FabSwingers.com forum: Spanking and whipping

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Met up with an old lover who’s now divorced and she has changed. Likes to be spanked, quite hard and whipped moderately, with a leather tawse.

She is so much hornier now than she was and says she is just more liberated andknows what she wants. Is this quite normal and how many other women like to be spanked etc. New to me but quite happy to oblige her as it quite turns me on as well. What do you all think?

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Impact yummmmm

Yup exploring kink usually begins with exploring yourself

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(Lou) I love being spanked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't remember last time someone spanked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanking has been a big part of my life for eleven years. My partner is an expert and used to work for Kane magazine spanking models for photo shoots and parties. I've crewed and attended numerous spanking events and been spanked by an awful lot of people, male and female including some of the best known professionals in the scene. More than happy to offer any thoughts if you think I can help. I'm not sure if you mean an actual tawse or a split tail paddle. Tawses are very heavy and can bruise nastily.

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By *ewshyTV/TS
over a year ago

falkirk

Very sexy

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We enjoy spanking and whipping along with lots if other kinky activities, lots of fun to be had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We enjoy spanking and whipping along with lots if other kinky activities, lots of fun to be had.

I absolutely adore your pics

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Thank you for your compliment.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Found ourselves experimenting with it recently,

in a mild mannered kind of way lol

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

I am fairly partial.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to spank, flog etc

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yeah, it's normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it so much I make my own "tools"

Fuzz

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

A lot of restraint and a make bottom, what is there not to like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Lou) I love being spanked

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love to see you being spanked, big turn on watching!

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

We enjoy those things too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being spanked, not met anybody into it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love being spanked, not met anybody into it though

Oh my girl watch the offers flood in now, i can recommend a few on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love being spanked, not met anybody into it though

Widen your age range then

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Met up with an old lover who’s now divorced and she has changed. Likes to be spanked, quite hard and whipped moderately, with a leather tawse.

It's more mainstream now.

'sex in the city' made it acceptable for women to say they enjoy sex and demand satisfaction.

"Fifty shades" made kink more mainstream

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

Once I introduced the wife to the Joy's of bdsm she took to it like a duck to water

The fact that she is in a loving and trusted relationship with someone who enjoys many facets of bdsm allows her to try pretty much anything we trust each other and she does like to give as well as receive, along with our own playroom we can encourage others to explore too

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By *antric ecstasyMan
over a year ago

Co Durham

"Love it so much I make my own "tools"

Fuzz"

There's joy in making the tools - and testing them! Not to forget the anticipation.

Oddly, I had trouble finding volunteers to test them - I was giving away free samples. Do people not like freebies?

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Ailsa enjoys spanking and the whip, but only as an occasional treat. It’s not a regular part of our fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m an experienced spanker in Cirencester who’d be happy to oblige if you like the idea of being put over the knee of a dominant older man. Bare bottom of course, skirt up, knickers down around your ankles.......

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
over a year ago

london

I like the occasional whip across my arse. I need to be tied face down on the bed though with a butt plug in place v

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"(Lou) I love being spanked

love to see you being spanked, big turn on watching!"

Maybe one day on cam, who knows?

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By *bwredWoman
over a year ago

dorset

Ohh I love to be spanked, only found out that I did from my husband playfully did it one day and now I love it!

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

We enjoy spanking, flogging and whipping our subs but there is a huge difference between each one of these punishments/ pleasures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite enjoy a flogging & spanking session

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Spanked and hand on neck ??????

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

H likes the occasional caning & she says it’s never hard enough unless she can hear the “Whoosh” before the impact.

Takes her bum a while to recover from though & a post caning picture as one of our only rejected pics on here.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Flogging, spanked hard degraded till I cry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The difficulty is finding someone who can do it erm. Just right

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

"The difficulty is finding someone who can do it erm. Just right "

You've got to define "just right" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flogging, spanked hard degraded till I cry. "
Sounds like a good night in

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

"Flogging, spanked hard degraded till I cry. "

Ooft hardcore !

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Spanked, light throttling, spat upon, hair pulled, rough fucked etc.

Don't do and don't like gentle on meets. Hubby makes love to me for all my gentle needs, I just want a good hard fucking when on a meet, from males or females

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

"Love it so much I make my own "tools"

Fuzz

There's joy in making the tools - and testing them! Not to forget the anticipation.

Oddly, I had trouble finding volunteers to test them - I was giving away free samples. Do people not like freebies?"

Yes! I’ll happily try out the robustness

of them. Have plenty willing ppl to be Subs for me!

I totally love my flogger & paddle.

Millie

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"A lot of restraint and a make bottom, what is there not to like."

Is English autocorrect’s second language?

How can you turn naked into make.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

"Spanked, light throttling, spat upon, hair pulled, rough fucked etc.

Don't do and don't like gentle on meets. Hubby makes love to me for all my gentle needs, I just want a good hard fucking when on a meet, from males or females

We’ve had a few fems and couples mention spitting, getting curious as to how far people take it. We like spitting during oral/gagging

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I would love to be spanked...... Any volunteers ?!!!

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Flogging, spanked hard degraded till I cry. Sounds like a good night in

Depending on what I’m made to do before I’m punished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being spanked. Also flogged love the sensation, not only the stinging of the skin, but also the head rush I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being spanked and whipped

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We’ve had a few fems and couples mention spitting, getting curious as to how far people take it. We like spitting during oral/gagging"

It's all part of the being "used and abused" that I love. Being made to feel like I'm no more than a plaything, a hole to be used is part of the pleasure. I don't like verbal degradation but physical is fine

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We’ve had a few fems and couples mention spitting, getting curious as to how far people take it. We like spitting during oral/gagging

Very much like to mix it all up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had a few fems and couples mention spitting, getting curious as to how far people take it. We like spitting during oral/gagging

Very much like to mix it all up

"
definitely brilliant comment x there's a lot of people like yourselves on here who know exactly what they are wanting and what purpose in life is xx (

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The difficulty is finding someone who can do it erm. Just right "

I’ve got you, don’t you worry

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We’ve had a few fems and couples mention spitting, getting curious as to how far people take it. We like spitting during oral/gagging

So is it anywhere is fair game for spitting or do you have no go areas like the face ? All these questions as we’ve only just got into ‘degrading my side. Mrs has taking a liking to being called a slut (only slut, not whore!) and we like to push things every so often to test our limits ?

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Anywhere. First time was a guy that suddenly spat on my face while giving light throttling and he called me slut. I came straght away

Like your Mrs, I don't mind being called slut during sex (not before or after though) but words not to be called include bitch, whore, slag etc.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Anywhere. First time was a guy that suddenly spat on my face while giving light throttling and he called me slut. I came straght away

Like your Mrs, I don't mind being called slut during sex (not before or after though) but words not to be called include bitch, whore, slag etc. "

We don’t mind what’s said as degradation works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met up with an old lover who’s now divorced and she has changed. Likes to be spanked, quite hard and whipped moderately, with a leather tawse.

You lucky so and so....

Go for it, introduce different types of flogging equipment. Loads of it online and on the high Street

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

Hi all. First Merry Christmas. Hollie my partner a total sub over 14 years has got so much worse and luckily for me tries to earn stuff. Hollie into suspended whip but finding the right is rare. Still we enjoying the search. Happy fabbing for the NY all

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Anywhere. First time was a guy that suddenly spat on my face while giving light throttling and he called me slut. I came straght away

Like your Mrs, I don't mind being called slut during sex (not before or after though) but words not to be called include bitch, whore, slag etc. "

Thanks for the info ! She really enjoys spitting on the ass before/during anal and during oral. May build up to spit swap one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We enjoy spanking, flogging and whipping our subs but there is a huge difference between each one of these punishments/ pleasures

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sounds like you rather enjoy this kind of fun and not that far away from me! id love to experience some new sensations. cheers ed

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By *aFee RougeWoman
over a year ago

Luton, Bedfordshire

The joy of CP

there are far more similarities between how our brains process pleasure and pain than we ever knew before.

Spanking can enhance excitement and physical sensations; increase adrenalin, endorphins, and oxytocin.

Bring on corporal punishment!

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By *ibertine_mindsCouple
over a year ago

Staffs/ Derbys/ Peak District

We have ourselves down for the full range of experiences from the intimacy of spanking, through leather belts and straps, the wonderful pleasures of the cane and on to Floggers & various Whips.

Not usually all in the same day though . . .

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

We totally agree to last post. But lack of experienced guys a prob. Most are timewasters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have now bought some wrist and ankle restraints and she loved being fucked with her arms restrained behind her back, doggy, face into the pillar , dap hard and fast. Was. Getting a bit worried I was smothering her and could she breathe, but she loved it. Grabbing her arms and pulling her head back by her hair. Never knew how much it could turn me on as well. Hidden kinks , weirdnext time it’s her wrists restrained to her ankles .............hhhmmmmm

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

"We enjoy spanking, flogging and whipping our subs but there is a huge difference between each one of these punishments/ pleasures

This is so true x

Different intensity and durations depending on the sub or the scene x

I enjoying using a paddle or a flogger yo leaving anything from a rosy red glow to some deeper intense marks x

If you are local to me and wish to learn more please dm me x

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By *ornynwukCouple
over a year ago

blackpool

You can’t beat a good spanking when you have been a very naughty girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a sweet spot between pain and pleasure You need experience to see, hear and play it

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

On a recent meet i received an unexpected and very firm slap on the ass

It's never happened before but i have to say it was unbelievably arousing

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

"You can’t beat a good spanking when you have been a very naughty girl "

That’s one of our favorite games to play, mrs does things she knows will result in a firm hand over and over

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

"We enjoy spanking, flogging and whipping our subs but there is a huge difference between each one of these punishments/ pleasures

This is so true x

Different intensity and durations depending on the sub or the scene x

I enjoying using a paddle or a flogger yo leaving anything from a rosy red glow to some deeper intense marks x

If you are local to me and wish to learn more please dm me x

Some amazing veris there..

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By *j JonesMan
over a year ago

Manchester

id love to try someone spanking me....

it’s defo on my list

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I won't describe to myself as pain like someone is hurting you or being nasty to me because is not about pain . To same people probably could be if they experienced but i can really describe and one word comes to my mind is pleasure

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

"There’s a sweet spot between pain and pleasure You need experience to see, hear and play it"

So true.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"There’s a sweet spot between pain and pleasure You need experience to see, hear and play it"

Now let’s talk about canning?

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By *aFee RougeWoman
over a year ago

Luton, Bedfordshire

"There’s a sweet spot between pain and pleasure You need experience to see, hear and play it

Now let’s talk about canning?"

those thin red lines on your lover's bum cheek. That grunts s/he makes when the lashes hit the tender rose skin.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"There’s a sweet spot between pain and pleasure You need experience to see, hear and play it

Now let’s talk about canning?"

Oo thin and stingy or chunky and thuddy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the whole thing from knowing I've been naughty enough to deserve a spanking to bending over to accept it. There is nothing more intense as waiting for the first impact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am absolutely needing a really good bdsm session right now. The brat in me needs taming desperately and some Fuzz medicine just might do that!

Peach x

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Love impact play but there's a huge amount of trust involved so its not something I would consider with just anyone. Trust & boundaries would need to be established first and that takes time

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By *leasure4leisureMan
over a year ago

south

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By *leasure4leisureMan
over a year ago

south

"[Removed by poster at 29/12/19 12:55:02]"

Such great pics

Enjoy the sun as I am sure you are xx

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By *leasure4leisureMan
over a year ago

south

"There’s a sweet spot between pain and pleasure You need experience to see, hear and play it"

And so much fun finding it

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

"Love it so much I make my own "tools"

Fuzz

There's joy in making the tools - and testing them! Not to forget the anticipation.

Oddly, I had trouble finding volunteers to test them - I was giving away free samples. Do people not like freebies?

Yes! I’ll happily try out the robustness

of them. Have plenty willing ppl to be Subs for me!

I totally love my flogger & paddle.

Millie "

Should now update I have a new profile on a certain kink website

(Ian’s doing!) and happy with my new Christmas present of a personalised toy bag

Millie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A ex girlfriend wanted to be tied naked to the bed naked blindfolded and spanked I was a bit worried at first but got to enjoy spanking her. That was three years ago need someone to spank again

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By *ixen500Couple
over a year ago

some where near shropshire

"Love to spank, flog etc

With the right person ..trust...boundaries.. have found it to be relieving..sensual..horny....omg!!

Giving and receiving

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Would love a experience lady to try it out with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Got to admit she has turned me on to something I never thought I would like. But naughty dirty girls need punished and a firm hand can make sure she is.............and enjoying it as I can see she’s glowing. Can wait for next thing she wants to do..

Loving it...

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By *hom_1981Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Now let’s talk about canning?"

Deliciously, ouchy, teeth grittingly more-ish...

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Being put across someone's knee is definitely on my 2020 fucket list

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By *hom_1981Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Now let’s talk about canning?

Deliciously, ouchy, teeth grittingly more-ish...

Plus the resulting marks are just so beautiful, I wear them with pride.

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

"There’s a sweet spot between pain and pleasure You need experience to see, hear and play it

Now let’s talk about canning?

Oo thin and stingy or chunky and thuddy? "

thin everytime.

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"There’s a sweet spot between pain and pleasure You need experience to see, hear and play it

Now let’s talk about canning?

Oo thin and stingy or chunky and thuddy?

thin everytime. "

i love it with a heavy, thuddy cane, the harder the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The difficulty is finding someone who can do it erm. Just right "

I agree.

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

We have a fibreglass cane.... it's a beauty

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By *on779Man
over a year ago

west mersea colchester

Spank myself sometimes never been spanked quilte like it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to beat

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

Best we have is a 48” horse whip. Marks and welts beautifully

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