FabSwingers.com forum: Hidden Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

May have been posted before but does anybody else have same suspicion about profiles showing "verified profile" with no verifications showing?Our suspicion is that that member has more than one profile and verifies themselves?!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Or they have read the threads complaining about the type of veris people have and slut shaming womne with more than one.

If you think someone has a dodgy profile dont message them

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

it may not be as sinister as that...

some people just like privacy (i don't show anything too rude)

or it could be that the people who gave them the verification have left the site....

not always the worst you now....

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have veris...can't see them...have no interest in adverts...as that is what they are...nice to see what people think of you but...do not feel the need to show them...people know that I AM A REAL PERSON

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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I have to agree with you on this point , as i also get a bit suspicious . I did ask someone why they hid their verification and got the reply that theyd rather forget the experience as it wasnt one they cared to remember but also they only had the meet in order to get verified !

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

I know that someone has meen messaging people that have verified me, claiming to know me (althought they don't) and looking for a meet. Perhaps that's happened to them too and they are trying to avoid it happening again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

sorry we will add to this:-we have been asked to verify folk who we have never met or even messaged prior to a couple of emails leading to that request,got a feeling such folk would "get verified" by any means(by the way we report those who request such things!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does hiding verifications have to mean something bad, I hide them because if people have to rely on other peoples opinion of me and can't make up own mind I'm not sure I would want to meet them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i see someone on here who doesnt show his verifications, so you cant really say that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why bother with a verification system then? isn't it there to try and out timewasters?:-look at all the complaints/rants you see about those,we know they are an integral part of swinging but if something helps!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

All you can do is use the site how you wish, if you think hidden veri's are sinister then avoid people with hidden veri's

Personally I don't find anything sinister in it, but then we don't make verifications a must have when we talk/ meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont show mine. Its a privacy issue mainly and people can think what they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have hidden a verification that reveals more about us than we'd like to be visible on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose not to show my friends list and verifications from Day 1 back in Aug 2009, and does not appear to have done me any harm.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"why bother with a verification system then? isn't it there to try and out timewasters?:-look at all the complaints/rants you see about those,we know they are an integral part of swinging but if something helps!!"

Gut instinct works well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I want I show my veris if I don't I won't, it doesn't make me less real but as a single woman I do look very carefully at those with nothing to show on their profile, I like to get to know anyone I plan to meet and then only in public just to be sure

Sadly there r some freaks about and u do need to have ur wits about u

I must say though that my process works as never had a bad meet yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people like to be descret, i have met men who had good verifications saying what gentlemen they were and when i met them they were quite the oposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some verifications are so OTT and nauseating that they are worthy of a bucket!

I often wonder whether they are for real!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I dont want my veries on view. I like privacy.

Any way phone veries dont count and I have been seen on cam so people know im fem.. Dont have any meet veries so guess i'm not genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok we'll expand it a little:-hide ALL their verifications,not all can be over the top or reveal too much,can they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some verifications are so OTT and nauseating that they are worthy of a bucket!

I often wonder whether they are for real!

I know! some of mine actually make me sound f'kin brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have hidden a verification that reveals more about us than we'd like to be visible on our profile."

We had had a couple like this, lovely veris but too much information - names etc, still lovely to read if having a bad day

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

I was contacted by a lady with only one pics on profile. She's not photo verified, no verifications on profile that she has actually met someone on fab considering the profile showing she's been on the site for over 4-months.

And the profile text doesnt tell much either.

Anyway, i sent her my mobile number to call me and verify herself. Blimey, she called 24hrs later asking me to turn up about 50miles away. As i was about to jump on my motorbike for this meet, i had a second thought and send a text about my suspicion of probably turning up with a no-show, and suggested we arrange another time for her to come to mine and i would verify her afterwards.

She sound not impressed by this obviously and said she got a verification but it was hidden. 5mins later, a verification popped up on her profile showing a meet she had 4months ealier. I was gobsmacked and disappointed at myself for turning her down and apologised asking to meet her.

I sent 2 text messages with no single reply till now. But i dont know if i'm to be blamed for that or she need to accept the blame for not making her profile genuine enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was contacted by a lady with only one pics on profile. She's not photo verified, no verifications on profile that she has actually met someone on fab considering the profile showing she's been on the site for over 4-months.

And the profile text doesnt tell much either.

I sent 2 text messages with no single reply till now. But i dont know if i'm to be blamed for that or she need to accept the blame for not making her profile genuine enough"

how would you have felt if you had ridden the 50mls and she was bogus?

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

how would you have felt if you had ridden the 50mls and she was bogus?"

That was exactly what i pointed out to her to understand where i'm coming from.

I can never forget a couple that contacted me from another site. We chatted for weeks on phone and swap pics back and forth for 3weeks. All of a sudden, i got called to turn up. I turned up only to found out it was an empty house and their phone switched off. That was the end it. Never heard from them since then.

Once beaten, twice shy in my opinion. Verifications on profile was what attracted me to Fab and if you dont have one, you have to make that tiny effort of coming to mine or there will be no show. That seem too much to ask for some people since there are loads of blokes ready to take the risk and travel that long distance for a possible no-show. I'm not one of them unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I hide all mine

If people think I have something to hide its because I do......My verifications

If people think its dodgy then they don't have to contact me,I won't miss out and ill keep on having fun with people that are happy and able to work out for themselves whether or not someone is nice/genuine/compatible enough for them

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Fear , suspicion , paranoia , accusations : all born of ignorance and an inability to THINK.

Are you going to say outright to me that I have verified myself and have a fake profile somewhere ?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"I have veris...can't see them...have no interest in adverts...as that is what they are...nice to see what people think of you but...do not feel the need to show them...people know that I AM A REAL PERSON

Really, how?

Whilst you are not claiming to be a female or a couple, which means we can be pretty sure that you are what you say you are, having veri's hidden means we cant be sure you have ever turned up for a meet, and if you did, we dont have any idea of the kind of person you are.

We dont agree that it should be compulsory to show verifs, but those who hide them must know that people will draw their own conclusions.

Perhaps if you dont want people to know the intimate ins and outs of what you got up to, then ask any meets to be discreete in their verif?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or, god forbid, people dont wish to splash their sex life across the site?

Gooooooooood forbid!!!!!!

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

"I hide all mine

If people think I have something to hide its because I do......My verifications

With this, you're obviously missing out on meeting genuine people, and ofcourse a good fuck by genuine people. Sometimes, i bumped on profiles with no veris and just give it a miss. You have to prove you're not one of those sad people messing others about. Just one veri is not too much to ask, is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide all mine

If people think I have something to hide its because I do......My verifications

I do the same and def don't think I miss out at all so yes for me 1 veri is too much to ask

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

"Or, god forbid, people dont wish to splash their sex life across the site?

Gooooooooood forbid!!!!!!"

I dont get it. If dont dont wish to splash their sex life across the site, why did they bother creating a profile in the first place asking for a meet?

Making an effort to write a profile text is just same as getting verifications from other genuine site members that you're who you said you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some hide those from men, as they feel this puts off many women.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Really, how?

We dont agree that it should be compulsory to show verifs, but those who hide them must know that people will draw their own conclusions.

Perhaps if you dont want people to know the intimate ins and outs of what you got up to, then ask any meets to be discreete in their verif?

Is this your mum posting ? Not often I disagree with you but .... I disagree pffffft.

Is the opinion of a stranger enough to sway you to meet ? What if that stranger ( who wrote the veri ) is a scumbag fuckwit ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide most of mine because they have too much information in them. I just keep up a couple that prove I am who I say

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

"I hide all mine

If people think I have something to hide its because I do......My verifications

Just what is it that im missing out on?

I have loads of fun on here with some outstanding guys...........im happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or, god forbid, people dont wish to splash their sex life across the site?

Gooooooooood forbid!!!!!!

I dont get it. If dont dont wish to splash their sex life across the site, why did they bother creating a profile in the first place asking for a meet?

Making an effort to write a profile text is just same as getting verifications from other genuine site members that you're who you said you are."

Fair point but take my profile for example: clearly states that I will turn veris on for anyone who wishes to view. As for lack of interest, I certainly can't complain in that department.

If people are interested in someone then they should ask to see their veris. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine.

If someone can;t trust their own instincts as to whether I'm genuine or think someone elses opinion on my sexual prowess is a basis for meeting then to be honest I seriously doubt we are going to get on. I'd rather not meet someone who's logic in meeting me is swayed by a strangers opinion or view of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok we'll expand it a little:-hide ALL their verifications,not all can be over the top or reveal too much,can they?"

I choose not to show my veri's or my friends list cos it is noone's business but my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We show enough verifications to show we are genuine and that we don't just talk the talk .

Too many verifications are sometimes frowned on especially if they say the same thing .

To show none at all is eveyones prerogative but doesn't really say anything about the person from someone else's perspective or whether they meet regularly and we find the lack of published verifications sometimes dubious .

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"I hide all mine

If people think I have something to hide its because I do......My verifications

This is a very valid point too.

We use the verifs on a profile to give us a "feel" for the persons(s), if friends of ours verify them its a good pointer for us, but its also interaction in clubs, parties and socials that seals the deal, verifs are not the be all and end all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok we'll expand it a little:-hide ALL their verifications,not all can be over the top or reveal too much,can they?

I choose not to show my veri's or my friends list cos it is noone's business but my own.

Then you are saying verification system isn't worth a hoot,we thought it was there to try and show who is and isn't genuine(to a degree)Friends lists are a completely different thing,they have no bearing on whether a person is genuine or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hide most of mine because they have too much information in them. I just keep up a couple that prove I am who I say"

hiding most isn't the same as hiding all! lol

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone could set up another profile and verify themselves and then delete the other profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We show enough verifications to show we are genuine and that we don't just talk the talk .

Too many verifications are sometimes frowned on especially if they say the same thing .

Veri's help to prove the person or couple exist. Adide from that they don't prove how nice the person is, or even if they will mess you about. It's a chance you have to take, fair enough.

I feel bad for the bloke above somewhere that chatted for 3wks then they turned out to be fake.

This was a fair question. The OP is merely asking for people's opinions. Why do some people have to jump on it and start slagging the OP off for somehow being an idiot that can't think for themselves? It's incredibly rude, childish, and just pathetic. I think these forums say a darn sight more about how people are than any veri's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I have said before, I hide all mine from Day 1, and have not missed out on anything!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As I have said before, I hide all mine from Day 1, and have not missed out on anything!

how do you know??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had a message from a verified person and both the verifications were hidden or profile deleted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone could set up another profile and verify themselves and then delete the other profile"

One of our points,but if you delete a profile I think the verifications done by it also go

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

"As I have said before, I hide all mine from Day 1, and have not missed out on anything!

I could tell you now, you're missing out. If i happen to be an MP that swing, do you think i would contact someone with no single veri on their profile?

You think you're not missing out, but i could tell you are- from experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We show enough verifications to show we are genuine and that we don't just talk the talk .

Too many verifications are sometimes frowned on especially if they say the same thing .

Veri's help to prove the person or couple exist. Adide from that they don't prove how nice the person is, or even if they will mess you about. It's a chance you have to take, fair enough.

I feel bad for the bloke above somewhere that chatted for 3wks then they turned out to be fake.

Not noticed anybody slagging us off,if the have please point them out!

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

Those who are against or partially against publishing verifications on their profile, i'm sure you dont want to naively invite 'jack the ripper' type of people into your home thinking you're going to have a raunchy moment with them.

Verifications on profile was what attracted me to Fab and does make it stand out from other swingers sites really.

Think about it and publish atleast one on your profile with a profile text saying you dont buy intou the idea of publishing verifications. Im sure people would understand

Just a thought!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"We show enough verifications to show we are genuine and that we don't just talk the talk .

Too many verifications are sometimes frowned on especially if they say the same thing .

Veri's help to prove the person or couple exist. Adide from that they don't prove how nice the person is, or even if they will mess you about. It's a chance you have to take, fair enough.

I feel bad for the bloke above somewhere that chatted for 3wks then they turned out to be fake.

I've read and re read and no one has slagged the O.P off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone could set up another profile and verify themselves and then delete the other profile"

No they couldn't. The new profile would be unverified and unable to verify the existing one. And when you delete a profile your verifications go too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I have said before, I hide all mine from Day 1, and have not missed out on anything!

I could tell you now, you're missing out. If i happen to be an MP that swing, do you think i would contact someone with no single veri on their profile?

You think you're not missing out, but i could tell you are- from experience"

I'm sorry but I wouldn't want to meet anyone who thinks they can think for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It certainly seems the single women prefer to hide their verifications more than single men or couples - perhaps because they don't need to show them as they are no doubt inundated anyway !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those who are against or partially against publishing verifications on their profile, i'm sure you dont want to naively invite 'jack the ripper' type of people into your home thinking you're going to have a raunchy moment with them.

Verifications on profile was what attracted me to Fab and does make it stand out from other swingers sites really.

Think about it and publish atleast one on your profile with a profile text saying you dont buy intou the idea of publishing verifications. Im sure people would understand

Just a thought!"

Just a thought , this profile works just fine the way it is why would I want to change it for some people who can't think for themselves.

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

"As I have said before, I hide all mine from Day 1, and have not missed out on anything!

I could tell you now, you're missing out. If i happen to be an MP that swing, do you think i would contact someone with no single veri on their profile?

You think you're not missing out, but i could tell you are- from experience

I'm sorry but I wouldn't want to meet anyone who thinks they can think for me. "

I'm not thinking for you likewise do i want to meet you. You've got no verification on your profile to prove you're genuine so thats just one of timewaster profiles to me and i wont bother contacting such people.

2yrs ago, i bumped into a profile of my neigbour on the hub-site, as a single lady looking for men and i knew she was in a serious relationship with this bloke.

I printed the profile out and went round to show her it and advised her to cover her face on public profiles. Well to cut the long story short, her ex-bf ended up getting arrested for creating fake profile of her on a sex site just to get back at her for ditching him.

Im sure if such site turn up on Fab, it wont get verified and people wont acknowledge any sexy too-good to be true pictures on such site.

No doubt in my mind your profile tick all the boxes in such fake profiles created by a jilted lover or something. And its a criminal offence i must tell you that because i've seen a bloke went to jail for that.

I dont want to meet people with no verifications. Having verification on profile is more important than platering your sexy naked pictures on Fab. FACT

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

"It certainly seems the single women prefer to hide their verifications more than single men or couples - perhaps because they don't need to show them as they are no doubt inundated anyway !!!!"

Its not that the single women you talked about are trying to prove to us they are virgin or new to the feeling of cocks in their pussy or something. Just only one verification is all we asked to prove genuinity and some people still think its too much to ask...Jeeezzzzzzzz

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

only reason mine are hidden as was asked by a guy one about a meet i had and he wanted to know all about it, was the meet good, was the guy big,did i enjoy, was i satisfied..... he was not going to meet at all but just sit at home and tug away and get his pleasure.....but i know i am genuine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone could set up another profile and verify themselves and then delete the other profile

No they couldn't. The new profile would be unverified and unable to verify the existing one. And when you delete a profile your verifications go too."

If you delete cookies you would be able verify one from the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I have said before, I hide all mine from Day 1, and have not missed out on anything!

I could tell you now, you're missing out. If i happen to be an MP that swing, do you think i would contact someone with no single veri on their profile?

You think you're not missing out, but i could tell you are- from experience

I'm sorry but I wouldn't want to meet anyone who thinks they can think for me.

2yrs ago, i bumped into a profile of my neigbour on the hub-site, as a single lady looking for men and i knew she was in a serious relationship with this bloke.

Im sure if such site turn up on Fab, it wont get verified and people wont acknowledge any sexy too-good to be true pictures on such site.

I dont want to meet people with no verifications. Having verification on profile is more important than platering your sexy naked pictures on Fab. FACT"

So let me get this right...if you haven't got your verifications on show...then you're a timewaster?

Righto.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Not for us, we ignore them. As for why bother, good question,i think it just allows people to blame the system when they are let down,

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

And the profile text doesnt tell much either.

I sent 2 text messages with no single reply till now. But i dont know if i'm to be blamed for that or she need to accept the blame for not making her profile genuine enough"

Oh its clearly her fault

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"As I have said before, I hide all mine from Day 1, and have not missed out on anything!

I could tell you now, you're missing out. If i happen to be an MP that swing, do you think i would contact someone with no single veri on their profile?

You think you're not missing out, but i could tell you are- from experience

I'm sorry but I wouldn't want to meet anyone who thinks they can think for me.

2yrs ago, i bumped into a profile of my neigbour on the hub-site, as a single lady looking for men and i knew she was in a serious relationship with this bloke.

Im sure if such site turn up on Fab, it wont get verified and people wont acknowledge any sexy too-good to be true pictures on such site.

I dont want to meet people with no verifications. Having verification on profile is more important than platering your sexy naked pictures on Fab. FACT"

No...it matters to you, and given your post above i can see why...you want others to do your thinking for you.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Really, how?

We dont agree that it should be compulsory to show verifs, but those who hide them must know that people will draw their own conclusions.

Perhaps if you dont want people to know the intimate ins and outs of what you got up to, then ask any meets to be discreete in their verif?

Is this your mum posting ? Not often I disagree with you but .... I disagree pffffft.

Is the opinion of a stranger enough to sway you to meet ? What if that stranger ( who wrote the veri ) is a scumbag fuckwit ? "

Verifs are just one tool we use in an effort to establish who is genuine, fun, and possible meet material.

As a first possible filter point, the verif system allows us to judge whether someone may be who/what they say they are (cpl, fem etc).

In a way, people use a verification system subconciously in the forums and chatrooms too, without realising it.

If "Joe and Sally" have met (club, party, social, meet) "Sue", who has met "John", who has met "Bill and Jane", and they all chat in the forums/chatrooms, then the first couple can be sure that the last couple actually are real, however it would still take some actual interaction before "Joe and Sally" could be sure that "Bill and Jane" were really their kind of people.

Phew!

Bottom line, verifs are ONE tool to help us filter out the "tools" (see what I did there?) and have fun with genuine people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone could set up another profile and verify themselves and then delete the other profile

No they couldn't. The new profile would be unverified and unable to verify the existing one. And when you delete a profile your verifications go too.

If you delete cookies you would be able verify one from the other"

It is nothing to do with cookies. An unverified prfile cannot be used to verify another one.

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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Can i just ask something out of curiosity to those who hide their verifications ? Why do you accept them in the first place if you dont want them shown on your profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, so if we must be verified, and we must show them else we are fake - how does that work with new members?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It certainly seems the single women prefer to hide their verifications more than single men or couples - perhaps because they don't need to show them as they are no doubt inundated anyway !!!!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Can i just ask something out of curiosity to those who hide their verifications ? Why do you accept them in the first place if you dont want them shown on your profile ?

Presumably so they show up as verified.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone could set up another profile and verify themselves and then delete the other profile

No they couldn't. The new profile would be unverified and unable to verify the existing one. And when you delete a profile your verifications go too.

If you delete cookies you would be able verify one from the other

It is nothing to do with cookies. An unverified prfile cannot be used to verify another one."

so if two newbies meet neither can verify the other?

That's not right either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I have said before, I hide all mine from Day 1, and have not missed out on anything!

I could tell you now, you're missing out. If i happen to be an MP that swing, do you think i would contact someone with no single veri on their profile?

You think you're not missing out, but i could tell you are- from experience

I'm sorry but I wouldn't want to meet anyone who thinks they can think for me.

2yrs ago, i bumped into a profile of my neigbour on the hub-site, as a single lady looking for men and i knew she was in a serious relationship with this bloke.

Im sure if such site turn up on Fab, it wont get verified and people wont acknowledge any sexy too-good to be true pictures on such site.

I dont want to meet people with no verifications. Having verification on profile is more important than platering your sexy naked pictures on Fab. FACT"

Omg I'm now a timewaster with a fake profile cos I have been jilted , thanks for the heads up on that.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Someone could set up another profile and verify themselves and then delete the other profile

No they couldn't. The new profile would be unverified and unable to verify the existing one. And when you delete a profile your verifications go too.

If you delete cookies you would be able verify one from the other

It is nothing to do with cookies. An unverified prfile cannot be used to verify another one.

so if two newbies meet neither can verify the other?

That's not right either!

Thats part of what socials are for. Why is it not right...the alternative is people being able to veri themselves.

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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Thanks for that and i do understand but surely you would only need to accept the one verification . From what i read some people accept all the verifications and still decide to hide them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications on profile was what attracted me to Fab and does make it stand out from other swingers sites really.

Think about it and publish atleast one on your profile with a profile text saying you dont buy intou the idea of publishing verifications. Im sure people would understand

Just a thought!"

Why have you got the Pic of a female who also uses forums as your avatar?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Thanks for that and i do understand but surely you would only need to accept the one verification . From what i read some people accept all the verifications and still decide to hide them

And the problem with this is...

i show all veris , i think if someone bothers to right them then i will display them...apparently that makes me a slut who has no decorum to some...do i give a flying fig ? No

My profile my choise, other peoples profiles, their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should I do what the others think is appropriate in order to demonstrate I am genuine?!

I choose not to show my verifications, end of!

Peeps usually get fed up with reading my profile before they realise I do not show my verifications. Result I'd say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it may not be as sinister as that...

some people just like privacy (i don't show anything too rude)

or it could be that the people who gave them the verification have left the site....

not always the worst you now....

Echoes that one - privacy in some cases is very important. Besides you're either going to meet them, or snoop around their every trace online, build a shrine in your spare room and stalk the arse off them boiling bunnies....

yeh rrriiiiite!

Wolf

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I used to show mine... Then had a break and removed them. I have since decided I don't want all n sundry knowing everything about me. And if they do want to know, then I'm sure they will ask me.

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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Thanks for that and i do understand but surely you would only need to accept the one verification . From what i read some people accept all the verifications and still decide to hide them

And the problem with this is...

i show all veris , i think if someone bothers to right them then i will display them...apparently that makes me a slut who has no decorum to some...do i give a flying fig ? No

My profile my choise, other peoples profiles, their choice."
There isnt a problem with doing this , not in my eyes anyway . I was just curious thats all and certainly hope i didnt offend anyone by asking

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

"May have been posted before but does anybody else have same suspicion about profiles showing "verified profile" with no verifications showing?Our suspicion is that that member has more than one profile and verifies themselves?! "
If thats the case why does it bother you?All you can do is just to pass their profile and go to the ones that have their verification on.

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

Why have you got the Pic of a female who also uses forums as your avatar? "

Could you please expatiate on that? Which female you talking about? Am i not allowed to have picture of my meet with other genuine members on this site on my profile?

Expatiate please, we want to know what you up against. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have hidden a verification that reveals more about us than we'd like to be visible on our profile.

We had had a couple like this, lovely veris but too much information - names etc, still lovely to read if having a bad day

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Yes indeed!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Verifications on profile was what attracted me to Fab and does make it stand out from other swingers sites really.

Think about it and publish atleast one on your profile with a profile text saying you dont buy intou the idea of publishing verifications. Im sure people would understand

Just a thought!"

here is another thought...

in how many other situations in life would you implicitly trust the opinions of someone you have never known or met... about someone else you have never known or met......

i would like to think that I could make my own judgements....

using verifications as a crutch or as the be all and end all is as dangerous and obsurd as the opposite

for every action there is a reaction... so if my not showing verification they may be missing out... as long as they are happy with that consequence, then good for them!

for me are verifications worth the piece of paper they are written on... not really.... a million different people may have a million different opinions...

again i would like to think i could make my own judgements....

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Gut instinct goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or they have read the threads complaining about the type of veris people have and slut shaming womne with more than one.

If you think someone has a dodgy profile dont message them

I had a meet once that when I asked if he wanted a verification he said no thanks.. people wouldnt meet me if I had one from you...

Needless to say NO repeat meet.

I think that if you have a lot and are worried what people will think only show a few.. Me.. well I dont care.. lol

if someone goes to the effort of leaving me one I will show it.

cali

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Or they have read the threads complaining about the type of veris people have and slut shaming womne with more than one.

If you think someone has a dodgy profile dont message them

I had a meet once that when I asked if he wanted a verification he said no thanks.. people wouldnt meet me if I had one from you...

Needless to say NO repeat meet.

I think that if you have a lot and are worried what people will think only show a few.. Me.. well I dont care.. lol

if someone goes to the effort of leaving me one I will show it.

cali "

Yup...in fact i would go as far as to say i see it as a filtering tool, i hope it puts off the kind of people who get all prissy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have you got the Pic of a female who also uses forums as your avatar?

Could you please expatiate on that? Which female you talking about? Am i not allowed to have picture of my meet with other genuine members on this site on my profile?

Expatiate please, we want to know what you up against. Thank you

That pic is the same pic as a female on here has as her aviator pic now forgive me if I am wrong but you are not allowed to have a face pic of a female on a male profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup...in fact i would go as far as to say i see it as a filtering tool, i hope it puts off the kind of people who get all prissy.

lol... Its very true..

I dont really care.. I like to read verifications but only because I am nosey.. if I spot someone on a list that I know I may be more inclined to reply.

But my version of a good meet and others varies so much that I dont take the sexual content into account.

Cali

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Can i just ask something out of curiosity to those who hide their verifications ? Why do you accept them in the first place if you dont want them shown on your profile ?

Still shows on your profile as 'verfied genuine', whether you accept them or not.

Yet again people are policing how others use their profiles. If you don't meet people who don't show their verifications, then it doesn't take much brain power to realise that, when you see someone who hides their verifications, you move on. There are plenty of profiles who do show their verifications so whats the problem?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I hide all mine

If people think I have something to hide its because I do......My verifications

What a thoroughly ridiculous idea. What?!! Use your own common sense and judgement and not rely on the imagination of total strangers?!!

Blimey...it gets more bizzare here every day!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Wb Miss

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I hide mine.

Couldn't have put it better myself!

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I have plenty verifications but hide them when i'm not looking to play so to speak.

Also its not good to look like a man whore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose to hide my verifications, the site allows me to, i would display them for someone who asked if i was considering meeting them. Does that make me fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have you got the Pic of a female who also uses forums as your avatar?

Could you please expatiate on that? Which female you talking about? Am i not allowed to have picture of my meet with other genuine members on this site on my profile?

Expatiate please, we want to know what you up against. Thank you

That pic is the same pic as a female on here has as her aviator pic now forgive me if I am wrong but you are not allowed to have a face pic of a female on a male profile "

I may have a problem as it seems I am the only one that has this after checking with someone else. I have logged out and back in again but still have the face of a woman on mine so I apologies but really not my fault. Boy do I feel daft but at least I am not going mad.

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

Why have you got the Pic of a female who also uses forums as your avatar?

Could you please expatiate on that? Which female you talking about? Am i not allowed to have picture of my meet with other genuine members on this site on my profile?

Expatiate please, we want to know what you up against. Thank you

That pic is the same pic as a female on here has as her aviator pic now forgive me if I am wrong but you are not allowed to have a face pic of a female on a male profile

You certainly had me confused

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Moodycow...you gave the man a sex change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have you got the Pic of a female who also uses forums as your avatar?

Could you please expatiate on that? Which female you talking about? Am i not allowed to have picture of my meet with other genuine members on this site on my profile?

Expatiate please, we want to know what you up against. Thank you

That pic is the same pic as a female on here has as her aviator pic now forgive me if I am wrong but you are not allowed to have a face pic of a female on a male profile

You certainly had me confused

I don't understand , I'm on iPhone have logged in and out a cpl times and it's still the same a female pic

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"I may have a problem as it seems I am the only one that has this after checking with someone else. I have logged out and back in again but still have the face of a woman on mine so I apologies but really not my fault. Boy do I feel daft but at least I am not going mad. "

I have had this problem before when using mobile others avatars appear against different users.

Confused the fuck out me which is not hard but usually a log out and clear cache fixes it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Moodycow...you gave the man a sex change

I know , I feel so stupid now and don't know how to sort it out as even on other profile it shows a female pic

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Can i just ask something out of curiosity to those who hide their verifications ? Why do you accept them in the first place if you dont want them shown on your profile ?

Still shows on your profile as 'verfied genuine', whether you accept them or not.

It's annoying isn't it?

The site provides us with the tools to run our profiles how we like. Unfortunately some members seem hell bent on dictating how we should do things.

I have filters in place, criteria for choosing playmates that work for me. I wouldn't be so arrogant to assume people should do things my way.

Interesting seeing the pushy, demanding, arrogant people here...way to go advertising yourselves.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Wb Miss

Thank you Ruggers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May have been posted before but does anybody else have same suspicion about profiles showing "verified profile" with no verifications showing?Our suspicion is that that member has more than one profile and verifies themselves?! "
I raised this question before and nearly got my head bite off.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Moodycow...you gave the man a sex change

I know , I feel so stupid now and don't know how to sort it out as even on other profile it shows a female pic "

I think it is what Edin said, someting to do with your cache.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I hide all mine

If people think I have something to hide its because I do......My verifications

What a thoroughly ridiculous idea. What?!! Use your own common sense and judgement and not rely on the imagination of total strangers?!!

Blimey...it gets more bizzare here every day!

I know! mad is'nt it but it works for me

Hello you

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Interesting seeing the pushy, demanding, arrogant people here...way to go advertising yourselves.

Yep, funny how no amount of verifications would tempt me to meet someone who insists others do things they are uncomfortable with. A quick and easy filter right there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine - if people knew how 'big', 'handsome', 'long lasting' & 'pleasure giving' I am (apparently) lol, I'd have no peace from all the meet requests I'd get!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have you got the Pic of a female who also uses forums as your avatar?

Could you please expatiate on that? Which female you talking about? Am i not allowed to have picture of my meet with other genuine members on this site on my profile?

Expatiate please, we want to know what you up against. Thank you

That pic is the same pic as a female on here has as her aviator pic now forgive me if I am wrong but you are not allowed to have a face pic of a female on a male profile

Thank goodness you have now gone back to being a man. My apologies there was a problem with my phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine because I managed to gain myself a nasty stalkerish nut job... Who not only trolls my profile but those of the guys he remembers from my verifications... He uses their profiles to track what I'm doing from verifications I have left them...they alert me to the troll... I report him... His profile dissapears... Then a week later a new profile is created and he starts again... Going so far as to write my meets into his profile in a detrimental fashion... I guess I'm not the only single fem subjected to this... But my reason non the less...

and therefore my choice to hide...

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon

"I choose not to show my friends list and verifications from Day 1 back in Aug 2009, and does not appear to have done me any harm.

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I'm sure yours are real, but how would we know?

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

Why have you got the Pic of a female who also uses forums as your avatar?

Could you please expatiate on that? Which female you talking about? Am i not allowed to have picture of my meet with other genuine members on this site on my profile?

Expatiate please, we want to know what you up against. Thank you

That pic is the same pic as a female on here has as her aviator pic now forgive me if I am wrong but you are not allowed to have a face pic of a female on a male profile "

What is this 'Moody Cow' on about, ehn?

Perhaps you need someone to lead you to your local spec-savers before it get worse. My avatar is my pic and me only. Do you see a female face on my profile pics? OMG...you need to stop chatting shot for notice. You pissing me off now, honestly. I just felt pineapple shove up my ass by this wrong accusation.

Could people please investigate what this so-called 'Moody Cow' up against and get her off my back for good

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Could people please investigate what this so-called 'Moody Cow' up against and get her off my back for good

The problem has been resolved, in short a bug with mobile cache.

You can remove pineapple from ass now

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

"Could people please investigate what this so-called 'Moody Cow' up against and get her off my back for good

The problem has been resolved, in short a bug with mobile cache.

You can remove pineapple from ass now

Sorry, i usually pick up from where i stopped and replied without waiting to read other posts through. Thank God its sorted now and i can continue to be the hard-headed bloke i am lol

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Could people please investigate what this so-called 'Moody Cow' up against and get her off my back for good

The problem has been resolved, in short a bug with mobile cache.

You can remove pineapple from ass now

Sorry, i usually pick up from where i stopped and replied without waiting to read other posts through. Thank God its sorted now and i can continue to be the hard-headed bloke i am lol

I passed on my words of wisdom when the same thing happened to me, i tore a shred of someone for dicking about with profiles only to find it was indeed a cache problem and it was causing different folks avatars to be replaced on others profile. I even thought my account had been hacked once when my ex's avatar appeared on my profile

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

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over a year ago

O o O oo

Why have you got the Pic of a female who also uses forums as your avatar?

Could you please expatiate on that? Which female you talking about? Am i not allowed to have picture of my meet with other genuine members on this site on my profile?

Expatiate please, we want to know what you up against. Thank you

That pic is the same pic as a female on here has as her aviator pic now forgive me if I am wrong but you are not allowed to have a face pic of a female on a male profile

What is this 'Moody Cow' on about, ehn?

Could people please investigate what this so-called 'Moody Cow' up against and get her off my back for good

The woman apologised on this thread.

I know the womans accusation was a mistake, but even so, being violated by a pineapple for someone saying you have anothers pic on your profile? Wow.

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

"I choose not to show my friends list and verifications from Day 1 back in Aug 2009, and does not appear to have done me any harm.

I'm sure yours are real, but how would we know?"

Exactly my point.

I heard a bloke verified another bloke on Fab when they accidentally met and got chatting over a pint at their local pub.

And this straight bloke hide the veri on his profile but it shows he's been verified by other users.

I dont know how people may take this, but dont y'all think our lives been put in danger there because quite frankly, that fake veri profile could be anybody really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or they have read the threads complaining about the type of veris people have and slut shaming womne with more than one.

If you think someone has a dodgy profile dont message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I choose not to show my friends list and verifications from Day 1 back in Aug 2009, and does not appear to have done me any harm.

I'm sure yours are real, but how would we know?

Exactly my point.

I heard a bloke verified another bloke on Fab when they accidentally met and got chatting over a pint at their local pub.

And this straight bloke hide the veri on his profile but it shows he's been verified by other users.

I dont know how people may take this, but dont y'all think our lives been put in danger there because quite frankly, that fake veri profile could be anybody really. "

Seriously - what are you on about? How the hell has your anecdote, if true put anyones life at risk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have you got the Pic of a female who also uses forums as your avatar?

Could you please expatiate on that? Which female you talking about? Am i not allowed to have picture of my meet with other genuine members on this site on my profile?

Expatiate please, we want to know what you up against. Thank you

That pic is the same pic as a female on here has as her aviator pic now forgive me if I am wrong but you are not allowed to have a face pic of a female on a male profile

What is this 'Moody Cow' on about, ehn?

Could people please investigate what this so-called 'Moody Cow' up against and get her off my back for good

I think you need to read the whole thread as Moody Cow has apologised to you for the mistake! Your turn now me thinks!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I choose not to show my friends list and verifications from Day 1 back in Aug 2009, and does not appear to have done me any harm.

I'm sure yours are real, but how would we know?

Exactly my point.

I heard a bloke verified another bloke on Fab when they accidentally met and got chatting over a pint at their local pub.

And this straight bloke hide the veri on his profile but it shows he's been verified by other users.

I dont know how people may take this, but dont y'all think our lives been put in danger there because quite frankly, that fake veri profile could be anybody really. "

The verification system is not being abused if two site members meet in a social situation and verify each other without having had sexual contact.

I consider the primary purpose of verifications to be that someone is who they say they are, that their pics are accurate and up to date and that they are presentable and polite to meet. Everything else is down to personal preference, a guy who I have great fun meeting and playing with might not be naughty nymphos cup of tea and she might turn him down over a coffee.

So a verification saying this person exists and has not got any major lies in their profile (cos we all fib a touch...) is all we need - two straight men are capable of doing this just as I am capable of verifying a woman I have met at a social or club.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I choose not to show my friends list and verifications from Day 1 back in Aug 2009, and does not appear to have done me any harm.

I'm sure yours are real, but how would we know?

Exactly my point.

I heard a bloke verified another bloke on Fab when they accidentally met and got chatting over a pint at their local pub.

And this straight bloke hide the veri on his profile but it shows he's been verified by other users.

I dont know how people may take this, but dont y'all think our lives been put in danger there because quite frankly, that fake veri profile could be anybody really. "

He had a perfectly legitimate veri...many peoples veris are from socials...they are not an indication that sex happened just that the person exists.

You really seem to fail to understand what veris are

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

Why have you got the Pic of a female who also uses forums as your avatar?

Could you please expatiate on that? Which female you talking about? Am i not allowed to have picture of my meet with other genuine members on this site on my profile?

Expatiate please, we want to know what you up against. Thank you

That pic is the same pic as a female on here has as her aviator pic now forgive me if I am wrong but you are not allowed to have a face pic of a female on a male profile

What is this 'Moody Cow' on about, ehn?

Could people please investigate what this so-called 'Moody Cow' up against and get her off my back for good

I think you need to read the whole thread as Moody Cow has apologised to you for the mistake! Your turn now me thinks!

You probably making the same mistake i made by not reading all the posts through before making comments...doh!!!

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

Verifications are basically just a reassurance to any interested parties that you are who and what you say you are. They are not the be all and end all in my view. I will meet guys aho aren't verified and I've always been happy with them. It's a shame though that the verification system on here is open to fakes. I suppose it's the nature of a site like this in the same way that there must be fake profiles around. Verifications aside, there is only one way to tell what you think of someone - meet them for a drink. That's probably verification enough.

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

" The verification system is not being abused if two site members meet in a social situation and verify each other without having had sexual contact.

Thanks for enlightening about verifications. As you can see, i'm pretty much new on Fab so we could say i'm still learning. Point taken there

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

"I have plenty verifications but hide them when i'm not looking to play so to speak.

Also its not good to look like a man whore

'I don't want to look like a man whore!!' On a sex site?? MMmmmm......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have you got the Pic of a female who also uses forums as your avatar?

Could you please expatiate on that? Which female you talking about? Am i not allowed to have picture of my meet with other genuine members on this site on my profile?

Expatiate please, we want to know what you up against. Thank you

That pic is the same pic as a female on here has as her aviator pic now forgive me if I am wrong but you are not allowed to have a face pic of a female on a male profile

What is this 'Moody Cow' on about, ehn?

Could people please investigate what this so-called 'Moody Cow' up against and get her off my back for good

I think you need to read the whole thread as Moody Cow has apologised to you for the mistake! Your turn now me thinks!

You probably making the same mistake i made by not reading all the posts through before making comments...doh!!!

Not really as I still can't see where you've apologised to Moody Cow for your aggressive and uncalled for reply, and I did refresh my screen before typing this....doh!

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

"Not really as I still can't see where you've apologised to Moody Cow for your aggressive and uncalled for reply, and I did refresh my screen before typing this....doh!"

Its a pity we live miles away mate. i would have volunteered to guide you to your local spec-savers. 2 for price of 1 is on offer now, i think. Doh!!!

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"'I don't want to look like a man whore!!' On a sex site?? MMmmmm......"

Girls have commented that my veri list makes me look easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could people please investigate what this so-called 'Moody Cow' up against and get her off my back for good

The problem has been resolved, in short a bug with mobile cache.

You can remove pineapple from ass now

My prescription is bang up to date 'mate', and the above is not an apology to MoodyCow. It's a reply to another poster.

Sorry, i usually pick up from where i stopped and replied without waiting to read other posts through. Thank God its sorted now and i can continue to be the hard-headed bloke i am lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Not really as I still can't see where you've apologised to Moody Cow for your aggressive and uncalled for reply, and I did refresh my screen before typing this....doh!

Its a pity we live miles away mate. i would have volunteered to guide you to your local spec-savers. 2 for price of 1 is on offer now, i think. Doh!!!

You'd have to guide me to Spec Savers too as I can't spot an apology to Moody either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll have to make it a forum outing, although my prescription is up to date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant speak for all but one female I no very very well up close and personal chooses to hide her verifications as she has had gr she has had ief and hassle in the past from people viewing her profile then saying why wont ya meet me when you have met such and so and so and I looked at his profile etc etc and im better dee daa dee daa dee daa

Also she has had some blokes saying so what did you do with him etc etc etc. She chooses to hide her verifications for that very matter to save getting hassle if she cant be arsed meeting and also to stop eople asking her daft questions with a tag of possible green eyed monster I spose

PS I read my nice verification before she his them. Least I could do really after she had said what a good shag I am on mine

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

"Could people please investigate what this so-called 'Moody Cow' up against and get her off my back for good

The problem has been resolved, in short a bug with mobile cache.

You can remove pineapple from ass now

My prescription is bang up to date 'mate', and the above is not an apology to MoodyCow. It's a reply to another poster.

Sorry, i usually pick up from where i stopped and replied without waiting to read other posts through. Thank God its sorted now and i can continue to be the hard-headed bloke i am lol

If you want more than the 'SORRY' at the begining of that statement, then you aint having it. What else do you want, ehn? Crawl on my 2 feets with my cock wrapped around my neck begging for mercy? You need to get your Gong out now cos nothing more than that 'sorry' is coming out. Im not being rude. Moody cow realised she was at fault, and i said 'sorry' at the begining of my statement to clarify that i didnt infact read the posts through before raging on at her...Jeezzzzzz

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"'I don't want to look like a man whore!!' On a sex site?? MMmmmm......

Girls have commented that my veri list makes me look easy

you are though!!!

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

"'I don't want to look like a man whore!!' On a sex site?? MMmmmm......

Girls have commented that my veri list makes me look easy

Really! That wouldn't bother me. This is a sex site isn't it? It just shows that you've been enjoying yourself and must be doing something right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could people please investigate what this so-called 'Moody Cow' up against and get her off my back for good

The problem has been resolved, in short a bug with mobile cache.

You can remove pineapple from ass now

Sorry, i usually pick up from where i stopped and replied without waiting to read other posts through. Thank God its sorted now and i can continue to be the hard-headed bloke i am lol

Thanks for that. You've just proved to me that verifications really don't mean a thing in certain cases, so I will be a bit more selective in future and not rely on them at all

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

You didn't apologise to Moody for your raging post.

What I will say is, you might want to read the very first comment from Admin that are on the rules and maybe take them on board before you post.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it.

http://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"It just shows that you've been enjoying yourself and must be doing something right. "

I like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it.

http://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules"

I got the Tshirt on that and also knitted one or three jumpers as well

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

"It just shows that you've been enjoying yourself and must be doing something right.

I like you

Thanks x

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

"Thanks for that. You've just proved to me that verifications really don't mean a thing in certain cases, so I will be a bit more selective in future and not rely on them at all

Dont try and get shirty with me ok. How would you feel if someone insinuatiing you not who you said you are and you felt like some pineapple with ridges shoved up your ass repeatedly????

From you comments, you sound like you will keep your cool and pat such person in the back for making a good guess, isnt it?

My philosophy, give respect to people and it would be reciprocated-simples

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Maybe time to shut this one now.

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