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"No I mean overweight." Oh right, yes I do like big squishy beer bellies, especially if they're hairy 
Depends on the guy though, I need to like his face and personality too. | |||
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"No I mean overweight. Oh right, yes I do like big squishy beer bellies, especially if they're hairy
Depends on the guy though, I need to like his face and personality too. "Do you like larger men with Pettit wives? | |||
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"No I mean overweight. Oh right, yes I do like big squishy beer bellies, especially if they're hairy
"Wahey... " Depends on the guy though, I need to like his face and personality too. " Ohhh... | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come..." Your cocks in proportion though... yummy  | |||
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"No I mean overweight. Oh right, yes I do like big squishy beer bellies, especially if they're hairy
Depends on the guy though, I need to like his face and personality too. "One big squishy beer bellies man here, And hairy with it!  | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come..." If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... Your cocks in proportion though... yummy "It is indeed! Thanks for peeking xx | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? " I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol | |||
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"16.5 time here and do not like it!! If I don't like me how can anyone else" stone? | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol " I wish you were within my travel.. I love a giant witj big warm hands... mmmmm | |||
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"No I mean overweight. Oh right, yes I do like big squishy beer bellies, especially if they're hairy
Depends on the guy though, I need to like his face and personality too.
One big squishy beer bellies man here, And hairy with it! "Mmmm and beardy | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol " Ah I never did get that BMI stuff I just go by average as in not fat or thin lol x | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol Ah I never did get that BMI stuff I just go by average as in not fat or thin lol x" Yeah that's me....just on a huge frame x | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol " Actually that's obese for your height as your BMI is over 30 BMI works for an average guideline and only doesn't work if you're fit | |||
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"On the chunkier side and hairy here! An acquired taste I’m sure, but I’m happy and comfortable in my self. " Mmmm | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol Actually that's obese for your height as your BMI is over 30 BMI works for an average guideline and only doesn't work if you're fit " No need to be rude.. just scroll past if you've nothing nice to add | |||
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"Out of shape but happy in my skin. Same hun.. same "Plenty of sexercise is the cure  | |||
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"Out of shape but happy in my skin. Same hun.. same
Plenty of sexercise is the cure "I wish I had the energy.. full of bloody cold again!!! | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol Actually that's obese for your height as your BMI is over 30 BMI works for an average guideline and only doesn't work if you're fit No need to be rude.. just scroll past if you've nothing nice to add" That's not rude, that's just a fact. Like "your house is on fire", or "If you keep walking towards the cliff edge, you'll fall down". | |||
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"Out of shape but happy in my skin. Same hun.. same
Plenty of sexercise is the cure
I wish I had the energy.. full of bloody cold again!!!"Sorry to hear that. Best way to get ride of a cold is sexercise lol. | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol Actually that's obese for your height as your BMI is over 30 BMI works for an average guideline and only doesn't work if you're fit No need to be rude.. just scroll past if you've nothing nice to add" Wasn't being rude in the slightest and sorry you took it that way! Just passing on the information that he said he couldn't find as it's part of my job so I have the relevant information!! | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol Actually that's obese for your height as your BMI is over 30 BMI works for an average guideline and only doesn't work if you're fit No need to be rude.. just scroll past if you've nothing nice to add That's not rude, that's just a fact. Like "your house is on fire", or "If you keep walking towards the cliff edge, you'll fall down". " Thanks! Wasn't intended to be! | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol Actually that's obese for your height as your BMI is over 30 BMI works for an average guideline and only doesn't work if you're fit No need to be rude.. just scroll past if you've nothing nice to add That's not rude, that's just a fact. Like "your house is on fire", or "If you keep walking towards the cliff edge, you'll fall down". Thanks! Wasn't intended to be! "I think highlighting the fact that someone is obese, when they didn't ask for the info can sound rude.. I wouldn't personally like it | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol Actually that's obese for your height as your BMI is over 30 BMI works for an average guideline and only doesn't work if you're fit No need to be rude.. just scroll past if you've nothing nice to add That's not rude, that's just a fact. Like "your house is on fire", or "If you keep walking towards the cliff edge, you'll fall down". Thanks! Wasn't intended to be!
I think highlighting the fact that someone is obese, when they didn't ask for the info can sound rude.. I wouldn't personally like it"Not sure I would like people saying they are average when they are overweight if it's not what the person is looking for. | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol Actually that's obese for your height as your BMI is over 30 BMI works for an average guideline and only doesn't work if you're fit No need to be rude.. just scroll past if you've nothing nice to add That's not rude, that's just a fact. Like "your house is on fire", or "If you keep walking towards the cliff edge, you'll fall down". Thanks! Wasn't intended to be!
I think highlighting the fact that someone is obese, when they didn't ask for the info can sound rude.. I wouldn't personally like it
Not sure I would like people saying they are average when they are overweight if it's not what the person is looking for."Surely people don't meet solely based on their profile description? Photos are exchanged, maybe even a social meet? I personally meet all ages, and body types, the connection is far more important to me | |||
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it doesn't seem to have made much difference to my Fab life although I feel a lot better in my own skin | |||
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"I've lost 5 stone this year but still got a bit of belly left it doesn't seem to have made much difference to my Fab life although I feel a lot better in my own skin "That's amazing, well done! | |||
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"I've lost 5 stone this year but still got a bit of belly left it doesn't seem to have made much difference to my Fab life although I feel a lot better in my own skin
That's amazing, well done! "Thanks! I feel fitter and healthier at 42 than I did at 32, it feels great to have wound the clock back a bit on old age and ill health. I discovered I had a magnesium deficiency more or less by accident! Dropped most of the weight in about six months then have been working in my first ever 'physcial' (as opposed to desk-bound) job since October to get my fitness level up to where it ought to be. Only trouble is I am now so busy with work I don't have much time for meeting new people or a social life. | |||
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"I've lost 5 stone this year but still got a bit of belly left it doesn't seem to have made much difference to my Fab life although I feel a lot better in my own skin "Well done you.. I've been trying to lose weight for years! I lose a bit then find excuses to stop again.. maybe 2020 I'll finally get my act together | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol Actually that's obese for your height as your BMI is over 30 BMI works for an average guideline and only doesn't work if you're fit No need to be rude.. just scroll past if you've nothing nice to add That's not rude, that's just a fact. Like "your house is on fire", or "If you keep walking towards the cliff edge, you'll fall down". Thanks! Wasn't intended to be!
I think highlighting the fact that someone is obese, when they didn't ask for the info can sound rude.. I wouldn't personally like it
Not sure I would like people saying they are average when they are overweight if it's not what the person is looking for.
Surely people don't meet solely based on their profile description? Photos are exchanged, maybe even a social meet?
I personally meet all ages, and body types, the connection is far more important to me "Profile description is everything to me as I dont know the person so I think I would be upset to meet somone who has clearly lied on it if they can be dishonest on that what else are they being dishonest on ? | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol Actually that's obese for your height as your BMI is over 30 BMI works for an average guideline and only doesn't work if you're fit No need to be rude.. just scroll past if you've nothing nice to add That's not rude, that's just a fact. Like "your house is on fire", or "If you keep walking towards the cliff edge, you'll fall down". Thanks! Wasn't intended to be!
I think highlighting the fact that someone is obese, when they didn't ask for the info can sound rude.. I wouldn't personally like it
Not sure I would like people saying they are average when they are overweight if it's not what the person is looking for.
Surely people don't meet solely based on their profile description? Photos are exchanged, maybe even a social meet?
I personally meet all ages, and body types, the connection is far more important to me
Profile description is everything to me as I dont know the person so I think I would be upset to meet somone who has clearly lied on it if they can be dishonest on that what else are they being dishonest on ? "I wouldn't meet someone based only on their profile description unless they had plenty of recent clear pictures of what they look like. Then the word they use to describe themselves doesn't matter as I can see them and decide for myself. Everyone sees themselves differently, it doesn't make them dishonest. | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol Actually that's obese for your height as your BMI is over 30 BMI works for an average guideline and only doesn't work if you're fit No need to be rude.. just scroll past if you've nothing nice to add That's not rude, that's just a fact. Like "your house is on fire", or "If you keep walking towards the cliff edge, you'll fall down". Thanks! Wasn't intended to be!
I think highlighting the fact that someone is obese, when they didn't ask for the info can sound rude.. I wouldn't personally like it
Not sure I would like people saying they are average when they are overweight if it's not what the person is looking for.
Surely people don't meet solely based on their profile description? Photos are exchanged, maybe even a social meet?
I personally meet all ages, and body types, the connection is far more important to me
Profile description is everything to me as I dont know the person so I think I would be upset to meet somone who has clearly lied on it if they can be dishonest on that what else are they being dishonest on ?
I wouldn't meet someone based only on their profile description unless they had plenty of recent clear pictures of what they look like. Then the word they use to describe themselves doesn't matter as I can see them and decide for myself. Everyone sees themselves differently, it doesn't make them dishonest. "Exactly.. I'm described as curvy, others might use the term, chubby, fat or large.. I'm certainly not pretending to be something I'm not | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol Actually that's obese for your height as your BMI is over 30 BMI works for an average guideline and only doesn't work if you're fit No need to be rude.. just scroll past if you've nothing nice to add That's not rude, that's just a fact. Like "your house is on fire", or "If you keep walking towards the cliff edge, you'll fall down". Thanks! Wasn't intended to be!
I think highlighting the fact that someone is obese, when they didn't ask for the info can sound rude.. I wouldn't personally like it
Not sure I would like people saying they are average when they are overweight if it's not what the person is looking for.
Surely people don't meet solely based on their profile description? Photos are exchanged, maybe even a social meet?
I personally meet all ages, and body types, the connection is far more important to me
Profile description is everything to me as I dont know the person so I think I would be upset to meet somone who has clearly lied on it if they can be dishonest on that what else are they being dishonest on ?
I wouldn't meet someone based only on their profile description unless they had plenty of recent clear pictures of what they look like. Then the word they use to describe themselves doesn't matter as I can see them and decide for myself. Everyone sees themselves differently, it doesn't make them dishonest.
Exactly.. I'm described as curvy, others might use the term, chubby, fat or large..
I'm certainly not pretending to be something I'm not "Wow started something here. To be honest I actually feel it shows the inadequacies of the BMI system. My body fat is only 18% which is considered average. I also currently play sport at a high level not as high as I used to, but one where an obese person would struggle. Anyways....lol.....it's all good | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol Actually that's obese for your height as your BMI is over 30 BMI works for an average guideline and only doesn't work if you're fit No need to be rude.. just scroll past if you've nothing nice to add That's not rude, that's just a fact. Like "your house is on fire", or "If you keep walking towards the cliff edge, you'll fall down". Thanks! Wasn't intended to be!
I think highlighting the fact that someone is obese, when they didn't ask for the info can sound rude.. I wouldn't personally like it
Not sure I would like people saying they are average when they are overweight if it's not what the person is looking for.
Surely people don't meet solely based on their profile description? Photos are exchanged, maybe even a social meet?
I personally meet all ages, and body types, the connection is far more important to me
Profile description is everything to me as I dont know the person so I think I would be upset to meet somone who has clearly lied on it if they can be dishonest on that what else are they being dishonest on ?
I wouldn't meet someone based only on their profile description unless they had plenty of recent clear pictures of what they look like. Then the word they use to describe themselves doesn't matter as I can see them and decide for myself. Everyone sees themselves differently, it doesn't make them dishonest.
Exactly.. I'm described as curvy, others might use the term, chubby, fat or large..
I'm certainly not pretending to be something I'm not
Wow started something here. To be honest I actually feel it shows the inadequacies of the BMI system. My body fat is only 18% which is considered average. I also currently play sport at a high level not as high as I used to, but one where an obese person would struggle.
Anyways....lol.....it's all good
"Well it was me that seemed to start it but if you need any more info please feel free to message and I'll happily pass it on! I work in sport too with very very big guys lol so actually understand how and when the BMI doesn't work if it helps. | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol Actually that's obese for your height as your BMI is over 30 BMI works for an average guideline and only doesn't work if you're fit No need to be rude.. just scroll past if you've nothing nice to add That's not rude, that's just a fact. Like "your house is on fire", or "If you keep walking towards the cliff edge, you'll fall down". Thanks! Wasn't intended to be!
I think highlighting the fact that someone is obese, when they didn't ask for the info can sound rude.. I wouldn't personally like it
Not sure I would like people saying they are average when they are overweight if it's not what the person is looking for.
Surely people don't meet solely based on their profile description? Photos are exchanged, maybe even a social meet?
I personally meet all ages, and body types, the connection is far more important to me
Profile description is everything to me as I dont know the person so I think I would be upset to meet somone who has clearly lied on it if they can be dishonest on that what else are they being dishonest on ?
I wouldn't meet someone based only on their profile description unless they had plenty of recent clear pictures of what they look like. Then the word they use to describe themselves doesn't matter as I can see them and decide for myself. Everyone sees themselves differently, it doesn't make them dishonest.
Exactly.. I'm described as curvy, others might use the term, chubby, fat or large..
I'm certainly not pretending to be something I'm not
Wow started something here. To be honest I actually feel it shows the inadequacies of the BMI system. My body fat is only 18% which is considered average. I also currently play sport at a high level not as high as I used to, but one where an obese person would struggle.
Anyways....lol.....it's all good
Well it was me that seemed to start it but if you need any more info please feel free to message and I'll happily pass it on! I work in sport too with very very big guys lol so actually understand how and when the BMI doesn't work if it helps. "I can't as out of your age range...  | |||
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"16.5 time here and do not like it!! If I don't like me how can anyone elsestone? " Yeah, stone, missed that lol bloody fat fingers! | |||
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"No I mean overweight. Oh right, yes I do like big squishy beer bellies, especially if they're hairy
Depends on the guy though, I need to like his face and personality too. "Sounds like I'm in lol | |||
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"I've lost 5 stone this year but still got a bit of belly left it doesn't seem to have made much difference to my Fab life although I feel a lot better in my own skin "Great news, how did you do it as looking to loose some in 2020 | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come..." Now I thought I was a big lad at 6’5” and 22 stone! | |||
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"Personally, if someone discriminates based on size without getting to know the other person, then that rules out me wanting to meet them anyway. I’m much happier meeting someone who actually wants to get to know me, rather than judging me on my size." | |||
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" Blokes like me don’t stand a chance. I could be the best shag on here but I’ll never get the chance. " You have a verified meet which says otherwise. So already you're doing better than most. Especially since you're in the same area as me where there aren't that many options anyway. | |||
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"Sorry but i am not sexually attracted to men who are clearly overweight. If it bothers you so much then maybe you should look losing a few pounds." I’m sure that will break every overweight guys heart  that find you attractive
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"Body size has no relevance to me as i tend to go on face, personality and sexual aura. As long as the guy is able to take me to pound town and is active around the bed/bedroom then i’m happy. I don’t want a guy who just lays there expecting me to do all the work." Not even with you on top | |||
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"But that’s my point, we don’t get to talk to any women because we don’t get given the chance. The way I met one of the women on my veris was by sending her a fake pic via kik at the beginning to prove a point. I bet my mate I could win her over with my personality and I did. I know it was wrong but I needed to prove a point. We talked for ages and when I came clean she realised she had fallen for me as a person and not the bloke in the pic. We ended up meeting and now we meet regularly as she claims We have the best sex she’s had. She no longer just goes for guys with six packs." You just met someone 6 days ago, so how can you say you don't get to talk to any woman, when clearly you have. And very recently | |||
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"Not for me i'm afraid...was put off once when a guy was behind me and the first thing i felt was his gut..." Was there really any need to post such a negative comment. Especially when your not exactly small yourself. | |||
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"Not for me i'm afraid...was put off once when a guy was behind me and the first thing i felt was his gut... Was there really any need to post such a negative comment. Especially when your not exactly small yourself." | |||
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"Not for me i'm afraid...was put off once when a guy was behind me and the first thing i felt was his gut... Was there really any need to post such a negative comment. Especially when your not exactly small yourself." People can post whatever they like regardless of their size. Just because some one else is large (which she isn't) doesn't mean they can't have a preference to meet people who arent large. | |||
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"Not for me i'm afraid...was put off once when a guy was behind me and the first thing i felt was his gut... Was there really any need to post such a negative comment. Especially when your not exactly small yourself. People can post whatever they like regardless of their size. Just because some one else is large (which she isn't) doesn't mean they can't have a preference to meet people who arent large." Yes but there’s ways to say things without being a dick | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol Actually that's obese for your height as your BMI is over 30 BMI works for an average guideline and only doesn't work if you're fit No need to be rude.. just scroll past if you've nothing nice to add That's not rude, that's just a fact. Like "your house is on fire", or "If you keep walking towards the cliff edge, you'll fall down". Thanks! Wasn't intended to be!
I think highlighting the fact that someone is obese, when they didn't ask for the info can sound rude.. I wouldn't personally like it
Not sure I would like people saying they are average when they are overweight if it's not what the person is looking for.
Surely people don't meet solely based on their profile description? Photos are exchanged, maybe even a social meet?
I personally meet all ages, and body types, the connection is far more important to me
Profile description is everything to me as I dont know the person so I think I would be upset to meet somone who has clearly lied on it if they can be dishonest on that what else are they being dishonest on ?
I wouldn't meet someone based only on their profile description unless they had plenty of recent clear pictures of what they look like. Then the word they use to describe themselves doesn't matter as I can see them and decide for myself. Everyone sees themselves differently, it doesn't make them dishonest.
Exactly.. I'm described as curvy, others might use the term, chubby, fat or large..
I'm certainly not pretending to be something I'm not "I think my profile name pretty much says it all....
Profile description describes me as I am. Yes I could probably get more meets if I wasn't honest in it but that defeats the purpose. I lay my cards on the table so people can choose accordingly | |||
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"6'10...22 stone here lol Pretty much as big as they come... If your 22 stone why are you saying your average? I That is average for my height....well actually don't fit on the BMI thing as only goes to 6'7 so I don't exist lol Actually that's obese for your height as your BMI is over 30 BMI works for an average guideline and only doesn't work if you're fit No need to be rude.. just scroll past if you've nothing nice to add That's not rude, that's just a fact. Like "your house is on fire", or "If you keep walking towards the cliff edge, you'll fall down". Thanks! Wasn't intended to be!
I think highlighting the fact that someone is obese, when they didn't ask for the info can sound rude.. I wouldn't personally like it
Not sure I would like people saying they are average when they are overweight if it's not what the person is looking for.
Surely people don't meet solely based on their profile description? Photos are exchanged, maybe even a social meet?
I personally meet all ages, and body types, the connection is far more important to me
Profile description is everything to me as I dont know the person so I think I would be upset to meet somone who has clearly lied on it if they can be dishonest on that what else are they being dishonest on ?
I wouldn't meet someone based only on their profile description unless they had plenty of recent clear pictures of what they look like. Then the word they use to describe themselves doesn't matter as I can see them and decide for myself. Everyone sees themselves differently, it doesn't make them dishonest.
Exactly.. I'm described as curvy, others might use the term, chubby, fat or large..
I'm certainly not pretending to be something I'm not
I think my profile name pretty much says it all....
Profile description describes me as I am. Yes I could probably get more meets if I wasn't honest in it but that defeats the purpose. I lay my cards on the table so people can choose accordingly "Best way to be, you should be ashamed of who you are. This is a sex site, you could be the best sex in here but I bet you don’t get much chance to prove it. | |||
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"Not for me i'm afraid...was put off once when a guy was behind me and the first thing i felt was his gut... Was there really any need to post such a negative comment. Especially when your not exactly small yourself. People can post whatever they like regardless of their size. Just because some one else is large (which she isn't) doesn't mean they can't have a preference to meet people who arent large. Yes but there’s ways to say things without being a dick " I agree, I also wouldn't stoop to their level though. | |||
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"Not for me i'm afraid...was put off once when a guy was behind me and the first thing i felt was his gut... Was there really any need to post such a negative comment. Especially when your not exactly small yourself." You asked a question and i answered honestly..sorry you didn't appreciate it. | |||
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"I didn’t meet them on fab. Interesting. " One was on another site and the other was a friend of my ex that introduced us to fab. | |||
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"Not for me i'm afraid...was put off once when a guy was behind me and the first thing i felt was his gut... Was there really any need to post such a negative comment. Especially when your not exactly small yourself. People can post whatever they like regardless of their size. Just because some one else is large (which she isn't) doesn't mean they can't have a preference to meet people who arent large. Yes but there’s ways to say things without being a dick I agree, I also wouldn't stoop to their level though. " But I loved the white knighting
And in op view the person in question is large. People should respect other people’s opinions. Even if they disagree with them. | |||
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"Not for me i'm afraid...was put off once when a guy was behind me and the first thing i felt was his gut... Was there really any need to post such a negative comment. Especially when your not exactly small yourself. You asked a question and i answered honestly..sorry you didn't appreciate it. " There’s a way of putting things and if your reply is just going to belittle larger people why comment at all. This post is clearly asking who would meet larger people not who wouldn’t. | |||
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"I didn’t meet them on fab. Interesting. One was on another site and the other was a friend of my ex that introduced us to fab." So what about the one who just verified you though, you managed to talk to and meet her... I'm a bit confused, it's not really important, but you did say no woman talks to you on here when they clearly do. | |||
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"I didn’t meet them on fab. Interesting. One was on another site and the other was a friend of my ex that introduced us to fab. So what about the one who just verified you though, you managed to talk to and meet her... I'm a bit confused, it's not really important, but you did say no woman talks to you on here when they clearly do. " She’s the one I know through my ex. | |||
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"I didn’t meet them on fab. Interesting. One was on another site and the other was a friend of my ex that introduced us to fab. So what about the one who just verified you though, you managed to talk to and meet her... I'm a bit confused, it's not really important, but you did say no woman talks to you on here when they clearly do. She’s the one I know through my ex." Ah, got it. | |||
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"Not being a rude bellend wouid help. Lots of people have a type that they prefer. You’ve had a meet and a verification. Get a grip ! And before you say it I’m very aware that I’m fat Yours sincerely Fat ass Perthshire " And the rude women | |||
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"I don't care if a guy has a belly or a six pack, I like to feel pinned down." Ooh yes me too | |||
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"Not for me i'm afraid...was put off once when a guy was behind me and the first thing i felt was his gut... Was there really any need to post such a negative comment. Especially when your not exactly small yourself. You asked a question and i answered honestly..sorry you didn't appreciate it. I was recalling an experience i have had..this is a forum and everyone is entitled to their own point of view..i have nothing against larger people at all...as you have rightly said i am not small either but it is my preference who i find attractive. We are all different and unique but it becomes a sad place when we are shouted down for being honest...not a dick as you said. I have made no personal attack upon you at all and should not receive personal comments from you.. There’s a way of putting things and if your reply is just going to belittle larger people why comment at all. This post is clearly asking who would meet larger people not who wouldn’t."  | |||
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"Not being a rude bellend wouid help. Lots of people have a type that they prefer. You’ve had a meet and a verification. Get a grip ! And before you say it I’m very aware that I’m fat Yours sincerely Fat ass Perthshire " Read the post idiot, this post is asking if there are any women out there that like larger men. No don’t is moaning. It’s a post to discover females that like larger men. Get back in your high horse and read the posts correctly. I’m not the rude one, posting a negative comment that’s not relating to the original post is the rude thing. If you don’t have anything positive to say, say nothing. | |||
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"I don't care if a guy has a belly or a six pack, I like to feel pinned down." Really nice to hear this. Have you met many larger men? | |||
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"Not being a rude bellend wouid help. Lots of people have a type that they prefer. You’ve had a meet and a verification. Get a grip ! And before you say it I’m very aware that I’m fat Yours sincerely Fat ass Perthshire Read the post idiot, this post is asking if there are any women out there that like larger men. No don’t is moaning. It’s a post to discover females that like larger men. Get back in your high horse and read the posts correctly. I’m not the rude one, posting a negative comment that’s not relating to the original post is the rude thing. If you don’t have anything positive to say, say nothing." Ignore the white knighters and those getting on there high horse op. Concentrate on the ladies that like a bit of cushion to lean on | |||
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"Not being a rude bellend wouid help. Lots of people have a type that they prefer. You’ve had a meet and a verification. Get a grip ! And before you say it I’m very aware that I’m fat Yours sincerely Fat ass Perthshire Read the post idiot, this post is asking if there are any women out there that like larger men. No don’t is moaning. It’s a post to discover females that like larger men. Get back in your high horse and read the posts correctly. I’m not the rude one, posting a negative comment that’s not relating to the original post is the rude thing. If you don’t have anything positive to say, say nothing." Actually you deleted the post, technically there isn't a "post" other than the title | |||
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"I really do like larger guys. Dint like rude / ignorant ones. Using the term idiot to speak to a female is goi g to get you lots of sex ! " And bellend to a guy is gonna do you lots of favours | |||
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"I really do like larger guys. Dint like rude / ignorant ones. Using the term idiot to speak to a female is goi g to get you lots of sex ! " So is calling someone a bellend | |||
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"Not being a rude bellend wouid help. Lots of people have a type that they prefer. You’ve had a meet and a verification. Get a grip ! And before you say it I’m very aware that I’m fat Yours sincerely Fat ass Perthshire Read the post idiot, this post is asking if there are any women out there that like larger men. No don’t is moaning. It’s a post to discover females that like larger men. Get back in your high horse and read the posts correctly. I’m not the rude one, posting a negative comment that’s not relating to the original post is the rude thing. If you don’t have anything positive to say, say nothing. Actually you deleted the post, technically there isn't a "post" other than the title " Good point | |||
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"Not being a rude bellend wouid help. Lots of people have a type that they prefer. You’ve had a meet and a verification. Get a grip ! And before you say it I’m very aware that I’m fat Yours sincerely Fat ass Perthshire Read the post idiot, this post is asking if there are any women out there that like larger men. No don’t is moaning. It’s a post to discover females that like larger men. Get back in your high horse and read the posts correctly. I’m not the rude one, posting a negative comment that’s not relating to the original post is the rude thing. If you don’t have anything positive to say, say nothing." The rude one is the person who refers to another as an idiot in my eyes. | |||
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"Not being a rude bellend wouid help. Lots of people have a type that they prefer. You’ve had a meet and a verification. Get a grip ! And before you say it I’m very aware that I’m fat Yours sincerely Fat ass Perthshire Read the post idiot, this post is asking if there are any women out there that like larger men. No don’t is moaning. It’s a post to discover females that like larger men. Get back in your high horse and read the posts correctly. I’m not the rude one, posting a negative comment that’s not relating to the original post is the rude thing. If you don’t have anything positive to say, say nothing. The rude one is the person who refers to another as an idiot in my eyes." So calling someone a bellend isn’t rude? | |||
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"Not being a rude bellend wouid help. Lots of people have a type that they prefer. You’ve had a meet and a verification. Get a grip ! And before you say it I’m very aware that I’m fat Yours sincerely Fat ass Perthshire Read the post idiot, this post is asking if there are any women out there that like larger men. No don’t is moaning. It’s a post to discover females that like larger men. Get back in your high horse and read the posts correctly. I’m not the rude one, posting a negative comment that’s not relating to the original post is the rude thing. If you don’t have anything positive to say, say nothing. The rude one is the person who refers to another as an idiot in my eyes. So calling someone a bellend isn’t rude?" Only if a male calls a male one mate. Not a female calling a female one. That’s the double standards of fab | |||
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"Not being a rude bellend wouid help. Lots of people have a type that they prefer. You’ve had a meet and a verification. Get a grip ! And before you say it I’m very aware that I’m fat Yours sincerely Fat ass Perthshire Read the post idiot, this post is asking if there are any women out there that like larger men. No don’t is moaning. It’s a post to discover females that like larger men. Get back in your high horse and read the posts correctly. I’m not the rude one, posting a negative comment that’s not relating to the original post is the rude thing. If you don’t have anything positive to say, say nothing. The rude one is the person who refers to another as an idiot in my eyes. So calling someone a bellend isn’t rude? Only if a male calls a male one mate. Not a female calling a male one. That’s the double standards of fab " | |||
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"Yes unfortunately your right" And you will feel the full force of the female formites now for it. Hold on tight. It could be a bumpy ride | |||
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"Yes, through clubs I've found out about on here and my dating life in general, it's been a complete mix of sizes. As I get swamped with requests for private meets on here and have no idea who I would click with I just go to clubs and see who I get on with in person - I suspect a lot of women might be the same because of safety concerns and not knowing who to pick " I can understand that. | |||
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"The worst thing is this post is about trying to find women that like larger men, nothing more nothing less. Unfortunately there’s always someone that has to change the intent of the post and assume the person means something else, then moan at them about it." It's a public forum with lots of people with lots of different opinions ... you'll never just get the validation that you want (plus you deleted the original post?) | |||
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"The worst thing is this post is about trying to find women that like larger men, nothing more nothing less. Unfortunately there’s always someone that has to change the intent of the post and assume the person means something else, then moan at them about it. It's a public forum with lots of people with lots of different opinions ... you'll never just get the validation that you want (plus you deleted the original post?) "The first 3 comments clearly set the intent of the post. Although yes it is a public forum why do people feel the need to negatively comment about something the post is clearly not intended. The post is asking if any females like larger men, not if any women don’t like larger men and wouldn’t shag another one because his fat belly hit her back. | |||
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"The worst thing is this post is about trying to find women that like larger men, nothing more nothing less. Unfortunately there’s always someone that has to change the intent of the post and assume the person means something else, then moan at them about it. It's a public forum with lots of people with lots of different opinions ... you'll never just get the validation that you want (plus you deleted the original post?)
The first 3 comments clearly set the intent of the post. Although yes it is a public forum why do people feel the need to negatively comment about something the post is clearly not intended. The post is asking if any females like larger men, not if any women don’t like larger men and wouldn’t shag another one because his fat belly hit her back."To be fair it doesn’t exactly explain in your post what the intention of the thread is. You could take it either way. | |||
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