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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why is it soon as a bloke puts a condom on they go limp ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it soon as a bloke puts a condom on they go limp ? "

have you ever tried wanking in rubber gloves...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not all do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we must just be unlucky lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had a few who struggle but over all i find most men i meet are ok with condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for some guys the condom is a sign that they have to perform - pressure knocks the confidence and deflates the pleasure stick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the last 4 meets 3 no chance the 4th one got there in the end lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not a problem iv ever had! if it was then id be feckin celibate! no glove no love! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the last 4 meets 3 no chance the 4th one got there in the end lol x"

that could be nerves

it can be very intimidating meeting a couple when you single

maybe because im single guys feel more relaxed with me and could be why it happens to you more than it does me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it soon as a bloke puts a condom on they go limp ? "

Never had a problem with them if a woman puts it on! It's the way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many men do.. I can be playing with a guy who is rock solid.. get to the fucking part.. give him the condom... and its gone..

Sometimes never to return.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im extremely horny i wont even notice i have it on.....but if ive been having sex a lot or been wanking a lot then the condom going on will lose my sensitivity!

This is not good as i take a lot of attention to keep my cock interested

Some of the above comments are true regarding nerves, i remember my first couple meet, i was a bag of nerves and struggled, but she was very considerate, gave me a breather and then slowly began some foreplay and i found my stride. If this had been a couple with no patience or consideration it could have left me feeling very bad about myself

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"why is it soon as a bloke puts a condom on they go limp ? "

doesnt for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most don't but I have had some complete disasters!!!

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By *ucktruckCouple
over a year ago

derby

Angel has a knack of puttin them on with her mouth - shes never had anyone go limp that way LOL.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Angel has a knack of puttin them on with her mouth - shes never had anyone go limp that way LOL."

yup works for me

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

I think I have to try this just to give an independent, unbiased view.....

Lol,

I have another conunderium, what or where is a bloke supposed to put, carry condoms in a (naked) club?

carrying them around seems to imply expectations. which is not the impression I want to give!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not all do "

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That's my experience too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only really had a problem when it has got to the 'third' session of the meet, i think its because mind is else where when putting them on. You have got to pause the foreplay to put it on. Much better if the woman is involved in putting the condom on.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I think I have to try this just to give an independent, unbiased view.....

Lol,

I have another conunderium, what or where is a bloke supposed to put, carry condoms in a (naked) club?

carrying them around seems to imply expectations. which is not the impression I want to give!!!!

"

No, i would say carrying them implies respect and good sense...seriously the only thing worse than a man going back to his locker for him is not having any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I have to try this just to give an independent, unbiased view.....

Lol,

I have another conunderium, what or where is a bloke supposed to put, carry condoms in a (naked) club?

carrying them around seems to imply expectations. which is not the impression I want to give!!!!

No, i would say carrying them implies respect and good sense...seriously the only thing worse than a man going back to his locker for him is not having any.

"

That's a good question actually, one I've wondered about too. Is it normal to carry a maxi pack of condoms under one's arm in a club?

No really.... seriously... what do people carry them in? Bumbag? Tesco carrier bag? Is it like dancing round handbags at a disco? It's one of those questions I honestly don't know the answer to!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I have to try this just to give an independent, unbiased view.....

Lol,

I have another conunderium, what or where is a bloke supposed to put, carry condoms in a (naked) club?

carrying them around seems to imply expectations. which is not the impression I want to give!!!!

"

but surely we go to clubs for sex, we all know what we are there for so why wouldnt you want to give that impression, i expect a shag when i go lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I think I have to try this just to give an independent, unbiased view.....

Lol,

I have another conunderium, what or where is a bloke supposed to put, carry condoms in a (naked) club?

carrying them around seems to imply expectations. which is not the impression I want to give!!!!

No, i would say carrying them implies respect and good sense...seriously the only thing worse than a man going back to his locker for him is not having any.

That's a good question actually, one I've wondered about too. Is it normal to carry a maxi pack of condoms under one's arm in a club?

No really.... seriously... what do people carry them in? Bumbag? Tesco carrier bag? Is it like dancing round handbags at a disco? It's one of those questions I honestly don't know the answer to!! "

i have a fuck bag, as do many other couples i know, a nice clutch bag big enough to keep condoms lube ect in.

Other people i know have bigger toy bags, it really depends what you are taking.

Man often tuck condoms under their locker bag in towel clubs.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i meant locker key band

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i have a fuck bag, as do many other couples i know, a nice clutch bag big enough to keep condoms lube ect in.

Other people i know have bigger toy bags, it really depends what you are taking.

Man often tuck condoms under their locker bag in towel clubs."

Ah cool, thanks. A clutch bag sounds good.

I do have a toy bag but it's a very heavy holdall (I have a lot of cuffs, toys, crop etc ) Don't think I'll lug that along with me.

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By *amBiUKMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Not to me !

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


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i have a fuck bag, as do many other couples i know, a nice clutch bag big enough to keep condoms lube ect in.

Other people i know have bigger toy bags, it really depends what you are taking.

Man often tuck condoms under their locker bag in towel clubs.

Ah cool, thanks. A clutch bag sounds good.

I do have a toy bag but it's a very heavy holdall (I have a lot of cuffs, toys, crop etc ) Don't think I'll lug that along with me. "

i have a few to match different outfits,charity shops are great for finding them.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

An old zip in electric razor case is the ideal size. I have seen many men carry these or similar. Just enough room for condoms, key, lube, wipes, smokes etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cos the cock aint playing lol

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"I think I have to try this just to give an independent, unbiased view.....

Lol,

I have another conunderium, what or where is a bloke supposed to put, carry condoms in a (naked) club?

carrying them around seems to imply expectations. which is not the impression I want to give!!!!

but surely we go to clubs for sex, we all know what we are there for so why wouldnt you want to give that impression, i expect a shag when i go lol "

Well yes, but would you really want some guy coming up to you effectively waving condoms in your face, a discreet small washbag or something might be just the thing, afterall you ladies are always telling us you don't like pushy blokes!

Then we might actually get to have sex. Lol,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the last 4 meets 3 no chance the 4th one got there in the end lol x"

You definitely have been unlucky. I never have had problems with condoms. To me putting the condom on is the sign I am about to enjoy penetrating a nice pussy making me even go harder, nice!

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