FabSwingers.com forum: Is it just me?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Straight guy looking for women or couples to play with on here but always messaged by guys looking to suck.

How do you stand out as a single guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not just you. We do stand out, only to guys wanting to suck dick though

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Everybody gets messages from people they're not interested in meeting

You can block men from messaging you tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to take it as a compliment when messaged by gay & bi guys. They can be a bit relentless but polite convo seems the best way....let’s face it guys, we get slammed by the girlies easy enough so I’ll take a little male flattery lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Having a good profile that says something about you and what you're looking for. Messages that show you've read our profile and understand what we're looking for.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Everybody gets messages from people they're not interested in meeting

You can block men from messaging you tho

I think my inbox is broken, I don't get messages from anyone

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

"Everybody gets messages from people they're not interested in meeting

You can block men from messaging you tho

I think my inbox is broken, I don't get messages from anyone

More pics chap, more pics

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By *ensualguy70TV/TS
over a year ago

paisley

"I try to take it as a compliment when messaged by gay & bi guys. They can be a bit relentless but polite convo seems the best way....let’s face it guys, we get slammed by the girlies easy enough so I’ll take a little male flattery lol"

Totally agree xxx

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Make your profile stand out. It is your 'shop window'. It needs to be appealing to draw people in.

Also attend clubs and socials to get yourself known on the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Straight guy looking for women or couples to play with on here but always messaged by guys looking to suck.

How do you stand out as a single guy?"

1/Use your filters to block men out.

2/Try and make your profile appealing to others.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Absolutely agree with this! Some attention (be it messages or pic Fabs) is better than none at all, it’s nice to be appreciated wherever it comes from

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"Straight guy looking for women or couples to play with on here but always messaged by guys looking to suck.

How do you stand out as a single guy?"

You write a decent profile, have some good pics, and write good opening messages.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Straight guy looking for women or couples to play with on here but always messaged by guys looking to suck.

How do you stand out as a single guy?

1/Use your filters to block men out.

2/Try and make your profile appealing to others. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men really do not need to do these types of thread complaining as you have filters to block men if you wish. Such a simple solution

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