FabSwingers.com forum: Socials, Are they worth it?

By *rs Classy Slut OP Couple
over a year ago

selby

Time is precious to us and we have had a number of full on meets which have been great. We’ve been let down too, sat in a hotel wearing stockings and nobody to play with which left me feeling shit.

Is a ‘social’ a good bridge to a meet?

Is it still exciting?

Don’t you just want to rip each others clothes off?

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

There a good way to find out if there online persona matches the real world expectation

We met a couple socially and ended up been an amazing night

Ray

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Yes we enjoy socials,

Cheaper than a hotel room

Can see if the face matches their pics

Zero stress/pressure

Can always play straight after a social if everyone is inclined to take it further. Mrs dresses up under her clothes just in case.....

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We are at about 25% success rate for social working out to play. However, all the socials are fun, even the ones where you know at first glance that nothing will happen.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We cant even get socials at the moment. But yes we do like to meet socially first even if its just at the beginning of the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always meet socially first. We need to have a connection that is beyond a couple of messages and a few photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My bike related socials have been good fun.. And made some new friends... Play in the future is a bonus..but not expected...

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I prefer a social. Yes I’ve played after a few of them straight away. Others I’ve dodged a bullet. I wouldn’t go straight to a play meet in case there was no attraction.

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Have attended social events with a partner and solo... generally have found them to be a great way to break the ice and meet others in an environment where there are no expectations.

Saying that, you do have very specific 'desires' and looking at your [gorgeous] photographs i'm amazing anyone would let you down.

Perhaps chat more and/or cam with prospective guys before committing to a hotel maybe a better route?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always go for a social first, to make sure there is a chemistry and that we are all on the same page. Normally happy to play straight after if we all click.

It's a good way to take the pressure off and enjoy a bit of banter first.

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By *rs Classy Slut OP Couple
over a year ago

selby

Thanks all.

Makes me think they are a good idea.

I suppose it must still get your heart racing, nervous tension etc

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By *rs Classy Slut OP Couple
over a year ago

selby

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Yes a good way meeting without the expectation of anything happening.

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By *rs Classy Slut OP Couple
over a year ago

selby

"Have attended social events with a partner and solo... generally have found them to be a great way to break the ice and meet others in an environment where there are no expectations.

Saying that, you do have very specific 'desires' and looking at your [gorgeous] photographs i'm amazing anyone would let you down.

Perhaps chat more and/or cam with prospective guys before committing to a hotel maybe a better route?

Mrs classy slut: thanks and thanks for the compliments babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are always worth it.

Experience if nothing else!

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Certainly worth it as far as I'm concerned.

A chance to chat in person and see if the spark of attraction is still strong.

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

We always meet for a social first. You're sat there all dressed up, chatting and flirting. Everything is going well and you're dying to rip each others clothes off but can't. It's like a big tease. Makes the next meet, when you meet to play amazing because there has been such a big build up!

Gem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought the social was the talking bit before you start fucking?!......Yeah haven’t really got time to go out for chatting, may as well just get on with it if you at all click

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By *rs Classy Slut OP Couple
over a year ago

selby

"We always meet for a social first. You're sat there all dressed up, chatting and flirting. Everything is going well and you're dying to rip each others clothes off but can't. It's like a big tease. Makes the next meet, when you meet to play amazing because there has been such a big build up!

Gem"

MrsClassySlut: yes that sounds great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think so yes.

We've had quite a few socials which have led to playing s little further down the line.

We've also had socials that haven't. We have socials because we've have played on first meet and theres been no spark. Also we think it helps to settle things before the next stage x

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We like to have a social then if all agree move on to playing same day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had socials before meets too, its nice to have a few drinks with the couple and all have a good chat together and all ours have ended up with having fun with the couples afterwards too

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"My bike related socials have been good fun.. And made some new friends... Play in the future is a bonus..but not expected..."

I like the idea of bike related socials. Is it strictly ladies or can men pop along?

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"Thanks all.

Makes me think they are a good idea.

I suppose it must still get your heart racing, nervous tension etc"

I find there is still excitement with a social and I never assume I will play ever even on a so called play meet. I just go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was active on here I always tried to avoid socials if I could as it was hard enough trying to arrange a meet anyway. But the way we did it was to usually meet at mine for a glass of wine and chat and if all agreed it would progress to the bedroom (or lounge rug!). This would mainly be couples though so safety wasn’t an issue. I did meet a couple of ladies in a neutral venue close to mine with a view to play on the same night if all went well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always meet socially first. We need to have a connection that is beyond a couple of messages and a few photos.

xN"

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does a social really out the timewasters compared to an actual meet?

Turning up to a coffee/drink might still end up with time being wasted.

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By *ick_and_BickerCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Try out something like ours maybe.

Strictly social until 18:00 then for club entrance, folk can stay and enjoy the facilities naked should they want to.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

We always have a social people can look and chat different in the flesh ,usual we have to travel about an hour for a social so if its someone we have video chatted with too we have moved onto the bedroom after in some cases ,i usually dress up underneath just in case ..

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

"We always have a social people can look and chat different in the flesh ,usual we have to travel about an hour for a social so if its someone we have video chatted with too we have moved onto the bedroom after in some cases ,i usually dress up underneath just in case ..

Always best to dress up just in case !

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

a social is part of the build up you get to meet the guy , and the guy gets to meet you, there is the way you all get on is there an attraction, does the conversation flow , does the wife and guy flirt, yes very important part for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Time is precious to us and we have had a number of full on meets which have been great. We’ve been let down too, sat in a hotel wearing stockings and nobody to play with which left me feeling shit.

Is a ‘social’ a good bridge to a meet?

Is it still exciting?

Don’t you just want to rip each others clothes off?

Its a safe option, especially if you're single!

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By *lay2gether2018Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Socials in a club is a good idea but can't really see the point in a social in a regular bar..?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they are exciting and yes sometimes they lead to full on knickers off experiences

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"Try out something like ours maybe.

Strictly social until 18:00 then for club entrance, folk can stay and enjoy the facilities naked should they want to.

T."

Sounds a great concept. Shame I am not close to there.

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By *alker69Man
over a year ago

Accrington

After my experiences I'm deffo going with a social first for all my future meets....great way to break the ice and avoid any uncomfortable situations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have a social meet 1st. There's people who you talk to for weeks on here and you think that they are a perfect match for you. But when you meet them for a social they are nothing what you thought they were. Can't beat a good social especially when you click with whoever your meeting

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Most group socials, we go to a quite a few stay over in hotels near venue and meet up for pre drinks before social and then they just go back to hotel for play if intrested after social

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We prefer to meet socially at first, even if it's only an hour or two before we intend to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the best way to go about socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We prefer to meet socially at first, even if it's only an hour or two before we intend to play."
definitely the best way to go

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By *m A FuckerMan
over a year ago

kingswood,surrey/leysdown kent

"We prefer to meet socially at first, even if it's only an hour or two before we intend to play. definitely the best way to go

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yep agree

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Try out something like ours maybe.

Strictly social until 18:00 then for club entrance, folk can stay and enjoy the facilities naked should they want to.

T."

This social; highly recommended.

And there's cake.

Great people.

Cake.

Fantastic venue.

Cake.

Friendly and helpful management team.

Did I mention there's cake?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

As I met at home and don't play "nice" I had to feel comfortable with who I invited home. I also had to want to play with them.

Meeting for a social separated the wheat from the chaff for me: dodged many a bullet!

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