FabSwingers.com forum: how to seduce a mature woman ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've always wanted to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy her a stair lift and a walk in bath...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or fruit jellys.

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By *ssexhamptonMan
over a year ago

Rayleigh

Coffee and cake.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Horlicks or Ovaltine

Works every time

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By *igchopper87Man
over a year ago

eastbourne

Offer to pay for a nice South facing plot of land and a promise of the finest granite money can buy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Werther's originals everytime lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

mature women are just women who got old. The best way to get involved with a mature woman is to talk to them and find out what makes them tick

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *ookie61Man
over a year ago

Malton

Treat them like any other woman....you might be surprised to find they're no different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treat them like any other woman....you might be surprised to find they're no different "

That's bollocks! There's no way I'm looking for the same as a 20 something on here!!!

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Send them a dick pic & a "how you doing?" message. That always works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treat them like any other woman....you might be surprised to find they're no different

That's bollocks! There's no way I'm looking for the same as a 20 something on here!!!

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What you looking for ?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We know what we like and know how to get it

If you don’t have the formula, never gonna happen.

Mrs M 03/01/2020

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By *ookie61Man
over a year ago

Malton

I didn't mean to offend with my answer..I always treat every woman the same regardless of age, always polite and never pushy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

it's not my style and probably most of the guys do that...

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast

"I didn't mean to offend with my answer..I always treat every woman the same regardless of age, always polite and never pushy"

Don’t worry about it, some people on here love being offended, they’re even offended if they don’t get offended

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"I've always wanted to try

That leads me to wonder if you normally go for immature women?

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello Op,

Well the first step to seduce a more mature woman is to check she wants to meet people of your age. If she does, then message, arrange a meet and at that point... now this is crucial.... seduce her like you would any other woman. Her age means nothing at that point to you or her, she has met you because she wants to, and as long as your being a decent human being then what could go wrong.

Just don't wipe your dick on the curtains.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Werther's originals everytime lol "

Thats kids

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West

lol. Love it...

Not wiped my dick on the curtains for over 30 years lol...

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By *ixen500Couple
over a year ago

some where near shropshire

Not quite sure what to make of these forums ....people obviously dont take them Serious with some of these answers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice trip to the garden centre and a spot of lunch at the harvester...

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By *lim Jim 69Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Not quite sure what to make of these forums ....people obviously dont take them Serious with some of these answers lol"

They are making me smile lol

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"I've always wanted to try

Start by not calling her mature

Ms Icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Murray mints or extra strong mints work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trip to the sea side... but never actually leave your car, just park along the front and drink tea out of a thermos flask ... romantic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trip to the sea side... but never actually leave your car, just park along the front and drink tea out of a thermos flask ... romantic "

But, I don't like the taste of tea out of a thermos!

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

"Trip to the sea side... but never actually leave your car, just park along the front and drink tea out of a thermos flask ... romantic

But, I don't like the taste of tea out of a thermos!

And a nice tartan blanket to throw over my knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trip to the sea side... but never actually leave your car, just park along the front and drink tea out of a thermos flask ... romantic

But, I don't like the taste of tea out of a thermos!

And a nice tartan blanket to throw over my knees "

Oohh I might need that... Stop me old arthritic knees from seizing up

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By *erriAnneTV/TS
over a year ago

The shire

"Buy her a stair lift and a walk in bath..."

Never could understand a walk in Bath. Surely the feet would be all wrinkled by the time the knees would get warm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Horlicks or Ovaltine

Works every time

Well in that case I have both

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

They are just more experienced psychopaths lol

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

For me, it just clicked, mutual spark. We talked just like anyone else. It was a swinger party, which helped, but I wasn't aiming for an older woman, it just happened naturally. Been hooked as my wish list ever since,

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Take her to visit your nan.

They will have lots in common apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't mean to offend with my answer..I always treat every woman the same regardless of age, always polite and never pushy"

I wouldn't apologise mate, some idiots on here get 'offended' at the slightest thing. Just goes to show how weak they are if an honest answer offends them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to have a laugh and not take things to seriously. But was the guy who asked the original question looking for advice or to be ridiculed. I am sitting on the fence on this. A mature woman is like any other woman. Needs and should be treated with respect.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I've always wanted to try

Treat her the same as you would any Lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trip to the sea side... but never actually leave your car, just park along the front and drink tea out of a thermos flask ... romantic

But, I don't like the taste of tea out of a thermos!

Ok what about a coach trip to Keswick pencil museum and their in house tea rooms for a scone and a pot of homemade jam....

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Buy her a stair lift and a walk in bath..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's good to have a laugh and not take things to seriously. But was the guy who asked the original question looking for advice or to be ridiculed. I am sitting on the fence on this. A mature woman is like any other woman. Needs and should be treated with respect. "

That's the irony ...and I think the reason he's getting lots of sarcastic suggestions....what even constitutes a mature woman and why would you treat a more mature woman any different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her you're a saga lout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mature women tend to take the lead, not mess about and are very confident. They’ve seen and done it all so know exactly what they want. If you ask nicely they’ll often let you do things you’ve only read about in magazines (not crosswords!!).

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A lot of sarcasm, generalisation and lack of empathy going on here.

What a shame that younger single men aren't shown a more welcoming side to the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dated a woman 21 years older than me for about 8 months, she was in her late 60s and still a fitness instructor, absolutely lovely woman. How did I seduce her, with a little more tact maybe, but still wooed her like any other woman, I disnr rush her or throw the lips on at the first opportunity, however we had really good sex for a while and then I moved away with work, which killed it off.

Ok I'm no youngster myself, I'm passing through middle age like a comet through the night sky, but being with an older woman, even at my age was still a thrill, I loved being a middle aged toy boy

I'd suggest when it comes to swinging, be respectful, read their profile (seems crazy to have to point that out, but by the number of single men that message us it's patently obvious most don't), take on board what they want and what they're looking for, read their verifications and the verifications they've left for others. In other words, do your homework, if nothing else it will make people feel like you're interested in them and not just their body, a point many single men miss.

The first couple I met when swinging were much older, the husband was very much the gate keeper, and if people didn't come across genuine and sincere they were told to get lost sharpish. Great first meet, great intro to swinging and a memory I'm happy to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dated a woman 21 years older than me for about 8 months, she was in her late 60s and still a fitness instructor, absolutely lovely woman. How did I seduce her, with a little more tact maybe, but still wooed her like any other woman, I disnr rush her or throw the lips on at the first opportunity, however we had really good sex for a while and then I moved away with work, which killed it off.

Ok I'm no youngster myself, I'm passing through middle age like a comet through the night sky, but being with an older woman, even at my age was still a thrill, I loved being a middle aged toy boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passionate kissing before anything else sexual always works, if you can make her pussy wet just from kissing her lips she’s all yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always wanted to try

Read their profiles. Don't assume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trip to the sea side... but never actually leave your car, just park along the front and drink tea out of a thermos flask ... romantic

But, I don't like the taste of tea out of a thermos!

Ok what about a coach trip to Keswick pencil museum and their in house tea rooms for a scone and a pot of homemade jam...."

Oohh I'm in!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some tea and scones would be a good social meet for me

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By *hejzxMan
over a year ago

N.E Lincolnshire

Just don't wipe your dick on the curtains."

That's ruined my future prospects then ??

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By *hejzxMan
over a year ago

N.E Lincolnshire

Quite depressing really being a young lad on the site myself and maybe five percent of the comments are actually helpful and answer the OPs question.

I have wanted to try and have an older lady but not worked for me yet. I've heard people have more luck with an older lady in a nightclub, don't know if there's any accuracy to that, may be down to local trends I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some tea and scones would be a good social meet for me

No probs.. last count Dave the driver said there where 8 spaces left...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some tea and scones would be a good social meet for me

No probs.. last count Dave the driver said there where 8 spaces left..."

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trip to the sea side... but never actually leave your car, just park along the front and drink tea out of a thermos flask ... romantic

But, I don't like the taste of tea out of a thermos!

Ok what about a coach trip to Keswick pencil museum and their in house tea rooms for a scone and a pot of homemade jam....

Oohh I'm in!!!

Excellent ...all booked...bring your pack a mac as it could rain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottom line.. Treat her with respect like you would every woman, eat her pussy and when she messages, don't wait a week to message back.. Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Murray mints or extra strong mints work for me

Always got a extra strong mint on me ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite depressing really being a young lad on the site myself and maybe five percent of the comments are actually helpful and answer the OPs question.

Ok your 20... so I guess any lady over say 35/40 would be mature to you ?...if so ...get yourself a smart haircut... some clean jeans...smother yourself from head to toe in lynx Africa...have a few quid in your pocket and get yourself in wheatherspoons/ Yates wine lodge/ or any pub/bar where the drinks are cheap tonight.. don't go too early ..say about 8.30...and if by 10.o'clock you haven't got at least 2 GILF's hanging off every word your saying and offering to suck you off for a Keebab...well then I'd quit the dating game and become a monk....

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By *ants cockWoman
over a year ago

lincoln

"I've always wanted to try

How to seduce a mature woman?

Don’t call her mature

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"A lot of sarcasm, generalisation and lack of empathy going on here.

What a shame that younger single men aren't shown a more welcoming side to the forum.

Its just light hearted fun.

They're young so will get it.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Immaturity for me is a turn off at any age.

The thought that I might be your kink or a challenge is also a turn off.

The words 'I've always wanted to have an older woman' are a turn off.

Just treat women like intelligent humans not your plaything... unless that's what you are both wanting.

A younger man would have to catch my attention with his personality or we would have to have major chemistry.

For me, its very likely to happen through fab.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We're meeting a man younger than our power age limit soon. He approached us, spoke to us in the same way he spoke to every one else and piqued our interest. Critically he has the same interests as us.

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By *hejzxMan
over a year ago

N.E Lincolnshire

"Quite depressing really being a young lad on the site myself and maybe five percent of the comments are actually helpful and answer the OPs question.

That seems a plan and a half, will have to give that a try and feedback to you. I dress quite smart anyway as had a good upbringing and my day job is a structural engineer so I have to be suited and booted a lot lmao.

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're meeting a man younger than our power age limit soon. He approached us, spoke to us in the same way he spoke to every one else and piqued our interest. Critically he has the same interests as us."

Lucky guy! Hmm so are you daying that having similar interests may fo the trick?

Haha I need to get myself some interests...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Offer to pay for a nice South facing plot of land and a promise of the finest granite money can buy "

Pmsl.. love it..

Harry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite depressing really being a young lad on the site myself and maybe five percent of the comments are actually helpful and answer the OPs question.

Just curious about why you 'want' an older lady? What are you wanting or expecting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take her to the bingo

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Lucky guy! Hmm so are you daying that having similar interests may fo the trick?

Haha I need to get myself some interests...

Lol. Similar interests, the possibility that we might learn something from him he we like him. There's no trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always wanted to try

Beat me on the bottom with a women's weekly Tee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite depressing really being a young lad on the site myself and maybe five percent of the comments are actually helpful and answer the OPs question.

Thankyou

O "

Do not go into weatherspoons in a suit...you will get glassed as people will think your a copper or work for the social....stay safe and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking from my own perspective, as it's impossible for me to speak from anyone else's

telling me things you think I want to hear, that are impossible for you to know or assuming you know what I would want would be an instant and definite "no thanks".

At the end of the day the goal for men on this site is sex. They can protest all you like but ultimately they want a shag.

Thing is I know what I want and would make you work harder for what you want. I will only engage when I actually feel like it and not just because you wanted it.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Treat them with respect, be kind and polite, , wine them dine them and 69 them ,

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By *ixen500Couple
over a year ago

some where near shropshire

"A lot of sarcasm, generalisation and lack of empathy going on here.

What a shame that younger single men aren't shown a more welcoming side to the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t be an immature dick is my advise...far too many of those on here already

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I didn't mean to offend with my answer..I always treat every woman the same regardless of age, always polite and never pushy"

I think there's the op's answer tred on egg shell's as some get a bit 'aggy' with age

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

"mature women are just women who got old. The best way to get involved with a mature woman is to talk to them and find out what makes them tick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another bit of wisdom

Before going on a meet....remind her to put on an extra HRT patch...or you could end up arguing about who's the best loose woman...( day time show for over 40s ladies ) after a couple of gins.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

When out in Glasgow with my wife would love for someone to flirt with her

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By *atureMischiefCouple
over a year ago

Lutterworth

"Not quite sure what to make of these forums ....people obviously dont take them Serious with some of these answers lol"

‘Some’ of the posts don’t warrant a serious answer in our humble opinion lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be respectful ( just like you should be to any other woman )

Instead of striking the conversation with " spit or swallow " get to know them, what they enjoy doing ( not necessarily sexually just in general ) just be polite, respectful and see how it goes.

However this shouldn't be for just older women, this should be all across the board. I've always said, just because a woman is on here doesn't mean she deserves to be treated like a piece of meat.

Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With polo mints!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting to know her and putting a big smile on her face

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

With a bag of worthers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would kiss around your neck down towards your nipples and slowly circle my tongue around your nipples till they go fully erect then I’ll slowly kiss down towards your inner thighs then I’ll slowly part your pussy lips and feel your clit down and around into your pussy and feel your pussy getting wetter and wetter until you full body orgasmed and body starts to arch and toes starry to curl up as your orgasm reaches max Then I’ll make love to her with my circumsied smooth silky helmet

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By *exsenceCouple
over a year ago

stalybridge

Being 51 I like a person to just be themselves, if she likes you she will meet you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always wanted to try

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a gift of fixadent they love it

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Just Message "hi" it works every time Xx

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send them a dick pic & a "how you doing?" message. That always works "

So that's where I've been going wrong?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"With a bag of worthers

You might want to try Werthers but they are better known as Pe@do sweets

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By *ohn julie 500Couple
over a year ago

leeds

is that what works for you lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I've always wanted to try

Start by the lessons around drinking gorgeous aged wine.

Make sure the laying down is good....

(Your turn)

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I've always wanted to try

Start by the lessons around drinking gorgeous aged wine.

Make sure the laying down is good....

(Your turn)

Okay I’ll keep going, savour her, in many way, let you tongue explore what she has to offer.

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By *rad110Man
over a year ago

rayliegh

Fuck her daughter lol

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