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By *r and Mrs B xx OP Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

So after another guy turning up without a comdom it's left us wondering why? He knew what he was visiting us for, do these guys expect/hope for bareback or just think they will be supplied?

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By *chilles and RavenCouple
over a year ago

Guernsey

"So after another guy turning up without a comdom it's left us wondering why? He knew what he was visiting us for, do these guys expect/hope for bareback or just think they will be supplied? "

We always supply our own, but that os more because am allergic to latex and that is definitely one place i do not want to have a reaction. But we do state to feel welcome to bring condoms. Latex free obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s manners and respect to bring some even if you Lucky enough not to be asked to use one

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Totally disrespectful in my eyes. Would rather say I will be a bit later as I have to get some, though I have loads in a bag so never a problem

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

The way I see this is that my health is my responsibility - no-one else's.

So it matters not to me whether a guy is carrying condoms or not, because I always have a stock of Durex and insist he wears one for anal sex.

It's up to him to look after his health and it's up to me to look after mine.

If that makes sense.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

They should of course come prepared but I also know women that only feel happy using their own, for obvious reasons

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By *inksAPlentyCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Always have the conversation up front that I can’t use latex condoms and the guys have always asked what they needed to buy. I supply my own so it’s not an issue.

However if I wasn’t allergic to latex then I would expect the guy to come along prepared.

OP what did you say to the guy?

Ms x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"The way I see this is that my health is my responsibility - no-one else's.

So it matters not to me whether a guy is carrying condoms or not, because I always have a stock of Durex and insist he wears one for anal sex.

It's up to him to look after his health and it's up to me to look after mine.

If that makes sense."

Yes, I always have my own.

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

He didnt want to risk the wife finding one he forgot in his pocket, that would lead to an awkward conversation

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By *etasubTV/TS
over a year ago

West of Newcastle

"The way I see this is that my health is my responsibility - no-one else's.

So it matters not to me whether a guy is carrying condoms or not, because I always have a stock of Durex and insist he wears one for anal sex.

It's up to him to look after his health and it's up to me to look after mine.

If that makes sense."

Fully agree, I always have condoms for a meet. No glove no love xx

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

If a guy turns up with no condoms, he is asked to leave and will never be contacted again. We do have condoms but the fact he has turned up without tells us he expected to play bareback.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"So after another guy turning up without a comdom it's left us wondering why? He knew what he was visiting us for, do these guys expect/hope for bareback or just think they will be supplied? "

At least he turned up. Lol

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"So after another guy turning up without a comdom it's left us wondering why? He knew what he was visiting us for, do these guys expect/hope for bareback or just think they will be supplied? "

We always discuss condoms and lube beforehand. That way everyone knows where they stand

Mrs TMN x

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

I allways have some it for everyone's safety

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Yep.

I think they are hoping we just say, "Ah, go on then!"

"If a guy turns up with no condoms, he is asked to leave and will never be contacted again. We do have condoms but the fact he has turned up without tells us he expected to play bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So after another guy turning up without a comdom it's left us wondering why? He knew what he was visiting us for, do these guys expect/hope for bareback or just think they will be supplied? "

Why wouldn't you supply your own anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I allways have some it for everyone's safety "

Which is the right thing to do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy turns up with no condoms, he is asked to leave and will never be contacted again. We do have condoms but the fact he has turned up without tells us he expected to play bareback.

Or just maybe he thinks you like supplying your own for safety reasons!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take my own, it's taken me awhile to find wide enough ones, had meets years ago in the nieve days where it felt my cock was going to drop off , they were so tight. I never ended up cumming which wasn't good.

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By *lack_alembicMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"So after another guy turning up without a comdom it's left us wondering why? He knew what he was visiting us for, do these guys expect/hope for bareback or just think they will be supplied? "

Its extremely questionable on his part unless you had spoke and advised you would supply your own? But as a general rule am very hygienic shower fresh clothes everything etc. But I also carry a wash bag to my meets with my condoms and a few other additional items like aftershave, moisturizer, gum, deodorant etc just incase you need to freshen up some more before knocking on someone's door.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"He didnt want to risk the wife finding one he forgot in his pocket, that would lead to an awkward conversation

So didn’t pass a single pub enroute?

But we agree with others you look after your health we’ll look after ours.

So we have condoms here even if WE never use them.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

Both party’s should come prepared

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By *ants cockWoman
over a year ago

lincoln

I always have my own. But I always discuss them before hand. Normally find out who is an is not ok with wearing them that way. The usual crap I’m so big they don’t fit me. I can’t feel anything lol

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By *r and Mrs B xx OP Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

"Always have the conversation up front that I can’t use latex condoms and the guys have always asked what they needed to buy. I supply my own so it’s not an issue.

However if I wasn’t allergic to latex then I would expect the guy to come along prepared.

OP what did you say to the guy?

Ms x"

I asked him as soon as we went to our room if he had one, I always do this so that they know that we don't do bare. He said that he hadn't brought one so hubby put a couple by the bed. Just amazed that they don't pop a couple in their pocket.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"So after another guy turning up without a comdom it's left us wondering why? He knew what he was visiting us for, do these guys expect/hope for bareback or just think they will be supplied? "
Did you ask him why he turned up without some?

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By *r and Mrs B xx OP Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

"So after another guy turning up without a comdom it's left us wondering why? He knew what he was visiting us for, do these guys expect/hope for bareback or just think they will be supplied?

Why wouldn't you supply your own anyway? "

We do have some, but if a guy knows that he's meeting for sex then it's just common sense to bring them.

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Personally, always bring my own. Irrespective of the where /When/ how...both parties should be responsible (that's not casting aspertions at ladies, just a generalisation).

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By *r and Mrs B xx OP Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

No we didn't, it was a holiday meet so we won't be seeing him again.

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By *r and Mrs B xx OP Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

It's the same in clubs though, we invite a guy to a room, close the door and ask do you have a condom and some say no, and they are on the bar to be taken!! Over excited perhaps?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Happens quite often it's why I always have them with me.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"He didnt want to risk the wife finding one he forgot in his pocket, that would lead to an awkward conversation

So didn’t pass a single pub enroute?

But we agree with others you look after your health we’ll look after ours.

So we have condoms here even if WE never use them.

I bought some condoms from my local pub once, they were 3 years out of date so of course went in the bin. Just goes to show how often sex happens my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think if your inviting a guy round to come a fuck you you should at least be prepared!?

Your going to let this guy out is cock in you and your worried about a £1 condom? Pmsl

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I.always carry a packet of condoms to a.meet

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

The cheeky cunt would be fucked of out the door by scruff of his neck

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I always bring my own to meets along with lube and tissues

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By *r and Mrs B xx OP Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

"Think if your inviting a guy round to come a fuck you you should at least be prepared!?

Your going to let this guy out is cock in you and your worried about a £1 condom? Pmsl"

Nothing to do with the cost, it's about good manners and my safety. Yes, I'm letting him put his cock in me so cover it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He may of expected you to have condoms , it's not an error that should be taken so seriously.

Communication is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think if your inviting a guy round to come a fuck you you should at least be prepared!?

Your going to let this guy out is cock in you and your worried about a £1 condom? Pmsl

Nothing to do with the cost, it's about good manners and my safety. Yes, I'm letting him put his cock in me so cover it. "

Did you offer him one of yours to use?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"It's the same in clubs though, we invite a guy to a room, close the door and ask do you have a condom and some say no, and they are on the bar to be taken!! Over excited perhaps?"

I get other guys in group play can they borrow a condom lol

Are they going to give it me back. I used to say ok then. But now I say no. If your to tight to have your own why should I give you mine.

Tbh the annoying people are the ones that nick them from your play bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think if your inviting a guy round to come a fuck you you should at least be prepared!?

Your going to let this guy out is cock in you and your worried about a £1 condom? Pmsl

Nothing to do with the cost, it's about good manners and my safety. Yes, I'm letting him put his cock in me so cover it.

Did you offer him one of yours to use?"

Poppycock (or popitonhiscock more like)

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By *r and Mrs B xx OP Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

"He may of expected you to have condoms , it's not an error that should be taken so seriously.

Communication is key"

It's just a "I wonder why guys don't bring them" not a serious problem, just guys getting lazy and CBA to go to the corner shop.

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By *r and Mrs B xx OP Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

"Think if your inviting a guy round to come a fuck you you should at least be prepared!?

Your going to let this guy out is cock in you and your worried about a £1 condom? Pmsl

Nothing to do with the cost, it's about good manners and my safety. Yes, I'm letting him put his cock in me so cover it.

Did you offer him one of yours to use?"

Of course.

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By *r and Mrs B xx OP Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

"Think if your inviting a guy round to come a fuck you you should at least be prepared!?

Your going to let this guy out is cock in you and your worried about a £1 condom? Pmsl

Nothing to do with the cost, it's about good manners and my safety. Yes, I'm letting him put his cock in me so cover it.

Did you offer him one of yours to use?

Poppycock (or popitonhiscock more like) "

What's that supposed to mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think if your inviting a guy round to come a fuck you you should at least be prepared!?

Your going to let this guy out is cock in you and your worried about a £1 condom? Pmsl

Nothing to do with the cost, it's about good manners and my safety. Yes, I'm letting him put his cock in me so cover it.

Did you offer him one of yours to use?

Of course."

Well it's not really mannerly to have posted this thread about him

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I thought it etiquette to takes ones own condoms.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Everyone should have their own, it's not just the mans responsibility.

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By *opitinpeteMan
over a year ago

tipton

How many people take there own food to a buffet they have been invited to ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always take me own but had one meet say she got some but they were a tad tight on me so bring me own now

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

I would have charged him a nominal sum and perhaps asked for a tip afterwards. These rap scallions turning up for a bit of hows your father without the right equipment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably best to supply your own. There is a bloke I’m aware of that *doctors* his by nipping off the tip before pulling it on.

doesn’t bear thinking of...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked a guy once and he said that if he shows up and doesn't have condoms, the majority of the time the woman/couple will agree to bareback.

I need non-latex so always keep my own supply, but it does concern me if a guy is unwilling to take any personal responsibility for safety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally always have my own but it shocks me how many men don’t bring condoms to meets, clubs and parties. Or only bring one and then beg others for more. It’s a complete mood killer for me if a guy wants to play but hasn’t got a condom. To me it just speaks to assumptions that he shouldn’t have made.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"How many people take there own food to a buffet they have been invited to ????"

One for the block list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also saddens me to see men squeezing their manhood into ill fitting condoms the thickness of a car tyre. No wonder they don’t enjoy them. Invest in some decent, correctly sized condoms for your assets and feel the difference!

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By *r and Mrs B xx OP Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"How many people take there own food to a buffet they have been invited to ????

One for the block list"

Really!!

Apparently even joking about bb can get you blocked by some.

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By *r and Mrs B xx OP Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

"Think if your inviting a guy round to come a fuck you you should at least be prepared!?

Your going to let this guy out is cock in you and your worried about a £1 condom? Pmsl

Nothing to do with the cost, it's about good manners and my safety. Yes, I'm letting him put his cock in me so cover it.

Did you offer him one of yours to use?

Of course.

Well it's not really mannerly to have posted this thread about him"

Have I named him?

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By *un_in_the_sunMan
over a year ago

paphos

its because your in cyprus everyone knows each other he couldnt go into a shop and buy them as his wife would have found out about it

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By *r and Mrs B xx OP Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

"I thought it etiquette to takes ones own condoms. "

At last a guy on our wave length.

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby

"The cheeky cunt would be fucked of out the door by scruff of his neck

Absolutely! As would all the guys on here who think being offered a hotwife to share is anything but a privilege.

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By *r and Mrs B xx OP Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

"its because your in cyprus everyone knows each other he couldnt go into a shop and buy them as his wife would have found out about it"

Pretty sure that this guy isn't married, but who knows? It happens in the UK too not only Cyprus.

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By *r and Mrs B xx OP Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

"The cheeky cunt would be fucked of out the door by scruff of his neck

Absolutely! As would all the guys on here who think being offered a hotwife to share is anything but a privilege."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think if your inviting a guy round to come a fuck you you should at least be prepared!?

Your going to let this guy out is cock in you and your worried about a £1 condom? Pmsl

Nothing to do with the cost, it's about good manners and my safety. Yes, I'm letting him put his cock in me so cover it.

Did you offer him one of yours to use?

Of course.

Well it's not really mannerly to have posted this thread about him

Have I named him? "

I don't think you need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was meeting I always supplied my own. I didn't trust that the condoms they had would be in date and I have latex sensitivities. I would also have a choice of sizes.

Belle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So after another guy turning up without a comdom it's left us wondering why? He knew what he was visiting us for, do these guys expect/hope for bareback or just think they will be supplied? "

I find that men expect me to supply them, which I usually do but sometimes the guys attitude about it puts me off and i dont meet x

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By *r and Mrs B xx OP Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

"Think if your inviting a guy round to come a fuck you you should at least be prepared!?

Your going to let this guy out is cock in you and your worried about a £1 condom? Pmsl

Nothing to do with the cost, it's about good manners and my safety. Yes, I'm letting him put his cock in me so cover it.

Did you offer him one of yours to use?

Of course.

Well it's not really mannerly to have posted this thread about him

Have I named him?

I don't think you need to "

Just what you are surmising, and you are surmising wrongly.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"So after another guy turning up without a comdom it's left us wondering why? He knew what he was visiting us for, do these guys expect/hope for bareback or just think they will be supplied? "

The last couple we played with didn’t bring any. They said oh we knew you’d have some. But the guy kept trying to slip in without a cover. I had to be so guarded and didn’t enjoy the meet. I’m not really sure what their intentions were. Needless to say we won’t be seeing them again (we take about 40+ every time as we usually get through quite a few with swapping and changing etc! And don’t ever want to run out!)

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

As host, I think you should always provide. But maybe I'm just old fashioned

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"He didnt want to risk the wife finding one he forgot in his pocket, that would lead to an awkward conversation

So didn’t pass a single pub enroute?

But we agree with others you look after your health we’ll look after ours.

So we have condoms here even if WE never use them.

I bought some condoms from my local pub once, they were 3 years out of date so of course went in the bin. Just goes to show how often sex happens my way

Blimey, do you travel?

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

"How many people take there own food to a buffet they have been invited to ????

One for the block list "

Over on Fab Guys, one of the "interests" users can display on their profile is "bareback".

It's very handy when a guy gets in touch.

If he is listing bareback, I'll reply: "Sorry, don't meet people listing bareback as an interest."

And block him.

My blocked list on Fab Guys is huge compared to Fab Swingers.

I wonder if it would be helpful addition to the "interests" you can display on Fab Swingers?

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

"Everyone should have their own, it's not just the mans responsibility."

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"As host, I think you should always provide. But maybe I'm just old fashioned

Our post we both had our own rooms at a hotel so we could of gone to either room. They still didn’t bring any!

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Always bring my own... Shows respect and a level of trust upfront i think.

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"If a guy turns up with no condoms, he is asked to leave and will never be contacted again. We do have condoms but the fact he has turned up without tells us he expected to play bareback.

Or just maybe he thinks you like supplying your own for safety reasons!! "
we do have a supply of condoms and lube but turning up with none says “bareback expected”. Not for us, sorry

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's worth a pointed statement of the most convenient condom outlet is to your venue, such as Tesco Express etc, so that they ensure that they arrive with the required stuff 'Tesco Express is a quarter of a mile away, so you can pick up extra condoms, if you're low, before you get here'.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

"So after another guy turning up without a comdom it's left us wondering why? He knew what he was visiting us for, do these guys expect/hope for bareback or just think they will be supplied? "

Personally, I'm not sure. But if that was a situation we came across we'd be tempted to show them the door.

Sure we have our own supply and are happy to share, but bringing none of their own indicates a willful disregard for their own health.

They have no idea if you would supply them and whether they would be the right size.

What if you need a particularly small or large version for your own use, hardly going to meet everyones needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pardon the pun I always cum prepared and will know the rules beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea, I always arrive with some.

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby

"It's worth a pointed statement of the most convenient condom outlet is to your venue, such as Tesco Express etc, so that they ensure that they arrive with the required stuff 'Tesco Express is a quarter of a mile away, so you can pick up extra condoms, if you're low, before you get here'. "

Or you could just be direct like us and say 'Bring your own condoms or you won't be playing'. This approach also wittles out those who can't follow Master's direction

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

As a single guy I would always take condoms on a date, even if I thought play was unlikely, just in case. It seems rude to expect the woman to provide them.

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