we are looking for and surely the first B could also mean beautiful  | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Yes that's racist too. I don't think YOU understand the term if you think only white people can be racist. I'm not offended on anyone's behalf and I'm not calling anybody racist. The OP asked what we thought about the term and that's what I think. I'm not putting it forward as fact I even said in my post who cares what I think? But for the record, as someone asked... That's what I think. Where did I say only white people can be racist? Or did you pluck that one out of thin air? Ffs! I’m glad you stated you’re not putting it forward as it fact, as it isn’t.
That's the definition of an opinion, honey. Which is what the OP asked for. OK? "You’re entitled to your opinion. I’m entitled to mine also, you don’t know what racism is. You didn’t answer my question? You said “ I don't think YOU understand the term if you think only white people can be racist.” How did you come to that conclusion? | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? " We don't use it ourselves but really all that matters is how you feel about it. That said, you certainly do have a nice one | |||
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"Not black, so wouldn’t know. However I do find it funny how you’ll see posts from people who ain’t black or sometimes not even men, offended on black men’s behalf. "Well you seem to be having a big day in the matter.And unless I need spec savers you ain’t black either 
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"Not black, so wouldn’t know. However I do find it funny how you’ll see posts from people who ain’t black or sometimes not even men, offended on black men’s behalf.
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? " I find the term rather reductionist, but I suppose that there are some black guys who will use it to their advantage, though.. | |||
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"Not black, so wouldn’t know. However I do find it funny how you’ll see posts from people who ain’t black or sometimes not even men, offended on black men’s behalf.
Well you seem to be having a big day in the matter.And unless I need spec savers you ain’t black either
"Did you miss the first part of my comment whilst falling over yourself to respond? I’ll rewrite it for you “Not black, so wouldn’t know” Still very amusing watching non black people get offended on behalf of black people, some real self importance going on there. | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning." Black people use the N word. So because they use it, it’s not racist so everyone can use it then? In my opinion (Mr) BBC and the whole black male fetish is entirely racist. It spawns from Women using slaves for disposable sex toys. People are people, yes people have preferences, but can they not express them in a less vulgar way? | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? " It's just a term, so others know asap, what is entailed with the guy, no different too the term bwc! | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Black people use the N word. So because they use it, it’s not racist so everyone can use it then? In my opinion (Mr) BBC and the whole black male fetish is entirely racist. It spawns from Women using slaves for disposable sex toys. People are people, yes people have preferences, but can they not express them in a less vulgar way?" You can’t compare the N word to BBC. They are just not the same. As I said I’m not black so I can’t speak for those who are, however I detest the use of the N word by anyone. I have black friends who agree with me on that. But this isn’t what the topic is about. If a black man is describing himself as BBC is he being racist to himself? All other black men? Or is he being descriptive? Like a BBW would or a PAWG would. I think calling racist is a OTT and waters down the true meaning of racism. | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Yes that's racist too. I don't think YOU understand the term if you think only white people can be racist. I'm not offended on anyone's behalf and I'm not calling anybody racist. The OP asked what we thought about the term and that's what I think. I'm not putting it forward as fact I even said in my post who cares what I think? But for the record, as someone asked... That's what I think. Where did I say only white people can be racist? Or did you pluck that one out of thin air? Ffs! I’m glad you stated you’re not putting it forward as it fact, as it isn’t. "Adorbs that you think black people cant be racist towards other black people | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Yes that's racist too. I don't think YOU understand the term if you think only white people can be racist. I'm not offended on anyone's behalf and I'm not calling anybody racist. The OP asked what we thought about the term and that's what I think. I'm not putting it forward as fact I even said in my post who cares what I think? But for the record, as someone asked... That's what I think. Where did I say only white people can be racist? Or did you pluck that one out of thin air? Ffs! I’m glad you stated you’re not putting it forward as it fact, as it isn’t.
Adorbs that you think black people cant be racist towards other black people"Where was that said? It wasn’t, because I don’t think that. Adorbs that you think you know how I think. | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? " to some yes to some no. | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? " If you use it in your user name i don't think you can then take offence if that is how you are defined | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Black people use the N word. So because they use it, it’s not racist so everyone can use it then? In my opinion (Mr) BBC and the whole black male fetish is entirely racist. It spawns from Women using slaves for disposable sex toys. People are people, yes people have preferences, but can they not express them in a less vulgar way?" BBC cant be compared to the N word but I do understand your point | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Black people use the N word. So because they use it, it’s not racist so everyone can use it then? In my opinion (Mr) BBC and the whole black male fetish is entirely racist. It spawns from Women using slaves for disposable sex toys. People are people, yes people have preferences, but can they not express them in a less vulgar way? You can’t compare the N word to BBC. They are just not the same. As I said I’m not black so I can’t speak for those who are, however I detest the use of the N word by anyone. I have black friends who agree with me on that. But this isn’t what the topic is about. If a black man is describing himself as BBC is he being racist to himself? All other black men? Or is he being descriptive? Like a BBW would or a PAWG would. I think calling racist is a OTT and waters down the true meaning of racism. " In context you can compare the N word and BBC. You said BBC cannot be a racist term as black people use it, but the N word is. My opinion is that there is a difference in that blacks use the word to own it, to take the power away from those who use it to insult. Preferably nobody at all should us it, but it will take decades to vanquish all use. It can’t possibly water down the true meaning of racism. Racism started from slavery. Using black males for sex - which is essentially what people who search for BBC do - was part of that slavery. The vast majority of the couples who look for BBC are white females with white male partners/husbands. You have to ask the question if they like black males so much, why didn’t they marry one? There will be some excuse or another but it will actually be down to some deep rooted subconscious prejudices, and basically boils down to good enough to fuck but nothing more - which is of course racism. I know this may not be the case for everyone, but if people stopped using the term and treating them as people and not cocks and sexual commodities then maybe the swinging world would be a better place. Swinging should be about inclusivity, not segregation. Having separate BBC nights is contrary to that and actually widens the divide. | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Black people use the N word. So because they use it, it’s not racist so everyone can use it then? In my opinion (Mr) BBC and the whole black male fetish is entirely racist. It spawns from Women using slaves for disposable sex toys. People are people, yes people have preferences, but can they not express them in a less vulgar way? You can’t compare the N word to BBC. They are just not the same. As I said I’m not black so I can’t speak for those who are, however I detest the use of the N word by anyone. I have black friends who agree with me on that. But this isn’t what the topic is about. If a black man is describing himself as BBC is he being racist to himself? All other black men? Or is he being descriptive? Like a BBW would or a PAWG would. I think calling racist is a OTT and waters down the true meaning of racism. In context you can compare the N word and BBC. You said BBC cannot be a racist term as black people use it, but the N word is. My opinion is that there is a difference in that blacks use the word to own it, to take the power away from those who use it to insult. Preferably nobody at all should us it, but it will take decades to vanquish all use. It can’t possibly water down the true meaning of racism. Racism started from slavery. Using black males for sex - which is essentially what people who search for BBC do - was part of that slavery. The vast majority of the couples who look for BBC are white females with white male partners/husbands. You have to ask the question if they like black males so much, why didn’t they marry one? There will be some excuse or another but it will actually be down to some deep rooted subconscious prejudices, and basically boils down to good enough to fuck but nothing more - which is of course racism. I know this may not be the case for everyone, but if people stopped using the term and treating them as people and not cocks and sexual commodities then maybe the swinging world would be a better place. Swinging should be about inclusivity, not segregation. Having separate BBC nights is contrary to that and actually widens the divide." *Black people, not "blacks" | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Yes that's racist too. I don't think YOU understand the term if you think only white people can be racist. I'm not offended on anyone's behalf and I'm not calling anybody racist. The OP asked what we thought about the term and that's what I think. I'm not putting it forward as fact I even said in my post who cares what I think? But for the record, as someone asked... That's what I think. Where did I say only white people can be racist? Or did you pluck that one out of thin air? Ffs! I’m glad you stated you’re not putting it forward as it fact, as it isn’t.
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Yes that's racist too. I don't think YOU understand the term if you think only white people can be racist. I'm not offended on anyone's behalf and I'm not calling anybody racist. The OP asked what we thought about the term and that's what I think. I'm not putting it forward as fact I even said in my post who cares what I think? But for the record, as someone asked... That's what I think. Where did I say only white people can be racist? Or did you pluck that one out of thin air? Ffs! I’m glad you stated you’re not putting it forward as it fact, as it isn’t.
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I was thinking the same. It’s ok though that’s allowed "Where does it say it's ok for black people to be racist towards other black people? | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Black people use the N word. So because they use it, it’s not racist so everyone can use it then? In my opinion (Mr) BBC and the whole black male fetish is entirely racist. It spawns from Women using slaves for disposable sex toys. People are people, yes people have preferences, but can they not express them in a less vulgar way? You can’t compare the N word to BBC. They are just not the same. As I said I’m not black so I can’t speak for those who are, however I detest the use of the N word by anyone. I have black friends who agree with me on that. But this isn’t what the topic is about. If a black man is describing himself as BBC is he being racist to himself? All other black men? Or is he being descriptive? Like a BBW would or a PAWG would. I think calling racist is a OTT and waters down the true meaning of racism. In context you can compare the N word and BBC. You said BBC cannot be a racist term as black people use it, but the N word is. My opinion is that there is a difference in that blacks use the word to own it, to take the power away from those who use it to insult. Preferably nobody at all should us it, but it will take decades to vanquish all use. It can’t possibly water down the true meaning of racism. Racism started from slavery. Using black males for sex - which is essentially what people who search for BBC do - was part of that slavery. The vast majority of the couples who look for BBC are white females with white male partners/husbands. You have to ask the question if they like black males so much, why didn’t they marry one? There will be some excuse or another but it will actually be down to some deep rooted subconscious prejudices, and basically boils down to good enough to fuck but nothing more - which is of course racism. I know this may not be the case for everyone, but if people stopped using the term and treating them as people and not cocks and sexual commodities then maybe the swinging world would be a better place. Swinging should be about inclusivity, not segregation. Having separate BBC nights is contrary to that and actually widens the divide. *Black people, not "blacks" " Very true, apologies  | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Black people use the N word. So because they use it, it’s not racist so everyone can use it then? In my opinion (Mr) BBC and the whole black male fetish is entirely racist. It spawns from Women using slaves for disposable sex toys. People are people, yes people have preferences, but can they not express them in a less vulgar way? You can’t compare the N word to BBC. They are just not the same. As I said I’m not black so I can’t speak for those who are, however I detest the use of the N word by anyone. I have black friends who agree with me on that. But this isn’t what the topic is about. If a black man is describing himself as BBC is he being racist to himself? All other black men? Or is he being descriptive? Like a BBW would or a PAWG would. I think calling racist is a OTT and waters down the true meaning of racism. In context you can compare the N word and BBC. You said BBC cannot be a racist term as black people use it, but the N word is. My opinion is that there is a difference in that blacks use the word to own it, to take the power away from those who use it to insult. Preferably nobody at all should us it, but it will take decades to vanquish all use. It can’t possibly water down the true meaning of racism. Racism started from slavery. Using black males for sex - which is essentially what people who search for BBC do - was part of that slavery. The vast majority of the couples who look for BBC are white females with white male partners/husbands. You have to ask the question if they like black males so much, why didn’t they marry one? There will be some excuse or another but it will actually be down to some deep rooted subconscious prejudices, and basically boils down to good enough to fuck but nothing more - which is of course racism. I know this may not be the case for everyone, but if people stopped using the term and treating them as people and not cocks and sexual commodities then maybe the swinging world would be a better place. Swinging should be about inclusivity, not segregation. Having separate BBC nights is contrary to that and actually widens the divide." What I actually said was this; “ I don’t think you know what racism means... Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning.” How exactly is a black man using the term BBC to describe himself being racist? I’m curious. I also strongly disagree that the N word & BBC can be compared, they cannot, at all. Racism started from slavery - I believe it started before, but racism & slavery go hand in hand. Using black males for sex? I don’t know. I’m not up on slavery history but I’m almost certain black females were being used for sex by white masters at a disproportionate rate compared to black men being used for sex. You’ll have to ask the white couples why they didn’t marry a black man, as I wouldn’t know. But I’d guess they fell in love with a person not their race and that’s that and now they have fantasies they may want to fulfil. Black men themselves are happy to describe themselves as BBC the OP describes himself as such. Why should he have to stop using it because you (a white couple) don’t like it? Do you not think it’s amusing that you as non black people are offended by the term on behalf of others? The OP doesn’t seem to mind the term and surely that is his right to describe himself that way. | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Yes that's racist too. I don't think YOU understand the term if you think only white people can be racist. I'm not offended on anyone's behalf and I'm not calling anybody racist. The OP asked what we thought about the term and that's what I think. I'm not putting it forward as fact I even said in my post who cares what I think? But for the record, as someone asked... That's what I think. Where did I say only white people can be racist? Or did you pluck that one out of thin air? Ffs! I’m glad you stated you’re not putting it forward as it fact, as it isn’t.
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Yes that's racist too. I don't think YOU understand the term if you think only white people can be racist. I'm not offended on anyone's behalf and I'm not calling anybody racist. The OP asked what we thought about the term and that's what I think. I'm not putting it forward as fact I even said in my post who cares what I think? But for the record, as someone asked... That's what I think. Where did I say only white people can be racist? Or did you pluck that one out of thin air? Ffs! I’m glad you stated you’re not putting it forward as it fact, as it isn’t.
Adorbs that you think black people cant be racist towards other black people
I was thinking the same. It’s ok though that’s allowed
Where does it say it's ok for black people to be racist towards other black people? "I’d like to know this too. Along with where I said I think black people can’t be racist to other black peoples. Just to settle any confusion, they absolutely can. As can any race. | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Black people use the N word. So because they use it, it’s not racist so everyone can use it then? In my opinion (Mr) BBC and the whole black male fetish is entirely racist. It spawns from Women using slaves for disposable sex toys. People are people, yes people have preferences, but can they not express them in a less vulgar way? You can’t compare the N word to BBC. They are just not the same. As I said I’m not black so I can’t speak for those who are, however I detest the use of the N word by anyone. I have black friends who agree with me on that. But this isn’t what the topic is about. If a black man is describing himself as BBC is he being racist to himself? All other black men? Or is he being descriptive? Like a BBW would or a PAWG would. I think calling racist is a OTT and waters down the true meaning of racism. In context you can compare the N word and BBC. You said BBC cannot be a racist term as black people use it, but the N word is. My opinion is that there is a difference in that blacks use the word to own it, to take the power away from those who use it to insult. Preferably nobody at all should us it, but it will take decades to vanquish all use. It can’t possibly water down the true meaning of racism. Racism started from slavery. Using black males for sex - which is essentially what people who search for BBC do - was part of that slavery. The vast majority of the couples who look for BBC are white females with white male partners/husbands. You have to ask the question if they like black males so much, why didn’t they marry one? There will be some excuse or another but it will actually be down to some deep rooted subconscious prejudices, and basically boils down to good enough to fuck but nothing more - which is of course racism. I know this may not be the case for everyone, but if people stopped using the term and treating them as people and not cocks and sexual commodities then maybe the swinging world would be a better place. Swinging should be about inclusivity, not segregation. Having separate BBC nights is contrary to that and actually widens the divide. *Black people, not "blacks" Very true, apologies "You made some very good points either way | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Black people use the N word. So because they use it, it’s not racist so everyone can use it then? In my opinion (Mr) BBC and the whole black male fetish is entirely racist. It spawns from Women using slaves for disposable sex toys. People are people, yes people have preferences, but can they not express them in a less vulgar way? You can’t compare the N word to BBC. They are just not the same. As I said I’m not black so I can’t speak for those who are, however I detest the use of the N word by anyone. I have black friends who agree with me on that. But this isn’t what the topic is about. If a black man is describing himself as BBC is he being racist to himself? All other black men? Or is he being descriptive? Like a BBW would or a PAWG would. I think calling racist is a OTT and waters down the true meaning of racism. In context you can compare the N word and BBC. You said BBC cannot be a racist term as black people use it, but the N word is. My opinion is that there is a difference in that blacks use the word to own it, to take the power away from those who use it to insult. Preferably nobody at all should us it, but it will take decades to vanquish all use. It can’t possibly water down the true meaning of racism. Racism started from slavery. Using black males for sex - which is essentially what people who search for BBC do - was part of that slavery. The vast majority of the couples who look for BBC are white females with white male partners/husbands. You have to ask the question if they like black males so much, why didn’t they marry one? There will be some excuse or another but it will actually be down to some deep rooted subconscious prejudices, and basically boils down to good enough to fuck but nothing more - which is of course racism. I know this may not be the case for everyone, but if people stopped using the term and treating them as people and not cocks and sexual commodities then maybe the swinging world would be a better place. Swinging should be about inclusivity, not segregation. Having separate BBC nights is contrary to that and actually widens the divide. What I actually said was this; “ I don’t think you know what racism means... Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning.” How exactly is a black man using the term BBC to describe himself being racist? I’m curious. I also strongly disagree that the N word & BBC can be compared, they cannot, at all. Racism started from slavery - I believe it started before, but racism & slavery go hand in hand. Using black males for sex? I don’t know. I’m not up on slavery history but I’m almost certain black females were being used for sex by white masters at a disproportionate rate compared to black men being used for sex. You’ll have to ask the white couples why they didn’t marry a black man, as I wouldn’t know. But I’d guess they fell in love with a person not their race and that’s that and now they have fantasies they may want to fulfil. Black men themselves are happy to describe themselves as BBC the OP describes himself as such. Why should he have to stop using it because you (a white couple) don’t like it? Do you not think it’s amusing that you as non black people are offended by the term on behalf of others? The OP doesn’t seem to mind the term and surely that is his right to describe himself that way. " The op asks for people’s thoughts and those are mine. The terms are comparable. They just are on different ends of a spectrum but they can still cause offence, and being offended no matter how unpleasant should not be happening at all. As a white person, I have every right to be offended by those derogatory terms. It is shameful that people still use them and because it still happens today it leads to my friends and colleagues who are black being offended. It also results in me receiving abuse at work if I am not able to help someone from an ethnic minority background (not just black people). If I can’t help someone it is for reasons that would mean that I couldn’t help any ethnicity or gender, but because I am white and the poor experience people have had, I have been accused of not helping because they weren’t white and even had people threaten to attack and kill me because of it. Which in itself is racism, however not to the extreme that white people have made others suffer throughout history. So I would say that my experience having been called racist terms for a white person and being threatened for being white gives me a slight understanding of what people have suffered, I would never claim to fully understand because I can go home and live the rest of my day/life with very little fear of it happening. | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Black people use the N word. So because they use it, it’s not racist so everyone can use it then? In my opinion (Mr) BBC and the whole black male fetish is entirely racist. It spawns from Women using slaves for disposable sex toys. People are people, yes people have preferences, but can they not express them in a less vulgar way? You can’t compare the N word to BBC. They are just not the same. As I said I’m not black so I can’t speak for those who are, however I detest the use of the N word by anyone. I have black friends who agree with me on that. But this isn’t what the topic is about. If a black man is describing himself as BBC is he being racist to himself? All other black men? Or is he being descriptive? Like a BBW would or a PAWG would. I think calling racist is a OTT and waters down the true meaning of racism. In context you can compare the N word and BBC. You said BBC cannot be a racist term as black people use it, but the N word is. My opinion is that there is a difference in that blacks use the word to own it, to take the power away from those who use it to insult. Preferably nobody at all should us it, but it will take decades to vanquish all use. It can’t possibly water down the true meaning of racism. Racism started from slavery. Using black males for sex - which is essentially what people who search for BBC do - was part of that slavery. The vast majority of the couples who look for BBC are white females with white male partners/husbands. You have to ask the question if they like black males so much, why didn’t they marry one? There will be some excuse or another but it will actually be down to some deep rooted subconscious prejudices, and basically boils down to good enough to fuck but nothing more - which is of course racism. I know this may not be the case for everyone, but if people stopped using the term and treating them as people and not cocks and sexual commodities then maybe the swinging world would be a better place. Swinging should be about inclusivity, not segregation. Having separate BBC nights is contrary to that and actually widens the divide. What I actually said was this; “ I don’t think you know what racism means... Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning.” How exactly is a black man using the term BBC to describe himself being racist? I’m curious. I also strongly disagree that the N word & BBC can be compared, they cannot, at all. Racism started from slavery - I believe it started before, but racism & slavery go hand in hand. Using black males for sex? I don’t know. I’m not up on slavery history but I’m almost certain black females were being used for sex by white masters at a disproportionate rate compared to black men being used for sex. You’ll have to ask the white couples why they didn’t marry a black man, as I wouldn’t know. But I’d guess they fell in love with a person not their race and that’s that and now they have fantasies they may want to fulfil. Black men themselves are happy to describe themselves as BBC the OP describes himself as such. Why should he have to stop using it because you (a white couple) don’t like it? Do you not think it’s amusing that you as non black people are offended by the term on behalf of others? The OP doesn’t seem to mind the term and surely that is his right to describe himself that way. The op asks for people’s thoughts and those are mine. The terms are comparable. They just are on different ends of a spectrum but they can still cause offence, and being offended no matter how unpleasant should not be happening at all. As a white person, I have every right to be offended by those derogatory terms. It is shameful that people still use them and because it still happens today it leads to my friends and colleagues who are black being offended. It also results in me receiving abuse at work if I am not able to help someone from an ethnic minority background (not just black people). If I can’t help someone it is for reasons that would mean that I couldn’t help any ethnicity or gender, but because I am white and the poor experience people have had, I have been accused of not helping because they weren’t white and even had people threaten to attack and kill me because of it. Which in itself is racism, however not to the extreme that white people have made others suffer throughout history. So I would say that my experience having been called racist terms for a white person and being threatened for being white gives me a slight understanding of what people have suffered, I would never claim to fully understand because I can go home and live the rest of my day/life with very little fear of it happening." I have to respectfully disagree that the N word & BBC are not the same. I think “offended” is the wrong term to use, as the term BBC isn’t directly referring to you, I don’t think you can be “offended”. Dislike the word by all means but I personally believe offence can only come from those that the words refer to. The rest of your post isn’t really relevant to this topic to be honest. Seems a shitty situation though I have to say. | |||
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" I have to respectfully disagree that the N word & BBC are not the same. I think “offended” is the wrong term to use, as the term BBC isn’t directly referring to you, I don’t think you can be “offended”. Dislike the word by all means but I personally believe offence can only come from those that the words refer to. The rest of your post isn’t really relevant to this topic to be honest. Seems a shitty situation though I have to say. " We’ll have to agree to disagree on the comparison and that’s what opinions are all about. I think you can be offended by someone else being abused. I often swear, but I get offended if customers swear or people use really foul swear words in front of children or strangers. Some people deserve a bit of abuse if they have done something to deserve it, but I do find it offensive if someone is abused for just being a different colour to the abuser, whether it be aimed at me or not. | |||
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"I have to respectfully disagree that the N word & BBC are not the same. I think “offended” is the wrong term to use, as the term BBC isn’t directly referring to you, I don’t think you can be “offended”. Dislike the word by all means but I personally believe offence can only come from those that the words refer to. " 'Offence' isnt the sole preserve of the recipient. What if the 'victim' is unable to speak up for themselves e.g. they are a vulnerable person or simply lack the confidence or means to speak up for themselves? | |||
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"I have to respectfully disagree that the N word & BBC are not the same. I think “offended” is the wrong term to use, as the term BBC isn’t directly referring to you, I don’t think you can be “offended”. Dislike the word by all means but I personally believe offence can only come from those that the words refer to. 'Offence' isnt the sole preserve of the recipient. What if the 'victim' is unable to speak up for themselves e.g. they are a vulnerable person or simply lack the confidence or means to speak up for themselves? " | |||
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"I have to respectfully disagree that the N word & BBC are not the same. I think “offended” is the wrong term to use, as the term BBC isn’t directly referring to you, I don’t think you can be “offended”. Dislike the word by all means but I personally believe offence can only come from those that the words refer to. 'Offence' isnt the sole preserve of the recipient. What if the 'victim' is unable to speak up for themselves e.g. they are a vulnerable person or simply lack the confidence or means to speak up for themselves? " Good point. I think you can point out what’s been said is offensive or derogatory and say it is so. But in my opinion if someone is racist to someone else using a racist term to describe black people for example, it’s not directly offensive towards me as I’m not black but I can see how it would be offensive to black people and I can express my absolute disgust for it. | |||
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" I have to respectfully disagree that the N word & BBC are not the same. I think “offended” is the wrong term to use, as the term BBC isn’t directly referring to you, I don’t think you can be “offended”. Dislike the word by all means but I personally believe offence can only come from those that the words refer to. The rest of your post isn’t really relevant to this topic to be honest. Seems a shitty situation though I have to say. We’ll have to agree to disagree on the comparison and that’s what opinions are all about. I think you can be offended by someone else being abused. I often swear, but I get offended if customers swear or people use really foul swear words in front of children or strangers. Some people deserve a bit of abuse if they have done something to deserve it, but I do find it offensive if someone is abused for just being a different colour to the abuser, whether it be aimed at me or not." Very well put. Of course others can be offended, | |||
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"Interesting thread this. I think there are equally valid arguments for using the BBC label in a sexual preference context and also for disliking it. Personally I dont like it but then I don't have a massive wanger. Would you use the term if you did have a big todger? " Good question. Hand on heart the temptation would be there but I like to think I never would. The positive personality traits I have as people have noted, judging by my veris, are way more gratifying to me than being a Lex the Impaler! | |||
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"I have to respectfully disagree that the N word & BBC are not the same. I think “offended” is the wrong term to use, as the term BBC isn’t directly referring to you, I don’t think you can be “offended”. Dislike the word by all means but I personally believe offence can only come from those that the words refer to. 'Offence' isnt the sole preserve of the recipient. What if the 'victim' is unable to speak up for themselves e.g. they are a vulnerable person or simply lack the confidence or means to speak up for themselves? Good point. I think you can point out what’s been said is offensive or derogatory and say it is so. But in my opinion if someone is racist to someone else using a racist term to describe black people for example, it’s not directly offensive towards me as I’m not black but I can see how it would be offensive to black people and I can express my absolute disgust for it. "I guess it depends on what your definition of racism is. Personally to objectify and single out a group of people to project a negative or superior stereotype. The only definition i could find was "prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one's own race is superior." Using the above definition someone promoting as a bbc could be seen as similar to a blue eyed blonde guy putting something about being of the aryen race. (The fact their skin colour as no effect on if they have a big cock). As for the n word unfortunately as long as it keeps getting used it will not die out. The only way it will have a chance to is for everyone to stop using it. I wonder how many women would like to be classified as a btb (big titted blone)? Surely its time we stopped objectifying people by labels and started treating people as people. At the end of the day no one any more special than anyone else until you have gotten to know them. | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? " What insults one person will be taken in ownership by another. You own the term BBC, others are insulted. | |||
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"I have to respectfully disagree that the N word & BBC are not the same. I think “offended” is the wrong term to use, as the term BBC isn’t directly referring to you, I don’t think you can be “offended”. Dislike the word by all means but I personally believe offence can only come from those that the words refer to. 'Offence' isnt the sole preserve of the recipient. What if the 'victim' is unable to speak up for themselves e.g. they are a vulnerable person or simply lack the confidence or means to speak up for themselves? Good point. I think you can point out what’s been said is offensive or derogatory and say it is so. But in my opinion if someone is racist to someone else using a racist term to describe black people for example, it’s not directly offensive towards me as I’m not black but I can see how it would be offensive to black people and I can express my absolute disgust for it.
I guess it depends on what your definition of racism is.
Personally to objectify and single out a group of people to project a negative or superior stereotype.
The only definition i could find was
"prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one's own race is superior."
Using the above definition someone promoting as a bbc could be seen as similar to a blue eyed blonde guy putting something about being of the aryen race. (The fact their skin colour as no effect on if they have a big cock).
As for the n word unfortunately as long as it keeps getting used it will not die out. The only way it will have a chance to is for everyone to stop using it.
I wonder how many women would like to be classified as a btb (big titted blone)?
Surely its time we stopped objectifying people by labels and started treating people as people.
At the end of the day no one any more special than anyone else until you have gotten to know them.
"I don’t believe everyone who call themselves BBC are thinking they are superior. Just as white guys using the term BWC. I’m sure they don’t go around describing themselves as BBC in the outside world but on Fab, people who look for that can see it on profiles. In my opinion it’s descriptive which makes it easier for those looking for that sorta thing to find it. Like BBW, PAWG, MILF and the rest. In my opinion people should be free to describe themselves as they want. The OP clearly has no qualms about describing himself as a BBC looking at his profile so I don’t think you, I or anyone else should tell him he shouldn’t use it. We all have a preference at the end of the day, race, age, size, hair colour, attractiveness. | |||
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"I have to respectfully disagree that the N word & BBC are not the same. I think “offended” is the wrong term to use, as the term BBC isn’t directly referring to you, I don’t think you can be “offended”. Dislike the word by all means but I personally believe offence can only come from those that the words refer to. 'Offence' isnt the sole preserve of the recipient. What if the 'victim' is unable to speak up for themselves e.g. they are a vulnerable person or simply lack the confidence or means to speak up for themselves? Good point. I think you can point out what’s been said is offensive or derogatory and say it is so. But in my opinion if someone is racist to someone else using a racist term to describe black people for example, it’s not directly offensive towards me as I’m not black but I can see how it would be offensive to black people and I can express my absolute disgust for it.
I guess it depends on what your definition of racism is.
Personally to objectify and single out a group of people to project a negative or superior stereotype.
The only definition i could find was
"prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one's own race is superior."
Using the above definition someone promoting as a bbc could be seen as similar to a blue eyed blonde guy putting something about being of the aryen race. (The fact their skin colour as no effect on if they have a big cock).
As for the n word unfortunately as long as it keeps getting used it will not die out. The only way it will have a chance to is for everyone to stop using it.
I wonder how many women would like to be classified as a btb (big titted blone)?
Surely its time we stopped objectifying people by labels and started treating people as people.
At the end of the day no one any more special than anyone else until you have gotten to know them.
I don’t believe everyone who call themselves BBC are thinking they are superior. Just as white guys using the term BWC. I’m sure they don’t go around describing themselves as BBC in the outside world but on Fab, people who look for that can see it on profiles.
In my opinion it’s descriptive which makes it easier for those looking for that sorta thing to find it. Like BBW, PAWG, MILF and the rest.
In my opinion people should be free to describe themselves as they want. The OP clearly has no qualms about describing himself as a BBC looking at his profile so I don’t think you, I or anyone else should tell him he shouldn’t use it.
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"I propose new abbreviations to put the matter to rest forever: BMBC - Black Man Big Cock WMBC - White Man Big Cock" Or just BC- Big cock | |||
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"I swear this forum is funny as hell........ I’m 6”3 , 2 master’s degrees , I sit on the board of 5 publicly traded companies, I have homes in Stockholm, Miami , NYC and I have a 9 - 9.5 cock....... I’m on a swinging site , not looking for a job or relationship..... So if someone wanted to have sex with me the easiest way to find me is by searching for the term BBC..... No one is objectifying me by using the term BBC.... It’s the fastest way to get from point A to B.... Once you meet me you will get to know me as a person, and figure out ... I’m more than just a big cock..... Some of you commenting act like a black guy with a big cock , can just send 1,000 cock pics and people will meet.... Trust me , you have to be a gentleman with manners and personality to get people to sleep with you.... Now if you know any couples that just views a black man as just a cock and not as a person... Please send them my way.... It will be the easiest meet for me on Fab ... I’ll just send a few cock pics and my address....." Thank you for this reply as I have stated above we have BBC in our username as it’s an easy identifiable way of showing our preferences we are certainly not suggesting that all we are looking for is a big black cock with a guy attached . As you have stated 100 black guys with enormous cocks could message us but if there’s no mutual attraction or connection then it won’t go any further. I also take issue with the couple above who suggested that me and my hubby were in some way just using the guys we meet and that in a way they were like slaves which I use for sex. Now I could be wrong but I’m pretty sure none of our meets whether privately or at clubs felt forced into anything or were left traumatised by the experience | |||
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" Thank you for this reply as I have stated above we have BBC in our username as it’s an easy identifiable way of showing our preferences we are certainly not suggesting that all we are looking for is a big black cock with a guy attached . As you have stated 100 black guys with enormous cocks could message us but if there’s no mutual attraction or connection then it won’t go any further. I also take issue with the couple above who suggested that me and my hubby were in some way just using the guys we meet and that in a way they were like slaves which I use for sex. Now I could be wrong but I’m pretty sure none of our meets whether privately or at clubs felt forced into anything or were left traumatised by the experience "the thing about "first impressions" is that you only get one chance to make a brilliant one..... so be aware that you possibly are turning off a lot of the very people you are trying to attract.... until that message is sent out (or recieved) pretty clearly.... nothing will chance and people won't think... p.s.... i despise people using the "N" word as much as i despise the label "BBC"... for where i was brought up.. it has as much of a "dehumanising" context attached to it.... people want to reclaim the "N" word... works for them... not for me... people want to use "BBC" as some sort of advantage.... works for them... not for me! | |||
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" Thank you for this reply as I have stated above we have BBC in our username as it’s an easy identifiable way of showing our preferences we are certainly not suggesting that all we are looking for is a big black cock with a guy attached . As you have stated 100 black guys with enormous cocks could message us but if there’s no mutual attraction or connection then it won’t go any further. I also take issue with the couple above who suggested that me and my hubby were in some way just using the guys we meet and that in a way they were like slaves which I use for sex. Now I could be wrong but I’m pretty sure none of our meets whether privately or at clubs felt forced into anything or were left traumatised by the experience
the thing about "first impressions" is that you only get one chance to make a brilliant one.....
so be aware that you possibly are turning off a lot of the very people you are trying to attract....
until that message is sent out (or recieved) pretty clearly.... nothing will chance and people won't think...
p.s.... i despise people using the "N" word as much as i despise the label "BBC"...
for where i was brought up.. it has as much of a "dehumanising" context attached to it....
people want to reclaim the "N" word... works for them... not for me...
people want to use "BBC" as some sort of advantage.... works for them... not for me!"I like you Fabio. Smart guy. | |||
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" Thank you for this reply as I have stated above we have BBC in our username as it’s an easy identifiable way of showing our preferences we are certainly not suggesting that all we are looking for is a big black cock with a guy attached . As you have stated 100 black guys with enormous cocks could message us but if there’s no mutual attraction or connection then it won’t go any further. I also take issue with the couple above who suggested that me and my hubby were in some way just using the guys we meet and that in a way they were like slaves which I use for sex. Now I could be wrong but I’m pretty sure none of our meets whether privately or at clubs felt forced into anything or were left traumatised by the experience
the thing about "first impressions" is that you only get one chance to make a brilliant one.....
so be aware that you possibly are turning off a lot of the very people you are trying to attract....
until that message is sent out (or recieved) pretty clearly.... nothing will chance and people won't think...
p.s.... i despise people using the "N" word as much as i despise the label "BBC"...
for where i was brought up.. it has as much of a "dehumanising" context attached to it....
people want to reclaim the "N" word... works for them... not for me...
people want to use "BBC" as some sort of advantage.... works for them... not for me!"
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"I swear this forum is funny as hell........ I’m 6”3 , 2 master’s degrees , I sit on the board of 5 publicly traded companies, I have homes in Stockholm, Miami , NYC and I have a 9 - 9.5 cock....... I’m on a swinging site , not looking for a job or relationship..... So if someone wanted to have sex with me the easiest way to find me is by searching for the term BBC..... No one is objectifying me by using the term BBC.... It’s the fastest way to get from point A to B.... Once you meet me you will get to know me as a person, and figure out ... I’m more than just a big cock..... Some of you commenting act like a black guy with a big cock , can just send 1,000 cock pics and people will meet.... Trust me , you have to be a gentleman with manners and personality to get people to sleep with you.... Now if you know any couples that just views a black man as just a cock and not as a person... Please send them my way.... It will be the easiest meet for me on Fab ... I’ll just send a few cock pics and my address..... Thank you for this reply as I have stated above we have BBC in our username as it’s an easy identifiable way of showing our preferences we are certainly not suggesting that all we are looking for is a big black cock with a guy attached . As you have stated 100 black guys with enormous cocks could message us but if there’s no mutual attraction or connection then it won’t go any further. I also take issue with the couple above who suggested that me and my hubby were in some way just using the guys we meet and that in a way they were like slaves which I use for sex. Now I could be wrong but I’m pretty sure none of our meets whether privately or at clubs felt forced into anything or were left traumatised by the experience "Please re-read the post, it said clearly that not everyone is like that and also that it is subconscious. You may not (or believe you may not) have a subconscious prejudice. If it is the former, well done, but perhaps subtlety in a username would be advised, I hate the use of extreme user names like gangbangslut, it does tell people what they are looking for, but please, can we not tone it down a little... On another tangential note but on similar lines, Queen of Spades (QOS) tattoos be they fake or real, add further weight to the degradation/offensiveness of the term BBC. Queen as in owner/ruler and the S word - another derogatory term for a black person. To me that just shows blatant racism or it the very least an incomprehensible naivety or extreme denial of the racist undertones. | |||
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"I swear this forum is funny as hell........ I’m 6”3 , 2 master’s degrees , I sit on the board of 5 publicly traded companies, I have homes in Stockholm, Miami , NYC and I have a 9 - 9.5 cock....... I’m on a swinging site , not looking for a job or relationship..... So if someone wanted to have sex with me the easiest way to find me is by searching for the term BBC..... No one is objectifying me by using the term BBC.... It’s the fastest way to get from point A to B.... Once you meet me you will get to know me as a person, and figure out ... I’m more than just a big cock..... Some of you commenting act like a black guy with a big cock , can just send 1,000 cock pics and people will meet.... Trust me , you have to be a gentleman with manners and personality to get people to sleep with you.... Now if you know any couples that just views a black man as just a cock and not as a person... Please send them my way.... It will be the easiest meet for me on Fab ... I’ll just send a few cock pics and my address..... Thank you for this reply as I have stated above we have BBC in our username as it’s an easy identifiable way of showing our preferences we are certainly not suggesting that all we are looking for is a big black cock with a guy attached . As you have stated 100 black guys with enormous cocks could message us but if there’s no mutual attraction or connection then it won’t go any further. I also take issue with the couple above who suggested that me and my hubby were in some way just using the guys we meet and that in a way they were like slaves which I use for sex. Now I could be wrong but I’m pretty sure none of our meets whether privately or at clubs felt forced into anything or were left traumatised by the experience
Please re-read the post, it said clearly that not everyone is like that and also that it is subconscious. You may not (or believe you may not) have a subconscious prejudice. If it is the former, well done, but perhaps subtlety in a username would be advised, I hate the use of extreme user names like gangbangslut, it does tell people what they are looking for, but please, can we not tone it down a little...
On another tangential note but on similar lines, Queen of Spades (QOS) tattoos be they fake or real, add further weight to the degradation/offensiveness of the term BBC. Queen as in owner/ruler and the S word - another derogatory term for a black person. To me that just shows blatant racism or it the very least an incomprehensible naivety or extreme denial of the racist undertones."Ok you’ve made your point you think I’m a subconscious racist which is your opinion and you’re entitled to it. I know my own mind and I know the reasons for our preferences. Also it’s absolutely none of your business what anybody else chooses for their username | |||
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"I swear this forum is funny as hell........ I’m 6”3 , 2 master’s degrees , I sit on the board of 5 publicly traded companies, I have homes in Stockholm, Miami , NYC and I have a 9 - 9.5 cock....... I’m on a swinging site , not looking for a job or relationship..... So if someone wanted to have sex with me the easiest way to find me is by searching for the term BBC..... No one is objectifying me by using the term BBC.... It’s the fastest way to get from point A to B.... Once you meet me you will get to know me as a person, and figure out ... I’m more than just a big cock..... Some of you commenting act like a black guy with a big cock , can just send 1,000 cock pics and people will meet.... Trust me , you have to be a gentleman with manners and personality to get people to sleep with you.... Now if you know any couples that just views a black man as just a cock and not as a person... Please send them my way.... It will be the easiest meet for me on Fab ... I’ll just send a few cock pics and my address..... Thank you for this reply as I have stated above we have BBC in our username as it’s an easy identifiable way of showing our preferences we are certainly not suggesting that all we are looking for is a big black cock with a guy attached . As you have stated 100 black guys with enormous cocks could message us but if there’s no mutual attraction or connection then it won’t go any further. I also take issue with the couple above who suggested that me and my hubby were in some way just using the guys we meet and that in a way they were like slaves which I use for sex. Now I could be wrong but I’m pretty sure none of our meets whether privately or at clubs felt forced into anything or were left traumatised by the experience
Please re-read the post, it said clearly that not everyone is like that and also that it is subconscious. You may not (or believe you may not) have a subconscious prejudice. If it is the former, well done, but perhaps subtlety in a username would be advised, I hate the use of extreme user names like gangbangslut, it does tell people what they are looking for, but please, can we not tone it down a little...
On another tangential note but on similar lines, Queen of Spades (QOS) tattoos be they fake or real, add further weight to the degradation/offensiveness of the term BBC. Queen as in owner/ruler and the S word - another derogatory term for a black person. To me that just shows blatant racism or it the very least an incomprehensible naivety or extreme denial of the racist undertones." | |||
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"I swear this forum is funny as hell........ I’m 6”3 , 2 master’s degrees , I sit on the board of 5 publicly traded companies, I have homes in Stockholm, Miami , NYC and I have a 9 - 9.5 cock....... I’m on a swinging site , not looking for a job or relationship..... So if someone wanted to have sex with me the easiest way to find me is by searching for the term BBC..... No one is objectifying me by using the term BBC.... It’s the fastest way to get from point A to B.... Once you meet me you will get to know me as a person, and figure out ... I’m more than just a big cock..... Some of you commenting act like a black guy with a big cock , can just send 1,000 cock pics and people will meet.... Trust me , you have to be a gentleman with manners and personality to get people to sleep with you.... Now if you know any couples that just views a black man as just a cock and not as a person... Please send them my way.... It will be the easiest meet for me on Fab ... I’ll just send a few cock pics and my address..... Thank you for this reply as I have stated above we have BBC in our username as it’s an easy identifiable way of showing our preferences we are certainly not suggesting that all we are looking for is a big black cock with a guy attached . As you have stated 100 black guys with enormous cocks could message us but if there’s no mutual attraction or connection then it won’t go any further. I also take issue with the couple above who suggested that me and my hubby were in some way just using the guys we meet and that in a way they were like slaves which I use for sex. Now I could be wrong but I’m pretty sure none of our meets whether privately or at clubs felt forced into anything or were left traumatised by the experience
Please re-read the post, it said clearly that not everyone is like that and also that it is subconscious. You may not (or believe you may not) have a subconscious prejudice. If it is the former, well done, but perhaps subtlety in a username would be advised, I hate the use of extreme user names like gangbangslut, it does tell people what they are looking for, but please, can we not tone it down a little...
On another tangential note but on similar lines, Queen of Spades (QOS) tattoos be they fake or real, add further weight to the degradation/offensiveness of the term BBC. Queen as in owner/ruler and the S word - another derogatory term for a black person. To me that just shows blatant racism or it the very least an incomprehensible naivety or extreme denial of the racist undertones."Ok Professor..... Please explain the racial undertones of these phrases.... Bbw , Bwc , pawg , milf , cuckold, hotwife , stag , and vixen.... | |||
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"I swear this forum is funny as hell........ I’m 6”3 , 2 master’s degrees , I sit on the board of 5 publicly traded companies, I have homes in Stockholm, Miami , NYC and I have a 9 - 9.5 cock....... I’m on a swinging site , not looking for a job or relationship..... So if someone wanted to have sex with me the easiest way to find me is by searching for the term BBC..... No one is objectifying me by using the term BBC.... It’s the fastest way to get from point A to B.... Once you meet me you will get to know me as a person, and figure out ... I’m more than just a big cock..... Some of you commenting act like a black guy with a big cock , can just send 1,000 cock pics and people will meet.... Trust me , you have to be a gentleman with manners and personality to get people to sleep with you.... Now if you know any couples that just views a black man as just a cock and not as a person... Please send them my way.... It will be the easiest meet for me on Fab ... I’ll just send a few cock pics and my address..... Thank you for this reply as I have stated above we have BBC in our username as it’s an easy identifiable way of showing our preferences we are certainly not suggesting that all we are looking for is a big black cock with a guy attached . As you have stated 100 black guys with enormous cocks could message us but if there’s no mutual attraction or connection then it won’t go any further. I also take issue with the couple above who suggested that me and my hubby were in some way just using the guys we meet and that in a way they were like slaves which I use for sex. Now I could be wrong but I’m pretty sure none of our meets whether privately or at clubs felt forced into anything or were left traumatised by the experience
Please re-read the post, it said clearly that not everyone is like that and also that it is subconscious. You may not (or believe you may not) have a subconscious prejudice. If it is the former, well done, but perhaps subtlety in a username would be advised, I hate the use of extreme user names like gangbangslut, it does tell people what they are looking for, but please, can we not tone it down a little...
On another tangential note but on similar lines, Queen of Spades (QOS) tattoos be they fake or real, add further weight to the degradation/offensiveness of the term BBC. Queen as in owner/ruler and the S word - another derogatory term for a black person. To me that just shows blatant racism or it the very least an incomprehensible naivety or extreme denial of the racist undertones.
Ok you’ve made your point you think I’m a subconscious racist which is your opinion and you’re entitled to it. I know my own mind and I know the reasons for our preferences. Also it’s absolutely none of your business what anybody else chooses for their username "Didn’t say that what people use as their username was any of our business, just wished some weren’t so offensive, and will go as far to say some usernames instantly put us off, and we wouldn’t even open a message if we were sent one. I haven’t called any specific person a racist. Have merely suggested that some fetish’s are formed by subconscious thoughts, feelings and prejudices. It’s simple psychology, why do young girls think they have to be stick thin? Because adverts, celebritism and social media have given them conscious and subconscious ideas that make them think that is how they should look. I was brought up to think of everyone as equal, yet I know I have at least one subconscious prejudice in relation to obesity. My first thought is why don’t they exercise, and only start thinking about medical and psychological causes and reasons later. Not everyone is perfect, and neither am I. | |||
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"I swear this forum is funny as hell........ I’m 6”3 , 2 master’s degrees , I sit on the board of 5 publicly traded companies, I have homes in Stockholm, Miami , NYC and I have a 9 - 9.5 cock....... I’m on a swinging site , not looking for a job or relationship..... So if someone wanted to have sex with me the easiest way to find me is by searching for the term BBC..... No one is objectifying me by using the term BBC.... It’s the fastest way to get from point A to B.... Once you meet me you will get to know me as a person, and figure out ... I’m more than just a big cock..... Some of you commenting act like a black guy with a big cock , can just send 1,000 cock pics and people will meet.... Trust me , you have to be a gentleman with manners and personality to get people to sleep with you.... Now if you know any couples that just views a black man as just a cock and not as a person... Please send them my way.... It will be the easiest meet for me on Fab ... I’ll just send a few cock pics and my address..... Thank you for this reply as I have stated above we have BBC in our username as it’s an easy identifiable way of showing our preferences we are certainly not suggesting that all we are looking for is a big black cock with a guy attached . As you have stated 100 black guys with enormous cocks could message us but if there’s no mutual attraction or connection then it won’t go any further. I also take issue with the couple above who suggested that me and my hubby were in some way just using the guys we meet and that in a way they were like slaves which I use for sex. Now I could be wrong but I’m pretty sure none of our meets whether privately or at clubs felt forced into anything or were left traumatised by the experience
Please re-read the post, it said clearly that not everyone is like that and also that it is subconscious. You may not (or believe you may not) have a subconscious prejudice. If it is the former, well done, but perhaps subtlety in a username would be advised, I hate the use of extreme user names like gangbangslut, it does tell people what they are looking for, but please, can we not tone it down a little...
On another tangential note but on similar lines, Queen of Spades (QOS) tattoos be they fake or real, add further weight to the degradation/offensiveness of the term BBC. Queen as in owner/ruler and the S word - another derogatory term for a black person. To me that just shows blatant racism or it the very least an incomprehensible naivety or extreme denial of the racist undertones.
Ok Professor.....
Please explain the racial undertones of these phrases....
Bbw , Bwc , pawg , milf , cuckold, hotwife , stag , and vixen....
"The only two acronyms and terms that have any racial undertones would be Bwc and Pawg. All ethnicities can have big cocks, just as all ethnicities could have a Phat/Pretty ass. The rest of them could identify people of any ethnicity and so are diverse and inclusive terms | |||
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"I swear this forum is funny as hell........ I’m 6”3 , 2 master’s degrees , I sit on the board of 5 publicly traded companies, I have homes in Stockholm, Miami , NYC and I have a 9 - 9.5 cock....... I’m on a swinging site , not looking for a job or relationship..... So if someone wanted to have sex with me the easiest way to find me is by searching for the term BBC..... No one is objectifying me by using the term BBC.... It’s the fastest way to get from point A to B.... Once you meet me you will get to know me as a person, and figure out ... I’m more than just a big cock..... Some of you commenting act like a black guy with a big cock , can just send 1,000 cock pics and people will meet.... Trust me , you have to be a gentleman with manners and personality to get people to sleep with you.... Now if you know any couples that just views a black man as just a cock and not as a person... Please send them my way.... It will be the easiest meet for me on Fab ... I’ll just send a few cock pics and my address..... Thank you for this reply as I have stated above we have BBC in our username as it’s an easy identifiable way of showing our preferences we are certainly not suggesting that all we are looking for is a big black cock with a guy attached . As you have stated 100 black guys with enormous cocks could message us but if there’s no mutual attraction or connection then it won’t go any further. I also take issue with the couple above who suggested that me and my hubby were in some way just using the guys we meet and that in a way they were like slaves which I use for sex. Now I could be wrong but I’m pretty sure none of our meets whether privately or at clubs felt forced into anything or were left traumatised by the experience
Please re-read the post, it said clearly that not everyone is like that and also that it is subconscious. You may not (or believe you may not) have a subconscious prejudice. If it is the former, well done, but perhaps subtlety in a username would be advised, I hate the use of extreme user names like gangbangslut, it does tell people what they are looking for, but please, can we not tone it down a little...
On another tangential note but on similar lines, Queen of Spades (QOS) tattoos be they fake or real, add further weight to the degradation/offensiveness of the term BBC. Queen as in owner/ruler and the S word - another derogatory term for a black person. To me that just shows blatant racism or it the very least an incomprehensible naivety or extreme denial of the racist undertones.
Ok you’ve made your point you think I’m a subconscious racist which is your opinion and you’re entitled to it. I know my own mind and I know the reasons for our preferences. Also it’s absolutely none of your business what anybody else chooses for their username
Didn’t say that what people use as their username was any of our business, just wished some weren’t so offensive, and will go as far to say some usernames instantly put us off, and we wouldn’t even open a message if we were sent one.
I haven’t called any specific person a racist. Have merely suggested that some fetish’s are formed by subconscious thoughts, feelings and prejudices. It’s simple psychology, why do young girls think they have to be stick thin? Because adverts, celebritism and social media have given them conscious and subconscious ideas that make them think that is how they should look. I was brought up to think of everyone as equal, yet I know I have at least one subconscious prejudice in relation to obesity. My first thought is why don’t they exercise, and only start thinking about medical and psychological causes and reasons later. Not everyone is perfect, and neither am I."So your comment saying that the tattoo I’m wearing in one of my pics is showing blatant racism wasn’t implying that I was racist? The fact that you actually went into my profile and then picked up on one of my photos to try and make a point is pretty sad tbh like I said you’re obviously not going to change your opinion of me and I couldn’t really care either way, I know I’m not racist and I’m pretty sure the guys who either meet us or send us messages don’t think we’re racist and that’s enough for me | |||
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"I swear this forum is funny as hell........ I’m 6”3 , 2 master’s degrees , I sit on the board of 5 publicly traded companies, I have homes in Stockholm, Miami , NYC and I have a 9 - 9.5 cock....... I’m on a swinging site , not looking for a job or relationship..... So if someone wanted to have sex with me the easiest way to find me is by searching for the term BBC..... No one is objectifying me by using the term BBC.... It’s the fastest way to get from point A to B.... Once you meet me you will get to know me as a person, and figure out ... I’m more than just a big cock..... Some of you commenting act like a black guy with a big cock , can just send 1,000 cock pics and people will meet.... Trust me , you have to be a gentleman with manners and personality to get people to sleep with you.... Now if you know any couples that just views a black man as just a cock and not as a person... Please send them my way.... It will be the easiest meet for me on Fab ... I’ll just send a few cock pics and my address..... Thank you for this reply as I have stated above we have BBC in our username as it’s an easy identifiable way of showing our preferences we are certainly not suggesting that all we are looking for is a big black cock with a guy attached . As you have stated 100 black guys with enormous cocks could message us but if there’s no mutual attraction or connection then it won’t go any further. I also take issue with the couple above who suggested that me and my hubby were in some way just using the guys we meet and that in a way they were like slaves which I use for sex. Now I could be wrong but I’m pretty sure none of our meets whether privately or at clubs felt forced into anything or were left traumatised by the experience
Please re-read the post, it said clearly that not everyone is like that and also that it is subconscious. You may not (or believe you may not) have a subconscious prejudice. If it is the former, well done, but perhaps subtlety in a username would be advised, I hate the use of extreme user names like gangbangslut, it does tell people what they are looking for, but please, can we not tone it down a little...
On another tangential note but on similar lines, Queen of Spades (QOS) tattoos be they fake or real, add further weight to the degradation/offensiveness of the term BBC. Queen as in owner/ruler and the S word - another derogatory term for a black person. To me that just shows blatant racism or it the very least an incomprehensible naivety or extreme denial of the racist undertones.
Ok you’ve made your point you think I’m a subconscious racist which is your opinion and you’re entitled to it. I know my own mind and I know the reasons for our preferences. Also it’s absolutely none of your business what anybody else chooses for their username
Didn’t say that what people use as their username was any of our business, just wished some weren’t so offensive, and will go as far to say some usernames instantly put us off, and we wouldn’t even open a message if we were sent one.
I haven’t called any specific person a racist. Have merely suggested that some fetish’s are formed by subconscious thoughts, feelings and prejudices. It’s simple psychology, why do young girls think they have to be stick thin? Because adverts, celebritism and social media have given them conscious and subconscious ideas that make them think that is how they should look. I was brought up to think of everyone as equal, yet I know I have at least one subconscious prejudice in relation to obesity. My first thought is why don’t they exercise, and only start thinking about medical and psychological causes and reasons later. Not everyone is perfect, and neither am I.
So your comment saying that the tattoo I’m wearing in one of my pics is showing blatant racism wasn’t implying that I was racist? The fact that you actually went into my profile and then picked up on one of my photos to try and make a point is pretty sad tbh like I said you’re obviously not going to change your opinion of me and I couldn’t really care either way, I know I’m not racist and I’m pretty sure the guys who either meet us or send us messages don’t think we’re racist and that’s enough for me "To be honest I haven’t looked at your pics. I did however read your profile text to see why it was you felt that you had been directly accused of racism - which you hadn’t. The QOS thing came from a picture on the hot photos section. Pure coincidence, however the fact you have one doesn’t take anything away from the point I made about the blatant racial undertones of that style of tattoo, and is one of the most abhorrent thing about that kind of fetish. | |||
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"I swear this forum is funny as hell........ I’m 6”3 , 2 master’s degrees , I sit on the board of 5 publicly traded companies, I have homes in Stockholm, Miami , NYC and I have a 9 - 9.5 cock....... I’m on a swinging site , not looking for a job or relationship..... So if someone wanted to have sex with me the easiest way to find me is by searching for the term BBC..... No one is objectifying me by using the term BBC.... It’s the fastest way to get from point A to B.... Once you meet me you will get to know me as a person, and figure out ... I’m more than just a big cock..... Some of you commenting act like a black guy with a big cock , can just send 1,000 cock pics and people will meet.... Trust me , you have to be a gentleman with manners and personality to get people to sleep with you.... Now if you know any couples that just views a black man as just a cock and not as a person... Please send them my way.... It will be the easiest meet for me on Fab ... I’ll just send a few cock pics and my address..... Thank you for this reply as I have stated above we have BBC in our username as it’s an easy identifiable way of showing our preferences we are certainly not suggesting that all we are looking for is a big black cock with a guy attached . As you have stated 100 black guys with enormous cocks could message us but if there’s no mutual attraction or connection then it won’t go any further. I also take issue with the couple above who suggested that me and my hubby were in some way just using the guys we meet and that in a way they were like slaves which I use for sex. Now I could be wrong but I’m pretty sure none of our meets whether privately or at clubs felt forced into anything or were left traumatised by the experience
Please re-read the post, it said clearly that not everyone is like that and also that it is subconscious. You may not (or believe you may not) have a subconscious prejudice. If it is the former, well done, but perhaps subtlety in a username would be advised, I hate the use of extreme user names like gangbangslut, it does tell people what they are looking for, but please, can we not tone it down a little...
On another tangential note but on similar lines, Queen of Spades (QOS) tattoos be they fake or real, add further weight to the degradation/offensiveness of the term BBC. Queen as in owner/ruler and the S word - another derogatory term for a black person. To me that just shows blatant racism or it the very least an incomprehensible naivety or extreme denial of the racist undertones.
Ok Professor.....
Please explain the racial undertones of these phrases....
Bbw , Bwc , pawg , milf , cuckold, hotwife , stag , and vixen....
The only two acronyms and terms that have any racial undertones would be Bwc and Pawg. All ethnicities can have big cocks, just as all ethnicities could have a Phat/Pretty ass. The rest of them could identify people of any ethnicity and so are diverse and inclusive terms "Touché, I tip my hat to you..... | |||
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"I swear this forum is funny as hell........ I’m 6”3 , 2 master’s degrees , I sit on the board of 5 publicly traded companies, I have homes in Stockholm, Miami , NYC and I have a 9 - 9.5 cock....... I’m on a swinging site , not looking for a job or relationship..... So if someone wanted to have sex with me the easiest way to find me is by searching for the term BBC..... No one is objectifying me by using the term BBC.... It’s the fastest way to get from point A to B.... Once you meet me you will get to know me as a person, and figure out ... I’m more than just a big cock..... Some of you commenting act like a black guy with a big cock , can just send 1,000 cock pics and people will meet.... Trust me , you have to be a gentleman with manners and personality to get people to sleep with you.... Now if you know any couples that just views a black man as just a cock and not as a person... Please send them my way.... It will be the easiest meet for me on Fab ... I’ll just send a few cock pics and my address....." All that and yet you still feel your most defining characteristic is your big black cock! Of course it's easier for those that fetishise race to find you based on your colour, and clearly you're happy with that because it panders to your own fetish. My Jamaican ex wife used to date black and white guys but wouldn't date Asian guys - she reckoned that 99.9 per cent wouldn't take her to meet their parents, in other words she didn't want to be their black fuck toy. Anyone who thinks the size of their cock or the colour of there skin is their main or best attribute is to us, a little sad. | |||
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"I think the implication is that it's a facial objectification and fetishization thing. I can understand why some might find that offensive. I most certainly don't. In fact, I love it. I'm Greek and absolutely LOVE it when men fetishise me. You'd be surprised how many messages I get from Turks wanting to "conquer" me like their "ancestors" did. Or English men who want to "Colonise" me. It's called race play - often a sexual attraction due to historical ethnic conflict. The idea of the forbidden excites. I used to know a Palestinian girl who loved being fucked by Jewish men, and an Israeli gay guy who got off on submitting to and serving Palestinian/Arab men and blonde German types. I don't think anything is taboo in sex, so long as adult and consensual. Just let people enjoy their lives! So go on, please objectify and fetishise me. I could do with some conquering and colonising!
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? " it is a personal thing some will feel it isn't right others will be ok with it | |||
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"I swear this forum is funny as hell........ I’m 6”3 , 2 master’s degrees , I sit on the board of 5 publicly traded companies, I have homes in Stockholm, Miami , NYC and I have a 9 - 9.5 cock....... I’m on a swinging site , not looking for a job or relationship..... So if someone wanted to have sex with me the easiest way to find me is by searching for the term BBC..... No one is objectifying me by using the term BBC.... It’s the fastest way to get from point A to B.... Once you meet me you will get to know me as a person, and figure out ... I’m more than just a big cock..... Some of you commenting act like a black guy with a big cock , can just send 1,000 cock pics and people will meet.... Trust me , you have to be a gentleman with manners and personality to get people to sleep with you.... Now if you know any couples that just views a black man as just a cock and not as a person... Please send them my way.... It will be the easiest meet for me on Fab ... I’ll just send a few cock pics and my address..... All that and yet you still feel your most defining characteristic is your big black cock! Of course it's easier for those that fetishise race to find you based on your colour, and clearly you're happy with that because it panders to your own fetish. My Jamaican ex wife used to date black and white guys but wouldn't date Asian guys - she reckoned that 99.9 per cent wouldn't take her to meet their parents, in other words she didn't want to be their black fuck toy. Anyone who thinks the size of their cock or the colour of there skin is their main or best attribute is to us, a little sad. " My main attribute is my mind , in normal vanilla life you wouldn’t know if I had a bbc because that is not my value to you...... I’m rudeboybull the professional, professor, great friend, and great brother..... Now in my swinging lifestyle I’m a dominant, deviant bull to cuckold couples...... I do not blurr the lines between these two worlds... All I care about in my swinging life is that you as a couple enjoy our time together.... Maybe I’m crazy , but when I’m meeting a couple for the first time... I’m more worried about how I can make both of them feel comfortable and to make sure I shaved properly... I never stopped to think omg ... they only want me because I’m black , These people must be racist if they want me , they are oppressing me by offering to meet me , jeez they wouldn’t want me if I had a average size cock.... Maybe I just want great sex and don’t stress the small stuff.... | |||
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"I've just seen a woman's profile in which she writes that she is "a big fan of dark meat". Now that IS offensive, IMHO." I personally prefer chicken thighs over breast or drumstick | |||
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"I've just seen a woman's profile in which she writes that she is "a big fan of dark meat". Now that IS offensive, IMHO." This reminds me of the time I was playing with a newbie couple.... We were having sex and I said “ Wow , I love your phat ass “ She stopped the action right there because she was offended.... I had to explain to her , the difference between a phat ass and a fat ass.... She didn’t realize having a phat ass was a good thing..... I swear , I must be the exception not the rule in the swinging world as a black guy... My main concern is having great sex with clean people... I never once stopped and ask myself if I’m being objectified, are the people I’m meeting racist for wanting to have sex with , would this woman date or marry me in real life... But lately I have been having a little anxiety.... Most of these husbands like to record me in action up close during our play time... Some literally have been putting their camera phone 2 inches away from my ass... While I’m having sex...... I’m started to stress if I have razor bumps , is my asshole hairy , and did I moisturize properly so I don’t have dry skin in the videos.... | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? " Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive" That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock?" Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock....." You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down . | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down . "Lol I’m really not trying to disagree or fight with them..... I’m just trying to find these subconscious racist couples that only care about my black cock..... For a single black guy that would be the perfect meeting..... No effort on my part , I would simply have to send a cock pic , show up and have sex with no effort on my part..... | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock....." | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down .
Lol I’m really not trying to disagree or fight with them.....
I’m just trying to find these subconscious racist couples that only care about my black cock.....
For a single black guy that would be the perfect meeting..... No effort on my part , I would simply have to send a cock pic , show up and have sex with no effort on my part.....
"I know according to them that would be me and my hubby even though we state on our profile that we won’t just meet any black guy there has to also be mutual attraction and some sort of connection and chemistry before anything goes any further but because I’ve used BBC in my username I’m dehumanising black men and obviously just think of them in relation to their cock | |||
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"I think its hard to refer to a person's colour whether it's white or black without someone taking offence in one way it another ,I see bbc a a complement to whoever it describes the same as if someone used bwc I know lady's on here desire black cock it's primarily a sex site for people's desires ,some want bbc so some advertise they have bbc don't see a problem ," | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down . "Chip on the shoulder much. Please copy and paste exactly where you were specifically accused of such... you come across as a woe is me attention seeker. The latest post made by myself had nothing to do with you, and was a reply to someone else. Perhaps you doth protest too much and a subconscious nerve was hit, or maybe you haven’t had any attention on this thread for a while. If you would like it to be about you, you could start your own thread... Back onto the point of the thread, perhaps rudeboycane, the people near you are different to the people who pop up on our news feed and forum threads that I have read. There are lots of profiles that scream out for BBC but mention little or anything at all about how they like the person attached to the well endowed black appendage. If someone messaged us just asking for my cock (which is not huge or massively above the average) I wouldn’t want to meet them, and if I know my other half as well as I think I do she wouldn’t either. Other than profiles by some single males - who seem happy enough to sleep with anyone that is willing - from my experience looking at profiles on here it’s only the fake single lady profiles (insert age insert sexuality looking to meet insert profile type) or those seeking BBC who seem to offer very little information about personality, style or interests of those they would like to meet. It seems that I/we want BBC is all they need to put... | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down .
Chip on the shoulder much. Please copy and paste exactly where you were specifically accused of such... you come across as a woe is me attention seeker. The latest post made by myself had nothing to do with you, and was a reply to someone else. Perhaps you doth protest too much and a subconscious nerve was hit, or maybe you haven’t had any attention on this thread for a while. If you would like it to be about you, you could start your own thread...
Back onto the point of the thread, perhaps rudeboycane, the people near you are different to the people who pop up on our news feed and forum threads that I have read. There are lots of profiles that scream out for BBC but mention little or anything at all about how they like the person attached to the well endowed black appendage. If someone messaged us just asking for my cock (which is not huge or massively above the average) I wouldn’t want to meet them, and if I know my other half as well as I think I do she wouldn’t either.
Other than profiles by some single males - who seem happy enough to sleep with anyone that is willing - from my experience looking at profiles on here it’s only the fake single lady profiles (insert age insert sexuality looking to meet insert profile type) or those seeking BBC who seem to offer very little information about personality, style or interests of those they would like to meet. It seems that I/we want BBC is all they need to put..."You seem to be more offended by the term BBC than the black men themselves. | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down .
Lol I’m really not trying to disagree or fight with them.....
I’m just trying to find these subconscious racist couples that only care about my black cock.....
For a single black guy that would be the perfect meeting..... No effort on my part , I would simply have to send a cock pic , show up and have sex with no effort on my part.....
I know according to them that would be me and my hubby even though we state on our profile that we won’t just meet any black guy there has to also be mutual attraction and some sort of connection and chemistry before anything goes any further but because I’ve used BBC in my username I’m dehumanising black men and obviously just think of them in relation to their cock "According to them... that being us... Firstly, however, as stated in my first post the opinions stated were the males and all posts were written as I and not we. Secondly, at no point do I specifically accuse you of anything. However, you have now on several occasions made unfounded accusations, which I would ask that you retract before you make a fool of yourself. Either that or pick up your toys and put them back in the pram and move on to a different form topic where you can’t be offended by the discussions and opinions of others. | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down .
Lol I’m really not trying to disagree or fight with them.....
I’m just trying to find these subconscious racist couples that only care about my black cock.....
For a single black guy that would be the perfect meeting..... No effort on my part , I would simply have to send a cock pic , show up and have sex with no effort on my part.....
I know according to them that would be me and my hubby even though we state on our profile that we won’t just meet any black guy there has to also be mutual attraction and some sort of connection and chemistry before anything goes any further but because I’ve used BBC in my username I’m dehumanising black men and obviously just think of them in relation to their cock
According to them... that being us...
Firstly, however, as stated in my first post the opinions stated were the males and all posts were written as I and not we.
Secondly, at no point do I specifically accuse you of anything. However, you have now on several occasions made unfounded accusations, which I would ask that you retract before you make a fool of yourself. Either that or pick up your toys and put them back in the pram and move on to a different form topic where you can’t be offended by the discussions and opinions of others."How exactly will she make a fool of herself? I can’t see that happening tbh. | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down .
Chip on the shoulder much. Please copy and paste exactly where you were specifically accused of such... you come across as a woe is me attention seeker. The latest post made by myself had nothing to do with you, and was a reply to someone else. Perhaps you doth protest too much and a subconscious nerve was hit, or maybe you haven’t had any attention on this thread for a while. If you would like it to be about you, you could start your own thread...
Back onto the point of the thread, perhaps rudeboycane, the people near you are different to the people who pop up on our news feed and forum threads that I have read. There are lots of profiles that scream out for BBC but mention little or anything at all about how they like the person attached to the well endowed black appendage. If someone messaged us just asking for my cock (which is not huge or massively above the average) I wouldn’t want to meet them, and if I know my other half as well as I think I do she wouldn’t either.
Other than profiles by some single males - who seem happy enough to sleep with anyone that is willing - from my experience looking at profiles on here it’s only the fake single lady profiles (insert age insert sexuality looking to meet insert profile type) or those seeking BBC who seem to offer very little information about personality, style or interests of those they would like to meet. It seems that I/we want BBC is all they need to put..."not everyone is like that and also that it is subconscious. You may not (or believe you may not) have a subconscious prejudice. If it is the former, well done, but perhaps subtlety in a username would be advised, I hate the use of extreme user names like gangbangslut, it does tell people what they are looking for, but please, can we not tone it down a little... On another tangential note but on similar lines, Queen of Spades (QOS) tattoos be they fake or real, add further weight to the degradation/offensiveness of the term BBC. Queen as in owner/ruler and the S word - another derogatory term for a black person. To me that just shows blatant racism or it the very least an incomprehensible naivety or extreme denial of the racist undertones. The fact that you have wrote “believe you may not” in brackets suggests that I subconsciously possibly think that way also I looked at the hot photos and didn’t see any with a QOS tattoo so you’ll forgive me if I don’t believe that you weren’t talking about my pic | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down .
Chip on the shoulder much. Please copy and paste exactly where you were specifically accused of such... you come across as a woe is me attention seeker. The latest post made by myself had nothing to do with you, and was a reply to someone else. Perhaps you doth protest too much and a subconscious nerve was hit, or maybe you haven’t had any attention on this thread for a while. If you would like it to be about you, you could start your own thread...
Back onto the point of the thread, perhaps rudeboycane, the people near you are different to the people who pop up on our news feed and forum threads that I have read. There are lots of profiles that scream out for BBC but mention little or anything at all about how they like the person attached to the well endowed black appendage. If someone messaged us just asking for my cock (which is not huge or massively above the average) I wouldn’t want to meet them, and if I know my other half as well as I think I do she wouldn’t either.
Other than profiles by some single males - who seem happy enough to sleep with anyone that is willing - from my experience looking at profiles on here it’s only the fake single lady profiles (insert age insert sexuality looking to meet insert profile type) or those seeking BBC who seem to offer very little information about personality, style or interests of those they would like to meet. It seems that I/we want BBC is all they need to put...
You seem to be more offended by the term BBC than the black men themselves.
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down .
Lol I’m really not trying to disagree or fight with them.....
I’m just trying to find these subconscious racist couples that only care about my black cock.....
For a single black guy that would be the perfect meeting..... No effort on my part , I would simply have to send a cock pic , show up and have sex with no effort on my part.....
I know according to them that would be me and my hubby even though we state on our profile that we won’t just meet any black guy there has to also be mutual attraction and some sort of connection and chemistry before anything goes any further but because I’ve used BBC in my username I’m dehumanising black men and obviously just think of them in relation to their cock
According to them... that being us...
Firstly, however, as stated in my first post the opinions stated were the males and all posts were written as I and not we.
Secondly, at no point do I specifically accuse you of anything. However, you have now on several occasions made unfounded accusations, which I would ask that you retract before you make a fool of yourself. Either that or pick up your toys and put them back in the pram and move on to a different form topic where you can’t be offended by the discussions and opinions of others.
How exactly will she make a fool of herself?
I can’t see that happening tbh. "Thank you please look back on the previous comments that this profile has made to me and tell me I’m making a fool of myself ok he hasn’t right out accused me of being racist but the suggestion is there unless I’m being paranoid | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down .
Chip on the shoulder much. Please copy and paste exactly where you were specifically accused of such... you come across as a woe is me attention seeker. The latest post made by myself had nothing to do with you, and was a reply to someone else. Perhaps you doth protest too much and a subconscious nerve was hit, or maybe you haven’t had any attention on this thread for a while. If you would like it to be about you, you could start your own thread...
Back onto the point of the thread, perhaps rudeboycane, the people near you are different to the people who pop up on our news feed and forum threads that I have read. There are lots of profiles that scream out for BBC but mention little or anything at all about how they like the person attached to the well endowed black appendage. If someone messaged us just asking for my cock (which is not huge or massively above the average) I wouldn’t want to meet them, and if I know my other half as well as I think I do she wouldn’t either.
Other than profiles by some single males - who seem happy enough to sleep with anyone that is willing - from my experience looking at profiles on here it’s only the fake single lady profiles (insert age insert sexuality looking to meet insert profile type) or those seeking BBC who seem to offer very little information about personality, style or interests of those they would like to meet. It seems that I/we want BBC is all they need to put...
You seem to be more offended by the term BBC than the black men themselves.
On the contrary, if you read the posts there are several black men above who state they dislike and even detest the phrase. Perhaps if more people who weren’t black took offence to any and all derogatory terms used both today and in the past, the world would be a more inclusive and harmonious place?"Correct several men have stated their opinion without attacking others. My original comment still stands. Taking offence on behalf of others won’t make anywhere more inclusive. Just look at how some are taking your comments on this thread. You are unable to be balanced and open minded. Some black men don’t like the term others like rubeboycane have stated that they don’t care, but you don’t seem to want to accept that others don’t care as much as you do. | |||
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"I've always been really, really uncomfortable with the whole thing. I find it objectifying and racist and insulting. But I tend not to say so as who cares what I think? I don’t think you know what racism means... I think I do. I don’t think you do. Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning. Black people use the N word. So because they use it, it’s not racist so everyone can use it then? In my opinion (Mr) BBC and the whole black male fetish is entirely racist. It spawns from Women using slaves for disposable sex toys. People are people, yes people have preferences, but can they not express them in a less vulgar way? You can’t compare the N word to BBC. They are just not the same. As I said I’m not black so I can’t speak for those who are, however I detest the use of the N word by anyone. I have black friends who agree with me on that. But this isn’t what the topic is about. If a black man is describing himself as BBC is he being racist to himself? All other black men? Or is he being descriptive? Like a BBW would or a PAWG would. I think calling racist is a OTT and waters down the true meaning of racism. In context you can compare the N word and BBC. You said BBC cannot be a racist term as black people use it, but the N word is. My opinion is that there is a difference in that blacks use the word to own it, to take the power away from those who use it to insult. Preferably nobody at all should us it, but it will take decades to vanquish all use. It can’t possibly water down the true meaning of racism. Racism started from slavery. Using black males for sex - which is essentially what people who search for BBC do - was part of that slavery. The vast majority of the couples who look for BBC are white females with white male partners/husbands. You have to ask the question if they like black males so much, why didn’t they marry one? There will be some excuse or another but it will actually be down to some deep rooted subconscious prejudices, and basically boils down to good enough to fuck but nothing more - which is of course racism. I know this may not be the case for everyone, but if people stopped using the term and treating them as people and not cocks and sexual commodities then maybe the swinging world would be a better place. Swinging should be about inclusivity, not segregation. Having separate BBC nights is contrary to that and actually widens the divide. What I actually said was this; “ I don’t think you know what racism means... Black men use the term themselves. Is that racist too? Some people on here are too quick to use the R word without understanding the meaning.” How exactly is a black man using the term BBC to describe himself being racist? I’m curious. I also strongly disagree that the N word & BBC can be compared, they cannot, at all. Racism started from slavery - I believe it started before, but racism & slavery go hand in hand. Using black males for sex? I don’t know. I’m not up on slavery history but I’m almost certain black females were being used for sex by white masters at a disproportionate rate compared to black men being used for sex. You’ll have to ask the white couples why they didn’t marry a black man, as I wouldn’t know. But I’d guess they fell in love with a person not their race and that’s that and now they have fantasies they may want to fulfil. Black men themselves are happy to describe themselves as BBC the OP describes himself as such. Why should he have to stop using it because you (a white couple) don’t like it? Do you not think it’s amusing that you as non black people are offended by the term on behalf of others? The OP doesn’t seem to mind the term and surely that is his right to describe himself that way. " well said x | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down .
Chip on the shoulder much. Please copy and paste exactly where you were specifically accused of such... you come across as a woe is me attention seeker. The latest post made by myself had nothing to do with you, and was a reply to someone else. Perhaps you doth protest too much and a subconscious nerve was hit, or maybe you haven’t had any attention on this thread for a while. If you would like it to be about you, you could start your own thread...
Back onto the point of the thread, perhaps rudeboycane, the people near you are different to the people who pop up on our news feed and forum threads that I have read. There are lots of profiles that scream out for BBC but mention little or anything at all about how they like the person attached to the well endowed black appendage. If someone messaged us just asking for my cock (which is not huge or massively above the average) I wouldn’t want to meet them, and if I know my other half as well as I think I do she wouldn’t either.
Other than profiles by some single males - who seem happy enough to sleep with anyone that is willing - from my experience looking at profiles on here it’s only the fake single lady profiles (insert age insert sexuality looking to meet insert profile type) or those seeking BBC who seem to offer very little information about personality, style or interests of those they would like to meet. It seems that I/we want BBC is all they need to put...
not everyone is like that and also that it is subconscious. You may not (or believe you may not) have a subconscious prejudice. If it is the former, well done, but perhaps subtlety in a username would be advised, I hate the use of extreme user names like gangbangslut, it does tell people what they are looking for, but please, can we not tone it down a little...
On another tangential note but on similar lines, Queen of Spades (QOS) tattoos be they fake or real, add further weight to the degradation/offensiveness of the term BBC. Queen as in owner/ruler and the S word - another derogatory term for a black person. To me that just shows blatant racism or it the very least an incomprehensible naivety or extreme denial of the racist undertones.
The fact that you have wrote “believe you may not” in brackets suggests that I subconsciously possibly think that way also I looked at the hot photos and didn’t see any with a QOS tattoo so you’ll forgive me if I don’t believe that you weren’t talking about my pic "Wow... This was what I said in relation to your tattoo accusation... “To be honest I haven’t looked at your pics. I did however read your profile text to see why it was you felt that you had been directly accused of racism - which you hadn’t. The QOS thing came from a picture on the hot photos section. Pure coincidence, however the fact you have one doesn’t take anything away from the point I made about the blatant racial undertones of that style of tattoo, and is one of the most abhorrent thing about that kind of fetish.” It didn’t say that I had seen a QOS tattoo on the hot photos that minute, hour, day or night. You do realise as well that you can filter the hot photos in many different ways and that they update on a regular basis. That at the point you looked it may have dropped off the hot pics? That I may have seen one the day before, a week before or may even have seen it on new photos and simply got it wrong? I hadn’t seen your tattoo, but did go back after you moaned to have a look before we mutually blocked each other. From memory yours is different to the one’s I was talking about which are quite blatant a black “spades” shape from a deck of cards with a Q in. Yours (unless you zoomed in) looked like a black rectangle. When I looked at you profile it was to see your profile text and to be fair you did mention more than a cock, but not much more. If you look at all posts made by me on this profile you’ll see (or not see) that I use brackets quite a lot for open opinions or secondary options. A bad (or good) habit depending on how you look at it. You however have directly accused me of suggesting you are racist - effectively naming and shaming - there is no getting away from that, and it is something that quite simply hasn’t (and wouldn’t) be done unless you specifically say something racist which you haven’t (as yet) done. You have also used the forum to effectively message us (about us) in order to circumvent the block (against site rules). Accusing me of calling you specifically a racist is wrong, however, if you wish to accuse me of using bad English and Grammar then you would probably (almost definitely) be right, but then, that’s not a crime or against the rules, unlike naming and shaming. | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down .
Chip on the shoulder much. Please copy and paste exactly where you were specifically accused of such... you come across as a woe is me attention seeker. The latest post made by myself had nothing to do with you, and was a reply to someone else. Perhaps you doth protest too much and a subconscious nerve was hit, or maybe you haven’t had any attention on this thread for a while. If you would like it to be about you, you could start your own thread...
Back onto the point of the thread, perhaps rudeboycane, the people near you are different to the people who pop up on our news feed and forum threads that I have read. There are lots of profiles that scream out for BBC but mention little or anything at all about how they like the person attached to the well endowed black appendage. If someone messaged us just asking for my cock (which is not huge or massively above the average) I wouldn’t want to meet them, and if I know my other half as well as I think I do she wouldn’t either.
Other than profiles by some single males - who seem happy enough to sleep with anyone that is willing - from my experience looking at profiles on here it’s only the fake single lady profiles (insert age insert sexuality looking to meet insert profile type) or those seeking BBC who seem to offer very little information about personality, style or interests of those they would like to meet. It seems that I/we want BBC is all they need to put...
not everyone is like that and also that it is subconscious. You may not (or believe you may not) have a subconscious prejudice. If it is the former, well done, but perhaps subtlety in a username would be advised, I hate the use of extreme user names like gangbangslut, it does tell people what they are looking for, but please, can we not tone it down a little...
On another tangential note but on similar lines, Queen of Spades (QOS) tattoos be they fake or real, add further weight to the degradation/offensiveness of the term BBC. Queen as in owner/ruler and the S word - another derogatory term for a black person. To me that just shows blatant racism or it the very least an incomprehensible naivety or extreme denial of the racist undertones.
The fact that you have wrote “believe you may not” in brackets suggests that I subconsciously possibly think that way also I looked at the hot photos and didn’t see any with a QOS tattoo so you’ll forgive me if I don’t believe that you weren’t talking about my pic
Wow... This was what I said in relation to your tattoo accusation...
“To be honest I haven’t looked at your pics. I did however read your profile text to see why it was you felt that you had been directly accused of racism - which you hadn’t. The QOS thing came from a picture on the hot photos section. Pure coincidence, however the fact you have one doesn’t take anything away from the point I made about the blatant racial undertones of that style of tattoo, and is one of the most abhorrent thing about that kind of fetish.”
It didn’t say that I had seen a QOS tattoo on the hot photos that minute, hour, day or night. You do realise as well that you can filter the hot photos in many different ways and that they update on a regular basis. That at the point you looked it may have dropped off the hot pics? That I may have seen one the day before, a week before or may even have seen it on new photos and simply got it wrong?
I hadn’t seen your tattoo, but did go back after you moaned to have a look before we mutually blocked each other. From memory yours is different to the one’s I was talking about which are quite blatant a black “spades” shape from a deck of cards with a Q in. Yours (unless you zoomed in) looked like a black rectangle. When I looked at you profile it was to see your profile text and to be fair you did mention more than a cock, but not much more. If you look at all posts made by me on this profile you’ll see (or not see) that I use brackets quite a lot for open opinions or secondary options. A bad (or good) habit depending on how you look at it.
You however have directly accused me of suggesting you are racist - effectively naming and shaming - there is no getting away from that, and it is something that quite simply hasn’t (and wouldn’t) be done unless you specifically say something racist which you haven’t (as yet) done. You have also used the forum to effectively message us (about us) in order to circumvent the block (against site rules). Accusing me of calling you specifically a racist is wrong, however, if you wish to accuse me of using bad English and Grammar then you would probably (almost definitely) be right, but then, that’s not a crime or against the rules, unlike naming and shaming."Ok I apologise for accusing you of specifically calling me racist now let’s just leave it there and agree to disagree as we aren’t really getting anywhere and this back and forward is pointless | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down .
Chip on the shoulder much. Please copy and paste exactly where you were specifically accused of such... you come across as a woe is me attention seeker. The latest post made by myself had nothing to do with you, and was a reply to someone else. Perhaps you doth protest too much and a subconscious nerve was hit, or maybe you haven’t had any attention on this thread for a while. If you would like it to be about you, you could start your own thread...
Back onto the point of the thread, perhaps rudeboycane, the people near you are different to the people who pop up on our news feed and forum threads that I have read. There are lots of profiles that scream out for BBC but mention little or anything at all about how they like the person attached to the well endowed black appendage. If someone messaged us just asking for my cock (which is not huge or massively above the average) I wouldn’t want to meet them, and if I know my other half as well as I think I do she wouldn’t either.
Other than profiles by some single males - who seem happy enough to sleep with anyone that is willing - from my experience looking at profiles on here it’s only the fake single lady profiles (insert age insert sexuality looking to meet insert profile type) or those seeking BBC who seem to offer very little information about personality, style or interests of those they would like to meet. It seems that I/we want BBC is all they need to put...
You seem to be more offended by the term BBC than the black men themselves.
On the contrary, if you read the posts there are several black men above who state they dislike and even detest the phrase. Perhaps if more people who weren’t black took offence to any and all derogatory terms used both today and in the past, the world would be a more inclusive and harmonious place?
Correct several men have stated their opinion without attacking others.
My original comment still stands. Taking offence on behalf of others won’t make anywhere more inclusive. Just look at how some are taking your comments on this thread. You are unable to be balanced and open minded. Some black men don’t like the term others like rubeboycane have stated that they don’t care, but you don’t seem to want to accept that others don’t care as much as you do."Again, as I have said to the only other person to complain about a post made by me on this thread, please quote where I have specifically attacked anyone? You have come into this at the back end of a conversation where someone is suddenly decidedly paranoid and believes for whatever reason they have been accused of being racist. On several occasions I have tried to steer the thread back on to topic, only to have the same person make further accusations or assume that other posts had been directed at them. If they have an issue with anything that has been said there is a report button. They don’t need knights in shining armour defending them. You state to look at how some people are reacting to my post, again it only appears to be one couple who I have asked several times to point out where I have accused them of being racist, and for some reason yourself who, I do not recall interacting with on this thread. The point of a forum is debate and discussion, you can’t have that if everyone agrees. I have yet to find anyone who has changed my mind on this thread, but have read a few people saying this thread has caused them to think about things more (and differently) which surely is the whole point of a question being asked and debated. I would rather this go back on track to the original subject matter, which apart from a few posts has been largely good tempered and informative from both sides of the debate... | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down .
Chip on the shoulder much. Please copy and paste exactly where you were specifically accused of such... you come across as a woe is me attention seeker. The latest post made by myself had nothing to do with you, and was a reply to someone else. Perhaps you doth protest too much and a subconscious nerve was hit, or maybe you haven’t had any attention on this thread for a while. If you would like it to be about you, you could start your own thread...
Back onto the point of the thread, perhaps rudeboycane, the people near you are different to the people who pop up on our news feed and forum threads that I have read. There are lots of profiles that scream out for BBC but mention little or anything at all about how they like the person attached to the well endowed black appendage. If someone messaged us just asking for my cock (which is not huge or massively above the average) I wouldn’t want to meet them, and if I know my other half as well as I think I do she wouldn’t either.
Other than profiles by some single males - who seem happy enough to sleep with anyone that is willing - from my experience looking at profiles on here it’s only the fake single lady profiles (insert age insert sexuality looking to meet insert profile type) or those seeking BBC who seem to offer very little information about personality, style or interests of those they would like to meet. It seems that I/we want BBC is all they need to put...
not everyone is like that and also that it is subconscious. You may not (or believe you may not) have a subconscious prejudice. If it is the former, well done, but perhaps subtlety in a username would be advised, I hate the use of extreme user names like gangbangslut, it does tell people what they are looking for, but please, can we not tone it down a little...
On another tangential note but on similar lines, Queen of Spades (QOS) tattoos be they fake or real, add further weight to the degradation/offensiveness of the term BBC. Queen as in owner/ruler and the S word - another derogatory term for a black person. To me that just shows blatant racism or it the very least an incomprehensible naivety or extreme denial of the racist undertones.
The fact that you have wrote “believe you may not” in brackets suggests that I subconsciously possibly think that way also I looked at the hot photos and didn’t see any with a QOS tattoo so you’ll forgive me if I don’t believe that you weren’t talking about my pic
Wow... This was what I said in relation to your tattoo accusation...
“To be honest I haven’t looked at your pics. I did however read your profile text to see why it was you felt that you had been directly accused of racism - which you hadn’t. The QOS thing came from a picture on the hot photos section. Pure coincidence, however the fact you have one doesn’t take anything away from the point I made about the blatant racial undertones of that style of tattoo, and is one of the most abhorrent thing about that kind of fetish.”
It didn’t say that I had seen a QOS tattoo on the hot photos that minute, hour, day or night. You do realise as well that you can filter the hot photos in many different ways and that they update on a regular basis. That at the point you looked it may have dropped off the hot pics? That I may have seen one the day before, a week before or may even have seen it on new photos and simply got it wrong?
I hadn’t seen your tattoo, but did go back after you moaned to have a look before we mutually blocked each other. From memory yours is different to the one’s I was talking about which are quite blatant a black “spades” shape from a deck of cards with a Q in. Yours (unless you zoomed in) looked like a black rectangle. When I looked at you profile it was to see your profile text and to be fair you did mention more than a cock, but not much more. If you look at all posts made by me on this profile you’ll see (or not see) that I use brackets quite a lot for open opinions or secondary options. A bad (or good) habit depending on how you look at it.
You however have directly accused me of suggesting you are racist - effectively naming and shaming - there is no getting away from that, and it is something that quite simply hasn’t (and wouldn’t) be done unless you specifically say something racist which you haven’t (as yet) done. You have also used the forum to effectively message us (about us) in order to circumvent the block (against site rules). Accusing me of calling you specifically a racist is wrong, however, if you wish to accuse me of using bad English and Grammar then you would probably (almost definitely) be right, but then, that’s not a crime or against the rules, unlike naming and shaming.
Ok I apologise for accusing you of specifically calling me racist now let’s just leave it there and agree to disagree as we aren’t really getting anywhere and this back and forward is pointless "
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down .
Chip on the shoulder much. Please copy and paste exactly where you were specifically accused of such... you come across as a woe is me attention seeker. The latest post made by myself had nothing to do with you, and was a reply to someone else. Perhaps you doth protest too much and a subconscious nerve was hit, or maybe you haven’t had any attention on this thread for a while. If you would like it to be about you, you could start your own thread...
Back onto the point of the thread, perhaps rudeboycane, the people near you are different to the people who pop up on our news feed and forum threads that I have read. There are lots of profiles that scream out for BBC but mention little or anything at all about how they like the person attached to the well endowed black appendage. If someone messaged us just asking for my cock (which is not huge or massively above the average) I wouldn’t want to meet them, and if I know my other half as well as I think I do she wouldn’t either.
Other than profiles by some single males - who seem happy enough to sleep with anyone that is willing - from my experience looking at profiles on here it’s only the fake single lady profiles (insert age insert sexuality looking to meet insert profile type) or those seeking BBC who seem to offer very little information about personality, style or interests of those they would like to meet. It seems that I/we want BBC is all they need to put...
not everyone is like that and also that it is subconscious. You may not (or believe you may not) have a subconscious prejudice. If it is the former, well done, but perhaps subtlety in a username would be advised, I hate the use of extreme user names like gangbangslut, it does tell people what they are looking for, but please, can we not tone it down a little...
On another tangential note but on similar lines, Queen of Spades (QOS) tattoos be they fake or real, add further weight to the degradation/offensiveness of the term BBC. Queen as in owner/ruler and the S word - another derogatory term for a black person. To me that just shows blatant racism or it the very least an incomprehensible naivety or extreme denial of the racist undertones.
The fact that you have wrote “believe you may not” in brackets suggests that I subconsciously possibly think that way also I looked at the hot photos and didn’t see any with a QOS tattoo so you’ll forgive me if I don’t believe that you weren’t talking about my pic
Wow... This was what I said in relation to your tattoo accusation...
“To be honest I haven’t looked at your pics. I did however read your profile text to see why it was you felt that you had been directly accused of racism - which you hadn’t. The QOS thing came from a picture on the hot photos section. Pure coincidence, however the fact you have one doesn’t take anything away from the point I made about the blatant racial undertones of that style of tattoo, and is one of the most abhorrent thing about that kind of fetish.”
It didn’t say that I had seen a QOS tattoo on the hot photos that minute, hour, day or night. You do realise as well that you can filter the hot photos in many different ways and that they update on a regular basis. That at the point you looked it may have dropped off the hot pics? That I may have seen one the day before, a week before or may even have seen it on new photos and simply got it wrong?
I hadn’t seen your tattoo, but did go back after you moaned to have a look before we mutually blocked each other. From memory yours is different to the one’s I was talking about which are quite blatant a black “spades” shape from a deck of cards with a Q in. Yours (unless you zoomed in) looked like a black rectangle. When I looked at you profile it was to see your profile text and to be fair you did mention more than a cock, but not much more. If you look at all posts made by me on this profile you’ll see (or not see) that I use brackets quite a lot for open opinions or secondary options. A bad (or good) habit depending on how you look at it.
You however have directly accused me of suggesting you are racist - effectively naming and shaming - there is no getting away from that, and it is something that quite simply hasn’t (and wouldn’t) be done unless you specifically say something racist which you haven’t (as yet) done. You have also used the forum to effectively message us (about us) in order to circumvent the block (against site rules). Accusing me of calling you specifically a racist is wrong, however, if you wish to accuse me of using bad English and Grammar then you would probably (almost definitely) be right, but then, that’s not a crime or against the rules, unlike naming and shaming.
Ok I apologise for accusing you of specifically calling me racist now let’s just leave it there and agree to disagree as we aren’t really getting anywhere and this back and forward is pointless
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? Sinply put ...no. if you feel degraded by it that still doesnt make objective sense - the fetishization of anything is just that - a paraphillia. BBC lovers equate big cock (and black men have the biggest on average) with alpha male masculinity. The novelty of being with someone of a other race is to do with old fashioned tabboo and that they are so different to you in appearance. None of that is intended to be degrading. It is reductive but transactional sex is entirely reductive That’s not exactly true is it. If BBC lovers equated big cock with alpha male masculinity, they wouldn’t care about the colour of the person, it would be down to cock size, big domineering builds and strong assertive personalities. In fact, in studies it has been shown that the difference in average cock sizes between white and black people is 0.1 inches. Not a huge difference (pun intended) in favour of black people. Furthermore, studies showed that in the case of black people, statistically their average was caused by more than average extremes, i.e. more occurrences of larger and smaller cock sizes. So should we have an SBC category to compensate? A CAWC (consistently average white cock) category? A BAAC (below average asian cock) category? Or should we treat people for who they are, as multicultural human beings who may or may not have a large cock? Can you please show me a couple or single female on Fab that only cares about a big cock and doesn’t treat someone as a human being? Unless I’m missing something people aren’t just having sex with someone just because they are black and have a big cock..... You’re wasting your time replying I was made out to be some subconscious racist who uses black men for sex because I obviously think I’m superior when the reality is I get turned on by my meets basically just using me for sex! Apparently my username should be more subtle and it was suggested that some usernames should be “toned” down .
Chip on the shoulder much. Please copy and paste exactly where you were specifically accused of such... you come across as a woe is me attention seeker. The latest post made by myself had nothing to do with you, and was a reply to someone else. Perhaps you doth protest too much and a subconscious nerve was hit, or maybe you haven’t had any attention on this thread for a while. If you would like it to be about you, you could start your own thread...
Back onto the point of the thread, perhaps rudeboycane, the people near you are different to the people who pop up on our news feed and forum threads that I have read. There are lots of profiles that scream out for BBC but mention little or anything at all about how they like the person attached to the well endowed black appendage. If someone messaged us just asking for my cock (which is not huge or massively above the average) I wouldn’t want to meet them, and if I know my other half as well as I think I do she wouldn’t either.
Other than profiles by some single males - who seem happy enough to sleep with anyone that is willing - from my experience looking at profiles on here it’s only the fake single lady profiles (insert age insert sexuality looking to meet insert profile type) or those seeking BBC who seem to offer very little information about personality, style or interests of those they would like to meet. It seems that I/we want BBC is all they need to put...
You seem to be more offended by the term BBC than the black men themselves.
On the contrary, if you read the posts there are several black men above who state they dislike and even detest the phrase. Perhaps if more people who weren’t black took offence to any and all derogatory terms used both today and in the past, the world would be a more inclusive and harmonious place?
Correct several men have stated their opinion without attacking others.
My original comment still stands. Taking offence on behalf of others won’t make anywhere more inclusive. Just look at how some are taking your comments on this thread. You are unable to be balanced and open minded. Some black men don’t like the term others like rubeboycane have stated that they don’t care, but you don’t seem to want to accept that others don’t care as much as you do.
Again, as I have said to the only other person to complain about a post made by me on this thread, please quote where I have specifically attacked anyone? You have come into this at the back end of a conversation where someone is suddenly decidedly paranoid and believes for whatever reason they have been accused of being racist. On several occasions I have tried to steer the thread back on to topic, only to have the same person make further accusations or assume that other posts had been directed at them. If they have an issue with anything that has been said there is a report button. They don’t need knights in shining armour defending them. You state to look at how some people are reacting to my post, again it only appears to be one couple who I have asked several times to point out where I have accused them of being racist, and for some reason yourself who, I do not recall interacting with on this thread. The point of a forum is debate and discussion, you can’t have that if everyone agrees. I have yet to find anyone who has changed my mind on this thread, but have read a few people saying this thread has caused them to think about things more (and differently) which surely is the whole point of a question being asked and debated.
I would rather this go back on track to the original subject matter, which apart from a few posts has been largely good tempered and informative from both sides of the debate..."I think you’ll find I’ve been in this thread since the start if you scroll up. You’d benefit from using paragraphs tbh. Nobody needs to change your “mind” you aren’t any better than anyone else here so nobody needs to change your mind. An opinion is an opinion. Many don’t mind the term BBC, many do. You can’t change that. | |||
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"Why do people use sites such as Fab if not for fantasy fulfilment. There are thousands of people here, so you need to filter what you want. In a crude way it's like on line shopping: you filter what you want and use "ready reckoners". You like slim women: seeing bbw you know that's not for you. Bbw doesn't mean the woman thinks she's Miss World plus, it's an identifier. Is you see Dom/sub you know that'll be bdsm and you can avoid if that's not for you. So, if someone uses BBC they are playing into a "mandigo" fantasy. Problems arise when people assume EVERY fat woman sees herself as a bbw or EVERY black man is a BBC etc. That's my take on it. " I don't refer to myself as either fat or a bbw. I'm just a woman. The men I meet look at my pictures and decide for themselves. Men gushing over how much they like bigger women dry me up like a dead rat in the sun. And I my experience both black men and women (but particularly women) hate being fetishised for their race as much as I do for my size. If you don't care and its just a way to get your cock wet that's totally cool and it's your absolute right to do so without being judged. I'd rather gargle vomit than be someone's fetish object and that's my right too | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? " It's a stereotype that works in the favour of black men. I'm sure a lot will be happy to use it as it probably is true for most, just would not be cool for the average cocked black guys. And some won't like it as it reduces the men to being purely a body part. Black men as with White or Asian men are people, not objects. You would rarely see it used outside of fab but for sites like this it's (I guess) an identifier like BBW or PAWG, etc. | |||
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"Why do people use sites such as Fab if not for fantasy fulfilment. There are thousands of people here, so you need to filter what you want. In a crude way it's like on line shopping: you filter what you want and use "ready reckoners". You like slim women: seeing bbw you know that's not for you. Bbw doesn't mean the woman thinks she's Miss World plus, it's an identifier. Is you see Dom/sub you know that'll be bdsm and you can avoid if that's not for you. So, if someone uses BBC they are playing into a "mandigo" fantasy. Problems arise when people assume EVERY fat woman sees herself as a bbw or EVERY black man is a BBC etc. That's my take on it. " Hate the term, would never use it myself but know many that do, including black guys for the reasons in this post. It’s convenient short hand. Personally I think there are many other reasons to enjoy interracial swing events apart from cock size, but I know that my involvement in the scene has led me into casual racism on occasion, which sometimes partners have pulled me up on. Sometimes it’s hard not to over-generalise. ‘Black-man-time’ is a thing though... | |||
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"I dislike it as I dislike bbw. Just because you're black doesn't mean you've got a big cock. And most bbw are just fat rather than particularly having big boobs. I tend to avoid both titles in peoples profiles, though I have no problem with either type. " I’m sure BBW stands for Big Beautiful Woman so what does having big boobs have to do with it? Also saying that all the BBW ladies I’ve met had big beautiful boobs.  | |||
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"I dislike it as I dislike bbw. Just because you're black doesn't mean you've got a big cock. And most bbw are just fat rather than particularly having big boobs. I tend to avoid both titles in peoples profiles, though I have no problem with either type. " Bbw means big beautiful woman so yes it would be fat women using it | |||
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"What is your opinion OP seeing as you have it in your username. I cant help but feel this is a look at me thread and possibly just to create arguments." | |||
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"For all the people who dislike the term BBC.... Would you instantly reject a person for having bbc in his username? For context , a black guy has a well written profile with great pictures..... He sends a polite message with a face pic... Would you block him? Or Send him a message and explain his folly of having bbc in his username..... I’m just curious because when it comes to swinging, I’m pretty much carefree..... I try not to judge people and just go with the flow..." We would reply 'no thanks' and then block. We certainly wouldn't explain his folly - because it's not a folly - it's simply right for him but wrong for us. If he wants to be seen simply as a BBC that really is only his business not ours. We also block cock avatars, single guys that have action shots on their profile and those that have cock or overly sexual references in their username. It's not that we have a problem with any of the above, it's purely about who we want to communicate it associate with on a private level. | |||
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"For all the people who dislike the term BBC.... Would you instantly reject a person for having bbc in his username? For context , a black guy has a well written profile with great pictures..... He sends a polite message with a face pic... Would you block him? Or Send him a message and explain his folly of having bbc in his username..... I’m just curious because when it comes to swinging, I’m pretty much carefree..... I try not to judge people and just go with the flow..." I wouldn’t reject for having BBC in a user name alone. But I have had messages from really hot guys who have, straight off the bat, talked about their BBC and my white pussy etc, which has put me off, but without it I’d have loved to have met them. I’m not really into race play. It wouldn’t come naturally to me during a meet to talk dirty about a guy being black and me being white, so if a guy is really into that I don’t think we’d get on. I think some guys just add that their name to stand out to those who’re looking for black guys, so can’t rule them all out. | |||
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"For all the people who dislike the term BBC.... Would you instantly reject a person for having bbc in his username? For context , a black guy has a well written profile with great pictures..... He sends a polite message with a face pic... Would you block him? Or Send him a message and explain his folly of having bbc in his username..... I’m just curious because when it comes to swinging, I’m pretty much carefree..... I try not to judge people and just go with the flow..." And definitely wouldn’t challenge anyone on their user name or choice to identify as a BBC. Each to their own, just not my bag so I’d only be a disappointment. | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? " How about BBC with ripped abs? | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? How about BBC with ripped abs?" Lol | |||
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"I have asked black men this as I feel like sometimes it’s more about fetishising a black man rather than appreciating him. The only thing you are appreciating is his dick? Hmm. However I’m a woman so can’t speak for all black men " That's what I've noticed as well for most (and I've only been here few years now) hence why i stopped messing with wome/couples that mentions it in their profile. And further more this topic's too deep for this platform, everyone's only touching the surface lol | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? " I'd never take offence I was told that I had a BBC | |||
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"Always wondered how others felt about the term BBC. To be acknowledged purely based on your cock, would you take offence ? " People are too sensitive.... it’s a compliment and no one gets upset about the phrase BWC( ?) and given a choice over a BBC or a BWC we’d choose the former over the latter. | |||
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"I’ve never used the term but lots of the guys I’ve been sucking or have inside me will suddenly refer to it as part of his erotic talk. It annoys me. I assume they’re looking at my white skin and are getting off on the contrast or something. " That's exactly what it is . | |||
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"I’ve never used the term but lots of the guys I’ve been sucking or have inside me will suddenly refer to it as part of his erotic talk. It annoys me. I assume they’re looking at my white skin and are getting off on the contrast or something. That's exactly what it is . "And there was me brought up not to see skin colour...... | |||
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"It's not a term I use or would ever consider using. I don't find men that use it that attractive either , I want to meet more than a cock !" Agreed - regardless of what colour or size - it's got to be attached to someone I want to meet as a person | |||
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"BBC is most commonly used to describe British Born Chinese. and is used widely amongst the Chinese community." its most commonly used in Britain to describe the British Broadcasting Corporation | |||
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