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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever found yourself starting sex safely and ending up having unprotected sex due to getting excited during a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

God no. Safe sex only.

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By *ampicoMan
over a year ago

CUM

Hell No I have been asked to take it off and go bareback but my moto is if its not on it's not in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been having fun on a few occasions from fab meets where the woman has said it's ok to go bareback i haven't done but it is very tempting at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been having fun on a few occasions from fab meets where the woman has said it's ok to go bareback i haven't done but it is very tempting at the time "

I don’t blame you. Imagine how many other guys the women have asked to go bare

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been having fun on a few occasions from fab meets where the woman has said it's ok to go bareback i haven't done but it is very tempting at the time

I don’t blame you. Imagine how many other guys the women have asked to go bare "

That is excatly what i thought

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe you all

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By *anTouchThisCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

That would stop play, never to meet again if it was tried.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't believe you all "

Lol the private messages are coming through their are some naughty ones on fab but very nice too lol

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill


"Have you ever found yourself starting sex safely and ending up having unprotected sex due to getting excited during a meet "

Happens all the time. Guys want to cum and if a (well intentioned) condom is killing the mood they don't need asking twice to pull it off.

Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't believe you all "

Me neither, course you all have!

Merry Christmas.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Have you ever found yourself starting sex safely and ending up having unprotected sex due to getting excited during a meet "

No

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We are a bareback only couple so condoms are never part of things to start with

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By *etasubTV/TS
over a year ago

West of Newcastle

Safe sex only, if I am with a guy and he tries to go bareback play stops.

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By *ibble74Man
over a year ago

newtownabbey

Protection always. You are just playing Russian roulette with your health if you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds me of a meet we had...

We took a friend along to a meet with a single guy and when they got down to fucking he suggested bb (she insisted on condoms)... yet I’ve seen him rant about the dangers of unprotected sex before and since

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By *uninlondon69Man
over a year ago

Tower Bridge South


"We are a bareback only couple so condoms are never part of things to start with"

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. "

Tell us more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reminds me of a meet we had...

We took a friend along to a meet with a single guy and when they got down to fucking he suggested bb (she insisted on condoms)... yet I’ve seen him rant about the dangers of unprotected sex before and since "

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By *BC AndyMan
over a year ago

Richmond Upon Thames

No Condom no sex. Play safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had this happen MANY times. I think it happens more times than people will admit.

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By *akedduo66Couple
over a year ago

Near Bordon

Bareback is the one thing we save for us two.

As said ,it's more common than it should be and usually when caught the guy will say he didn't know the rules in which case maybe all guys ,before sex,should be reminded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never but I have seen others try to take it off when in doggy style. Mr

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I did this with a couple I was Long term friends with But we always got ourselves regularly tested. Wouldn't do this on a club night or party though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time! And most of the women I met were not interesting in a condom either, including the married ones. Send me to Fab Prison.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never do bb on a meet, it would just give me too much stress and worry.

Speaking from a previous experiance in a none swinging night out many years ago where the condom came off.

Got tested, all good but the worry is a bigger turn off than using a condom ever will be..

Safe all the way for me.

But i always say each to their own. I dont judge others as it wont affect me directly.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Never, it would be a game over for us, save bareback for ourselves between us as a couple only

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill


"All the time! And most of the women I met were not interesting in a condom either, including the married ones. Send me to Fab Prison."

Fab Prison

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


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One of the very annoying things about these forums is people that only want to please everyone else. Be yourself even if that means your different."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ew no... If I was meeting a guy and he tried that I'd be leaving and I'd never meet him again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just not worth the risk.. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just not worth the risk.. Simple. "

This

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Never have and never will.

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

I guess we're supposed to say only safe. But actually we've both gone bareback on occasion. Love to see S dripping cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we would never, we only have unprotected sex with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad to see honest answers,instead of sanctimonious liars.

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill


"I guess we're supposed to say only safe. But actually we've both gone bareback on occasion. Love to see S dripping cum."

Now that is honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done it wth one guy after a few dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understood the big taboo over bareback, if you don't like it then just don't participate

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Huge turn off for us but these threads are good at ing out BB fans and helping us extend our block lists.

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

This has happened to me with one person, I'll admit...it was just all too tempting. We've met a couple of times now and will again soon. But, we're both regularly tested and I'm also on the pill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us , safe sex always .

Bareback is tempting but not worth the risk for few minutes of pleasure .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has happened to me with one person, I'll admit...it was just all too tempting. We've met a couple of times now and will again soon. But, we're both regularly tested and I'm also on the pill. "

This is proper way to go about it I feel!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess we're supposed to say only safe. But actually we've both gone bareback on occasion. Love to see S dripping cum."

I think most men would love to see their Mrs dripping with another man's cum

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"I guess we're supposed to say only safe. But actually we've both gone bareback on occasion. Love to see S dripping cum.

I think most men would love to see their Mrs dripping with another man's cum "

Nope not at all

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"I guess we're supposed to say only safe. But actually we've both gone bareback on occasion. Love to see S dripping cum.

I think most men would love to see their Mrs dripping with another man's cum "

Maybe your fantasy, me I prefer to keep my wife free of infections!!

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Glad to see honest answers,instead of sanctimonious liars."

I probably shouldn't be surprised on here, but responses like this, in which complete strangers are called liars, really boil my piss. What a thoroughly charming... person you are.

Of course it's only natural to think "I wonder what this would feel like without the condom", but some of us have the self-control not to take risks in the heat of the moment. I'd probably be open to going bare with a long term, trusted FWB, but only after we'd discussed contraception, what would happen if she got pregnant and a bit about basic sexual health first, when we were both sober and fully clothed. Sorry if that seems boring or unrealistic to some people, not sorry!

I'm in my 40s, but a) having been brought up in the "Don't die of ignorance era, b) really, really not wanting a child, c) preferring FWB type arrangements and d) considering myself a gentleman, I consider condoms pretty much a routine and necessary "evil". I've had way, way more protected sex in my lifetime than bare.

I'm not building the risks out to be more than they are or criticising those that consciously choose to go bareback - I've never used protection for oral for example (or been asked to), but condoms for penetration are just natural to me.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Yes I have and it was a worry afterwards for a while, but all was good and lessons were learnt

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

The best of sex is like this.

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

Eastleigh


"Protection always. You are just playing Russian roulette with your health if you don't. "

Absolute bollocks ..........your telling me bareback sex is a one in six chance of dying ?

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
over a year ago

Somerset


"Protection always. You are just playing Russian roulette with your health if you don't.

Absolute bollocks ..........your telling me bareback sex is a one in six chance of dying ? "

Without wanting to be presumptuous, I think it was a metaphor rather than a statistically accurate comparison.

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

Eastleigh


"Protection always. You are just playing Russian roulette with your health if you don't.

Absolute bollocks ..........your telling me bareback sex is a one in six chance of dying ?

Without wanting to be presumptuous, I think it was a metaphor rather than a statistically accurate comparison."

Crap one though , it’s nothing like Russian roulette .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty on that

Last meet the condom wasnt fitting on his huge cock

I was that fuckin horny I needed his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guilty on that

Last meet the condom wasnt fitting on his huge cock

I was that fuckin horny I needed his cock

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At lease you’re honest about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guilty on that

Last meet the condom wasnt fitting on his huge cock

I was that fuckin horny I needed his cock

At lease you’re honest about it "

And awesome pictures to prove it

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Protection always. You are just playing Russian roulette with your health if you don't.

Absolute bollocks ..........your telling me bareback sex is a one in six chance of dying ?

Without wanting to be presumptuous, I think it was a metaphor rather than a statistically accurate comparison.

Crap one though , it’s nothing like Russian roulette ."

Ok, for arguments sake, let's call it STD roulette. Is it going to be syphilis, or is it gonorrhoea, or is it HIV and so on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever found yourself starting sex safely and ending up having unprotected sex due to getting excited during a meet "

It's my fantasy, but reality is totally safe. We must respect each other.

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire


"I guess we're supposed to say only safe. But actually we've both gone bareback on occasion. Love to see S dripping cum.

I think most men would love to see their Mrs dripping with another man's cum "

Not in the slightest! Anyone who tried would be unlikely to walk again for a while.

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

Eastleigh


"Protection always. You are just playing Russian roulette with your health if you don't.

Absolute bollocks ..........your telling me bareback sex is a one in six chance of dying ?

Without wanting to be presumptuous, I think it was a metaphor rather than a statistically accurate comparison.

Crap one though , it’s nothing like Russian roulette .

Ok, for arguments sake, let's call it STD roulette. Is it going to be syphilis, or is it gonorrhoea, or is it HIV and so on."

Or the most likely option .........nothing !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was such a turn off when someone i met for the first time tried to straddle me unprotected. Awkwardly had to get away quickly...

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

No never but then people don't its just people who don't use protection and prefer bareback who think like that.

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By *av-RickMan
over a year ago

Nearby


"Guilty on that

Last meet the condom wasnt fitting on his huge cock

I was that fuckin horny I needed his cock

"

sure I'm not the only one to be envious of the guy that gets to enjoy that body like that

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By *aynek80Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Yes, over the years with girlfriends,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guilty on that

Last meet the condom wasnt fitting on his huge cock

I was that fuckin horny I needed his cock

sure I'm not the only one to be envious of the guy that gets to enjoy that body like that "

Blush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Glad to see honest answers,instead of sanctimonious liars.

I probably shouldn't be surprised on here, but responses like this, in which complete strangers are called liars, really boil my piss. What a thoroughly charming... person you are.

Of course it's only natural to think "I wonder what this would feel like without the condom", but some of us have the self-control not to take risks in the heat of the moment. I'd probably be open to going bare with a long term, trusted FWB, but only after we'd discussed contraception, what would happen if she got pregnant and a bit about basic sexual health first, when we were both sober and fully clothed. Sorry if that seems boring or unrealistic to some people, not sorry!

I'm in my 40s, but a) having been brought up in the "Don't die of ignorance era, b) really, really not wanting a child, c) preferring FWB type arrangements and d) considering myself a gentleman, I consider condoms pretty much a routine and necessary "evil". I've had way, way more protected sex in my lifetime than bare.

I'm not building the risks out to be more than they are or criticising those that consciously choose to go bareback - I've never used protection for oral for example (or been asked to), but condoms for penetration are just natural to me."

Sanctimonious arsehole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Protection always. You are just playing Russian roulette with your health if you don't.

Absolute bollocks ..........your telling me bareback sex is a one in six chance of dying ? "

I'm not passing any judgement, but the comparison to Russian Roulette isn't about the odds, it's about the consequences. 1/6 or 1/1000, the bullet is still an unwelcome result

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"Have you ever found yourself starting sex safely and ending up having unprotected sex due to getting excited during a meet "

Nope, never.

Had a second meet with the same person on the following day on my own, who tried with the excuse, ‘Couldn’t find any small packs of condoms’. So no penetration occurred. I’m not willing to put my health at risk, whatever the excuse is.

J

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


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I'm not passing any judgement, but the comparison to Russian Roulette isn't about the odds, it's about the consequences. 1/6 or 1/1000, the bullet is still an unwelcome result"

So why don't they compare it to, say, crossing a motorway then? Get hit by a car doing 70 and you are going to die.

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
over a year ago

Somerset


"Protection always. You are just playing Russian roulette with your health if you don't.

Absolute bollocks ..........your telling me bareback sex is a one in six chance of dying ?

Without wanting to be presumptuous, I think it was a metaphor rather than a statistically accurate comparison.

Crap one though , it’s nothing like Russian roulette .

Ok, for arguments sake, let's call it STD roulette. Is it going to be syphilis, or is it gonorrhoea, or is it HIV and so on.

Or the most likely option .........nothing ! "

Statistically the most likely outcome of Russian roulette is nothing too, it doesn’t mean it is a game I would want to play. How people play is a personal choice. I would rather they didn’t go bareback, just like I would rather everyone got vaccinated; it benefits us all. As food for thought, there is a thread on the UK forum from about a week ago which didn’t get much traction, about five newly diagnosed cases of HIV associated with the swinging community in Somerset.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t have sex unless I wear a condom

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Protection always. You are just playing Russian roulette with your health if you don't.

Absolute bollocks ..........your telling me bareback sex is a one in six chance of dying ?

Without wanting to be presumptuous, I think it was a metaphor rather than a statistically accurate comparison.

Crap one though , it’s nothing like Russian roulette .

Ok, for arguments sake, let's call it STD roulette. Is it going to be syphilis, or is it gonorrhoea, or is it HIV and so on.

Or the most likely option .........nothing !

Statistically the most likely outcome of Russian roulette is nothing too, it doesn’t mean it is a game I would want to play. How people play is a personal choice. I would rather they didn’t go bareback, just like I would rather everyone got vaccinated; it benefits us all. As food for thought, there is a thread on the UK forum from about a week ago which didn’t get much traction, about five newly diagnosed cases of HIV associated with the swinging community in Somerset. "

Don't expect honesty on this subject((along with many other subjects,age,sexual preference etc).

Of course many people have done this, however many people will block you so lie about it.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

We do both up to the guy if he wants to cover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been having fun on a few occasions from fab meets where the woman has said it's ok to go bareback i haven't done but it is very tempting at the time

I don’t blame you. Imagine how many other guys the women have asked to go bare

That is excatly what i thought "

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a firm believer in safer sex, but each to their own. What i dislike is when you discuss protection with someone and they agree but then try to stealth bb you. Not cool. Totally not cool.

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By *E_13Couple
over a year ago

Burton on trent

Never. If someone is happy to do that then you're trusting everyone they've slept with to be free from everything and I think that's just stupid.

We're a couple and been together a while and only do that together.

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Any male or female who regularly, or even occasionally, have unprotected sex with others WILL eventually catch an STI, and then pass it on to consequent partners. Also, I bet only a small percentage of people on here go and get tested at the clinic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a condom, well, several, condoms split over the years so I constantly find myself checking I'm "intact"

I should have bought shares in durex year's ago.

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

Eastleigh


"Protection always. You are just playing Russian roulette with your health if you don't.

Absolute bollocks ..........your telling me bareback sex is a one in six chance of dying ?

I'm not passing any judgement, but the comparison to Russian Roulette isn't about the odds, it's about the consequences. 1/6 or 1/1000, the bullet is still an unwelcome result"

What can you possibly catch that is anything like getting shot in the head ?

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

Eastleigh


"Protection always. You are just playing Russian roulette with your health if you don't.

Absolute bollocks ..........your telling me bareback sex is a one in six chance of dying ?

Without wanting to be presumptuous, I think it was a metaphor rather than a statistically accurate comparison.

Crap one though , it’s nothing like Russian roulette .

Ok, for arguments sake, let's call it STD roulette. Is it going to be syphilis, or is it gonorrhoea, or is it HIV and so on.

Or the most likely option .........nothing !

Statistically the most likely outcome of Russian roulette is nothing too, it doesn’t mean it is a game I would want to play. How people play is a personal choice. I would rather they didn’t go bareback, just like I would rather everyone got vaccinated; it benefits us all. As food for thought, there is a thread on the UK forum from about a week ago which didn’t get much traction, about five newly diagnosed cases of HIV associated with the swinging community in Somerset. "

1 in 6 chance is very different to say one in a million , totally different .

Pull that trigger six times ,somebody is dying , that is not true of bareback sex ........or we would of died out by now !

I agree with safer sex but it’s personal choice and nobody else’s business outside of who you are sleeping with and I hate all the bullshit inflammatory comments and quotes that are nowhere near the truth .

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

Eastleigh


"Any male or female who regularly, or even occasionally, have unprotected sex with others WILL eventually catch an STI, and then pass it on to consequent partners. Also, I bet only a small percentage of people on here go and get tested at the clinic? "

Absolute crap , in my teens and through my twenties I never used condoms , slept around and have not once had an STD .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much different does it feel for a man with a condom vs without?

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool


"How much different does it feel for a man with a condom vs without?"

Very. You can feel the difference.

However.. I'll always much prefer that to the risk of any sort of STI/STD.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever found yourself starting sex safely and ending up having unprotected sex due to getting excited during a meet "

Have you ever found yourself stood outside the GUM clinic ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say i dont feel the difference if wearing or not, so obviously I always wear

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Protection always. You are just playing Russian roulette with your health if you don't.

Absolute bollocks ..........your telling me bareback sex is a one in six chance of dying ?

Without wanting to be presumptuous, I think it was a metaphor rather than a statistically accurate comparison.

Crap one though , it’s nothing like Russian roulette .

Ok, for arguments sake, let's call it STD roulette. Is it going to be syphilis, or is it gonorrhoea, or is it HIV and so on.

Or the most likely option .........nothing !

Statistically the most likely outcome of Russian roulette is nothing too, it doesn’t mean it is a game I would want to play. How people play is a personal choice. I would rather they didn’t go bareback, just like I would rather everyone got vaccinated; it benefits us all. As food for thought, there is a thread on the UK forum from about a week ago which didn’t get much traction, about five newly diagnosed cases of HIV associated with the swinging community in Somerset.

1 in 6 chance is very different to say one in a million , totally different .

Pull that trigger six times ,somebody is dying , that is not true of bareback sex ........or we would of died out by now !

I agree with safer sex but it’s personal choice and nobody else’s business outside of who you are sleeping with and I hate all the bullshit inflammatory comments and quotes that are nowhere near the truth ."

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Any male or female who regularly, or even occasionally, have unprotected sex with others WILL eventually catch an STI, and then pass it on to consequent partners. Also, I bet only a small percentage of people on here go and get tested at the clinic?

Absolute crap , in my teens and through my twenties I never used condoms , slept around and have not once had an STD ."

You were fortunate then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did it once last year anal on a hot woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have, with permission from the other party of course, Its usually because condoms kill my erection.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

On here, not a prayer, safe only. With the gf as we are exclusive & after testing yes.

Playing with two women & requiring condoms does limit the naughty flow of things a bit.

S

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By *atonMan
over a year ago

barnet


"Huge turn off for us but these threads are good at ing out BB fans and helping us extend our block lists."
block please

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By *atonMan
over a year ago

barnet

Virtue signalling on a swingers site ..mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say i dont feel the difference if wearing or not, so obviously I always wear

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By *atonMan
over a year ago

barnet


"Any male or female who regularly, or even occasionally, have unprotected sex with others WILL eventually catch an STI, and then pass it on to consequent partners. Also, I bet only a small percentage of people on here go and get tested at the clinic?

Absolute crap , in my teens and through my twenties I never used condoms , slept around and have not once had an STD .

You were fortunate then"

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By *atonMan
over a year ago

barnet


"Any male or female who regularly, or even occasionally, have unprotected sex with others WILL eventually catch an STI, and then pass it on to consequent partners. Also, I bet only a small percentage of people on here go and get tested at the clinic?

Me too and I've slept with around 1500 women and I've been tested ..that's some luck ...sex is only really sex if natural . The sensation the connection the thrill the frission. I wanted to go to winter wonderland the other day and took the risk of crossing park lane to get there.

Absolute crap , in my teens and through my twenties I never used condoms , slept around and have not once had an STD .

You were fortunate then"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The meets in the past I have had it seems the female partner occasionally says they don’t like condoms. I play safe unless it is with someone I know and trust.

Several women in swing life advertise safe sex but want the opposite.

Personally if you get regularly checked there is nothing wrong with bareback.

Gay men get checked regularly so why don’t straight people get tested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's say a responsible guy goes to a club and an accident happens, condom breaks, condom slips off, it happens.

Let's assume that the lady involved had unprotected sex with someone else and has an incurable STD and passes it on to the responsible guy.

Are you all going to tell me that this responsible guy has no right to blame barebackers for his condition? Is it none of his business?

You guys can climb on your high horse and try and justify your selfishness. But the only reason why STDs exist at all, the reason why we are ALL at risk, is barebackers. That is ALL of our business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's say a responsible guy goes to a club and an accident happens, condom breaks, condom slips off, it happens.

Let's assume that the lady involved had unprotected sex with someone else and has an incurable STD and passes it on to the responsible guy.

Are you all going to tell me that this responsible guy has no right to blame barebackers for his condition? Is it none of his business?

You guys can climb on your high horse and try and justify your selfishness. But the only reason why STDs exist at all, the reason why we are ALL at risk, is barebackers. That is ALL of our business. "

Keep your nuts full and go sex free

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"How much different does it feel for a man with a condom vs without?"
it feels wetter and hotter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's say a responsible guy goes to a club and an accident happens, condom breaks, condom slips off, it happens.

Let's assume that the lady involved had unprotected sex with someone else and has an incurable STD and passes it on to the responsible guy.

Are you all going to tell me that this responsible guy has no right to blame barebackers for his condition? Is it none of his business?

You guys can climb on your high horse and try and justify your selfishness. But the only reason why STDs exist at all, the reason why we are ALL at risk, is barebackers. That is ALL of our business.

Keep your nuts full and go sex free"

Is that your counter argument? Some people should have no pleasure so you can have more pleasure?

That doesn't sound selfish at all?

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

Eastleigh


"Any male or female who regularly, or even occasionally, have unprotected sex with others WILL eventually catch an STI, and then pass it on to consequent partners. Also, I bet only a small percentage of people on here go and get tested at the clinic?

Me too and I've slept with around 1500 women and I've been tested ..that's some luck ...sex is only really sex if natural . The sensation the connection the thrill the frission. I wanted to go to winter wonderland the other day and took the risk of crossing park lane to get there.

Absolute crap , in my teens and through my twenties I never used condoms , slept around and have not once had an STD .

You were fortunate then"

Not really , it’s more because the chances of catching an STD is a lot lower than most on here would have you believe and the chance of catching it be that will kill you is so low as to be almost zero .

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

Eastleigh


"Let's say a responsible guy goes to a club and an accident happens, condom breaks, condom slips off, it happens.

Let's assume that the lady involved had unprotected sex with someone else and has an incurable STD and passes it on to the responsible guy.

Are you all going to tell me that this responsible guy has no right to blame barebackers for his condition? Is it none of his business?

You guys can climb on your high horse and try and justify your selfishness. But the only reason why STDs exist at all, the reason why we are ALL at risk, is barebackers. That is ALL of our business. "

So nobody should have bareback sex ?

Turkey basters then if you want children ?

The only reason car accidents happen is because we have cars , shall we ban cars ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's say a responsible guy goes to a club and an accident happens, condom breaks, condom slips off, it happens.

Let's assume that the lady involved had unprotected sex with someone else and has an incurable STD and passes it on to the responsible guy.

Are you all going to tell me that this responsible guy has no right to blame barebackers for his condition? Is it none of his business?

You guys can climb on your high horse and try and justify your selfishness. But the only reason why STDs exist at all, the reason why we are ALL at risk, is barebackers. That is ALL of our business.

Keep your nuts full and go sex free

Is that your counter argument? Some people should have no pleasure so you can have more pleasure?

That doesn't sound selfish at all?

"

This isn't about me but I'd suggest that if you're gonna blame others for anything that might happen to you as a result of your own sexual behaviour then the safest way to protect yourself is to abstain

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"Im a firm believer in safer sex, but each to their own. What i dislike is when you discuss protection with someone and they agree but then try to stealth bb you. Not cool. Totally not cool. "

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

So do those of you that regularly bareback also get regularly tested?

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By *uninlondon69Man
over a year ago

Tower Bridge South


"Huge turn off for us but these threads are good at ing out BB fans and helping us extend our block lists.block please"

They can block me too. Anyone that preachy is someone I wouldn't want to meet anyway.

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Any male or female who regularly, or even occasionally, have unprotected sex with others WILL eventually catch an STI, and then pass it on to consequent partners. Also, I bet only a small percentage of people on here go and get tested at the clinic?

Me too and I've slept with around 1500 women and I've been tested ..that's some luck ...sex is only really sex if natural . The sensation the connection the thrill the frission. I wanted to go to winter wonderland the other day and took the risk of crossing park lane to get there.

Absolute crap , in my teens and through my twenties I never used condoms , slept around and have not once had an STD .

You were fortunate then

Not really , it’s more because the chances of catching an STD is a lot lower than most on here would have you believe and the chance of catching it be that will kill you is so low as to be almost zero ."

I agree with you that the likelihood of catching an STI is lower than a lot of people reckon.... but higher than the general "non swinging" population. No STI needs to kill you these days, treatment is available. But do bear in mind, it only takes one incidence, that would be unlucky agreed, but increase the odds with multiple partners... I know someone who was infected with HIV who used to be on this site, they enjoyed the scene and had the same "no it's so unlikely to happen to me" attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Said this on a similar thread. But the amount of couples who claim to be “safe only” but then on the meet suggest / indicate bareback is an option is staggering. The amount of meets where pressure is applied (usually from the husband) to go bareback is alarmingly high too. In my personal experience

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By *atonMan
over a year ago

barnet

I wonder how many virtue signalling men on here would in the height of passion fucking a really hot woman decline if she insisted no condoms only..

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By *atonMan
over a year ago

barnet


"Let's say a responsible guy goes to a club and an accident happens, condom breaks, condom slips off, it happens.

Let's assume that the lady involved had unprotected sex with someone else and has an incurable STD and passes it on to the responsible guy.

Are you all going to tell me that this responsible guy has no right to blame barebackers for his condition? Is it none of his business?

You guys can climb on your high horse and try and justify your selfishness. But the only reason why STDs exist at all, the reason why we are ALL at risk, is barebackers. That is ALL of our business. "
I'd say your high horse is considerably higher than mine

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"Im a firm believer in safer sex, but each to their own. What i dislike is when you discuss protection with someone and they agree but then try to stealth bb you. Not cool. Totally not cool. "

Or they don’t make it clear enough on their profile that they only do BB and start preaching to you during a social. What’s the point using a condom, when fingers are going ‘everywhere’.

His face was a picture when I told him I wasn’t on any contraception.

J

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Only if its consensual

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Any male or female who regularly, or even occasionally, have unprotected sex with others WILL eventually catch an STI, and then pass it on to consequent partners. Also, I bet only a small percentage of people on here go and get tested at the clinic?

Absolute crap , in my teens and through my twenties I never used condoms , slept around and have not once had an STD ."

Chlamydia and HIV are often without symptoms, and can take three months to detect.

Question: Are you at risk of catching an STI or HIV if you go bareback?

Answer: YES!

Simples!

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By *atonMan
over a year ago

barnet


"Any male or female who regularly, or even occasionally, have unprotected sex with others WILL eventually catch an STI, and then pass it on to consequent partners. Also, I bet only a small percentage of people on here go and get tested at the clinic?

Absolute crap , in my teens and through my twenties I never used condoms , slept around and have not once had an STD .

Chlamydia and HIV are often without symptoms, and can take three months to detect.

Question: Are you at risk of catching an STI or HIV if you go bareback?

Answer: YES!

Simples! "
I have slept with around 1500 to 2000 women..mostly unprotected and have never caught anything and yes I've been tested. Sex is only really sex if done naturally ..the frission the feel the whole experience diminished by a plastic bag. I wanted to visit winterwandrrland the other day and decided the risk of crossing park lane to get there was worth the risk.My choise and I again refer to my previous quote.would you virtue signal single guys reject a hot woman in the throes of passion if she said no condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am looking for a bareback couple tonight

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Let's say a responsible guy goes to a club and an accident happens, condom breaks, condom slips off, it happens.

Let's assume that the lady involved had unprotected sex with someone else and has an incurable STD and passes it on to the responsible guy.

Are you all going to tell me that this responsible guy has no right to blame barebackers for his condition? Is it none of his business?

You guys can climb on your high horse and try and justify your selfishness. But the only reason why STDs exist at all, the reason why we are ALL at risk, is barebackers. That is ALL of our business.

Keep your nuts full and go sex free

Is that your counter argument? Some people should have no pleasure so you can have more pleasure?

That doesn't sound selfish at all?

This isn't about me but I'd suggest that if you're gonna blame others for anything that might happen to you as a result of your own sexual behaviour then the safest way to protect yourself is to abstain "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please explain how expecting someone else to have NO pleasure so others can have MORE pleasure is not selfish?

Please explain how putting me at greater risk is NOT my business.

Please explain to me why me having a bad name, a bad reputation as a swinger because of someone's else's reckless behaviour is NOT my business.

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I again refer to my previous quote.would you virtue signal single guys reject a hot woman in the throes of passion if she said no condom. "

I suppose noone can really answer that for certain until the situation arises, but I bloody well hope I wouldn't make a decision like that in the heat of the moment. Health is too important an issue to think with your dick on. And to be honest if any woman issued a last-minute ultimatum like that, how "hot" she was would rapidly become less important.

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By *estendboy121Man
over a year ago

south lakes


"Protection always. You are just playing Russian roulette with your health if you don't.

Absolute bollocks ..........your telling me bareback sex is a one in six chance of dying ?

Without wanting to be presumptuous, I think it was a metaphor rather than a statistically accurate comparison.

Crap one though , it’s nothing like Russian roulette .

Ok, for arguments sake, let's call it STD roulette. Is it going to be syphilis, or is it gonorrhoea, or is it HIV and so on."

There doesn’t appear to be much condom action in your pics, either on the cock(s) (Of course it’s only Mr of the couples cock) or the toys shared with other women..... no ex expert on these matters but just saying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please explain how expecting someone else to have NO pleasure so others can have MORE pleasure is not selfish?

Please explain how putting me at greater risk is NOT my business.

Please explain to me why me having a bad name, a bad reputation as a swinger because of someone's else's reckless behaviour is NOT my business.

"

I can't explain all of those things

But I can reiterate that the only sure fire way of ensuring your own sexual health is by abstaining

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria


"Please explain how expecting someone else to have NO pleasure so others can have MORE pleasure is not selfish?

Please explain how putting me at greater risk is NOT my business.

Please explain to me why me having a bad name, a bad reputation as a swinger because of someone's else's reckless behaviour is NOT my business.

I can't explain all of those things

But I can reiterate that the only sure fire way of ensuring your own sexual health is by abstaining "

We agree wholeheartedly.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I can remember when safe sex meant giving a different name

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria


"I can remember when safe sex meant giving a different name "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please explain how expecting someone else to have NO pleasure so others can have MORE pleasure is not selfish?

Please explain how putting me at greater risk is NOT my business.

Please explain to me why me having a bad name, a bad reputation as a swinger because of someone's else's reckless behaviour is NOT my business.

I can't explain all of those things

But I can reiterate that the only sure fire way of ensuring your own sexual health is by abstaining "

Thank you for expaining that STDs require sexual contact. Never noticed the "Sexually Transmitted" part of the phrase so thank you reiterating.

It's completely blown my previous of wind pollination and alien abductions for STD contagion completely out of the water.

On this good avice I will no longer have sex. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever found yourself starting sex safely and ending up having unprotected sex due to getting excited during a meet "

Last time.. Fuck No..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please explain how expecting someone else to have NO pleasure so others can have MORE pleasure is not selfish?

Please explain how putting me at greater risk is NOT my business.

Please explain to me why me having a bad name, a bad reputation as a swinger because of someone's else's reckless behaviour is NOT my business.

I can't explain all of those things

But I can reiterate that the only sure fire way of ensuring your own sexual health is by abstaining

Thank you for expaining that STDs require sexual contact. Never noticed the "Sexually Transmitted" part of the phrase so thank you reiterating.

It's completely blown my previous of wind pollination and alien abductions for STD contagion completely out of the water.

On this good avice I will no longer have sex. Thank you.

"

It'll save you getting all angsty and blaming others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please explain how expecting someone else to have NO pleasure so others can have MORE pleasure is not selfish?

Please explain how putting me at greater risk is NOT my business.

Please explain to me why me having a bad name, a bad reputation as a swinger because of someone's else's reckless behaviour is NOT my business.

I can't explain all of those things

But I can reiterate that the only sure fire way of ensuring your own sexual health is by abstaining

Thank you for expaining that STDs require sexual contact. Never noticed the "Sexually Transmitted" part of the phrase so thank you reiterating.

It's completely blown my previous of wind pollination and alien abductions for STD contagion completely out of the water.

On this good avice I will no longer have sex. Thank you.

It'll save you getting all angsty and blaming others "

True if I get a sexual disease now I will have given it to myself. Whereas before if I had contracted it before it still would have been my fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please explain how expecting someone else to have NO pleasure so others can have MORE pleasure is not selfish?

Please explain how putting me at greater risk is NOT my business.

Please explain to me why me having a bad name, a bad reputation as a swinger because of someone's else's reckless behaviour is NOT my business.

I can't explain all of those things

But I can reiterate that the only sure fire way of ensuring your own sexual health is by abstaining

Thank you for expaining that STDs require sexual contact. Never noticed the "Sexually Transmitted" part of the phrase so thank you reiterating.

It's completely blown my previous of wind pollination and alien abductions for STD contagion completely out of the water.

On this good avice I will no longer have sex. Thank you.

It'll save you getting all angsty and blaming others

True if I get a sexual disease now I will have given it to myself. Whereas before if I had contracted it before it still would have been my fault."

You're just being silly now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please explain how expecting someone else to have NO pleasure so others can have MORE pleasure is not selfish?

Please explain how putting me at greater risk is NOT my business.

Please explain to me why me having a bad name, a bad reputation as a swinger because of someone's else's reckless behaviour is NOT my business.

I can't explain all of those things

But I can reiterate that the only sure fire way of ensuring your own sexual health is by abstaining

Thank you for expaining that STDs require sexual contact. Never noticed the "Sexually Transmitted" part of the phrase so thank you reiterating.

It's completely blown my previous of wind pollination and alien abductions for STD contagion completely out of the water.

On this good avice I will no longer have sex. Thank you.

It'll save you getting all angsty and blaming others

True if I get a sexual disease now I will have given it to myself. Whereas before if I had contracted it before it still would have been my fault.

You're just being silly now "

I agree wholeheartedly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please explain how expecting someone else to have NO pleasure so others can have MORE pleasure is not selfish?

Please explain how putting me at greater risk is NOT my business.

Please explain to me why me having a bad name, a bad reputation as a swinger because of someone's else's reckless behaviour is NOT my business.

I can't explain all of those things

But I can reiterate that the only sure fire way of ensuring your own sexual health is by abstaining

Thank you for expaining that STDs require sexual contact. Never noticed the "Sexually Transmitted" part of the phrase so thank you reiterating.

It's completely blown my previous of wind pollination and alien abductions for STD contagion completely out of the water.

On this good avice I will no longer have sex. Thank you.

It'll save you getting all angsty and blaming others

True if I get a sexual disease now I will have given it to myself. Whereas before if I had contracted it before it still would have been my fault.

You're just being silly now

I agree wholeheartedly. "

Applying your same logic I have decided to stop using the roads. I mean I know there are d*unk drivers out there.... Getting behind the wheel of a car is deliberately putting myself at risk. Face it getting behind the wheel is practically asking for it.

I reiterate. The only sure fire way to not get hit by a d*unk driver is abstain from going on the roads.

I wouldn't want go through the angst of blaming other people (like the d*unk driver himself) when it's actually my fault for deliberately putting myself in a position of risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can remember when safe sex meant giving a different name "

A false name and a padded headboard

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Please explain how expecting someone else to have NO pleasure so others can have MORE pleasure is not selfish?

Please explain how putting me at greater risk is NOT my business.

Please explain to me why me having a bad name, a bad reputation as a swinger because of someone's else's reckless behaviour is NOT my business.

I can't explain all of those things

But I can reiterate that the only sure fire way of ensuring your own sexual health is by abstaining

Thank you for expaining that STDs require sexual contact. Never noticed the "Sexually Transmitted" part of the phrase so thank you reiterating.

It's completely blown my previous of wind pollination and alien abductions for STD contagion completely out of the water.

On this good avice I will no longer have sex. Thank you.

It'll save you getting all angsty and blaming others

True if I get a sexual disease now I will have given it to myself. Whereas before if I had contracted it before it still would have been my fault.

You're just being silly now

I agree wholeheartedly.

Applying your same logic I have decided to stop using the roads. I mean I know there are d*unk drivers out there.... Getting behind the wheel of a car is deliberately putting myself at risk. Face it getting behind the wheel is practically asking for it.

I reiterate. The only sure fire way to not get hit by a d*unk driver is abstain from going on the roads.

I wouldn't want go through the angst of blaming other people (like the d*unk driver himself) when it's actually my fault for deliberately putting myself in a position of risk. "

We wear seatlbelts as a precaution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please explain how expecting someone else to have NO pleasure so others can have MORE pleasure is not selfish?

Please explain how putting me at greater risk is NOT my business.

Please explain to me why me having a bad name, a bad reputation as a swinger because of someone's else's reckless behaviour is NOT my business.

I can't explain all of those things

But I can reiterate that the only sure fire way of ensuring your own sexual health is by abstaining

Thank you for expaining that STDs require sexual contact. Never noticed the "Sexually Transmitted" part of the phrase so thank you reiterating.

It's completely blown my previous of wind pollination and alien abductions for STD contagion completely out of the water.

On this good avice I will no longer have sex. Thank you.

It'll save you getting all angsty and blaming others

True if I get a sexual disease now I will have given it to myself. Whereas before if I had contracted it before it still would have been my fault.

You're just being silly now

I agree wholeheartedly.

Applying your same logic I have decided to stop using the roads. I mean I know there are d*unk drivers out there.... Getting behind the wheel of a car is deliberately putting myself at risk. Face it getting behind the wheel is practically asking for it.

I reiterate. The only sure fire way to not get hit by a d*unk driver is abstain from going on the roads.

I wouldn't want go through the angst of blaming other people (like the d*unk driver himself) when it's actually my fault for deliberately putting myself in a position of risk.

We wear seatlbelts as a precaution "

I reiterate...

Sorry can't finish this because I'm laughing too much.....

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Please explain how expecting someone else to have NO pleasure so others can have MORE pleasure is not selfish?

Please explain how putting me at greater risk is NOT my business.

Please explain to me why me having a bad name, a bad reputation as a swinger because of someone's else's reckless behaviour is NOT my business.

I can't explain all of those things

But I can reiterate that the only sure fire way of ensuring your own sexual health is by abstaining

Thank you for expaining that STDs require sexual contact. Never noticed the "Sexually Transmitted" part of the phrase so thank you reiterating.

It's completely blown my previous of wind pollination and alien abductions for STD contagion completely out of the water.

On this good avice I will no longer have sex. Thank you.

It'll save you getting all angsty and blaming others

True if I get a sexual disease now I will have given it to myself. Whereas before if I had contracted it before it still would have been my fault.

You're just being silly now

I agree wholeheartedly.

Applying your same logic I have decided to stop using the roads. I mean I know there are d*unk drivers out there.... Getting behind the wheel of a car is deliberately putting myself at risk. Face it getting behind the wheel is practically asking for it.

I reiterate. The only sure fire way to not get hit by a d*unk driver is abstain from going on the roads.

I wouldn't want go through the angst of blaming other people (like the d*unk driver himself) when it's actually my fault for deliberately putting myself in a position of risk.

We wear seatlbelts as a precaution

I reiterate...

Sorry can't finish this because I'm laughing too much..... "

Couldn't resist

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria


"Please explain how expecting someone else to have NO pleasure so others can have MORE pleasure is not selfish?

Please explain how putting me at greater risk is NOT my business.

Please explain to me why me having a bad name, a bad reputation as a swinger because of someone's else's reckless behaviour is NOT my business.

I can't explain all of those things

But I can reiterate that the only sure fire way of ensuring your own sexual health is by abstaining

Thank you for expaining that STDs require sexual contact. Never noticed the "Sexually Transmitted" part of the phrase so thank you reiterating.

It's completely blown my previous of wind pollination and alien abductions for STD contagion completely out of the water.

On this good avice I will no longer have sex. Thank you.

It'll save you getting all angsty and blaming others

True if I get a sexual disease now I will have given it to myself. Whereas before if I had contracted it before it still would have been my fault.

You're just being silly now

I agree wholeheartedly.

Applying your same logic I have decided to stop using the roads. I mean I know there are d*unk drivers out there.... Getting behind the wheel of a car is deliberately putting myself at risk. Face it getting behind the wheel is practically asking for it.

I reiterate. The only sure fire way to not get hit by a d*unk driver is abstain from going on the roads.

I wouldn't want go through the angst of blaming other people (like the d*unk driver himself) when it's actually my fault for deliberately putting myself in a position of risk.

We wear seatlbelts as a precaution

I reiterate...

Sorry can't finish this because I'm laughing too much.....

Couldn't resist "

Love it !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In other news.... you are less likely to drown if you are not near water....

People who never get in planes hardly ever get killed in parachuting accidents....

For those of you who don't understand these concepts please contact me......

And I'll reiterate them.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"

But the only reason why STDs exist at all, the reason why we are ALL at risk, is barebackers. That is ALL of our business. "

So let me get this right, you're saying that if it wasn't for barebackers we wouldn't need to use condoms.

Think about how stupid that is for a moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a older lady at mine and we had sex twice with a condom and as she was walking out the door lust took over and I barebacked her against the wall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a bareback only couple so condoms are never part of things to start with"

How refreshing to hear a bit of honesty on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many virtue signalling men on here would in the height of passion fucking a really hot woman decline if she insisted no condoms only.."

Very few!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, only gone BB when it has been mutually agreed, my health Is more important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think anyone on the forums has had bareback sex.... they also carry dental dams and latex gloves on every sexual meeting....

Also everyone on the forums all get tested every 3 months , never used any chemicals, never had a drink , never smoked anything, always reply to emails, only care about a person’s personality, doesn’t lie about their age , thinks every person is beautiful, Thinks swinging is more about the social aspects rather than sex , would be more than happy to go to a club and not have sex , would travel anywhere in the world to meet someone, and would never stand anyone up......

Now if you do not agree with any of these things I just posted, I’m going to block you..... lol lol

Individualism is truly dead on the forums.....

Sycophants rule the roost....

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

I'm a human, yes, it happend.

This crap just slipped and we haven't noticed for a moment. It already happend, so we just carried on.

I knew guy for months, we were both tested, so I wasn't feeling guilty as much.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Yes. I craved it tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We all know bareback is naughty with others but is that part of the excitement as well as feeling great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a firm believer in safer sex, but each to their own. What i dislike is when you discuss protection with someone and they agree but then try to stealth bb you. Not cool. Totally not cool. "

Also illegal. In the UK stealthing is covered under the conditional consent law. Doing it is considered r@*e

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I don’t think anyone on the forums has had bareback sex.... they also carry dental dams and latex gloves on every sexual meeting....

Also everyone on the forums all get tested every 3 months , never used any chemicals, never had a drink , never smoked anything, always reply to emails, only care about a person’s personality, doesn’t lie about their age , thinks every person is beautiful, Thinks swinging is more about the social aspects rather than sex , would be more than happy to go to a club and not have sex , would travel anywhere in the world to meet someone, and would never stand anyone up......

Now if you do not agree with any of these things I just posted, I’m going to block you..... lol lol

Individualism is truly dead on the forums.....

Sycophants rule the roost....

"

A-bloody-men

Be careful though ....individualists are seen as trolls here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doggy fucked an old friend that hard once that the condom broke,but as we were both cumming at the time I carried on...

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Im a firm believer in safer sex, but each to their own. What i dislike is when you discuss protection with someone and they agree but then try to stealth bb you. Not cool. Totally not cool.

Also illegal. In the UK stealthing is covered under the conditional consent law. Doing it is considered r@*e"

Be hard to prove seeing as the receiver consented to sex with someone from here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a firm believer in safer sex, but each to their own. What i dislike is when you discuss protection with someone and they agree but then try to stealth bb you. Not cool. Totally not cool.

Also illegal. In the UK stealthing is covered under the conditional consent law. Doing it is considered r@*e

Be hard to prove seeing as the receiver consented to sex with someone from here...."

That's not how consent works. Agreeing to have sex within a particular set of boundaries makes no difference to whether you meet them on here, in a club, at a bar, in church. Consent laws cover all scenarios. Whilst I get that a lawyer would use it as a defence, it's not one. In fact this site would probably help as there could possibly be messages and conversation to the contrary.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Not sure about the rest of the country but in Beds they offer free postal test kits... super quick results normally within 3/4 days of posting.

Still can’t use the finger prick thingy on myself so have to get a friend to do it for me.

These are super handy for those oooppps moments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a firm believer in safer sex, but each to their own. What i dislike is when you discuss protection with someone and they agree but then try to stealth bb you. Not cool. Totally not cool.

Also illegal. In the UK stealthing is covered under the conditional consent law. Doing it is considered r@*e

Be hard to prove seeing as the receiver consented to sex with someone from here....

That's not how consent works. Agreeing to have sex within a particular set of boundaries makes no difference to whether you meet them on here, in a club, at a bar, in church. Consent laws cover all scenarios. Whilst I get that a lawyer would use it as a defence, it's not one. In fact this site would probably help as there could possibly be messages and conversation to the contrary.

"

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By *ounghungandfullMan
over a year ago

north lincolnshire

I had a meet with a HOTwife, we did use condom until we noticed it had split. So we took it off and carried on with out 1 and I filled her pussy with cum. The only time and was an accident but was so hot

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Im a firm believer in safer sex, but each to their own. What i dislike is when you discuss protection with someone and they agree but then try to stealth bb you. Not cool. Totally not cool.

Also illegal. In the UK stealthing is covered under the conditional consent law. Doing it is considered r@*e

Be hard to prove seeing as the receiver consented to sex with someone from here....

That's not how consent works. Agreeing to have sex within a particular set of boundaries makes no difference to whether you meet them on here, in a club, at a bar, in church. Consent laws cover all scenarios. Whilst I get that a lawyer would use it as a defence, it's not one. In fact this site would probably help as there could possibly be messages and conversation to the contrary.

"

And back in the real world...the laws in this country are fucked...out oneself as a swinger to get justification....how many people really would?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a firm believer in safer sex, but each to their own. What i dislike is when you discuss protection with someone and they agree but then try to stealth bb you. Not cool. Totally not cool.

Also illegal. In the UK stealthing is covered under the conditional consent law. Doing it is considered r@*e

Be hard to prove seeing as the receiver consented to sex with someone from here....

That's not how consent works. Agreeing to have sex within a particular set of boundaries makes no difference to whether you meet them on here, in a club, at a bar, in church. Consent laws cover all scenarios. Whilst I get that a lawyer would use it as a defence, it's not one. In fact this site would probably help as there could possibly be messages and conversation to the contrary.

And back in the real world...the laws in this country are fucked...out oneself as a swinger to get justification....how many people really would? "

And that's why so many crimes like that are not reported.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But the only reason why STDs exist at all, the reason why we are ALL at risk, is barebackers. That is ALL of our business.

So let me get this right, you're saying that if it wasn't for barebackers we wouldn't need to use condoms.

Think about how stupid that is for a moment."

This is how debate works. I raise a point. You deabate that point using reason and logic.

Telling me my idea is stupid is being condescending and rude. Nothing more.

Anyone here ever had smallpox?

In 1967 there were 10 - 15 million case of smallpox, from which 2 million people died.

On May 8 1980 the WHO declared smallpox eradicated.

I have a scar on my shoulder showing where I had my smallpox vaccination. Today people no longer need smallpox vaccinations.

Had people then had the same mentality of barebackers, they would have refused to be vaccinated, the diseases would still be alive and we would still need those vaccinations.

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By *att71Man
over a year ago

Bristol

In a word - NO

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

For the sake of mine and others health I am strong enough to resist!

Just not worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think anyone on the forums has had bareback sex.... they also carry dental dams and latex gloves on every sexual meeting....

Also everyone on the forums all get tested every 3 months , never used any chemicals, never had a drink , never smoked anything, always reply to emails, only care about a person’s personality, doesn’t lie about their age , thinks every person is beautiful, Thinks swinging is more about the social aspects rather than sex , would be more than happy to go to a club and not have sex , would travel anywhere in the world to meet someone, and would never stand anyone up......

Now if you do not agree with any of these things I just posted, I’m going to block you..... lol lol

Individualism is truly dead on the forums.....

Sycophants rule the roost....

"

I think you have sainthood and responsibility confused with each other.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london


"

But the only reason why STDs exist at all, the reason why we are ALL at risk, is barebackers. That is ALL of our business.

So let me get this right, you're saying that if it wasn't for barebackers we wouldn't need to use condoms.

Think about how stupid that is for a moment.

This is how debate works. I raise a point. You deabate that point using reason and logic.

Telling me my idea is stupid is being condescending and rude. Nothing more.

Anyone here ever had smallpox?

In 1967 there were 10 - 15 million case of smallpox, from which 2 million people died.

On May 8 1980 the WHO declared smallpox eradicated.

I have a scar on my shoulder showing where I had my smallpox vaccination. Today people no longer need smallpox vaccinations.

Had people then had the same mentality of barebackers, they would have refused to be vaccinated, the diseases would still be alive and we would still need those vaccinations. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure about the rest of the country but in Beds they offer free postal test kits... super quick results normally within 3/4 days of posting.

Still can’t use the finger prick thingy on myself so have to get a friend to do it for me.

These are super handy for those oooppps moments."

Good thing too. You're a very popular guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring some. Firstly for everyone’s safety but also out of respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I have a scar on my shoulder showing where I had my smallpox vaccination. Today people no longer need smallpox vaccinations.

Had people then had the same mentality of barebackers, they would have refused to be vaccinated, the diseases would still be alive and we would still need those vaccinations. "

They exist they are called anti vaxxers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So much bullshit on this post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I have a scar on my shoulder showing where I had my smallpox vaccination. Today people no longer need smallpox vaccinations.

Had people then had the same mentality of barebackers, they would have refused to be vaccinated, the diseases would still be alive and we would still need those vaccinations.

They exist they are called anti vaxxers. "

They refuse to have smallpox vaccinations?

The point I was making is that contagious diseases require contact in order to propagate. In our case it's a case of sufficient people using condoms for long enough and us all being tested and not engaging in sex until we are tested clean.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

No safe all the way I do have a couple I meet where we do bb now after a lot of trust from us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I have a scar on my shoulder showing where I had my smallpox vaccination. Today people no longer need smallpox vaccinations.

Had people then had the same mentality of barebackers, they would have refused to be vaccinated, the diseases would still be alive and we would still need those vaccinations.

They exist they are called anti vaxxers.

They refuse to have smallpox vaccinations?

The point I was making is that contagious diseases require contact in order to propagate. In our case it's a case of sufficient people using condoms for long enough and us all being tested and not engaging in sex until we are tested clean. "

Oh I agree with you. But yes anti vaxxers refuse any vaccinations. Usually on missinformed notions of autism scares, mercury poisoning or the belief they just don't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of barebackers seem to think responsible people LIKE to use condoms.

I don't know anyone who likes them. It's just the right and responsible thing to do.

Yes there is nothing we can do to stop barebackers barebacking. We know there is no argument that will change their minds. However, being told that it is none of our business that they are spreading disease is something I disagree with. Expressing opinions such as these, backed with sound argument is what these forums should be about. If you think I am wrong, and I may be wrong here, then prove me wrong. Simply saying my argument is stupid or bollocks or whatever is not constructive in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I have a scar on my shoulder showing where I had my smallpox vaccination. Today people no longer need smallpox vaccinations.

Had people then had the same mentality of barebackers, they would have refused to be vaccinated, the diseases would still be alive and we would still need those vaccinations.

They exist they are called anti vaxxers.

They refuse to have smallpox vaccinations?

The point I was making is that contagious diseases require contact in order to propagate. In our case it's a case of sufficient people using condoms for long enough and us all being tested and not engaging in sex until we are tested clean.

Oh I agree with you. But yes anti vaxxers refuse any vaccinations. Usually on missinformed notions of autism scares, mercury poisoning or the belief they just don't work. "

Fortunately smallpox vaccination was legislation and you also couldn't travel unless you had proof of smallpox vaccination. I still remember carrying those documents.

Luckily people in those days were a bit wiser. Smallpox was a particularly horrible death.

I come from a part of the world where men, for cultural reasons, refuse to use a condom. Statistically the guy in the car next to yours is more likely to be HIV positive than have a drivers license. The death rate from HIV/AIDS is a phenomenal. Yet they STILL won't use a condom. I am used to the mentality, just not from such well educated people.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"Not sure about the rest of the country but in Beds they offer free postal test kits... super quick results normally within 3/4 days of posting.

Still can’t use the finger prick thingy on myself so have to get a friend to do it for me.

These are super handy for those oooppps moments.

Good thing too. You're a very popular guy!"

Took me awhile to work out who you were.... then then the cultural reference nailed it!

Tried to DM....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure about the rest of the country but in Beds they offer free postal test kits... super quick results normally within 3/4 days of posting.

Still can’t use the finger prick thingy on myself so have to get a friend to do it for me.

These are super handy for those oooppps moments.

Good thing too. You're a very popular guy!

Took me awhile to work out who you were.... then then the cultural reference nailed it!

Tried to DM.... "

Brains as well as looks, personality and an ultrafit body... how do you get to have it all and still be such a lovely down to earth guy?

Miss C has wicked plans for you. I hope we meet up soon in the new year! Lucky guy ......

Happy new year

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes but with a trusted friend. Just had to pull out which wasn’t a problem as a enjoyed giving a facial

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"

But the only reason why STDs exist at all, the reason why we are ALL at risk, is barebackers. That is ALL of our business.

So let me get this right, you're saying that if it wasn't for barebackers we wouldn't need to use condoms.

Think about how stupid that is for a moment.

This is how debate works. I raise a point. You deabate that point using reason and logic.

Telling me my idea is stupid is being condescending and rude. Nothing more.

Anyone here ever had smallpox?

In 1967 there were 10 - 15 million case of smallpox, from which 2 million people died.

On May 8 1980 the WHO declared smallpox eradicated.

I have a scar on my shoulder showing where I had my smallpox vaccination. Today people no longer need smallpox vaccinations.

Had people then had the same mentality of barebackers, they would have refused to be vaccinated, the diseases would still be alive and we would still need those vaccinations. "

Saying if nobody barebacked we wouldn't need safe sex is stupid, how can you not see that? Unless you are saying everybody in the world stops having sex. That would be good for the human race wouldn't it.

And smallpox is totally irrelevant, unless you are saying we all have safe sex for a certain period of time.

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