FabSwingers.com forum: What do couples look for in a guy

By *ikerdude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Hello

Love couple play especially if man bi curious (not anal). What do couples look for in a guy when looking?

Love to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They need to have read the profile, this should tell them everything, especially if they are suitable. Those that respond with “lets meet” or worse.... simply experience the block button. Then there’s those that simply keep chatting but cant follow through...now that’s a different subject

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

What ever it is, I seem dont to have it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They need to have read the profile, this should tell them everything, especially if they are suitable. Those that respond with “lets meet” or worse.... simply experience the block button. Then there’s those that simply keep chatting but cant follow through...now that’s a different subject

This!!!!!

And the wife’s got to at least fancy them!!!! A bit.

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By *randomwhitedudeMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Does a big cock help?

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Someone who reads our profile and respects what we are looking for. It should be simple but sadly so many can't even do this.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

If we was to look for another male we would want them to have read our profile for starters!! Too many times we have had messages completely ignoring the fact we are a couple and not a single female

Second they have to be respectful and not send dick pics and messages like "do you want to fuck this?"

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Does a big cock help? "

You tell us . . .

Do you have a big cock?

If so does it get you lots of meets?

It's way down on our list as we find those that think it's of great importance usually lack in the personality department - but I'm sure to some others a big cock is more important than personality.

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By *uckfunCouple
over a year ago

North Coast

Non-pushy, not non-stop ‘are you interested?’ ‘You still there?’ ‘Not talking?’ Messages if there’s a lull in messaging.

Messages that start ‘want to meet’, ‘I’m nearby now’ ‘do you have pics’ all are instant no.

Still amazes us that some men think that just because you’re on here means you’ll drop everything and meet them now.

You’ve got to be prepared to play the long game, unless someone is saying that they want to meet ‘now’

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It varies from couple to couple.

What appeals to one couple might put off the next.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"Non-pushy, not non-stop ‘are you interested?’ ‘You still there?’ ‘Not talking?’ Messages if there’s a lull in messaging.

Messages that start ‘want to meet’, ‘I’m nearby now’ ‘do you have pics’ all are instant no.

Still amazes us that some men think that just because you’re on here means you’ll drop everything and meet them now.

You’ve got to be prepared to play the long game, unless someone is saying that they want to meet ‘now’"
This guys forget they are dealing with 2 people they have to connect and appeal too .so takes time and effort.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Does a big cock help? "

Not to us. Women looking for big cocks is a bit of a niche thing. It certainly exists but it is nowhere near as ubiquitous as it is made out to be.

If we ever do meet a man (and we aren't looking to do that) how we get on with him, how respectful and non-pushy he is and how he presents himself is leagues ahead in importance than of the size of his manhood. That doesn't mean we would go for somebody tiny but average would be perfectly acceptable. In fact, anything over 7" would be a no for us.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Wife prefers experienced guys who know what they are doing size of cock not important, but she does enjoy a thick one, she prefers rough and ready to suited, good sence of humour goes well, I like the guys that can give her a good hard fucking repeaters and heavy cummers who are not camera shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big, bald with tats

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By *e Sing TooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Indeed!! The only things we can add to above is that J (Mrs.) needs warmth, intelligence, a sense of humour, and a desire in the man to seduce her by telling her how much he wants her and why. Oh, he should also be clean, smell nice, and have a decent body and cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we was to look for another male we would want them to have read our profile for starters!! Too many times we have had messages completely ignoring the fact we are a couple and not a single female

Second they have to be respectful and not send dick pics and messages like "do you want to fuck this?" "

THIS THIS THIS ^^^^^ why do guys automatically think he's a replacement or forget that they are a couple and treat her like shes theyre property? Gets the block treatment straight away

And couples are also very very good at sussing out the chancers, liars, fakers and bullshitters no matter how good you think you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does a big cock help? "

Nope big cock usually means big head and big ego in our opinion

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

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"Hello

Love couple play especially if man bi curious (not anal). What do couples look for in a guy when looking?

Love to know"

As threads have 175(ish) posts and I don't know the exact number of couples on here (bi or straight).. whatever the number is it'll be that number of different opinions ..hope this helps op.

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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago

East Lancashire

"Does a big cock help? "

I'm sure yours might help some, yep

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

As adding a third is about fantasy rather than just sex we go for the person we are attracted to. Probably makes little difference what they put in a message.

If their pics are of them smiling and maybe out and about rather than dick pics they are more likely to get noticed . I tend to say if you look like beards then you have a good chance of it going further.

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Does a big cock help?

Nope big cock usually means big head and big ego in our opinion"

That’s interesting as the guys I have played with who have been above average in size have been really chilled and friendly not arrogant at all but again everyone is different I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality of course

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By *ent_couple2019Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

Someone that can send a half decent message first and foremost.

Be addressed as a couple.

Line out kinks and what look for.

Of course attraction got to be there.

But turned plenty of good looking guys just because they've acted like complete tools

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By *ent_couple2019Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

"Someone that can send a half decent message first and foremost.

Be addressed as a couple.

Line out kinks and what look for.

Of course attraction got to be there.

But turned plenty of good looking guys just because they've acted like complete tools"

Like a half decent profile to.

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By *ack n FoxyCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby border

Foxy has to fancy them, they need to have a profile with pics (not necessarily face pics) and send a polite respectful non pushy message with face pics without being asked.

We hate one line messages and faceless profiles....deleted immediately. We make an effort with our profile and pics.... if the guy can't be bothered to then he certainly won't be fucking Foxy

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Fun, honest personaility.

Cock size is secondary but I do like a good looking cock

Bi or bi curious preferred due to wanting to try fuckylicky and DVP more.

Unless you're an absolute Quasimodo, looks are not as high on the list as you'd think, neither is body type.

Prefer black but willing to play with others.

That enough info for you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Someone who "gets it".

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I have a pulse if that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non-pushy, not non-stop ‘are you interested?’ ‘You still there?’ ‘Not talking?’ Messages if there’s a lull in messaging.

Messages that start ‘want to meet’, ‘I’m nearby now’ ‘do you have pics’ all are instant no.

Still amazes us that some men think that just because you’re on here means you’ll drop everything and meet them now.

You’ve got to be prepared to play the long game, unless someone is saying that they want to meet ‘now’This guys forget they are dealing with 2 people they have to connect and appeal too .so takes time and effort."

This is so true and a good proportion of single guys just don't seem to understand that. Lost count of the amount of explicit messages that disregard one of us! Nothing could put us off more. What's worse is we specifically say this in our profile lol. So it always ends with little response on our side x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find the only ones who know how to behave in a respectful and tasteful fashion are from couples that play separately. But we must hear it from the wife personally

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Distance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean shaven

Tall

Muscular build

Girth

Length

Smell nice

Personality

Well groomed below & else where

Respectful

Honest

Nice teeth

Big hands

Nice feet

Green / blue eyes

Smartly dressed

Nice hair

Dark hair

Reliable

Manly voice

That’s all really

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We like a guy who listens to what we want ....and how we want it ....someone who is happy to go with the flow and not have his own agenda......a big cock is a bonus lol..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like playing with bi guys I (kitten) love watching two guys together. The amount of guys that message and list as straight is amazing. Also, just because hubby is bi, doesn't mean he's a sissy bottom. Many (if not almost all) don't get that

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