FabSwingers.com forum: Couples meeting straight females?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've put M/F couples as an option as I'm open to it depending on their playing dynamic. However, it seems unlikely as 99% of those who contact me are looking for a bi woman - to either put on some kind of lesbian show for the husband or to indulge him in other ways - neither of which appeal to me as I'm not here to he anyone's entertainment and nor am I an exhibitionist.

When told I an straight, most don't seem to respect that and think they can persuade me to play with the woman, be it heat of the moment or otherwise. It's quite annoying that people think I don't know my own mind and preferences.

Are there any M/F couples who play with straight females, where the wife perhaps takes a less active role or it's more about indulging the additional woman rather than treating her as an exhibition piece?

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We predominately do prefer females to bi purely because K is a greedy little madam and likes to play with both haha. Definitely not just for entertainment in our case.

However, we would possibly consider a straight female. But then it's whether they'd be comfortable with K possibly be tied up and made to watch. As that would be the type of dynamic which would appeal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't understand why cosmos that when a single man joins a M/F couple, it is not generally anticipated that he should he bi but when a single woman joins a M/F couple then there is a very high level anticipation that she would be bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get it all the time harley is straight and when we want a female it is for straight play only but most couples always think they can persuade her otherwise like they're going to be the exception and with the right person she will change her mind lol she just wants to play with guys amd is happy to let me play with the women xx

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By *J11Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

My Missus is straight too and wouldn’t even like to be present if I met a lady, so to me it doesn’t really matter if the lady I meet is straight or bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t see the point of a straight female playing with a couple, our FFM meets involve everyone getting involved with everyone, if 3 people are together and 2 people don’t play with each other that just seems strange.

OP what do you get out of a FFM meet that you don’t get out of a MF meet?

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Our preferences are to meet bi females bi female couples. Also as well I wouldnt want a female to feel uncomfortable around me being a bi female. Its purely because that's how we like to play.

That said we can and will play straight

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By *arracksCouple
over a year ago

Deal

"My Missus is straight too and wouldn’t even like to be present if I met a lady, so to me it doesn’t really matter if the lady I meet is straight or bisexual

Snap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand why cosmos that when a single man joins a M/F couple, it is not generally anticipated that he should he bi but when a single woman joins a M/F couple then there is a very high level anticipation that she would be bi"

A MMF meet with a straight guy means the lady gets 2 cocks to play with at the same time, so that’s different.

A FFM meet with a straight women, what does the bi lady get apart from watching there guy with another women which they can get with far less hassle from a meet with another couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can’t see the point of a straight female playing with a couple, our FFM meets involve everyone getting involved with everyone, if 3 people are together and 2 people don’t play with each other that just seems strange.

OP what do you get out of a FFM meet that you don’t get out of a MF meet? "

Do you see the point in single guys joining a M/F couple and the single guy only playing with the female while her partner watches or joins in with the woman only?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you are with your partner you can enjoy watching them be pleasured.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP what do you get out of a FFM meet that you don’t get out of a MF meet?

Do you see the point in single guys joining a M/F couple and the single guy only playing with the female while her partner watches or joins in with the woman only?"

Yes because as the women I’d be getting 2 cocks and 2 men to play with at the same time (as per my previous response) however MMF meets are rare for us and generally only happen in group situations, I’m far too bisexual and want lady interaction, hence we don’t meet straight women

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It seems to be widely accepted that a straight man may enjoy watching his wife play with another man or indulging her for the evening but a straight woman would not enjoy watching her husband with another woman?

Personally, I wouldn't share a partner of mine as that's not my preference but I've certainly enjoyed the attentions of 2 straight men so why is the concept of 2 straight women with 1 man so alien?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching is frankly boring!

I will ask the question in a different way, why would you play with a couple if you don’t want to interact with one of them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems to be widely accepted that a straight man may enjoy watching his wife play with another man or indulging her for the evening but a straight woman would not enjoy watching her husband with another woman?

Personally, I wouldn't share a partner of mine as that's not my preference but I've certainly enjoyed the attentions of 2 straight men so why is the concept of 2 straight women with 1 man so alien?"

Strange, you wouldn’t share your partner, but want others to share there’s and leave the lady watching, not really the ethos of swinging is it?

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We would meet a straight woman for a ffm. There is no reason why this should be perceived as different to a mmf but it often is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would indulge if the person is worth indulging but we are here for experiences we don't get at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've put M/F couples as an option as I'm open to it depending on their playing dynamic. However, it seems unlikely as 99% of those who contact me are looking for a bi woman - to either put on some kind of lesbian show for the husband or to indulge him in other ways - neither of which appeal to me as I'm not here to he anyone's entertainment and nor am I an exhibitionist.

We haven’t played with a straight woman yet but we’ve certainly discussed it and said we would without any expectation of girl/girl. Whilst we’re not adverse to it with the right woman, it’s never an expectation and only happens organically if it happens. We’re playing with the idea of wife watching and masturbating whilst watching husband with another woman or joining in but only playing with husband and both scenarios we find hot.

We generally meet for MFM and there’s never any guy on guy action (nor will there be!) so wouldn’t expect girl/girl either if we met with a straight lady. If you only want to play straight, fair play to you, that’s absolutely your choice and make sure everyone knows that it won’t change before meeting x

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

We a couple that wood love to met a woman to join us both strate we had lots of mfm wich hubby love I wood like him to enjoy a fmf

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Personally, I wouldn't share a partner of mine as that's not my preference but I've certainly enjoyed the attentions of 2 straight men so why is the concept of 2 straight women with 1 man so alien?

Strange, you wouldn’t share your partner, but want others to share there’s and leave the lady watching, not really the ethos of swinging is it? "

I don't have a partner to share.

But swinging isn't a massive free-for-all where anything goes. It's about respecting boundaries. I would never expect anyone to do anything they weren't comfortable with but that doesn't mean all couples play equally. Some people prefer to be voyeurs in a situation or there is the classic "hotwife" dynamic which people accept - why not accept a hothusband? That's OK if that's how both him and his partner like it.

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By *vesham cplCouple
over a year ago

Evesham

We have no problem with your scenario, one man having two women to satisfy, and be satisfied, by is a thing of fantasy. If the ladies aren't bi then it means more attention to the man xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"We a couple that wood love to met a woman to join us both strate we had lots of mfm wich hubby love I wood like him to enjoy a fmf "

Maybe consider updating your profile to reflect this as it says you are only looking to meet single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP what do you get out of a FFM meet that you don’t get out of a MF meet?

Do you see the point in single guys joining a M/F couple and the single guy only playing with the female while her partner watches or joins in with the woman only?"

Or just goes off to play on his or her own to excite their sexual lives. It's supposed to enhance sexual lives and make it more interesting to have open relationships so you can fuck who you like

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We would meet a straight woman for a ffm. There is no reason why this should be perceived as different to a mmf but it often is"

I really don't understand why people find the concept so difficult to grasp - is it because people think all women are secretly bi and with the right persuasion/person, will suddenly decide they like vagina after all?

If a man can enjoy watching his female partner with another man and nobody expects the 2 fellas to get it on, why can people not accept a straight woman watching her male partner with another woman without expecting side lesbian action?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

The question is what does the single woman gain from it, rather than just playing with the man on her own.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"Watching is frankly boring!

I will ask the question in a different way, why would you play with a couple if you don’t want to interact with one of them?

Well that's me told.

I thought a male would enjoy having; a lady to lick whilst another rides him or sucks him.

It's not bi to share licking a dick.

There's many more possibilities too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will struggle to find this dynamic. As a couple with a straight female we have had plenty of meets where 'unicorn hunters' have tried their luck. We've got used to it and can now spot these couples a mile off and we avoid them like the plague.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You will struggle to find this dynamic. As a couple with a straight female we have had plenty of meets where 'unicorn hunters' have tried their luck. We've got used to it and can now spot these couples a mile off and we avoid them like the plague."

It's not something I'm particularly searching for, just open to. I just don't get why the assumption is always that I'll play with a woman even though my profile says I'm straight but when I used to be part of a straight couple on here, not once did a single guy expect my partner to play with him

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"We would meet a straight woman for a ffm. There is no reason why this should be perceived as different to a mmf but it often is

We agree and have chatted with a couple of straight ladies who liked the idea of joining a couple. Although no one questions what a single straight guy gets from joining a couple it is harder for some to understand what a single straight lady gets from joining a couple. From our conversations it would seem some like the idea of working in tandem to pleasure the guy, some like to watch, some are intrigued by the idea of it more than anything. Either way, as long as all those playing are happy it's not really for anyone else to question it. If it's not for you that's fine but you don't have to be negative about other people's choices

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Absolutely bang on the money. Attached straight males’ fantasy this. Completely stereotypical and predictable. Most couples driven by male fantasy and the women only too happy to oblige in being a part time bisexual wife/girlfriend. The legitimate couples on here will see the sarcasm, only the fantasists will be offended.

For the record, Lou has played Bi but definitely prefers men. I am completely straight. In no way would we ever dream of ‘taking one for the team’ just to satisfy the other one’s needs/fantasy.

Everyone needs to be comfortable (including any third party) or no play. Drama free play has a lot more longevity.

Ed x

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

We have a couples profile and then have our own profiles. So have single meets or couples meets

I love sharing him and happy to join in or sit back and tease him in other ways. So yes we do exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be more than happy to not be involved if hubby meets a straight lady. I would actually prefer not to be there at all and for him to give me the details when he returns home. Cece xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples message us on here asking if Mrs Cherry will kiss or go down on another woman on a meet! When we say no shes straight we get blocked. Some people really don't get it, as you say they dont expect the straight guy to play with the male half.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

For us the starting point is how we get on with the person/people who join us. If we like them and the chemistry is there we would be open to being sexual with them. We would never pressure anybody into pretending to be bi. We totally respect if somebody is straight.

We would prefer bi because Hannah likes women and has had full sex with a woman on more than one occasion and it would be lovely for all to share enjoyment of all. The dynamic of a straight woman joining us would be different to a bi woman. There would be a lot more focus on the man making it less even. That doesn't mean we would turn it down if we really liked the lady in question.

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By *ornycoupleleedsCouple
over a year ago

LEEDS

We happy to play with straight female

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We have met straight single women in the past and would again if the opportunity arises,

Having done both bi & straight ffm meets both can be just as much fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Watching is frankly boring!

I will ask the question in a different way, why would you play with a couple if you don’t want to interact with one of them?

Well that's me told.

I thought a male would enjoy having; a lady to lick whilst another rides him or sucks him.

It's not bi to share licking a dick.

There's many more possibilities too

Agreed hubby loves it when I sit on his face while another lady rides him, but frankly I’d miss the snogging and touching whilst doing this with the other lady, hence why we don’t meet straight ladies.

Let’s be honest many straight single guys will play with a couple just to get a play, something single women don’t have to worry about, hence why I can’t see why a straight single women wants to play with a couple.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"Watching is frankly boring!

I will ask the question in a different way, why would you play with a couple if you don’t want to interact with one of them?

Well that's me told.

I thought a male would enjoy having; a lady to lick whilst another rides him or sucks him.

It's not bi to share licking a dick.

There's many more possibilities too

Maybe she just really likes the guy and wants to fuck him, or maybe she gets off on fucking another Woman's husband while his wife watches. It doesn't really matter does it, if you don't understand the appeal of it that's your problem nobody else's.

It's no different to a straight guy joining a straight couple for a mmf, it's exactly the same dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckqueens roles are very very few I'd say. Now I ask if you not looking to play with both why do u want to meet a MF couple then ?

What is that you expect from a couples meet where the female f/couple doesnt get to join you and her hubby's.

I'm confused but curious too OP.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Watching is frankly boring!

I will ask the question in a different way, why would you play with a couple if you don’t want to interact with one of them?

Well that's me told.

I thought a male would enjoy having; a lady to lick whilst another rides him or sucks him.

It's not bi to share licking a dick.

There's many more possibilities too

It's no different to a straight guy joining a straight couple for a mmf, it's exactly the same dynamic."

But OP says shes not an exhibitionist, I go back to same question.. what is to be expected from meeting a couple then ?

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

As a pansexual lady, I fully respect a straight lady. I would not try to encourage her to play bi. The only thing is, I would not exspect to sit on the sidelines and watch. I would play with my fella, just as much as the other lady.

I suppose, it's the same as a mmf with another straight guy. Straight guy woukd play with me, just as much as my fella would. The guys would not play with each other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I really do not understand the controversy here - single me don't face this level of questioning when joining straight couples.

As I said, it is not something I am particularly looking for but would consider. When in a couple we had a straight guy join us - I enjoyed it. I'm no longer in a couple and am only interested in men but would consider joining a couple just for sheer variety. If the wife wants to watch, she can - I'm.nit an exhibitionist but with the right couple I felt comfortable with, it might be quite sexy. If she'd like me to help her tease and please the husband that sounds quite cool. Sharing an experience with a different kind of dynamic might be good fun, too.

What is confusing or controversial about that? For too many people projecting their own tastes and preferences onto other people's situations. Amazing double standards, imagine a single , straight guy saying he'd like to join a couple and people questioning why he'd want to or people assuming that the 2 men must surely be at least bi or it's a wasted or unfair experience.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"I really do not understand the controversy here - single me don't face this level of questioning when joining straight couples.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"Watching is frankly boring!

I will ask the question in a different way, why would you play with a couple if you don’t want to interact with one of them?

Well that's me told.

I thought a male would enjoy having; a lady to lick whilst another rides him or sucks him.

It's not bi to share licking a dick.

There's many more possibilities too

It's no different to a straight guy joining a straight couple for a mmf, it's exactly the same dynamic.

But OP says shes not an exhibitionist, I go back to same question.. what is to be expected from meeting a couple then ? "

Like I said maybe the straight woman just really likes the guy, finds him very attractive for whatever reason and wants to fuck him. There's plenty of threads on here about the lack of decent single guys, if a woman finds a guy she wants but he happens to be half of a couple why shouldn't she pursue it if it suits both parties.

Or maybe she just gets off on fucking married guys (being watched or not isn't really relevant).

That's just two reasons I can think of and I'm not even a woman, I'm sure an actual straight woman could give other reasons.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I really do not understand the controversy here - single me don't face this level of questioning when joining straight couples.

The rest of the UK just hasn't caught up with our forward thinking liberalism and equality of the sexes which we have here in Norfolk

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

We have the absolute opposite. We'd love to find an attractive straight lady that wants to play but always get the bi or bi-curious ones interested in S.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If I choose to play with a couple it is always with a bi woman. Obviously more pleasurable for me than playing alongside a straight woman.

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