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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are sick of getting random friends requests from profiles you know you will never get to meet.

I sent this as a reply to such a request.

Thanks for the friends request guys you look like a hot couple.

But you are 170 miles away and have 1 veri for a meet one year ago. So what are the chances we would actually meet? Xx

Harsh but fair? X

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We are sick of getting random friends requests from profiles you know you will never get to meet.

I sent this as a reply to such a request.

Thanks for the friends request guys you look like a hot couple.

But you are 170 miles away and have 1 veri for a meet one year ago. So what are the chances we would actually meet? Xx

Harsh but fair? X "

FAIR!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely fair..

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By *omfilthMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Fair.... but I think some profiles will send a request just to perv at your private pics..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a bit more dignified just to have ignored the friends request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wait till they go offline. Look at friends pics then delete. But fab a pic so they know I've been in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally fair. Unless you are going near them or they you for something (a weekend away etc) then no point.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"We are sick of getting random friends requests from profiles you know you will never get to meet.

I sent this as a reply to such a request.

Thanks for the friends request guys you look like a hot couple.

But you are 170 miles away and have 1 veri for a meet one year ago. So what are the chances we would actually meet? Xx

Harsh but fair? X "

Very generous. I really dislike people sending random friend requests when we have never spoken...

I state in My profile that if they send a friend request out of the blue. I will tell them to f**k off.

They are often not amused to receive that as their reply . Should have read my profile then.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"We are sick of getting random friends requests from profiles you know you will never get to meet.

I sent this as a reply to such a request.

Thanks for the friends request guys you look like a hot couple.

But you are 170 miles away and have 1 veri for a meet one year ago. So what are the chances we would actually meet? Xx

Harsh but fair? X

Very generous. I really dislike people sending random friend requests when we have never spoken...

I state in My profile that if they send a friend request out of the blue. I will tell them to f**k off.

They are often not amused to receive that as their reply . Should have read my profile then. "

I just block them straight away their loss as they then miss out on my new public pics

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We are sick of getting random friends requests from profiles you know you will never get to meet.

I sent this as a reply to such a request.

Thanks for the friends request guys you look like a hot couple.

But you are 170 miles away and have 1 veri for a meet one year ago. So what are the chances we would actually meet? Xx

Harsh but fair? X "

IF that's exactly the way you put it then it doesn't come across as harsh at all, but almost definitely fair. On the balance of probability you're probably correct. From a personal perspective though I'd say I do message people some distance away as a) I know I will follow through with travelling a fair distance if we connect and b) I tend to go for quality over quantity, so won't rule out messaging someone who's profe I really like and who I find genuinely exciting, though I don't find it surprising or insulting if they ask similar questions to yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are sick of getting random friends requests from profiles you know you will never get to meet.

I sent this as a reply to such a request.

Thanks for the friends request guys you look like a hot couple.

But you are 170 miles away and have 1 veri for a meet one year ago. So what are the chances we would actually meet? Xx

Harsh but fair? X

Very generous. I really dislike people sending random friend requests when we have never spoken...

I state in My profile that if they send a friend request out of the blue. I will tell them to f**k off.

They are often not amused to receive that as their reply . Should have read my profile then. "

I have this on my profile too. No-one reads it. I have over 100 unanswered friend requests on my list. I keep 'em there so they can't send it again for however long they stay on the unanswered list. I will post a status about it but not using names obvs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair enough

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We are sick of getting random friends requests from profiles you know you will never get to meet.

I sent this as a reply to such a request.

Thanks for the friends request guys you look like a hot couple.

But you are 170 miles away and have 1 veri for a meet one year ago. So what are the chances we would actually meet? Xx

Harsh but fair? X

IF that's exactly the way you put it then it doesn't come across as harsh at all, but almost definitely fair. On the balance of probability you're probably correct. From a personal perspective though I'd say I do message people some distance away as a) I know I will follow through with travelling a fair distance if we connect and b) I tend to go for quality over quantity, so won't rule out messaging someone who's profe I really like and who I find genuinely exciting, though I don't find it surprising or insulting if they ask similar questions to yours. "

......although I would add that I NEVER send random friends requests to be honest - it comes across as rude, impersonal and utterly disrespectful.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Fair

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

Random friend requests are the FAB equivalent of walking up to a stranger in a pub, and looking at the pictures on their phone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfectly fair.

To be honest, I'd say it's much more than most would do. At least you're politely explaining why you won't be accepting their request

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

Definitely fair, we have the same problem quite often x

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton


"Definitely fair, we have the same problem quite often x"

Stern but fair haha

I tend to get a lot of friend requests from the exact opposite for what I’m looking for! That being said have been guilty of sending a friend request with first message to get noticed amongst the hordes of horny single men haha

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Totally fair unless you want to see there photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firm but fair and should they expect anything less really??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone I was feeling a bit of a c++t for sending it (but only a little)

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Thanks everyone I was feeling a bit of a c++t for sending it (but only a little)

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Everyone has a threshold for lack of manners eventually. Don't sweat it!

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