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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call myself pp. It means pretty penis

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ... "

Good question, for me it's an instant turn off. My husband's black but his skin colour (and cock) is incidental to who he is and he certainly would consider it demeaning as a human being to be regarded merely as a 'black cock'.

His view is that the black men who refer to themselves as 'big black cock' have bought into the fetishization of interracial sex by the (white controlled) porn industry because it develops a unique selling point, however crass that might be.

Interracial porn generally doesn't value black men as equals where references like 'blacked', 'bull' and 'BBC' are commonplace.

Just for the record I fully support people's right to express their preferences, some women prefer to meet black males for good reasons, it's just the reduction of black men to 'cock' that rankles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do wonder this... i do flick on the occasional profile out of curiosity when i see certain posts and must say many are abc's at best.. dont get me wrong theres afew whoppers but most are abc's

Top tip- learn your abc's!

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

It’s a selling tactic lol. Makes them out to be porn worthy lol

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Ffs why do we have to tolerate these discriminatory labels in 2020?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ... "

I don’t refer to myself as BBC although I’d have no issue if I was called it. I don’t find it discriminatory. And I also don’t think it has anything to do with JUST A COCK. It’s more of a description which is positive. If anyone should have an issue it should be black men but we don’t so never understood why others have an issue with it. Some white girls call themselves PAWG I’m not mad at that. Nothing wrong with a positive description

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that the acronym is still used is a complete mystery to me. In these enlightened times is it correct to define someone by the colour of an appendage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ...

I don’t refer to myself as BBC although I’d have no issue if I was called it. I don’t find it discriminatory. And I also don’t think it has anything to do with JUST A COCK. It’s more of a description which is positive. If anyone should have an issue it should be black men but we don’t so never understood why others have an issue with it. Some white girls call themselves PAWG I’m not mad at that. Nothing wrong with a positive description "

Can I ask what a PAWG is?

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"The fact that the acronym is still used is a complete mystery to me. In these enlightened times is it correct to define someone by the colour of an appendage?"

We do see BWC on here from time to time but it’s a bit of a weak response in my opinion.

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By *lipperywhenwet07Couple
over a year ago

llanelli


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ...

I don’t refer to myself as BBC although I’d have no issue if I was called it. I don’t find it discriminatory. And I also don’t think it has anything to do with JUST A COCK. It’s more of a description which is positive. If anyone should have an issue it should be black men but we don’t so never understood why others have an issue with it. Some white girls call themselves PAWG I’m not mad at that. Nothing wrong with a positive description

Can I ask what a PAWG is?"

Phat ass white girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ...

I don’t refer to myself as BBC although I’d have no issue if I was called it. I don’t find it discriminatory. And I also don’t think it has anything to do with JUST A COCK. It’s more of a description which is positive. If anyone should have an issue it should be black men but we don’t so never understood why others have an issue with it. Some white girls call themselves PAWG I’m not mad at that. Nothing wrong with a positive description

Can I ask what a PAWG is?

Phat ass white girl"

Jesus

I must be a Charming Uninhibited Nice Type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ...

I don’t refer to myself as BBC although I’d have no issue if I was called it. I don’t find it discriminatory. And I also don’t think it has anything to do with JUST A COCK. It’s more of a description which is positive. If anyone should have an issue it should be black men but we don’t so never understood why others have an issue with it. Some white girls call themselves PAWG I’m not mad at that. Nothing wrong with a positive description

Can I ask what a PAWG is?

Phat ass white girl

Jesus

I must be a Charming Uninhibited Nice Type"

Lol I don’t see the problem honestly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It doesn’t anger me but more I feel why forget your a person ..just intrigues me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There isn’t a problem just curious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I’m not mad just intrigued is all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I’m not mad just intrigued is all"

Haha oh I know love I meant the guy up the forum who has a issue with PAWG

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh sorry I need to put my glasses back on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh sorry I need to put my glasses back on lol"

Lol oohh Glasses, are they the sexy librarian type? Sorry that’s another label some may not like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I think so I’ve been told I’ve the secretarial look lol

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ... "

Perhaps a different angle, I am not black and hence not a BBC -

And in a way it is offensive but in away it is not.

I am asian single guy who plays with couples. And to be frank about it, they have been all white. Its just never happened that I have met a black/asian couple

For my white couple friends, the fact that they are getting into a bed with a guy who is different ethnicity from them adds to the sexual tension. The fact that an asian guy is fucking a white wife is what attracts them to me. Does that make me a “piece of meat” in a way - yes but in a way, its such a great headfuck. Likewise for me, there is definitely a thrill in fucking a white married lady in front of her husband. I am very far from some make porno star but the interacial aspect adds to the frisson.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve loved reading everyone’s thoughts on this and feelings , I have an inquisitive mind

Do you just fuck wives ..

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I’ve loved reading everyone’s thoughts on this and feelings , I have an inquisitive mind

Do you just fuck wives .."

For the question do I just fuck wives - answer is yes!

I didnt mean it to turn out that way but the last several years, all of the women I have fucked have been married hotwives - in front of their husbands. - all of them white. As I said, I am sure part of their attraction to me is that fact I am different colour from their husbands

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fab !! We like what we like . This place is great for that !

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’ve loved reading everyone’s thoughts on this and feelings , I have an inquisitive mind

Do you just fuck wives ..

For the question do I just fuck wives - answer is yes!

I didnt mean it to turn out that way but the last several years, all of the women I have fucked have been married hotwives - in front of their husbands. - all of them white. As I said, I am sure part of their attraction to me is that fact I am different colour from their husbands "

I don't think skin colour preference is necessarily the issue, it's the reducing black men purely to a basic sexualised form 'black cock' as opposed to black men.

I'm sure there's a lot more about you than the fact you possess a penis that's black!

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By *r_TrojanMan
over a year ago

In The North


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ... "

I simply just flipped it and changed it to Big Beautiful Chap on my profile. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve loved reading everyone’s thoughts on this and feelings , I have an inquisitive mind

Do you just fuck wives ..

For the question do I just fuck wives - answer is yes!

I didnt mean it to turn out that way but the last several years, all of the women I have fucked have been married hotwives - in front of their husbands. - all of them white. As I said, I am sure part of their attraction to me is that fact I am different colour from their husbands

I don't think skin colour preference is necessarily the issue, it's the reducing black men purely to a basic sexualised form 'black cock' as opposed to black men.

I'm sure there's a lot more about you than the fact you possess a penis that's black! "

That doesn’t make sense. Just because BBC may be used as a reference doesn’t mean that’s the only thing about someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Love it !

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By *r_TrojanMan
over a year ago

In The North


"Love it !"

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ...

I simply just flipped it and changed it to Big Beautiful Chap on my profile. . "

Well you obviously have a good sense of humour as well as some nice pics lol

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I’ve loved reading everyone’s thoughts on this and feelings , I have an inquisitive mind

Do you just fuck wives ..

For the question do I just fuck wives - answer is yes!

I didnt mean it to turn out that way but the last several years, all of the women I have fucked have been married hotwives - in front of their husbands. - all of them white. As I said, I am sure part of their attraction to me is that fact I am different colour from their husbands

I don't think skin colour preference is necessarily the issue, it's the reducing black men purely to a basic sexualised form 'black cock' as opposed to black men.

I'm sure there's a lot more about you than the fact you possess a penis that's black! "

Well I am not black but asian but take your point

Fab sex is basically no strings sex - so the taboo, the erotic, the forbidden are allowed in way they arent in more humdrum life. When i play with my married friends - I am sure they see me as more than a penis - but for the time I spend with them, my attraction for them is purely sexual

As i said, would love to play with asian/black couples but enver happened. And it would be silly of me to not realise part of my attraction to certain couples is that I am not white...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So much talk about bbc on this site. This makes me think that black guys who haven't got a BBC, must be feelong bad for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So much talk about bbc on this site. This makes me think that black guys who haven't got a BBC, must be feelong bad for themselves. "

Not 1 black guy feels bad at the term BBC LOL

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By *r_TrojanMan
over a year ago

In The North


"So much talk about bbc on this site. This makes me think that black guys who haven't got a BBC, must be feelong bad for themselves.

Not 1 black guy feels bad at the term BBC LOL"

I beg to differ. You will find the majority don't like that term where as some embrace. I personally don't like the term. I don't have a BBC, not ashamed to say it. Actually, it's more of a relief not to be packing and I am more than happy with what I have. So, I definitely do not feel bad about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So much talk about bbc on this site. This makes me think that black guys who haven't got a BBC, must be feelong bad for themselves.

Not 1 black guy feels bad at the term BBC LOL

I beg to differ. You will find the majority don't like that term where as some embrace. I personally don't like the term. I don't have a BBC, not ashamed to say it. Actually, it's more of a relief not to be packing and I am more than happy with what I have. So, I definitely do not feel bad about it. "

Haha at least we can agree you don’t feel bad due to the term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ...

Good question, for me it's an instant turn off. My husband's black but his skin colour (and cock) is incidental to who he is and he certainly would consider it demeaning as a human being to be regarded merely as a 'black cock'.

His view is that the black men who refer to themselves as 'big black cock' have bought into the fetishization of interracial sex by the (white controlled) porn industry because it develops a unique selling point, however crass that might be.

Interracial porn generally doesn't value black men as equals where references like 'blacked', 'bull' and 'BBC' are commonplace.

Just for the record I fully support people's right to express their preferences, some women prefer to meet black males for good reasons, it's just the reduction of black men to 'cock' that rankles!"

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

We tend to skip by any that describe themselves as BBC. if that’s all they have to offer then I’d sooner go for a more complete person with head, arms and legs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People read far too much into labels. A black guy is not reducing himself to a cock by using the term BBC, he's just marketing to a particular Fab audience and saying exactly what they want to hear. It's a device to get meets and nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People read far too much into labels. A black guy is not reducing himself to a cock by using the term BBC, he's just marketing to a particular Fab audience and saying exactly what they want to hear. It's a device to get meets and nothing more."

This!

We’re meeting a BBC tonight ( whoop whoop!) and I can tell you now, 1) I’m dead excited 2) he’s traveling to meet Me and 3) I can not be anymore honoured that he is.

All this judgment made over a few letters

I’m just pussy to thousands of men, I ain’t getting all emotional over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love BBC and I’m a BBW don’t these terms just help you find what your looking for? I hope I’ve never offended anyone saying BBC

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By *infordMan
over a year ago

London

I've never referred to myself as a BBC as I know that sexually I have more to give than just my penis and kind of dumbs down who I am, to myself. However on the other hand I have no issue with others referring to me as such if that is what does it for them. I don't find it offensive as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are into football ladies and gents take yourselfs to a game and shout got your bbc out to one of the black players.

See how that goes

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill


"People read far too much into labels. A black guy is not reducing himself to a cock by using the term BBC, he's just marketing to a particular Fab audience and saying exactly what they want to hear. It's a device to get meets and nothing more.

This!

We’re meeting a BBC tonight ( whoop whoop!) and I can tell you now, 1) I’m dead excited 2) he’s traveling to meet Me and 3) I can not be anymore honoured that he is.

All this judgment made over a few letters

I’m just pussy to thousands of men, I ain’t getting all emotional over it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don’t mind at all ya all role playing and fantasy don’t get me wrong if it was said on the street would be a different story

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By *uicyfruit3Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

BBC BWC PAWG Unicorn hotwife stag vixen cuck greedy girl... I'm sure that they're many more.

To me it's just swinging and sex terminology, nothing more, nothing less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black men tend to encourage fetishising more because it gets them meets.

But that being said there are A LOT of black men on here who hate the term and wont meet people who use it as even though they can accept that them being black is part of the attraction from others they dont want to meet people who will meet just anyone just because they're black

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly my place to get offended on another's behalf, especially as I'm a white dude, if a black guy wants the title BBC, then he's every right to call himself that, no matter what anyone else says. It's a sexual and fetish thing, but is it bad? Bad if you call a black guy a BBC and he doesn't like that, good if you call a black guy a BBC and he plays into the fetish.

You might call a guy a cuck as an insult, but to some guys it's a badge they gladly wear, call a woman a slut and to most it's an insult, to others it's a badge of honour.

This isn't the media, it isn't the high street, it isn't intersectional feminism, it's a place where people hang out to fulfill their sexual desires and fantasies, the taboo if you will, and the term BBC falls very much under the title of a taboo.

Black guys will call themselves whatever they like, cum sluts will call themselves thus, and PAWG too.

From a personal perspective, the term BBC sounds degrading, but it's not my place to tell a black guys he's degrading himself and other black men.

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By *eepndarkMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ...

Good question, for me it's an instant turn off. My husband's black but his skin colour (and cock) is incidental to who he is and he certainly would consider it demeaning as a human being to be regarded merely as a 'black cock'.

His view is that the black men who refer to themselves as 'big black cock' have bought into the fetishization of interracial sex by the (white controlled) porn industry because it develops a unique selling point, however crass that might be.

Interracial porn generally doesn't value black men as equals where references like 'blacked', 'bull' and 'BBC' are commonplace.

Just for the record I fully support people's right to express their preferences, some women prefer to meet black males for good reasons, it's just the reduction of black men to 'cock' that rankles!"

Great post. I totally agree.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I really don’t mind at all ya all role playing and fantasy don’t get me wrong if it was said on the street would be a different story "

I think that's part of the problem, it's common usage in pornland legitimises the stereotype generally.

Imagine an African version of fabswingers where black men routinely refer to local white women as 'big white c*nts'?

Personally I believe we should value people for who they are, rather than the colour of their genitals. Of course within that is plenty of room to express personal preferences respectfully!

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"I really don’t mind at all ya all role playing and fantasy don’t get me wrong if it was said on the street would be a different story

I think that's part of the problem, it's common usage in pornland legitimises the stereotype generally.

Imagine an African version of fabswingers where black men routinely refer to local white women as 'big white c*nts'?

Personally I believe we should value people for who they are, rather than the colour of their genitals. Of course within that is plenty of room to express personal preferences respectfully!"

Different big white c*nts is negative

BBC can be positive depend on how you take it.

people getting mad over a direct acronym. Is looking for a [big] black cock any different?

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ... "

I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some woman just love bbc... like don’t care what the guy looks like, they just love black cock. Personally, colour is irrelevant to me and I get black guys messaging like ‘do you like bbc?’ Well, I guess so but not any more than any other kind. I think mostly it’s a marketing ploy to meet couples because I also know A LOT of men who want to watch a black guy fuck their wife. I don’t know why it specifically has to be a black guy... seems a bit ‘get out’ to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty sure BBC is used on fab to find what people are looking for with ease same as PAWG, BBW etc I wouldn’t go into a club and shout any BBC around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some woman just love bbc... like don’t care what the guy looks like, they just love black cock. Personally, colour is irrelevant to me and I get black guys messaging like ‘do you like bbc?’ Well, I guess so but not any more than any other kind. I think mostly it’s a marketing ploy to meet couples because I also know A LOT of men who want to watch a black guy fuck their wife. I don’t know why it specifically has to be a black guy... seems a bit ‘get out’ to me. "

This is what I was trying to articulate but you did a way better job than me

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ... "

its an interesting question....

I have said they people will only use it if it is perceived to have an advantage....

it only stops when more people look at it as a negative than a positive

that day doesn't look like its coming anytime soon......

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"Some woman just love bbc... like don’t care what the guy looks like, they just love black cock. Personally, colour is irrelevant to me and I get black guys messaging like ‘do you like bbc?’ Well, I guess so but not any more than any other kind. I think mostly it’s a marketing ploy to meet couples because I also know A LOT of men who want to watch a black guy fuck their wife. I don’t know why it specifically has to be a black guy... seems a bit ‘get out’ to me.

This is what I was trying to articulate but you did a way better job than me "

Simple really because it is a fantasy. Fab is full of people trying to shame other people fantasy and claim higher moral ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some woman just love bbc... like don’t care what the guy looks like, they just love black cock. Personally, colour is irrelevant to me and I get black guys messaging like ‘do you like bbc?’ Well, I guess so but not any more than any other kind. I think mostly it’s a marketing ploy to meet couples because I also know A LOT of men who want to watch a black guy fuck their wife. I don’t know why it specifically has to be a black guy... seems a bit ‘get out’ to me.

This is what I was trying to articulate but you did a way better job than me

Simple really because it is a fantasy. Fab is full of people trying to shame other people fantasy and claim higher moral ground.

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That's not what this is, the question asked for peoples opinions which they gave.

If black men enjoy being used for the simple fact that they're black with no other consideration of other factors then fair play to them.

There are plenty of black people who dont like it and would actually prefer people meet them because they genuinely find them attractive and it's fair play to them as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple really because it is a fantasy. Fab is full of people trying to shame other people fantasy and claim higher moral ground.

That's not what this is, the question asked for peoples opinions which they gave.

If black men enjoy being used for the simple fact that they're black with no other consideration of other factors then fair play to them.

There are plenty of black people who dont like it and would actually prefer people meet them because they genuinely find them attractive and it's fair play to them as well"

That's one hell of a jump, to claim that a man describing himself as BBC must mean that he's happy to be used purely for the colour of his skin 'without consideration of other factors'. How do you know other factors are not being considered? I suspect that even the strongest advocates of the BBC term have additional preferences they look for before jumping into bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some woman just love bbc... like don’t care what the guy looks like, they just love black cock. Personally, colour is irrelevant to me and I get black guys messaging like ‘do you like bbc?’ Well, I guess so but not any more than any other kind. I think mostly it’s a marketing ploy to meet couples because I also know A LOT of men who want to watch a black guy fuck their wife. I don’t know why it specifically has to be a black guy... seems a bit ‘get out’ to me.

This is what I was trying to articulate but you did a way better job than me

Simple really because it is a fantasy. Fab is full of people trying to shame other people fantasy and claim higher moral ground.

That's not what this is, the question asked for peoples opinions which they gave.

If black men enjoy being used for the simple fact that they're black with no other consideration of other factors then fair play to them.

There are plenty of black people who dont like it and would actually prefer people meet them because they genuinely find them attractive and it's fair play to them as well"
well put.... i dont need to use the term bbc to get meets... some guys do... i think its just how you portray yourself on here... you wouldn't go into a club meet a girl and say hi... im a bbc lol

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By *g sandyMan
over a year ago

london

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over a year ago


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ...

Good question, for me it's an instant turn off. My husband's black but his skin colour (and cock) is incidental to who he is and he certainly would consider it demeaning as a human being to be regarded merely as a 'black cock'.

His view is that the black men who refer to themselves as 'big black cock' have bought into the fetishization of interracial sex by the (white controlled) porn industry because it develops a unique selling point, however crass that might be.

Interracial porn generally doesn't value black men as equals where references like 'blacked', 'bull' and 'BBC' are commonplace.

Just for the record I fully support people's right to express their preferences, some women prefer to meet black males for good reasons, it's just the reduction of black men to 'cock' that rankles!"
in gay saunas black men tend to cover up their cocks more, the expectation is they are all well endowed, but most are not and I believe they self conscious of this......some are which is a treat

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By *g sandyMan
over a year ago

london

i am more than a skin colour i am more than a penis iam person who has dreams and fantasies just like everyone else in the world lets be real we are still animals you are attracted to who you are attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in gay saunas black men tend to cover up their cocks more, the expectation is they are all well endowed, but most are not and I believe they self conscious of this......some are which is a treat "

The first black guy I ever slept with literally said to me ‘it’s not as big as you’d expect.’

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ... "

Why do some women refer to themselves as bbw? Why do some state they're Dom or sub etc.

In the fantasy world of Fab identifying yourself is a quick way, a "ready reckoner" if you will, to potential playmates.

If you prefer slim women, seeing bbw means that person is not for you. If you like being dominant in the bedroom, Doms/Dommes won't be for you. If you want to try interracial sex then bbc identifies your man.

The majority of people just want "normal" interaction so don't need a label.

How others choose their playmates is not for me to question.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ...

Why do some women refer to themselves as bbw? Why do some state they're Dom or sub etc.

In the fantasy world of Fab identifying yourself is a quick way, a "ready reckoner" if you will, to potential playmates.

If you prefer slim women, seeing bbw means that person is not for you. If you like being dominant in the bedroom, Doms/Dommes won't be for you. If you want to try interracial sex then bbc identifies your man.

The majority of people just want "normal" interaction so don't need a label.

How others choose their playmates is not for me to question.

"

I think the issue for the poster may be identifying as a 'black cock', rather than a 'black man', which still allows the preference to be established.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ...

Why do some women refer to themselves as bbw? Why do some state they're Dom or sub etc.

In the fantasy world of Fab identifying yourself is a quick way, a "ready reckoner" if you will, to potential playmates.

If you prefer slim women, seeing bbw means that person is not for you. If you like being dominant in the bedroom, Doms/Dommes won't be for you. If you want to try interracial sex then bbc identifies your man.

The majority of people just want "normal" interaction so don't need a label.

How others choose their playmates is not for me to question.

I think the issue for the poster may be identifying as a 'black cock', rather than a 'black man', which still allows the preference to be established."

You’re right! I meet men and some of them have been black.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question out there for all the beautiful black /mixed race men ...

Why do you refer to YOURSELF as bbc ... any man is more than just a cock. Not slating anyone as we all do our own thing but it’s something I’ve always wondered ...

Why do some women refer to themselves as bbw? Why do some state they're Dom or sub etc.

In the fantasy world of Fab identifying yourself is a quick way, a "ready reckoner" if you will, to potential playmates.

If you prefer slim women, seeing bbw means that person is not for you. If you like being dominant in the bedroom, Doms/Dommes won't be for you. If you want to try interracial sex then bbc identifies your man.

The majority of people just want "normal" interaction so don't need a label.

How others choose their playmates is not for me to question.

I think the issue for the poster may be identifying as a 'black cock', rather than a 'black man', which still allows the preference to be established."

I dont understand why it's so difficult to understand when its crystal clear what she was referring to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people think I'm mixed race / half-black.

-But I'm actually not..

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