FabSwingers.com forum: Bad pussy licking

By *ittlebitofpleasure100 OP Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

OK, so this one is for us girls.

When it’s bad it’s bad! I find many guys don’t know what they are going down there. I’ve had a couple of guys who knew their way round really well, and boy did I gush!!! When it’s done right it’s the best thing ever....

Thoughts? X

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By *wing66Couple
over a year ago

Burton-upon-trent

Everyone is different, what do women enjoy a man doing?

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

So how do you like it done then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad oral really turns me off and then makes me not wanting to have sex tbh

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By *ittlebitofpleasure100 OP Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

"So how do you like it done then "

It’s actually hard to say until it’s done in a way that turns you on a lot. You just know what you don’t want.

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By *ittlebitofpleasure100 OP Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Bad oral really turns me off and then makes me not wanting to have sex tbh"

Ditto.

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By *ittlebitofpleasure100 OP Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Everyone is different, what do women enjoy a man doing? "

I prefer a girl licking me

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By *winfrozrMan
over a year ago

Carnoustie

This is like the bad blow job thread...

Talk to your partner about what you want done and we’ll all enjoy oral more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of guys don't know what they are doing that's true but some have figured out a good bit of pressure on a woman's bladder and they can get her to piss her self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm extremely ticklish and not in a good way at all. If he has a beard I can't have my pussy eaten, I kick out, I can't help it

I'm super attracted to guys with beards though so it kills me.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Well to read fab men's profiles it would seem that most are self accomplished expert fanny lickers , so this isn't the case ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most times when i perform oral on a woman, they end it because they want me in them.

Does that mean im doing something right or wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most times when i perform oral on a woman, they end it because they want me in them.

Does that mean im doing something right or wrong?"

Could mean either!

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By *ittlebitofpleasure100 OP Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Most times when i perform oral on a woman, they end it because they want me in them.

Does that mean im doing something right or wrong?"

That’s a hard one as it could mean your great and are not! Women just like cock! lol

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Not very many are good at it .... when it’s done properly it’s mind blowing . Too many just lap about at it .... I need firm pressure

which will ame me squirt but then again good communication helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most times when i perform oral on a woman, they end it because they want me in them.

Does that mean im doing something right or wrong?

Could mean either! "
your case it was both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not very many are good at it .... when it’s done properly it’s mind blowing . Too many just lap about at it .... I need firm pressure

which will ame me squirt but then again good communication helps

Im more a slow and sensual licking just like my kissing

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I'm available for show any of you ladies and you can tell me if I'm doing it right or wrong.. LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most times when i perform oral on a woman, they end it because they want me in them.

Does that mean im doing something right or wrong?

Could mean either! your case it was both

Im not one to complain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far in all our meets only two or three men could actually lick a pussy.

The worst was when a guy was actually nibbling the clit making it more sensitive and putting off.

Some guys especially young ones who take good time to find the clit itself lol

I can make my Mrs cum in just two min of licking but it will be different with another woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So far in all our meets only two or three men could actually lick a pussy.

The worst was when a guy was actually nibbling the clit making it more sensitive and putting off.

Some guys especially young ones who take good time to find the clit itself lol

I can make my Mrs cum in just two min of licking but it will be different with another woman. "

I don't like nibbling or sucking

licking and fingering at the same time I love

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I've had both good n bad and some of the bad ones didn't respond well to direction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had both good n bad and some of the bad ones didn't respond well to direction

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I rather have direction though every lady is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Female here

I never knew it could be done badly until I experienced it! I guess id been really lucky up until then!

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Nice and slow kissing and licking at first

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

"Lots of guys don't know what they are doing that's true but some have figured out a good bit of pressure on a woman's bladder and they can get her to piss her self.

Shhh you mean squirt!

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

This is where it’s important to read a ladies emotions. Every woman is different and what pleases one person doesn’t always please another. Listen, watch, eye contact etc is so important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys tend to be way too aggressive with the clit. Also, ladies please try to guide the person eating you out either verbally or by repositioning with hips/hands, as sometimes it's hard to tell whether you like it or not!

My personal struggle is keeping a steady pace, as I start liking and sucking faster as she nears orgasm due to the excitement, which can be counterproductive haha

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"So far in all our meets only two or three men could actually lick a pussy.

The worst was when a guy was actually nibbling the clit making it more sensitive and putting off.

Some guys especially young ones who take good time to find the clit itself lol

I can make my Mrs cum in just two min of licking but it will be different with another woman.

I don't like nibbling or sucking

licking and fingering at the same time I love

I don't like being licked and fingered at the same time. It really puts me off and I can't relax. Licked and a finger in my arse though is a different story

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By *ittlebitofpleasure100 OP Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Guys tend to be way too aggressive with the clit. Also, ladies please try to guide the person eating you out either verbally or by repositioning with hips/hands, as sometimes it's hard to tell whether you like it or not!

My personal struggle is keeping a steady pace, as I start liking and sucking faster as she nears orgasm due to the excitement, which can be counterproductive haha"

I like your way of thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember when I was younger 3 different women showed me how they liked to be kissed and all 3 were completely different.

Same with licking, some women want you to focus just on the clit and use your fingers, some want you to suck on the fanny like you're drinking from the fountain of life and some like it a bit in between.

Saying men are rubbish because they cannot immediately discern how you like it done is funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had anyone bad at giving oral. But I always direct where necessary. If women can't say what they like and don't like then maybe casual sex isn't for them.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"I've never had anyone bad at giving oral. But I always direct where necessary. If women can't say what they like and don't like then maybe casual sex isn't for them. "

Directing is men is a positive thing! Communication is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive always avoided it where possible as never enjoyed it. But Beast has worked with me to relax enough and I've actually found that in the weeks we have had apart I've been missing his mouth on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never had anyone bad at giving oral. But I always direct where necessary. If women can't say what they like and don't like then maybe casual sex isn't for them.

Directing is men is a positive thing! Communication is a must

I agree, my ex use to say i should be able to tell by her noises. She never complained though

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"I've never had anyone bad at giving oral. But I always direct where necessary. If women can't say what they like and don't like then maybe casual sex isn't for them.

Directing is men is a positive thing! Communication is a must

I agree, my ex use to say i should be able to tell by her noises. She never complained though"

That’s why cold meets are not for me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Tell the man what’s working and what isn’t.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

Don’t lick pussy like a dog eating an ice cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve fallen asleep before lol

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"I’ve fallen asleep before lol"

Shit, was it that bad?

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

"OK, so this one is for us girls.

Thoughts? X"

If im doing it to someone new i start off using my own technique to gauge the ladies reaction, then if its working obviously i will keep going, if its not obvious, i have no qualms about asking what she wants.. its not embarrassing guys, come on.. its about giving pleasure, and id rather ask and give her pleasure, than keep going and never see her again because of being selfish and not giving a shot about giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go of body language. If that fails ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve fallen asleep before lol

Shit, was it that bad?

It was more relaxing than bad

I was tired anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont let anyone go down on me now as I have had too ma y terrible experiences of bad oral. .not just of me either. It has put me right off receiving but has made me more aware of how to perform it. Haha x

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"I’ve fallen asleep before lol

Shit, was it that bad?

It was more relaxing than bad

I was tired anyway. "

Wow I think I’ve just find a new career! I could offer a therapy for total relaxation

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can it be done wrong? Hardly rocket science surely?

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

Hahaha your username

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Love to lick a good pussy but even better when you see them enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love to lick a good pussy but even better when you see them enjoying it"

THAT is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm available for show any of you ladies and you can tell me if I'm doing it right or wrong.. LOL "
love it I'll stand side to that offer

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By *mileysimieMan
over a year ago

tewkesbury

I find that licking pussy is an absolute art, even with the same person they might want it a different way on a different time, so gents you need to use your other senses, Listen for tone changes in her voice, read her body language and if she takes hold of your head and moves it, don’t move it back go where she exactly need you to be

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"I’ve fallen asleep before lol

Shit, was it that bad?

It was more relaxing than bad

I was tired anyway. "

Interesting effect.

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England

Have you ever tried talking to your partners or do you just lay there in silence waiting for it to be over and then post on a forum about how bad it was.

Communication is key.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"Have you ever tried talking to your partners or do you just lay there in silence waiting for it to be over and then post on a forum about how bad it was.

Communication is key."

My thoughts exactly

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad oral really turns me off and then makes me not wanting to have sex tbh"

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men appreciate direction so as to ensure full pleasure is given

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Sadly not all men appreciate being given directions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice practice practice

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

For me, it's a polite way of saying no more please!!!

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"Practice practice practice "

Absolutely!

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"Sadly not all men appreciate being given directions "

I love advice

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Not very many are good at it .... when it’s done properly it’s mind blowing . Too many just lap about at it .... I need firm pressure

which will ame me squirt but then again good communication helps

Im more a slow and sensual licking just like my kissing "

Annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm extremely ticklish and not in a good way at all. If he has a beard I can't have my pussy eaten, I kick out, I can't help it

I'm super attracted to guys with beards though so it kills me.

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maybe try and get them to wear a hair net then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sadly not all men appreciate being given directions "

Very true, but a woman's pleasure should be thier pleasure, you know your body better than anyone, so communicatiin is vital.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I've had both good n bad and some of the bad ones didn't respond well to direction

I rather have direction though every lady is different

Exactly.

I had one guy basically tell me he knew better than me as to what I'd enjoy - He was wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had both good n bad and some of the bad ones didn't respond well to direction

I rather have direction though every lady is different

Exactly.

I had one guy basically tell me he knew better than me as to what I'd enjoy - He was wrong

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I do as I am told well sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm extremely ticklish and not in a good way at all. If he has a beard I can't have my pussy eaten, I kick out, I can't help it

I'm super attracted to guys with beards though so it kills me.

You just need a guy with a long tongue

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By *layfulAussieMan
over a year ago

Sydney

"Sadly not all men appreciate being given directions "

Direction taken very well here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of guys don't know what they are doing that's true but some have figured out a good bit of pressure on a woman's bladder and they can get her to piss her self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on messages from some women on this thread, we can conclude that different women like it to be done differently. Some women like continuous pleasure on the clit, some like a long lick from the bottom of vagina. Some like fingering together with it, some don't. There are too many factors like nerve endings and experience which determine how a woman likes cunnilingus.

So, just with any other sexual activity, communication helps I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sadly not all men appreciate being given directions "

I love the thought of being given directions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like nibbling or sucking

licking and fingering at the same time I love

True .

Exactly what i found out what the Mrs likes , licking and fingering but not vigorous but deep and slow with planting some kisses on the clit,labia and inner thighs.

Sometimes blowing the wind on the wet pussy also helps the juices flowing .

It does works wonders .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Based on messages from some women on this thread, we can conclude that different women like it to be done differently. Some women like continuous pleasure on the clit, some like a long lick from the bottom of vagina. Some like fingering together with it, some don't. There are too many factors like nerve endings and experience which determine how a woman likes cunnilingus.

So, just with any other sexual activity, communication helps I guess.

Eye contact does help a lot I believe and it says a lot if the lady is enjoying or not . Isn't ?

The upward rhythm of moving the bum is also a signal that the lady is getting pleasured well.

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is so different. Someone said their first proper girlfriend told him to lick it like a cat drinking milk. I think that would be fucking awful. I like a steady pressure on the clit. A woman I was with liked being licked/sucked on her labia. That would do nothing for me. You definitely need to let people know if it’s shit. But maybe don’t say it’s shit.

I didn’t really like receiving oral until I met my husband (sad I know) and then I was like oooh yeah better lock this down. And now I’d not even bother with a guy who isn’t interested in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sadly not all men appreciate being given directions "

Then they wouldn't get to fuck me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talented tongue enters the forum...

I’ve been told I’m really good at it quite a few times and I think that’s mainly because I enjoy it so much lol I love licking the woman’s pussy and watching her take pleasure in it and I’ll go for ages, different techniques, positions and all sorts

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By *ikemilfloverMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I find it’s about taking the time to understand the woman’s vagina and clitoris and how she likes to be licked and teased.

I think some guys aren’t prepared to take the time to please the woman and listen to what she wants, luckily I had a very good teacher when I was a lot younger !

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"I've had both good n bad and some of the bad ones didn't respond well to direction

I rather have direction though every lady is different

Exactly.

I had one guy basically tell me he knew better than me as to what I'd enjoy - He was wrong

Yes, I have had guys do the same

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

There is one thing that I hate, someone who flicks from one area to the other every couple of seconds. They start building you up licking your clit then a few seconds later they are tongue deep in your vagina. Each feels amazing but please pick one so I can cum!!! That is when the head get grabbed. Stay put please lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, just with any other sexual activity, communication helps I guess.

Eye contact does help a lot I believe and it says a lot if the lady is enjoying or not . Isn't ?

The upward rhythm of moving the bum is also a signal that the lady is getting pleasured well.

Lol "

Yeah. That's true. I have heard about some men being so engrossed in what they do that they totally forget to notice how the lady is reacting.

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