FabSwingers.com forum: Eureka

By *andal300 OP Man
over a year ago

brentwood

Do people go for a drink or stay nearby when visiting Eureka club? I can’t get my wife interested in trying swinging even though I’d love to see her in ecstasy with others.

I wondered if we were ‘accidentally’ somewhere where there were some happy swinging couples they might talk to us and spark her interest?

Any suggestions of encouragement please?

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Show her your profile I am sure it will get her interested.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Do people go for a drink or stay nearby when visiting Eureka club? I can’t get my wife interested in trying swinging even though I’d love to see her in ecstasy with others.

I wondered if we were ‘accidentally’ somewhere where there were some happy swinging couples they might talk to us and spark her interest?

Any suggestions of encouragement please?"
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My suggestion is that you open up to your wife. Make your marriage a space where you can both talk openly to each other. If it's not and you bring others in how will you deal be able to communicate about that?

Pay your wife the compliment of trusting her with your sexual fantasies.

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By *andal300 OP Man
over a year ago

brentwood

Thanks, I have spoken open and honestly about everything, I’ve asked her fantasies and suggested I arrange to fulfil whatever she would like but, she has none and thinks it’s all immoral, so I’m at a dead end

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks, I have spoken open and honestly about everything, I’ve asked her fantasies and suggested I arrange to fulfil whatever she would like but, she has none and thinks it’s all immoral, so I’m at a dead end "

Yes, you probably are. Why do you think talking to other people will change her mind? Genuine question.

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By *andal300 OP Man
over a year ago

brentwood

Just because, if she met people with no pressure and heard their views, she might realise there is nothing wrong with enjoying her body. Also I am desperate to fulfil fantasies of mine, preferably with her

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Just because, if she met people with no pressure and heard their views, she might realise there is nothing wrong with enjoying her body. Also I am desperate to fulfil fantasies of mine, preferably with her"

I see.

Does she know how driven you are to fulfil certain fantasies?

Personally I wouldn't want to be part of talking to a woman who didn't know my motive. I'm more than happy to discuss sex and swinging with people who are genuinely interested in the subject though.

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By *andal300 OP Man
over a year ago

brentwood

She knows every detail in full detail.

By the way, you and your mans pics are very nice

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"She knows every detail in full detail.

By the way, you and your mans pics are very nice"

Thanks.

Both of us understand that once you reach a certain stage in your life the urge to fulfil certain desires becomes almost an imperative, it's now or never sort of thing. There are things A would love to see me do that I simply am not capable of or have no desire to do and vice versa. We accept that but also encourage each other to explore further because we like to see each other enjoy them as you obviously want to see your wife. It's a "life situation" that she doesn't want to enjoy herself in a way you'd like her to.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

So does she think you doing it is immoral? If she knows everything, is she OK with you being on Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The great thing about Eureka is that the swinging is confined to the rooms. The majority of the space on a party night is just that, one big party. The first time we went was a Rocky Horror show theme night and I persuaded my wife to go simply for the dancing and socialising. There is no need to get involved in the swinging if you don't want to.

Eureka on a Saturday night is the kind of night out that most people can only dream about. Saturday Night Fever meets Anne Summers

We had so much fun dancing the night away that subsequent visits led to more adventurous activities.

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By *andal300 OP Man
over a year ago

brentwood

She thinks it’s ‘wrong’ she doesn’t know I’m on fab, I’m on here because life is passing by and I just want to enjoy this side of it, I would prefer it with her but Should I suffer or stray? even though I haven’t had any offers as yet ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She thinks it’s ‘wrong’ she doesn’t know I’m on fab, I’m on here because life is passing by and I just want to enjoy this side of it, I would prefer it with her but Should I suffer or stray? even though I haven’t had any offers as yet ha ha"

So who are the women in your pictures if you've had no luck and not strayed yet??

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Well your personal life is really non of my business, but as you asked and seem open to give out information.

Firstly Eureka is definitely not the place to take someone who doesn't like the lifestyle it's not a place for the fainthearted.

Second.

Tricking her into "accidentally" meeting swinger's is wrong, tricking anyone and lying is a sure fire way to end your marriage unless that's secretly what you want by sabotaging it??

Close this account dude, tell you wife you love her if she wants to swing she will forcing or tricking her will only end badly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did you take your vows for if you are wanting to stray from something your wife has no clue about. You are not alone. Many married people here without wife's consent.

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By *andal300 OP Man
over a year ago

brentwood

I think you've read it wrong, I don't want to trick her into going to eureka, I'd like her to be where people go for a drink or stay nearby, just to hear them talk about the lifestyle,that's the only 'trick'

There is no forcing into anything.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I think you've read it wrong, I don't want to trick her into going to eureka, I'd like her to be where people go for a drink or stay nearby, just to hear them talk about the lifestyle,that's the only 'trick'

There is no forcing into anything."

People are mostly quite discreet and won't discuss swinging openly in ordinary settings.

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By *andal300 OP Man
over a year ago

brentwood

Ok, thanks everyone, looks like I have much to learn

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