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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there such a thing as being too nice or polite in a message, etc?...

Do people find that off-putting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there such a thing as being too nice or polite in a message, etc?...

Do people find that off-putting?"

You can't please all of the people all of the time. There's no such thing as too polite. But no one likes obsequious either. Genuine heartfelt consideration is generally appreciated.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is there such a thing as being too nice or polite in a message, etc?...

Do people find that off-putting?

You can't please all of the people all of the time. There's no such thing as too polite. But no one likes obsequious either. Genuine heartfelt consideration is generally appreciated."

That's about it.

I've never understood the "too nice" thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there such a thing as being too nice or polite in a message, etc?...

Do people find that off-putting?

You can't please all of the people all of the time. There's no such thing as too polite. But no one likes obsequious either. Genuine heartfelt consideration is generally appreciated.

That's about it.

I've never understood the "too nice" thing. "

I think there may be an element of truth to the "too nice" thing in that "bad boys" have their own allure. Nice guys are often mistaken for being boring or wimps which isn't necessarily the case. Bonnie would have certainly picked Clyde over a younger me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People tell me that I'm 'too polite' all of the time, I just tell them to f*** off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too nice to me sometimes seems like the guy is desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too nice to me sometimes seems like the guy is desperate. "

We are all desperate. Some of us just manage to hide it well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Individuals are what they are and no one can change that... Just avoid the rude and ignorant folk..

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I’m (Male) like to think I’m a gentleman.

In more intimate scenes, perhaps not so.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is there such a thing as being too nice or polite in a message, etc?...

Do people find that off-putting?

You can't please all of the people all of the time. There's no such thing as too polite. But no one likes obsequious either. Genuine heartfelt consideration is generally appreciated.

That's about it.

I've never understood the "too nice" thing.

I think there may be an element of truth to the "too nice" thing in that "bad boys" have their own allure. Nice guys are often mistaken for being boring or wimps which isn't necessarily the case. Bonnie would have certainly picked Clyde over a younger me "

Bad boys have no allure in my opinion. I genuinely wouldn't want to be with someone who caused me uneccesary grief.

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By *drian HardthrobMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I think women perceive "nice guys" to be more manipulative. Then when a guy tries to be a "bad boy" he usually comes across as being a bit of a dick

Shoot for being a good guy. Be polite, smile, hold good eye contact but be assertive, know what you're looking for, state your intent clearly and unapologetically

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Just be yourself.

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