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"There seemed to be threads that catered for other groups it seemed unfair there wasn"t a thread for you ladies " unfortunately threads about slim/athletic/average women frequently take a downturn. I think people are wary of starting or contributing | |||
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"There seemed to be threads that catered for other groups it seemed unfair there wasn"t a thread for you ladies unfortunately threads about slim/athletic/average women frequently take a downturn. I think people are wary of starting or contributing " Who was it that said print and be damned ? | |||
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"Nice broad spectrum that I fit quite snuggly into " 100% | |||
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"First visit for a while, think this applies to me... xx" Couldn’t agree more x | |||
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"There seemed to be threads that catered for other groups it seemed unfair there wasn"t a thread for you ladies unfortunately threads about slim/athletic/average women frequently take a downturn. I think people are wary of starting or contributing Who was it that said print and be damned ? " Duke of Wellington ...?! | |||
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"There seemed to be threads that catered for other groups it seemed unfair there wasn"t a thread for you ladies unfortunately threads about slim/athletic/average women frequently take a downturn. I think people are wary of starting or contributing Who was it that said print and be damned ? Duke of Wellington ...?! " I admit I googled and it was apparently | |||
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"There seemed to be threads that catered for other groups it seemed unfair there wasn"t a thread for you ladies unfortunately threads about slim/athletic/average women frequently take a downturn. I think people are wary of starting or contributing Who was it that said print and be damned ? Duke of Wellington ...?! I admit I googled and it was apparently " I did as well, gotta say I was thinking more twain or hemmingway every days a school day | |||
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"Why do so many beautiful and sexy people think of themselves as average? R thinks she is but so isn’t! So sexy without arrogance or attitude.... Eurgh! I hate the word average! I'd rather be grotesque than average. " I only used it as its a descriptor the site uses | |||
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"Why do so many beautiful and sexy people think of themselves as average? R thinks she is but so isn’t! So sexy without arrogance or attitude.... Eurgh! I hate the word average! I'd rather be grotesque than average. I only used it as its a descriptor the site uses " But average is so...meh! What sort of person thinks they're average!?? | |||
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"Why do so many beautiful and sexy people think of themselves as average? R thinks she is but so isn’t! So sexy without arrogance or attitude.... Eurgh! I hate the word average! I'd rather be grotesque than average. I only used it as its a descriptor the site uses " Nothing wrong with average | |||
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"This is me " I appreciate very much | |||
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"I am a skinny minnie . Gonna try and put weight on this year" I really don't think you need to, IMHO. | |||
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"There seemed to be threads that catered for other groups it seemed unfair there wasn"t a thread for you ladies unfortunately threads about slim/athletic/average women frequently take a downturn. I think people are wary of starting or contributing " Why are they wary? I'm genuinely interested, not trying to derail the thread | |||
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"There seemed to be threads that catered for other groups it seemed unfair there wasn"t a thread for you ladies unfortunately threads about slim/athletic/average women frequently take a downturn. I think people are wary of starting or contributing Why are they wary? I'm genuinely interested, not trying to derail the thread " Because the fat loving brigade gets defensive and offensive | |||
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"average here also x" What’s average if it’s your pictures you are very wrong. Stunning if you ask me. | |||
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"average here also x" Far from average and one of the funniest profiles I've had the pleasure of reading in a while..well done! | |||
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"There seemed to be threads that catered for other groups it seemed unfair there wasn"t a thread for you ladies unfortunately threads about slim/athletic/average women frequently take a downturn. I think people are wary of starting or contributing Why are they wary? I'm genuinely interested, not trying to derail the thread " because it sparks "discussion" around body type that is often not useful or informative | |||
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"There seemed to be threads that catered for other groups it seemed unfair there wasn"t a thread for you ladies unfortunately threads about slim/athletic/average women frequently take a downturn. I think people are wary of starting or contributing Why are they wary? I'm genuinely interested, not trying to derail the thread Because the fat loving brigade gets defensive and offensive" But why? That's so stupid. There's loads and loads of appreciation here for larger women, it doesn't make any sense? | |||
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"There seemed to be threads that catered for other groups it seemed unfair there wasn"t a thread for you ladies unfortunately threads about slim/athletic/average women frequently take a downturn. I think people are wary of starting or contributing Why are they wary? I'm genuinely interested, not trying to derail the thread Because the fat loving brigade gets defensive and offensive But why? That's so stupid. There's loads and loads of appreciation here for larger women, it doesn't make any sense? " I don't know. But you only have to look at the threads and the evidence is there. Men saying they don't like bones and women going on about their "curves "it's pathetic to watch. | |||
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"Just an observation: a lot of fit ladies describe themselves as average, curious " Probably because when we look in the mirror all we see are the flaws.. | |||
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"Just an observation: a lot of fit ladies describe themselves as average, curious Probably because when we look in the mirror all we see are the flaws.. " The seems sad really | |||
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"Just an observation: a lot of fit ladies describe themselves as average, curious Probably because when we look in the mirror all we see are the flaws.. The seems sad really " That | |||
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"Average here too! Rebecca xx" Wow. Just wow Rebecca you’re stunning x | |||
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"There seemed to be threads that catered for other groups it seemed unfair there wasn"t a thread for you ladies unfortunately threads about slim/athletic/average women frequently take a downturn. I think people are wary of starting or contributing Why are they wary? I'm genuinely interested, not trying to derail the thread Because the fat loving brigade gets defensive and offensive But why? That's so stupid. There's loads and loads of appreciation here for larger women, it doesn't make any sense? I don't know. But you only have to look at the threads and the evidence is there. Men saying they don't like bones and women going on about their "curves "it's pathetic to watch. " As a guy who likes slim/skinny/slender women, it seems to me too that there are lots of threads out there about appreciating curvy or larger women, but maybe that's because people with those body types feel under-appreciated or pressured to conform to the "ideal" catwalk model-esque body shape? I wonder too, if some guys are wary of sowing a liking of skinny women for fear of being seen as "fat-shaming" | |||
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"There seemed to be threads that catered for other groups it seemed unfair there wasn"t a thread for you ladies unfortunately threads about slim/athletic/average women frequently take a downturn. I think people are wary of starting or contributing Why are they wary? I'm genuinely interested, not trying to derail the thread Because the fat loving brigade gets defensive and offensive But why? That's so stupid. There's loads and loads of appreciation here for larger women, it doesn't make any sense? I don't know. But you only have to look at the threads and the evidence is there. Men saying they don't like bones and women going on about their "curves "it's pathetic to watch. As a guy who likes slim/skinny/slender women, it seems to me too that there are lots of threads out there about appreciating curvy or larger women, but maybe that's because people with those body types feel under-appreciated or pressured to conform to the "ideal" catwalk model-esque body shape? I wonder too, if some guys are wary of sowing a liking of skinny women for fear of being seen as "fat-shaming"" It's possible but expressing admiration for one body type in a respectful way isn't shaming anyone. | |||
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" As a guy who likes slim/skinny/slender women, it seems to me too that there are lots of threads out there about appreciating curvy or larger women, but maybe that's because people with those body types feel under-appreciated or pressured to conform to the "ideal" catwalk model-esque body shape? I wonder too, if some guys are wary of sowing a liking of skinny women for fear of being seen as "fat-shaming"" Maybe. I guess I wouldn't start a thread about how much I like men over six foot for the same reason, I wouldn't want anyone to think I was dissing shorter men. I find the bbw appreciation threads very distasteful and unnecessary myself but if they make other women feel appreciated then I'm glad. None of my regular fwbs, some of whom I've been seeing for years ever mentioned liking bigger women. I tend to avoid men who make a big issue of it. | |||
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"I’m happy to be average " You're definitely above average! | |||
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"Slim and athletic here So clubs have BBW theme nights, when are there going to be SBW nights to cater for us and the lovers thereof? " Well as someone has stated... Isn't that every other night? Or do you want an event that overweight women are explicitly not welcome at? Cos I believe a couple of clubs already cater for that. It's like asking for a straight pride event. The whole world is a straight pride event. You don't need an event to celebrate being straight cos no one gives you shit about it. Slim women are already (apparently) the perceived ideal so why would you need an event to remind you of it? | |||
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"Slim and athletic here So clubs have BBW theme nights, when are there going to be SBW nights to cater for us and the lovers thereof? Well as someone has stated... Isn't that every other night? Or do you want an event that overweight women are explicitly not welcome at? Cos I believe a couple of clubs already cater for that. It's like asking for a straight pride event. The whole world is a straight pride event. You don't need an event to celebrate being straight cos no one gives you shit about it. Slim women are already (apparently) the perceived ideal so why would you need an event to remind you of it? " BBW nights are comparable to pride events? Is that genuinely the purpose of them? I honestly thought they were evenings where the men and women who enjoyed that body shape could meet. I wouldn't go to such an evening, not because I have anything against BBW but because I assume I wouldn't be welcome. | |||
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"Slim and athletic here So clubs have BBW theme nights, when are there going to be SBW nights to cater for us and the lovers thereof? Well as someone has stated... Isn't that every other night? Or do you want an event that overweight women are explicitly not welcome at? Cos I believe a couple of clubs already cater for that. It's like asking for a straight pride event. The whole world is a straight pride event. You don't need an event to celebrate being straight cos no one gives you shit about it. Slim women are already (apparently) the perceived ideal so why would you need an event to remind you of it? BBW nights are comparable to pride events? Is that genuinely the purpose of them? I honestly thought they were evenings where the men and women who enjoyed that body shape could meet. I wouldn't go to such an evening, not because I have anything against BBW but because I assume I wouldn't be welcome." Is this derailing the thread? Cos I don't wanna do that or be seen as hostile. I've never been to a bbw event, nor would I, I'm a wonan, not a body type or fetish. I don't really know who's welcome and who isn't. What I meant was that if slim is the perceived ideal in the same way that heterosexuality is the perceived norm then you don't need an event to celebrate it. The world is there for you to celebrate in. Go to it | |||
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" Well hello there x" You are a fantastic example of what I think the OP is after xx | |||
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"Don't worry. No offence taken. My point is that most of the clubs we go to, BBWs are plentiful and encouraged (events laid on etc), but unless you go to an exclusive KK or LB style event, those who are of slighter build are not. For those who us that have or like slim bodies, small boobs etc the need is not just catered for in run of the mill clubs. Just as BBC events are catered for too. It is just finding that niche and the audience for it. Hope that makes sense. " If there was money to be made in it, the clubs would do it, so I'm guessing the general concensus is that it wouldn't gather enough interest. Or not as much as other nights. That's not me negging on it, I think it would be a decent idea, but there must be a reason they don't already. | |||
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