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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My wife is completely vanilla, but I want more from life. How can I turn her to the swinging/sharing life? I'd love to see her with another man or woman. Or do I leave her be and stay on here by myself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her your profile on here and the site and see what she thinks.

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By *illie99TV/TS
over a year ago

Central Scotland


"Show her your profile on here and the site and see what she thinks."

Splended idea, I think that would work.

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

You need to talk to her about. Don’t just blurt our I want us to be swingers and see you get fucked by other men as that will get a big no from her

But done properly and lots of talking asking questions etc she may be intrigued to find out more

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

Talk about fantasies see if she as any. Dont just say you want to have sex others.

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

I would suggest asking to watch porn with you..Swingers parties to see her reaction..

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Talk about fantasies see if she as any. Dont just say you want to have sex others. "

this

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"You need to talk to her about. Don’t just blurt our I want us to be swingers and see you get fucked by other men as that will get a big no from her

But done properly and lots of talking asking questions etc she may be intrigued to find out more"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show her your profile on here and the site and see what she thinks."

Definitely this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would suggest asking to watch porn with you..Swingers parties to see her reaction.."

Exactly this

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

Swinging is based on mutual trust. Since you're already on here behind her back, I'd say you've fucked that up already.

Gem

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

How do you think she'd react to you asking if she'd like to try swinging? How's your sexual communication? Have you mentioned it before, it so what was her reaction?

I'd never recommend staying here without her knowledge unless you've tried communicating with her. Your post seems to imply that you don't want to give fab up whatever her reaction though so I'd say judge how you think she'll react and make your decision based on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google search mojo upgrade and fill it in together, you might be surprised.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Google search mojo upgrade and fill it in together, you might be surprised."
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Yep good call.

Getting stuck in a sexual rut probably happens to most people. That's an easy way to open up conversation.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"My wife is completely vanilla, but I want more from life. How can I turn her to the swinging/sharing life? I'd love to see her with another man or woman. Or do I leave her be and stay on here by myself?"

You think she's vanilla and she probably thinks you're boring in bed

But here you are on fab, so what's to say she's not already on a similar site or having an affair.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your input guys.

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

You are having your fun this way, let her have her fun her way. Once she knows her relationship is open, who knows how she will choose to behave, but ...just as you are enjoying playing solo ... so might she.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Communication....little steps ...

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

My ex thought I was frigid... Communication is the key. Good communication. I would start with something more mainstream to be fair, suggest a movie night with fifty shades, that could open a dialogue up to other things

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By *mooth8Man
over a year ago

s hertfordshire

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By *mooth8Man
over a year ago

s hertfordshire


"Show her your profile on here and the site and see what she thinks."

And while she looks at it you can look up "divorce lawyers"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show her your profile on here and the site and see what she thinks."

Brilliant!

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By *infonyCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Bring a well hung bloke home and tell her to suck it and see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show her your profile on here and the site and see what she thinks."

This ^^^ respect and communication are the key in a good relationship

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