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By *ikeC81 OP   Man
over a year ago

harrow

I guess this is a question for the ladies that like anal. Do you ask for it or do you expect the guys to tease and explore.

why I ask is I would like to do it more but don’t want to offend someone by asking as I know it’s a bit of a taboo

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It's sensible to discuss boundaries before playing, just ask "have you got any boundaries I need to know about before we start" it's dead easy and shows that you care about her. If she doesn't mention anything that you think could be contentious, clarify by saying "anal is ok then?"

Cal

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By *ikeC81 OP   Man
over a year ago

harrow


"It's sensible to discuss boundaries before playing, just ask "have you got any boundaries I need to know about before we start" it's dead easy and shows that you care about her. If she doesn't mention anything that you think could be contentious, clarify by saying "anal is ok then?"

Cal"

Will try that approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, that’s a discussion to have before a meet, because you know.... prep.

I wouldn’t assume it was ok though if she hadn’t mentioned it, just say you like it and ask if she does too. If not, ask if she enjoys a bit of bum play. If you meet regularly anal might become a thing.

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By *ikeC81 OP   Man
over a year ago

harrow

Thanks - I just find it a taboo question to ask lol

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"as I know it’s a bit of a taboo "

Nothing taboo about anal

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

You could always get a girlfriend and explore it with them.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Thanks - I just find it a taboo question to ask lol "

It's less taboo than an unexpected cock up the arse.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"Thanks - I just find it a taboo question to ask lol "

We've found that most of the folks that are in to anal sex have it ticked in their 'interests' though a 'have you any boundaries' chat always helps to clarify things.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

While it’s not taboo at all it can be a tricky subject to broach with a new partner. I’ve been dating a very sexy woman for the last six months. She made it clear from the start that it’s not an option. In a way this has relieved the pressure in terms of should I shouldn’t I type of thing. We often joke about it now but while I ‘go close’ we both know it’s not going in.

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