FabSwingers.com forum: Swingers "top tips"

By *umkisscouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

What would be your "top tip" that you would give to other swingers that would help them navigate the lifestyle?

Ours would be "in a club, if you are chatting to someone and would like to play with them, ask them if they would like to play!" too many people miss out on fun because they don't ask or a scared of being told no thanks

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

Second that x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My top tip for swingers and life?

Respect for other people at all times

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By *otus_Eaters1Couple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"My top tip for swingers and life?

Respect for other people at all times "

Concur and thanks ...x

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Be respectful.

Be nice.

Be friendly.

Be clean.

Be happy

Xxx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Read profiles before messaging. Have manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree ..Don't be too pushy but let them know you are interested. Walk away and leave them to discuss it if it's a couple ..They will then come and find you if they are interested in you ..Like OP said too many people leave it too late to show their interest ..The amount if times I've seen if only we had known scenarios

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

Be clear about what you want ........ and just as clear about what you don't.

Treat people how you would expect to be treated.

If a meet has been arranged and you have second thoughts or nerves get the better of you, have the decency to be honest with the person, or people, you're supposed to be meeting, don't just leave them hanging.

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

If you're swinging as a couple, make sure you're both on exactly the same page in your expectations and equally aware of possible consequences.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

In a club, take the time to chat to people during the evening. Don't leave it till the end of the night and suddenly try to find somebody interested in having fun. This seems to be true of single guys as well as couples.

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By *umkisscouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

If you get a vibe from someone that doesn't feel right, trust your gut and give them a miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read profiles before messaging. Have manners. "

Totally agree with this.

If messaging someone , make an effort to explain why you would like to get to know them and what you liked about their profile. Otherwise people will just presume you are contacting eveeyone within 20 miles of where you live !

Make it personal, polite and friendly.

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By *umkisscouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Read profiles before messaging. Have manners.

Totally agree with this.

Make it personal, polite and friendly. "

When someone has left you a very nice verification, give them one back instead of spending the entire day on the forums talking nonesense... Sorry guys

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By *umkisscouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Gonna post her top tip to give this thread a boost as I want to hear more people's tips

"no expectations means no disappointments"

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"What would be your "top tip" that you would give to other swingers that would help them navigate the lifestyle?

So agree with this point, even though we are reasonably confident in most situations we sometimes lack the nerve to ask if people want to play

Note to selves, be bold

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By *exyredheadtattooCouple
over a year ago

Beaumont

Exactly, that is the respect others part of it!

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By *wingamajigsCouple
over a year ago

Folkestone

No means no. Don't keep wining, asking etc.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"No means no. Don't keep wining, asking etc. "

Very much this, or try groping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read profiles before sending messages, it'll potentially save you and the person you're messaging some time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest with yourself, your partner and all those you want to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you are not 100% happy then dont

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

No means no

Always Respect boundaries

Have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed

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