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By *aimeSmith OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss

Have you?

Was anything said, or did anything pleasant or unexpected occur?

As a tgurl, I'm apprehensive of being recognised.

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By *aimeSmith OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss

I was hoping for some delightful accounts!

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Lost my job of 20 years

Self employed now, don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you?

Was anything said, or did anything pleasant or unexpected occur?

As a tgurl, I'm apprehensive of being recognised."

I was outed at work. Still dont know who the fuck it was, although have suspicions.

Very awkward meeting with the bosses. It wasn't a problem per second, but they quite reasonably thought I should know. It was an anonymous letter. Hasnt affected my employment, and the top brass were very discrete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lost my job of 20 years

Self employed now, don't care"

That's shocking. I don't understand how people can lose their jobs for being on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was walking down canal st in Manchester when some random guy came chasing after me calling my name saying he knew me from here.

Freaked me out a bit.

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW


"Lost my job of 20 years

Self employed now, don't care"

... for what reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been recognised by a guy at the gym from my tattoos, but the best one is I recognised my neighbour and decided to reveal myself through here and ever since we have had such a laugh and have got on fantastically well. Made a proper friend for life

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By *aimeSmith OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss


"Lost my job of 20 years

Self employed now, don't care

That's shocking. I don't understand how people can lose their jobs for being on here. "

Yes that's awful xx

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

No.

One day, though, I'll be afforded the recognition I deserve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone in a local pub shouted fabswingers after I walked past her, I found that amusing.

I've also been outed in work for the use of a different site, that was hysterical, I was privvy to colleagues group chat and the things they discussed about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice, but I think we're all in the same boat so WTF lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not been recognised but have recognised a couple on here, one of which I do bump into occasionally. I won’t say a word though as it’s not my business what others do.

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

a family friend, an old college friend and my uncle have discovered me on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope I have not been recognised sending pics privately...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea but Iv never been approached by anyone.

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By *haneleviMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Yeah, cousin and a friend. not been recognized in a while though!

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By *aimeSmith OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss


"I hope I have not been recognised sending pics privately...?? "

It’s when a profile blocks you suddenly.....!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recognised someone I haven’t seen in over 20 years. I’m really looking forward to catching up next month when we’re both visiting the same club event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been recognised a couple of times. One person challenged me about it but never mentioned it to anyone (that I know of) The other is a really good friend and we regularly meet up for fun.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I can think of two or three occasions, inside or outside a bar in Bristol, when someone wondered if they recognised me from Fab.

A few messages, asking if I was person walking on such and such street.

Some years ago, someone at my work too it upon themselves to circulate images and a corrupted story about doing a strip-tease at a swingers club.

A colleague alerted me and the IT people offered to block a link to some long-forgotten image on Flickr (nothing rude).

I removed the page myself rather than involve the company.

Once I got over the initial surprise, it turned out to be a liberating experience.

I still work for the same company, and it appears to have caused no harm.

I'm required to complete a security vetting exercise annually. I'm asked to declare anything that would make me vulnerable to bl@ckmail. My family all know of my lifestyle and nothing I do is illegal, so it's always a "nothing to declare'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple who live behind my parents recognised me when I sent a face pic. Didn’t cause any problems. We met up and have had fun a few times.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

We’ve had a couple of messages from guys that say they’ve recognised Dee while she’s been out and about.

All pretty innocent but one guy asked if it was ok to wank over her pictures on here after seeing her out and about, which we obviously said we didn’t mind, but strange he asked for permission lol

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Never.

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

I've had a couple of guys slide into my dms on insta asking if I'm from here

Gem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one of my college gfs mum was on here we planned a meet which turned out to be awkward..... but now we are friends she likes to share her stories and likes teasing

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By *uckypups1000Couple
over a year ago

peterborough

We have been recognised twice

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Yes i have a bloke walked past me and called out my name .

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

Ive seen you in the street Tinkerbell but i wouldnt come up to without messaging you first, at my sons school theres two mums from here, i messaged a couple i see a lot about to see if its ok to say hello next time i see them but they read it and no reply. So i guess thats a no then. Lol

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By *exsenceCouple
over a year ago

stalybridge

I went shopping once and when I got home had a message from a bloke of here telling me he followed me round. Stocker lol

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

I live on the Isle of Man so it’s a fairly regular occurrence. I’m not worried who knows, and if I recognise anyone then I’ll be totally discreet about it.

In the mid 2010’s I had a fuck buddy who was a family friend and we grew up together as kids. She had returned to the island after moving away and I stumbled on her profile. We met for a chat and just decided to get on with the sex! Loads of fun for a couple of years then she got married. Still very good friends now though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been heckled whilst dog walking by a guy I'd previously met, we live in same village, he drive past, reversed level with me and shouted his metal detector was On! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went shopping once and when I got home had a message from a bloke of here telling me he followed me round. Stocker lol "

That's weird

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By *exsenceCouple
over a year ago

stalybridge


"I went shopping once and when I got home had a message from a bloke of here telling me he followed me round. Stocker lol

That's weird "
I know freaked me out some what lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went shopping once and when I got home had a message from a bloke of here telling me he followed me round. Stocker lol

That's weird I know freaked me out some what lol"

Did you report?

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By *exsenceCouple
over a year ago

stalybridge


"I went shopping once and when I got home had a message from a bloke of here telling me he followed me round. Stocker lol

That's weird I know freaked me out some what lol

Did you report? "
no just ignored it didn’t bother me again

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By *ravellerukMan
over a year ago

highbridge/Burnham

Not been recognised yet, but my wife did get sent a face pic from a guy I knew. He’s engaged and being a naughty boy(or would like to be) so he freaked out a little. But we’re not that mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been recognised loads of times never had an issue to be honest if I stick in someone's memory I'll take it as a compliment

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Mr was recognised by an old school mate and Mrs was recognised by an ex work colleague and also both by a lady that our kids went to school with hers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, numerous times and all denied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have but I have spotted a few local to me out and about. I just inwardly smile and move without saying anything. I would never do anything stupid like that public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice by two women but both times in the same shop

Just a smile and a hello and we carried on

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By *r_thickdick777Man
over a year ago

Dover

I never have but I have spotted a few local to me out and about. I just inwardly smile and move without saying anything. I would never do anything stupid like that public

Hope I wasn’t one of them lol

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I've seen two people in shops that I've had sex with but they didn't recognise me in male mode which was good.

Quite often when I'm out as Lisa in the bars etc people ask me if I'm Lisa Belle from fab. This actually happened to me on Monday night in Manchester while I was stood outside a bar having a cig xx

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Total sideways but... Lola Belle and Lisa Belle, don't suppose you are sisters? Cousins? Maybe identical twins

Back to the OP, i don't recall ever being accosted in public for being on here, though i did once get a message from someone that said they saw me in tesco (must have been the bright green hair, four inch heels and backseam stockings that gave me away - post club late night shopping lol).

I do regularly get approached just for being myself though. Possibly the most bizarre was the guy I'd never seen before who just walked up and asked if i was married! He didn't look like a multi-billionaire with a dodgy heart though, so i thanked him for the compliment but turned him down

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"Total sideways but... Lola Belle and Lisa Belle, don't suppose you are sisters? Cousins? Maybe identical twins

Back to the OP, i don't recall ever being accosted in public for being on here, though i did once get a message from someone that said they saw me in tesco (must have been the bright green hair, four inch heels and backseam stockings that gave me away - post club late night shopping lol).

I do regularly get approached just for being myself though. Possibly the most bizarre was the guy I'd never seen before who just walked up and asked if i was married! He didn't look like a multi-billionaire with a dodgy heart though, so i thanked him for the compliment but turned him down "

Haha, me and Lola are trans-lesbian lovers or at least we would be if we weren't 200 miles apart. Maybe, both slut sisters.

If you do find that billionaire on his last legs then send him my way!

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Unfortunately....NEVER !!

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

A couple I know recognised me on here, said hi, it was all fine. I did have someone send me a message with their face and I knew him and his wife (who definitely doesn't know he's on fab). Messaged to say I recognised him then blocked him ASAP, fairly sure he blocked me back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I walked into a York social 3 or 4 years back and bumped into someone I knew through work.

He was there with his wife and they had a couples profile.

We didn’t play together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

quite a few times actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not been recognised but was talking to a girl on here who said she came from a town about 10 miles away but when she sent me her pic I recognised her as a girl from the same village as me. I never said a word. Still pass her fairly regularly but she's none the wiser and I would never say anything.

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By *aimeSmith OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss


"Total sideways but... Lola Belle and Lisa Belle, don't suppose you are sisters? Cousins? Maybe identical twins

Back to the OP, i don't recall ever being accosted in public for being on here, though i did once get a message from someone that said they saw me in tesco (must have been the bright green hair, four inch heels and backseam stockings that gave me away - post club late night shopping lol).

I do regularly get approached just for being myself though. Possibly the most bizarre was the guy I'd never seen before who just walked up and asked if i was married! He didn't look like a multi-billionaire with a dodgy heart though, so i thanked him for the compliment but turned him down

Haha, me and Lola are trans-lesbian lovers or at least we would be if we weren't 200 miles apart. Maybe, both slut sisters.

If you do find that billionaire on his last legs then send him my way! "

Hey sis xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been rocognised few times from when here previously sadly they tried to wreck some of my social life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I was gutted. My so called work friend was browsing his mates fab and outed me. I know the guy he told can't hold his piss so the work people on here all know. If not more

But then I'm single so who cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messaged my mates sister without knowing it was her. She said "umm, you are a family friend!"

Also that she liked that I had a misheavious and kinky unknown side.

Strange one, I liked the naughty feeling.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek


"Lost my job of 20 years

Self employed now, don't care"

If that’s the case I hope you won the tribunal?

You can’t be fired from legal employment for being on a site like this or living a lifestyle you choose ..

I represent clients like this all day long ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine tried to out my bi side amongst rugby mates which could have caused problems with my coaching of kids

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We often get recognized, good thing we're happy to be approached!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been recognised loads of times ..I think it’s funny if a guy says don’t I know you ?or you look familiar ? I’ve even had a guy message to say he has been next to me at traffic lights and described my car

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I’ve been recognised..

I really don’t care, I’m single and doing nothing wrong .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had two men message me saying your X Mum i recognise you anywhere i really fancy you....but deffo wasnt me when i said it wasnt me got very arsey n blocked me lol 2nd man was convinced i was nurse thst treated him in a and e he still dont believe me lol i must have two twin sisters out there haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was recognised by my nephews mate who said I'd made his teenage boys dreams come true. Confessed he had always had a crush on me lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of guys have recognised me locally then messaged on here and one recognised me from school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was recognised by my nephews mate who said I'd made his teenage boys dreams come true. Confessed he had always had a crush on me lol. "

Did u act on crush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was recognised by my nephews mate who said I'd made his teenage boys dreams come true. Confessed he had always had a crush on me lol.

Did u act on crush"
nooooo lol. I'd known him since he was 9 years old. I couldnt do it even though hes in his 30s now lol.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I get spotted almost on a weekly basis

Shopping, gym and even driving (mainly in summer with the roof down)

Only been approached a couple times in person , normally get a message on here to ssh they have seen me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get spotted almost on a weekly basis

Shopping, gym and even driving (mainly in summer with the roof down)

Only been approached a couple times in person , normally get a message on here to ssh they have seen me "

You do certainly stand out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couple of guys have recognised me locally then messaged on here and one recognised me from school"

I find the guys from School that recognise me funny! Would look at me in school! “Interested now then, boys” lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couple of guys have recognised me locally then messaged on here and one recognised me from school

I find the guys from School that recognise me funny! Would look at me in school! “Interested now then, boys” lol "

I find it hilarious the guy in question showed zero interest at school but now I cant shake him off on here. I find it entertaining that I'm fuel for his masturbation sessions now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine tried to out my bi side amongst rugby mates which could have caused problems with my coaching of kids"

Why would your sexual preference make you a risk to kids?

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I was recognised by a woman on here that I'd gone to High School with. She refused to tell me her name but she definitely knew me. Freaked me out for a while to be fair.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Loosaddsssss of times.

They are on here aswell though I suppose

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I was recognised by a woman on here that I'd gone to High School with. She refused to tell me her name but she definitely knew me. Freaked me out for a while to be fair. "

Had a few do this to me. Think it’s a right twats trick to ‘taunt’ someone like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lost my job of 20 years

Self employed now, don't care

If that’s the case I hope you won the tribunal?

You can’t be fired from legal employment for being on a site like this or living a lifestyle you choose ..

I represent clients like this all day long .."

I’ll think you’ll find you can.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I was recognised by a woman on here that I'd gone to High School with. She refused to tell me her name but she definitely knew me. Freaked me out for a while to be fair.

Had a few do this to me. Think it’s a right twats trick to ‘taunt’ someone like that. "

Absolutely hun. I wouldn't mind but I'm hardly likely to tell people that she's on it am I!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I've been recognised in a pub then contacted through other social media to tell me, tbh I find that creepy as fuck, it makes my skin crawl, I never go down the pub when I know they will be there now.

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By *heShyBiCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We had a guy recognise us that lives local and female knows (but hates) he recognised male on his single profile when we were first together and then sent screenshots to female saying 'look what he does, he fucks trannies and you still shag him' to which female replied, I know everything he does. He then blocked female on Faceboo.k after she refused to sleep with him.

Couple of months pass and he messages our single profile and sends a lot of face pictures, we then block him because we don't want the hassle to which he then starts harassing female on Instagra.m Eventually he blocks her on that too after she didn't reply.

Looking at his profile he is incredibly discreet and uses a different name, his bio is all lies and he doesn't want to be found out.

We won at the end of the day because he's wanted to fuck female for a long time and he's going nowhere near her

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I've been recognised in a pub then contacted through other social media to tell me, tbh I find that creepy as fuck, it makes my skin crawl, I never go down the pub when I know they will be there now."

Same here. I’d rather have him just come over and said Hi

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

So many worrying stories on this thread, but mine is amusing !

Working I the store where I work one day a very pretty young lady spoke to me and said 'are you a lord of the rings fan' I looked at her, confused and said 'sort of' she laughed and walked off saying 'have a FAB day'.

I looked for her profile on here but have never yet found it, and I see her in store now and again and she always smiles at me.

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Been recognised both on here from people I know or know a family member (usually my son) and out and about from people on here. To be honest years ago it freaked me out but now I am ok with it. My family and close friends know about this side of me and all good with it, they are all I care about plus I am more comfortable and open about myself now, took me a while to get there x

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

yes. i welcomed it, and i would encourage anyone who thinks they know me to contact me, i know its not for everyone but i really dont mind

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By *aimeSmith OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss


"I've been recognised in a pub then contacted through other social media to tell me, tbh I find that creepy as fuck, it makes my skin crawl, I never go down the pub when I know they will be there now.

Same here. I’d rather have him just come over and said Hi"

Me too xxx

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

After sending a face pic to a local ish lady she revealed herself as someone I used to work with. Although we don’t work together anymore we message now and again on here about a common interest.

We do see each other out and about now and again. It’s never mentioned and never will be.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Not yet but it's bound to happen eventually, Exeter's a small place. Saying that, I don't really mind. I'm not in a monogamous partnership or cheating on anyone, I don't do the kind of job where being open about this kind of thing could do any damage, my friends are all open-minded enough not to care and there's always the chance that someone sexy from here might see me out and about, like the look of me in real life better than they did my profile pictures and come chat me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We received a message last week from a guy who stated his first name, location and profession in his message to us...wasn’t hard to find him on the email address book at work! would never expose or mention it if we crossed paths, but was fun finding I wasn’t the only one in our organisation

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

I've never been outed though there's a bully in work that would love for it to happen as company would sack me.

I've recognised a few people but I'd never out them, I'd respect their privacy just like I'd hope they'd respect mine

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"I've been recognised in a pub then contacted through other social media to tell me, tbh I find that creepy as fuck, it makes my skin crawl, I never go down the pub when I know they will be there now.

Same here. I’d rather have him just come over and said Hi"

That's a tough call to make to be fair as I think just as many people would prefer that not to happen, especially if they're out with friends/colleagues/partners etc.

My way of handling it would probably be to make that person aware of my presence by just saying "hi" in passing, leave it at that and then message the next day saying "was that you I saw in the Dog and Duck, I was the bloke in the black hat and jacket who said hi when you were having a smoke in the beer garden" or whatever. That way you respect people's space, maintain discretion and hopefully are recognisable enough/made enough of an impression so that they remember you from the night before.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

Well it is quite exciting if someone messages you on here to say they have seen you in ‘real life’ !

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Yes

In our local supermarket

A fabster who works there spotted me and messaged to ask if I had been in there earlier.

Never going in there again

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock


"Yes

In our local supermarket

A fabster who works there spotted me and messaged to ask if I had been in there earlier.

Never going in there again "

Exciting lol

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We have met quite a few from on here at our favourite pub.

Not arranged just seems to be aFab hot spot

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea


"I've never been outed though there's a bully in work that would love for it to happen as company would sack me.

I've recognised a few people but I'd never out them, I'd respect their privacy just like I'd hope they'd respect mine "

That's sad there's a bully at your work place, its a shame you can't get anything on that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been noticed as far as I’m aware but I now call some people I’ve met from here friends and people I see occasionally, but I’d love to be recognised

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

You know what, never.

Looked in a mirror once, nothing

However, the exposure of ladies necks, makes me flutter.

Love a jugular photo.

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Until this thread it's never occurred to me someone I already know might also be on fab. But of course it's possible...

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By *LeatherandLace-Couple
over a year ago

Dundee

We've been recognised twice by a couple and a woman that are our friends, nothing awkward about it just a chat and a laugh

Rose x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until this thread it's never occurred to me someone I already know might also be on fab. But of course it's possible..."
I always ask married cheating men what would they do if they found out their wives was on here. Wonder if it would spice up the marriage or end it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was recognized about a year ago by a young lad who i sent a face pic too. Said he went to a social club i went to as a teenager but from his info and pics, i had no idea who he could be because he was a good deal younger than me if details were correct. Made me very anxious as it means he knows my gf too but nothing ever came of it.

I assumed that he blocked me but i think he deleted his whole profile because im on a new account now and still cant find him.

To be fair, id love to be recognized by a close mate on here and have someone to confide in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people we recognise on here are actually the ones who introduced us to swinging and who also suggested this site.

However, we have recognised two couples on here from nearby, who the Mrs. deals with in her work life. Now, whether or not they've come across our profile and identified us remains to be seen.

Whatever the situation we'd never out anyone, and we have chatted to both couples at business network meetings and surprisingly Fab was never mentioned!

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock


"The people we recognise on here are actually the ones who introduced us to swinging and who also suggested this site.

However, we have recognised two couples on here from nearby, who the Mrs. deals with in her work life. Now, whether or not they've come across our profile and identified us remains to be seen.

Whatever the situation we'd never out anyone, and we have chatted to both couples at business network meetings and surprisingly Fab was never mentioned! "

I think if someone messaged us to say they’d seen us out and about it would be quite nice in a way.

I would be very surprised if anyone would ‘out’ anyone in public as it would just make themselves look stupid !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people we recognise on here are actually the ones who introduced us to swinging and who also suggested this site.

However, we have recognised two couples on here from nearby, who the Mrs. deals with in her work life. Now, whether or not they've come across our profile and identified us remains to be seen.

Whatever the situation we'd never out anyone, and we have chatted to both couples at business network meetings and surprisingly Fab was never mentioned!

I think if someone messaged us to say they’d seen us out and about it would be quite nice in a way.

I would be very surprised if anyone would ‘out’ anyone in public as it would just make themselves look stupid !"

We agree. However, some in this thread have been 'outed' with seemingly malicious intent and it's had an effect on their work lives.

Some nasty folk around.

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By *reeneyes1983Man
over a year ago

Hyde

I have seen people out and about that i recognise and i am sure i have been recognised...

Always been ultra discrete and just carried on as normal with what i was doing.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek


"Lost my job of 20 years

Self employed now, don't care

If that’s the case I hope you won the tribunal?

You can’t be fired from legal employment for being on a site like this or living a lifestyle you choose ..

I represent clients like this all day long ..

I’ll think you’ll find you can."

Not legally !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until this thread it's never occurred to me someone I already know might also be on fab. But of course it's possible..."

Yes ive seen 2 fems and 3 guys who ive known one way or another, never told the guys, but did the fems and had a laugh. With all though, whats on fab, stays on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a had a guy come up to me in Tescos and ask if I was on Fab. Turned out he was the male in a couple I was messaging.

Also found out a lady I was flirting with, when to the same school as me. She was a couple of years above me, so I did not know her at School though. Small world!

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

I've been messaged on here by work colleagues and a few chaps in our local and once someone saw us in Tesco, didn't speak to us but for some reason left us a veri

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Secretly does it excite you if you were recognisedheld to ransom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been messaged on here by work colleagues and a few chaps in our local and once someone saw us in Tesco, didn't speak to us but for some reason left us a veri"

Tesco's must be the supermarket of choice for Swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if people recognise you they must themselves be on here so what is the problem

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By *ickylouiseTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Not that i know of no but i have seen loads on here that are tvs or trans that i recognise them. Never mentioned to them apart from one bloke who asked if i knew who he was as from same town.

Seen people here who i used to work with talked to even and they never mentioned they knew me. Not sure if been polite or just the make up disguised me.

Scary but thrilling

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London


"if people recognise you they must themselves be on here so what is the problem"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bumped into the female half of a couple i used to play with jn a tesco once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lost my job of 20 years

Self employed now, don't care

If that’s the case I hope you won the tribunal?

You can’t be fired from legal employment for being on a site like this or living a lifestyle you choose ..

I represent clients like this all day long ..

I’ll think you’ll find you can.

Not legally !!

"

Nope your wrong

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By *LOVEpinacoladasWoman
over a year ago

East Sussex

My brother was browsing the photos of a kinky party and spotted a photo of me (non-explicit!) and decided he wouldn't go. :,D

A friend shared the photos of a guy who messaged her on a kink site and I recognised his tattoos - my brother again!

London scene is a smaller world than you might expect... We're both comfortable enough knowing each others' interests but pleased not to have ended up at the same parties!

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"Secretly does it excite you if you were recognisedheld to ransom?"

I can't imagine anyone finding bl@ckmail exciting.

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By *aimeSmith OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss


"Secretly does it excite you if you were recognisedheld to ransom?"

No

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By *ustyLeRouxWoman
over a year ago

Brecon

Haven't been recognised fortunately however had an ex (if thats what he was ) decide to have a "friend" stalk me on here and report back to him

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Yes. We ended up doing naughties x

Mrs N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ivery been recognised a few times and to be honest I didn't care

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By *ent-SexyPetiteCouple
over a year ago

North

Yep, we spent a few hours messaging a lovely MF couple, we arranged to meet at a bar 20miles away from our home, they arrived and just happend to be our next door neighbours. Several fun night was had after all the shock had weared of.

Sophie

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By *ance123321Man
over a year ago

Moray & London

Yes by a colleagues wife, who was on here without his knowledge.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Not yet as I don't post pictures. First swinger club visit I was so paranoid about bumping into someone who saw me being interested in swinging I went to a club some distance away. Now I'm much more relaxed

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We've been recognised a few times. Once by our neighbours, who never said a word for two years until the night before we moved 600 miles from them.

We were also recognised in a nightclub once when some idiot decided to get our profile up and show pictures to our friends!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been recognised in torquay alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had a fair few people recognise us but no fun with any of them haha

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Thankfully I have been recognised.

Meant that the socials went ok and must mean my pictures do look a little like me.

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire


"I've never been outed though there's a bully in work that would love for it to happen as company would sack me.

I've recognised a few people but I'd never out them, I'd respect their privacy just like I'd hope they'd respect mine

That's sad there's a bully at your work place, its a shame you can't get anything on that person. "

I've got loads and I'm continuing to build a solid case but it takes time. I'm doing it the right way rather than piping up about her drug use although I'm heavily advising the company does random drug and breath testing to make sure nobody is putting the clients in a predicament

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Thankfully I have been recognised.

Meant that the socials went ok and must mean my pictures do look a little like me. "

You were recognised by the person you were having a social with? Don’t know if that even counts lol

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

I’m pretty sure there are a couple of people on here I recognise but I wouldn’t call them out.

I’m sure there are people I know on here too.

The gas mask in my pic hangs up from the door in our living room so it might too easy for someone to make the connection

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Have you?

Was anything said, or did anything pleasant or unexpected occur?

As a tgurl, I'm apprehensive of being recognised.

I was outed at work. Still dont know who the fuck it was, although have suspicions.

Very awkward meeting with the bosses. It wasn't a problem per second, but they quite reasonably thought I should know. It was an anonymous letter. Hasnt affected my employment, and the top brass were very discrete "

Good for them - and good for you! Very well handled by the sound of it!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Lost my job of 20 years

Self employed now, don't care

If that’s the case I hope you won the tribunal?

You can’t be fired from legal employment for being on a site like this or living a lifestyle you choose ..

I represent clients like this all day long ..

I’ll think you’ll find you can.

Not legally !!

Nope your wrong "

Exactly.

I had a 'reputational disrepute' clause in the contract fro the company I worked for for over 15 years. They sacked people for posts on social media that would cause embarrassment to the company, one for getting d*unk and walking naked down a corridor in a hotel at a business conference and another a messy affair with a client's wife.

Losing your job for being a swinger is perfectly possible. Simple to avoid with common sense of course but in no way illegal.

Oh - and yes we've been recognised by someone as when we first started out someone tipped off the MIL.

A

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

A company can get rid of you for any reason it wants. They might get sued but they’ve still got rid of you.

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By *ammy lynWoman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

I was recognised while shopping in a local supermarket and messaged afterwards and asked if it was me.

Later arranged a social meet and he never turned up.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I was recognised while shopping in a local supermarket and messaged afterwards and asked if it was me.

Later arranged a social meet and he never turned up."

well what an idiot ! joys of fab !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brothers best friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have be recognised by some one who worked in our house.

Nothing bad came of it.

We also recognised someone on here but say nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bumped into my cousin at a local tgirls night. I had no idea he was an admirer & sufficient to say it's complicated but it's put me off ever going there again.

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By *oupleseekingCouple
over a year ago

nearby…..

There’s a lot more people at it than you realise lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll add here that I already knew my cousin had a connection to the TV/TG world. He visited a TV dressing shop while I was there back in the 90s & I arranged a straight talk over a pint, where we agreed to keep our secrets a secret & ourselves to ourselves - a pity cos I'd have loved a friend to go out on the town with back then. Running into him at a local tgirl night at a swingers club really upset my mojo & apparently cramped his style too lol.

But yeah it's definitely made me think again about visiting. It'd be different I guess if he was a neighbour or coworker but family? Nah that's too close for comfort. A big shame because it's one of my favourite haunts!

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"I bumped into my cousin at a local tgirls night. I had no idea he was an admirer & sufficient to say it's complicated but it's put me off ever going there again."

Did he recognise you?

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"I bumped into my cousin at a local tgirls night. I had no idea he was an admirer & sufficient to say it's complicated but it's put me off ever going there again.

Did he recognise you? "

....just seen your follow up message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been recognised

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By *acplayMan
over a year ago

Melton Mowbray


"Twice, but I think we're all in the same boat so WTF lol... "

Totally agreed. Met an old school friend (female) in a club once and a work mate.(and his wife) created quite a giggle after the initial surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever sacked on person (I'm a nice boss, honest) but two months later I bumped into them at a club. Very awkward

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I've only ever sacked on person (I'm a nice boss, honest) but two months later I bumped into them at a club. Very awkward "

Business is business and pleasure is pleasure. Did you get any 'angry sex'? Often some of the best sex going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messaged by a guy from opposite my house once

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By *E_13Couple
over a year ago

Burton on trent

Bumped into a guy I work with while out dogging haha

D

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
over a year ago

Marlow

I had a meet with a guy I knew from a job we had worked on together, Im pretty sure he had no idea who I was. That one advantage of being a Tgirl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice, both times when out shopping, one guy messaged us on here afterwards to let us know he followed us for a bit because of how beautiful we look in person, ...cause that's not going to creep us out

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

Probably, I've recognised a few from here in the real world ,

But I keep my mouth shut about it cause I also like my privacy

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By *uckypups1000Couple
over a year ago

peterborough

Recognized twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got it a lot in my old job repairing caravans and motorhomes

Lots of subtle hints like including the word fab a lot haha

Like that's fab you've done a fab job also had the no messing types that just outright said are you on fab haha

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By *mids LadMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Been recognised by a work colleague, had a couple come into my place of work and blatantly ask me out right if I was on fab swingers, that was a bit of a shock lol.... And I got viewed by someone once, when I messaged turned out to be my Aunt lol

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Yes. Work colleague of M at Chams, we shook hands and he spoke about business!

Mrs W has been mistaken for a local celebrity and the guy wouldn’t believe her when she said she wasn’t that person so that got awkward.

Have suspicions about a few people recognising us but nothing has been said.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I worry about this constantly

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Twice...

One I actually caught and messaged, I was super shocked! It resulted in the best blowjob of my life!

The other, she caught me, and it resulted in abuse online, facebook shit,

gossip, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been recognised by a guy he made all sorts of nasty threats thankfully never carried them out! I recognised a couple but have said nothing if they choose to contact me that's fine

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By *ezmanyorksMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I am friends on here with someone I went to school with and also an ex who I am still very good friends with, not sure if that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember the EU law on Privacy states that individuals shall enjoy a "private" life, so your employer cannot sack you because they saw you on say one of my videos, or you are a swinger or like to wear womens panties on a weekend.

Subsequently those threating to expose you are breaking the law, and reporting to the police is highly recommended as it comes under the new harassment law.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

Ive a couple of old friends on here, one of whom is a TGirl too.

It's nice to be able to chat about similar interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I visited my mum, down in Kent, about 3 years after my previous trip, even she didn't recognise me lol.

I had lost 5 stone in between times, but FFS

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

N was recognised not too long back. The guy messaged her through facebook and dropped a few hints with the word "fab".

Very discrete and we didn't mind it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been recognised by a guy at the gym from my tattoos, but the best one is I recognised my neighbour and decided to reveal myself through here and ever since we have had such a laugh and have got on fantastically well. Made a proper friend for life "

Love that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never been recognised

Nobody knows I’m really Batman

Oh bugger I guess people do now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My guy bumped into his neighbour of old at OP4F and his cousin at VA lol

The pervs are everywhere

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