FabSwingers.com forum: Guy’s first MMF

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m hoping 2020 will be the year I get to finally enjoy an MMF.

I’m guessing most couples would prefer an experienced guy over a first timer.

I strongly believe honesty is the best policy but would a couple be bothered with a newby or should I keep it quiet?

He said, announcing it to the whole site!!

By *winfrozrMan
over a year ago

Carnoustie

Just be honest and make sure you communicate and find out the couple’s expectations.

Let them lead

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m hoping 2020 will be the year I get to finally enjoy an MMF.

I’m guessing most couples would prefer an experienced guy over a first timer.

I strongly believe honesty is the best policy but would a couple be bothered with a newby or should I keep it quiet?

He said, announcing it to the whole site!!

You’ll be ok only a very small proportion of the site will see this. The forum is more a little niche than a place where your message gets broadcast to the 40000.

I’m inexperienced when it comes to MMF, but I think if there is mutual attraction and a willingness to explore together you can find people to meet to gain the experience. On here it’s a challenge for a single guy seeking any form of meet. However if you present yourself well on the site with good pictures and decent profile text and treat people the way you think they’d really like to be treated, there will be opportunities. If you are attractive to them and you can convey your personality in a way you can click with them, then there are possibilities.

Nevertheless most couples are here to fulfil their desires and fantasies and not to ‘teach’ novices, so realistically it is even more challenging than it is for more experienced guys.

By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"I’m hoping 2020 will be the year I get to finally enjoy an MMF.

I’m guessing most couples would prefer an experienced guy over a first timer.

I strongly believe honesty is the best policy but would a couple be bothered with a newby or should I keep it quiet?

He said, announcing it to the whole site!!

If you really want a threesome then go to clubs. As long as you're presentable, polite, clean and respectful you shouldn't have any trouble hooking up with a couple. They won't care whether you have any experience or not. Oh, and respect their boundaries when you play - don't take anything for granted.