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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have had dealings with a fiew women who are playing behind there partners back and it's strange...

Many people find this happen?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Not strange really, lots do it on here and I won't meet them. If you don't want to meet them, you don't have to. Like wise, if you do then your choice. X

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok!

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Why is it strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why strange ? Both are capable and do play away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No stranger than men playing away. Same boat.

Mrs

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok! "

That's because there aren't enough women on here, ppl turn a blind eye. I treat them equally, won't meet either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's strange, why did you get involved with them in the first place, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not strange at all, married women are sexy. Women shouldn't be judged differently from men. X

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

definitely not strange, it dsnt bother me really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many reasons why somebody might be doing it without their partners knowledge. Relationships are complicated. As long as the person is honest with us we don't mind what their complications are. Other people's relationships aren't our business

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….


"There are many reasons why somebody might be doing it without their partners knowledge. Relationships are complicated. As long as the person is honest with us we don't mind what their complications are. Other people's relationships aren't our business "

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"There are many reasons why somebody might be doing it without their partners knowledge. Relationships are complicated. As long as the person is honest with us we don't mind what their complications are. Other people's relationships aren't our business "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the ‘single’ women I met on my old profile were married and playing away. The moral police wouldn’t approve but they all had their reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually prefer married women. Slightly less judgemental I find. Would actually love to find a regular local married FB.

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By *pa and dCouple
over a year ago

Barnet

It's one thing when someone (of either gender) is upfront about it & another if you've found it they've been lying later on. I guess for us honesty scores highest.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"There are many reasons why somebody might be doing it without their partners knowledge. Relationships are complicated. As long as the person is honest with us we don't mind what their complications are. Other people's relationships aren't our business "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The unicorns of fab can do what they like and have no judgments made against them

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"There are many reasons why somebody might be doing it without their partners knowledge. Relationships are complicated. As long as the person is honest with us we don't mind what their complications are. Other people's relationships aren't our business "

Good attitude, I would say......

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

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does it matter married or single, its only sex not getting into long term relationship, lots of husbands cant satisfy there wife, so let another guy do the fucking , and same for the guys if there not getting any fun at home , swing no one gets hurt, turn a blind eye, we have met many a married guy, once they have had there fun there on way home, would there wife rather the husband went looking for hooker and paid for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are many reasons why somebody might be doing it without their partners knowledge. Relationships are complicated. As long as the person is honest with us we don't mind what their complications are. Other people's relationships aren't our business "

Totally agree, too many people want something to be angry about.

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

Shoot me down but the thought of playing with a married woman behind her mans back turns me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love married women that k ow what they want

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"There are many reasons why somebody might be doing it without their partners knowledge. Relationships are complicated. As long as the person is honest with us we don't mind what their complications are. Other people's relationships aren't our business "

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok! "

Tell me about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All seems perfectly normal to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does it matter married or single, its only sex not getting into long term relationship, lots of husbands cant satisfy there wife, so let another guy do the fucking , and same for the guys if there not getting any fun at home , swing no one gets hurt, turn a blind eye, we have met many a married guy, once they have had there fun there on way home, would there wife rather the husband went looking for hooker and paid for it "

Perfectly put. My whole swinging life is based around this premise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does it matter married or single, its only sex not getting into long term relationship, lots of husbands cant satisfy there wife, so let another guy do the fucking , and same for the guys if there not getting any fun at home , swing no one gets hurt, turn a blind eye, we have met many a married guy, once they have had there fun there on way home, would there wife rather the husband went looking for hooker and paid for it "

Sexy pics Mrs M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are many reasons why somebody might be doing it without their partners knowledge. Relationships are complicated. As long as the person is honest with us we don't mind what their complications are. Other people's relationships aren't our business "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless a man was looking for an emotional connection, he wouldn’t judge a woman for playing away......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless a man was looking for an emotional connection, he wouldn’t judge a woman for playing away......"

And he's not likely to have empathy for her spouse.

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

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as should be for everyone, enjoy life and enjoy another guys wife, with or without the husband knowing


"does it matter married or single, its only sex not getting into long term relationship, lots of husbands cant satisfy there wife, so let another guy do the fucking , and same for the guys if there not getting any fun at home , swing no one gets hurt, turn a blind eye, we have met many a married guy, once they have had there fun there on way home, would there wife rather the husband went looking for hooker and paid for it

Perfectly put. My whole swinging life is based around this premise "

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Had a great meet with a married woman. Picked me up on my lunch break, drove to a quiet road, wasn't wearing knickers, and made each other cum. Great meet!

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

Personally I prefer married women playing away, for one it's a turn on having them cheat with me and there's no issues with attachment, they want attention, passion,orgasms and to be treated like the hot sexual beings they are... Love married women.

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

great to hear carry on many out there looking for guys like you


"Personally I prefer married women playing away, for one it's a turn on having them cheat with me and there's no issues with attachment, they want attention, passion,orgasms and to be treated like the hot sexual beings they are... Love married women. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It goes both waysas long as nobody gets hurt and it is caps two screens

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

There are a few women on here and club scene. As there are cheating women in general in the every day world (the ex wife being one of them). Generally not an endearing feature but life is complex and rarely black and white. So try not to judge, as we do not walk in their shoes. We are not the police of others morality (only our own) but neither does it mean we want to be an accomplice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is key. Then all cam make a choice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's incredibly interesting reading different threads one on ladies cheating (guys seem to have not a lot of problems with it in the majority) to one on guys cheating (outrage and condemnation in the main part!)

I'm with the above poster ^^^ I only have my own morality to deal with and won't knowingly participate or be complacent with anyone cheating

But like with anything their life is also no part of my own so don't care or think about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok! "

Not at all both are as equally in the wrong and we wouldn't meet a single woman on fab if she was cheating either!

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

I mention being married pretty much right after beginning chatting, as soon as it looks like it could go further. That where it stops 80% of the time. Happened 10 mins ago. Wish all women had the same attitude as those on this thread lol

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I don't mind a married woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's incredibly interesting reading different threads one on ladies cheating (guys seem to have not a lot of problems with it in the majority) to one on guys cheating (outrage and condemnation in the main part!) "

Haha that's what I've noticed too!

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"It's incredibly interesting reading different threads one on ladies cheating (guys seem to have not a lot of problems with it in the majority) to one on guys cheating (outrage and condemnation in the main part!)

Haha that's what I've noticed too!"

Yep there was one earlier today, he was lynched lol

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By *lex_xxx2019Man
over a year ago

O2 hotel

My wife played away and I found out... went mad at first but still wank regularly over their messages I saved from WhatsApp.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest , I have no problem with if everyone involved is happy with it

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By *D04Couple
over a year ago

Leigh

I don't see why it's needs to be behind partners backs... In this day more and more people seem open to a singers lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why it's needs to be behind partners backs... In this day more and more people seem open to a singers lifestyle "

Yeah this is what I meant, it doesn't have to be behind backs, if the couple are happy to play away then good on them, all for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest , I have no problem with if everyone involved is happy with it "

I’m sure the fella wouldn’t be too happy. But he probably ain’t sorting her out so it’s he’s fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male or female.. im not here to allow those to destroy their own families.

Their problems are their own and i dont wanna know or be involved.

I also find the whole thing very selfish that someone can do that and its a trait i dont like n a person

Thats my reasons

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By *leasure4leisureMan
over a year ago

south


"It's incredibly interesting reading different threads one on ladies cheating (guys seem to have not a lot of problems with it in the majority) to one on guys cheating (outrage and condemnation in the main part!)

I'm with the above poster ^^^ I only have my own morality to deal with and won't knowingly participate or be complacent with anyone cheating

But like with anything their life is also no part of my own so don't care or think about it! "

Hi

We are a married together cpl and do both meet socially

It is now only me playing

Mrs knows always

Is this cheating ?

What do you all think ?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"To be honest , I have no problem with if everyone involved is happy with it "

Well... obviously not everybody is happy with it, or it's not cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest , I have no problem with if everyone involved is happy with it

Well... obviously not everybody is happy with it, or it's not cheating. "

I feel my comment has been misread , I mean if both half's of the couple are happy to play seperatly then that's different

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By *guyMan
over a year ago

Wirral


"There are many reasons why somebody might be doing it without their partners knowledge. Relationships are complicated. As long as the person is honest with us we don't mind what their complications are. Other people's relationships aren't our business "

Exactly. Well said!

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By *aynek80Man
over a year ago

Wirral

I've played with married ladies at a club and in all honesty for me it's a great turn on knowing I'm with a married lady while they guy is unaware at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have had dealings with a fiew women who are playing behind there partners back and it's strange...

Many people find this happen? "
never come across it how odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s one of my (mr) fantasy to have a sexy married lady but my mrs isn’t so keen on it.

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

Women playing away are the best as its all about nsa fun...where are you all ladies x

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I would say that roughly 45% of members on here be it m or f are married playing away looking for what they are missing at home or just unadulterated nsa

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It's incredibly interesting reading different threads one on ladies cheating (guys seem to have not a lot of problems with it in the majority) to one on guys cheating (outrage and condemnation in the main part!)

I'm with the above poster ^^^ I only have my own morality to deal with and won't knowingly participate or be complacent with anyone cheating

But like with anything their life is also no part of my own so don't care or think about it!

Hi

We are a married together cpl and do both meet socially

It is now only me playing

Mrs knows always

Is this cheating ?

What do you all think ? "

She's aware, so it's not cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does it matter married or single, its only sex not getting into long term relationship, lots of husbands cant satisfy there wife, so let another guy do the fucking , and same for the guys if there not getting any fun at home , swing no one gets hurt, turn a blind eye, we have met many a married guy, once they have had there fun there on way home, would there wife rather the husband went looking for hooker and paid for it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why it's needs to be behind partners backs... In this day more and more people seem open to a singers lifestyle "

Sadly my wife isn’t... I tried for years to get her to try the lifestyle but it’s just not her thing

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By *aughty in TamworthMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

Like many men I find it a huge turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't have a problem with it, as long as their honest about it. They have their reasons and who am I to jugde

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

Huge turn on

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Yes thats me and i dont care about peoples opinions on it as they arent living my life so dont know the full facts nor do they need to know x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes thats me and i dont care about peoples opinions on it as they arent living my life so dont know the full facts nor do they need to know x"

So it should be for everyone else on here, what ever their reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the usual...

women only want to meet single men and not married.

And men would rather meet married women than single ones.

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By *arthvaderMan
over a year ago

glossop

does anyone find that this site is ridiculously hard to get a reply off women or is it just me thats unfortunate lol

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Have had dealings with a fiew women who are playing behind there partners back and it's strange...

Many people find this happen? "

Jeez! PM me their profiles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does anyone find that this site is ridiculously hard to get a reply off women or is it just me thats unfortunate lol "

Yes, it's the same for every guy, you're not alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one thing when someone (of either gender) is upfront about it & another if you've found it they've been lying later on. I guess for us honesty scores highest. "

Agree!!

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

My wife plays with men without me but I know about it and I play without her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About half the ladies I chat to on here admit to being married or in a relationship, but only a couple say so in their profile.

Both of my previous long term fwb were part of a couple, but they wanted more sexually than they were getting. Simple as that..

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I don’t understand this secret need to go behind a other males back.

Lamppost pissing, are you can’t get wife for yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok! "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women admit it more than men I think.

I've never had a male say not interested when I mention husband and Dom are 2 different guys, couples and women do decline though.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok!

This "

Personally, this could just be me, anyone who betrays trust, is not trustworthy.

If you want to fuck someone’s wife., look the husband in the eye and ask.

Grow some meat clackers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets face it, most men will shag any women that comes along that will actually play. They don't care if there married. Yes I know not every man is like this!

Its the same with couples and "single" ladies even though they say they don't wanna meet people playing without there partners knowledge yet if it's a women it's ok...but in my books not.

Im here without my husband knowledge so know from past experiences.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I do, and I am open about it. It’s on my profile.

I have my reasons for it and I tend to talk about them with people I meet for a social.

Don’t have to explain myself to anyone else. It is their prerogative whether they want to meet me or not, same as me.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok!

This

Personally, this could just be me, anyone who betrays trust, is not trustworthy.

If you want to fuck someone’s wife., look the husband in the eye and ask.

Grow some meat clackers.

"

“look the husband in the eye and ask”

Only if you are able to see the husband in the first place.

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By *j1963Couple
over a year ago

leeds

What you need is a hot wife... a wife who is able to play and then go home and tell hubby. That way everyone is happy

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Yes thats me and i dont care about peoples opinions on it as they arent living my life so dont know the full facts nor do they need to know x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say that roughly 45% of members on here be it m or f are married playing away looking for what they are missing at home or just unadulterated nsa "

"unadulterated" used in sentence regarding adultery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the usual...

women only want to meet single men and not married.

And men would rather meet married women than single ones."

I'd assume men just want a meet, I don't think marital status comes into. Oh except those men who have giant egos and find it a turn on knowing they are "satisfying" the Mrs behind her husband's back.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok!

This

Personally, this could just be me, anyone who betrays trust, is not trustworthy.

If you want to fuck someone’s wife., look the husband in the eye and ask.

Grow some meat clackers.

“look the husband in the eye and ask”

Only if you are able to see the husband in the first place. "

I’ve never had a problem, is furtive a verb?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I do, and I am open about it. It’s on my profile.

I have my reasons for it and I tend to talk about them with people I meet for a social.

Don’t have to explain myself to anyone else. It is their prerogative whether they want to meet me or not, same as me. "

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By *hubbycheckerMan
over a year ago

Porstmouth

Each to their own really isn't it, how would it be strange though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say that roughly 45% of members on here be it m or f are married playing away looking for what they are missing at home or just unadulterated nsa "
69% of all statistical analysis is inaccurate

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"To be honest , I have no problem with if everyone involved is happy with it

I’m sure the fella wouldn’t be too happy. But he probably ain’t sorting her out so it’s he’s fault "

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I do, and I am open about it. It’s on my profile.

I have my reasons for it and I tend to talk about them with people I meet for a social.

Don’t have to explain myself to anyone else. It is their prerogative whether they want to meet me or not, same as me.

"

Smiles) there was a quote which was allegedly quoted by Mandela, however, it was from a women, perish the though.

Mr Mandela was asker, “what kept you going( you terrorise) on Ellis island.

The reply was, my mum.

She said, their are those who just die and their name is never remembered,

There are those who are remembered by bad deeds,

And there is those who just leave the world slightly better than when they came into it.

I didn’t want to let my mother down.

Okay, wasn’t Mandela, the sentiment fits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefur either sex to be married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do, and I am open about it. It’s on my profile.

I have my reasons for it and I tend to talk about them with people I meet for a social.

Don’t have to explain myself to anyone else. It is their prerogative whether they want to meet me or not, same as me. "

At least your being honest a lot are not and are sly bastards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure people have their reasons , id happily play and meet a married woman , if she's honest with it

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

Each if their own! carpe diem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently joined after finding out my one and only partner since I was 17 was playing away with a 54 year old married man, who is also a family friend. Walked in my home to catch them in my child’s bedroom. Destroyed me. So can honestly say, anyone playing away - be careful. You never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You women csn plsy away with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did u put on kirsty ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I love meeting up with a married/attached woman. It's just such a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are many reasons why somebody might be doing it without their partners knowledge. Relationships are complicated. As long as the person is honest with us we don't mind what their complications are. Other people's relationships aren't our business "

I like this attitude. It is realistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are many reasons why somebody might be doing it without their partners knowledge. Relationships are complicated. As long as the person is honest with us we don't mind what their complications are. Other people's relationships aren't our business

I like this attitude. It is realistic. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are many reasons why somebody might be doing it without their partners knowledge. Relationships are complicated. As long as the person is honest with us we don't mind what their complications are. Other people's relationships aren't our business

I like this attitude. It is realistic. "
does Alice spring is hope eternal?

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"Recently joined after finding out my one and only partner since I was 17 was playing away with a 54 year old married man, who is also a family friend. Walked in my home to catch them in my child’s bedroom. Destroyed me. So can honestly say, anyone playing away - be careful. You never know. "

I also joined after finding out my husband was shagging his colleague, 18 years younger than him. It is very complex- 2 very difficult years, he refused to leave her...

I joined trying to find something like he had. And I have. And then some!

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"What you need is a hot wife... a wife who is able to play and then go home and tell hubby. That way everyone is happy "

yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, there's plenty of both men and women cheating on here, much like there is in real life. I have no interest in hooking up with those people though.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Recently joined after finding out my one and only partner since I was 17 was playing away with a 54 year old married man, who is also a family friend. Walked in my home to catch them in my child’s bedroom. Destroyed me. So can honestly say, anyone playing away - be careful. You never know.

I also joined after finding out my husband was shagging his colleague, 18 years younger than him. It is very complex- 2 very difficult years, he refused to leave her...

I joined trying to find something like he had. And I have. And then some! "

Must of been tough on you, but sounds like you've managed to work things through.

That's why people shouldn't judge. They only know a tiny proportion of what goes on in other peoples lives.

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By *p478Man
over a year ago

norfolk


"What you need is a hot wife... a wife who is able to play and then go home and tell hubby. That way everyone is happy "

Ffs yes I'd love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok! "

Quiet agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about personal choice and not being judgemental. Often in a relationship one is more open minded and highly sexed than the other. I’ve never had a problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say easily 75% of ‘single’ women I met on my old profile were married. Like a lot have already said, relationships are very complicated and this was their little release from everyday life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've played with 3 married women in the past they are just so frustrated

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By *irm hand LukeMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire

It happens. I try not to judge as you don't know what goes on in people's lives. Sometimes things aren't black and white

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

If I said I didn't love playing with a married woman I'd be lying. Really hot and have done in the past

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I don't like to judge, everyone has their reasons

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Monogamy is unnatural that's why so many married men and women gravitate towards extramarital sex. My home is ground zero where several of my married GFs have their fun during the day when I'm at work. I don't judge them or the married men I sleep with - everyone's got reasons and everyone's hot when they're horny and no one's getting hurt (except the moral police, it seems). Live and let live.

x

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I found out my now ex wife was seeing a friend of hers behind my back. We'd been together a decade - so I don't knowingly meet people playing away.

I've met some lovely people here, although ladies seem to elude me, sadly.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Whilst we arent stupid and we know people cheat, for us we dont play with anyone male or female who is playing away. That said we can only know if we are told. However, if we know we will chose not to play with them. Purely because neither of us want to be the reason a family breaks up, children get hurt, etc. The potential impact isn't worth it.

I've had friends who have cheated and many have their reasons but I always think why not be honest? I dont think we are meant to be monogamous entirely which is why C and I do what we do openly and together! I think non monogamy needs to be more acceptable.

However I suppose you can never he 100% sure if people dont tell you. We do look for signs: daytime only meets, cant accommodate without explanation, reluctant to send face pics, etc.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"Monogamy is unnatural that's why so many married men and women gravitate towards extramarital sex. My home is ground zero where several of my married GFs have their fun during the day when I'm at work. I don't judge them or the married men I sleep with - everyone's got reasons and everyone's hot when they're horny and no one's getting hurt (except the moral police, it seems). Live and let live.

x"

Exactly.

I have a golden rule: Nobody finds out, nobody gets hurt.

My husband and his mistress seemed to get a kick out of my suffering, especially her. It was an abominable behaviour.

His mistake is that he got caught. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok!

This

Personally, this could just be me, anyone who betrays trust, is not trustworthy.

If you want to fuck someone’s wife., look the husband in the eye and ask.

Grow some meat clackers.

"

Don't be so naive.

Do the maths - fucking around takes 2, ergo, for every cheating male, odds are there's a cheating female.

Unless there are just a few very highly sexed single women out there, just pumping away, day in, day out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes wonder if threads like this are started deliberately by the naive evangelistic married couples who delight in spouting their judgemental vitriol.

Or just someone totally new to forum...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monogamy is unnatural that's why so many married men and women gravitate towards extramarital sex. My home is ground zero where several of my married GFs have their fun during the day when I'm at work. I don't judge them or the married men I sleep with - everyone's got reasons and everyone's hot when they're horny and no one's getting hurt (except the moral police, it seems). Live and let live.

x"

I have to disagree about no-one getting hurt - the potential outfall is surely great?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monogamy is unnatural that's why so many married men and women gravitate towards extramarital sex. My home is ground zero where several of my married GFs have their fun during the day when I'm at work. I don't judge them or the married men I sleep with - everyone's got reasons and everyone's hot when they're horny and no one's getting hurt (except the moral police, it seems). Live and let live.

x

I have to disagree about no-one getting hurt - the potential outfall is surely great? "

Or fallout even .

I agree monogamy, for the most part, is not natural - a societal construct. However, and I think it's mainly in the bird kingdom, some animals mate for life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok!

This

Personally, this could just be me, anyone who betrays trust, is not trustworthy.

If you want to fuck someone’s wife., look the husband in the eye and ask.

Grow some meat clackers.

Don't be so naive.

Do the maths - fucking around takes 2, ergo, for every cheating male, odds are there's a cheating female.

Unless there are just a few very highly sexed single women out there, just pumping away, day in, day out?"

So just to clarify your statement, you're suggesting, as an example if 100 men are cheating, then 100 women?

If that's the case, science can contest that.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"Monogamy is unnatural that's why so many married men and women gravitate towards extramarital sex. My home is ground zero where several of my married GFs have their fun during the day when I'm at work. I don't judge them or the married men I sleep with - everyone's got reasons and everyone's hot when they're horny and no one's getting hurt (except the moral police, it seems). Live and let live.

x

I have to disagree about no-one getting hurt - the potential outfall is surely great? "

It is, as I can sadly attest. There is always a risk, as there is with everything else...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes wonder if threads like this are started deliberately by the naive evangelistic married couples who delight in spouting their judgemental vitriol.

Or just someone totally new to forum..."

Have I missed the vitriol? Have I missed the condemnation?

Those who have said no ta to the cheats, have stated they don't want to be involved cos of potential fallout. They have assessed, in regards to themselves, that the "fun" is not worth the risks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok!

This

Personally, this could just be me, anyone who betrays trust, is not trustworthy.

If you want to fuck someone’s wife., look the husband in the eye and ask.

Grow some meat clackers.

Don't be so naive.

Do the maths - fucking around takes 2, ergo, for every cheating male, odds are there's a cheating female.

Unless there are just a few very highly sexed single women out there, just pumping away, day in, day out?

So just to clarify your statement, you're suggesting, as an example if 100 men are cheating, then 100 women?

If that's the case, science can contest that. "

Of course not. But if 100 men are fucking, homosexuals and other situations aside, then so are 100 women. And there's no reason to suggest that cheating men all manage to dupe single females, rather than hooking up with like-minded cheating females.

Just saying it takes 2 to tango, and statistically there's no reason to suggest women don't cheat just as much.

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool


"There are many reasons why somebody might be doing it without their partners knowledge. Relationships are complicated. As long as the person is honest with us we don't mind what their complications are. Other people's relationships aren't our business "

You think someone that is so drastically disrespectful and lying to their partner gives a shit about honest to you, or showing you respect?

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

There are a huge number of men on the site- far more than women- which is a reflection of patriarchal society and male needs/perceived entitlement.

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"There are many reasons why somebody might be doing it without their partners knowledge. Relationships are complicated. As long as the person is honest with us we don't mind what their complications are. Other people's relationships aren't our business "

Real talk

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

The only "issue" I have with this in general is it's the male that always gets painted as the bad guy where if a woman does it the sun shines out of their arses. I'm not talking about here specifically I'm talking about the general consensus of adultery as a spectrum in society and especially on social media platforms

I personally see genders as equal so what's good for a man is good for a woman and vise versa etc, if they so choose do so of course, naturally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only "issue" I have with this in general is it's the male that always gets painted as the bad guy where if a woman does it the sun shines out of their arses. I'm not talking about here specifically I'm talking about the general consensus of adultery as a spectrum in society and especially on social media platforms

I personally see genders as equal so what's good for a man is good for a woman and vise versa etc, if they so choose do so of course, naturally"

No no. If we vile men didn't use our evil powers to corrupt and defile them, no sweet female would ever indulge in any carnal acts. We cannot be trusted, just learn to live with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only "issue" I have with this in general is it's the male that always gets painted as the bad guy where if a woman does it the sun shines out of their arses. I'm not talking about here specifically I'm talking about the general consensus of adultery as a spectrum in society and especially on social media platforms

I personally see genders as equal so what's good for a man is good for a woman and vise versa etc, if they so choose do so of course, naturally

No no. If we vile men didn't use our evil powers to corrupt and defile them, no sweet female would ever indulge in any carnal acts. We cannot be trusted, just learn to live with it."

I'm not bitter.

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Well not shines out of their arses, but it seems ok for one and not the other somewhat

I was having a debate the other day on another social medium platform with a guy who was creeping on a woman, trying to suck up to her painting women as being impeccably behaved and perfect and whilst I admitted men do have their instances of brashness where a woman will sometimes think more methodically and approach a situation better, the general consensus was no one is perfect, but his creep levels where too high to accept that notion as humans we're all equal imo

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"The only "issue" I have with this in general is it's the male that always gets painted as the bad guy where if a woman does it the sun shines out of their arses. I'm not talking about here specifically I'm talking about the general consensus of adultery as a spectrum in society and especially on social media platforms

I personally see genders as equal so what's good for a man is good for a woman and vise versa etc, if they so choose do so of course, naturally

No no. If we vile men didn't use our evil powers to corrupt and defile them, no sweet female would ever indulge in any carnal acts. We cannot be trusted, just learn to live with it."

Lol.. That made me chuckle I'm not going lie lol (laughing emoji)

I really do need to learn how to do them laughing emoji's and the like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only "issue" I have with this in general is it's the male that always gets painted as the bad guy where if a woman does it the sun shines out of their arses. I'm not talking about here specifically I'm talking about the general consensus of adultery as a spectrum in society and especially on social media platforms

I personally see genders as equal so what's good for a man is good for a woman and vise versa etc, if they so choose do so of course, naturally

No no. If we vile men didn't use our evil powers to corrupt and defile them, no sweet female would ever indulge in any carnal acts. We cannot be trusted, just learn to live with it.

Lol.. That made me chuckle I'm not going lie lol (laughing emoji)

I really do need to learn how to do them laughing emoji's and the like lol"

It's a special talent

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"The only "issue" I have with this in general is it's the male that always gets painted as the bad guy where if a woman does it the sun shines out of their arses. I'm not talking about here specifically I'm talking about the general consensus of adultery as a spectrum in society and especially on social media platforms

I personally see genders as equal so what's good for a man is good for a woman and vise versa etc, if they so choose do so of course, naturally

No no. If we vile men didn't use our evil powers to corrupt and defile them, no sweet female would ever indulge in any carnal acts. We cannot be trusted, just learn to live with it.

Lol.. That made me chuckle I'm not going lie lol (laughing emoji)

I really do need to learn how to do them laughing emoji's and the like lol

It's a special talent "

Made me chuckle that mate I'm still having the odd chuckle now thinking about it lol

Can't beat a bit a bit of realism and dry humour I'm all for it lol it's certainly a gift

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok!

This

Personally, this could just be me, anyone who betrays trust, is not trustworthy.

If you want to fuck someone’s wife., look the husband in the eye and ask.

Grow some meat clackers.

Don't be so naive.

Do the maths - fucking around takes 2, ergo, for every cheating male, odds are there's a cheating female.

Unless there are just a few very highly sexed single women out there, just pumping away, day in, day out?

So just to clarify your statement, you're suggesting, as an example if 100 men are cheating, then 100 women?

If that's the case, science can contest that.

Of course not. But if 100 men are fucking, homosexuals and other situations aside, then so are 100 women. And there's no reason to suggest that cheating men all manage to dupe single females, rather than hooking up with like-minded cheating females.

Just saying it takes 2 to tango, and statistically there's no reason to suggest women don't cheat just as much.

"

Errrrm you state no and then elaborate as to yes.

Anyway, as I stated, science (biology) does suggest the numbers don't match. Oxycontin!

Also, the pure numbers on this site suggests men and women do not view casual sex equally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well not shines out of their arses, but it seems ok for one and not the other somewhat

I was having a debate the other day on another social medium platform with a guy who was creeping on a woman, trying to suck up to her painting women as being impeccably behaved and perfect and whilst I admitted men do have their instances of brashness where a woman will sometimes think more methodically and approach a situation better, the general consensus was no one is perfect, but his creep levels where too high to accept that notion as humans we're all equal imo"

Equality is a construct. No-one is equal to another, we have different cognitive and physical abilities, different views (eg religious and political) etc.

But I guess you're using the equal as in no-one is superior or inferior to another . Unless you're royal or famous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok!

This

Personally, this could just be me, anyone who betrays trust, is not trustworthy.

If you want to fuck someone’s wife., look the husband in the eye and ask.

Grow some meat clackers.

Don't be so naive.

Do the maths - fucking around takes 2, ergo, for every cheating male, odds are there's a cheating female.

Unless there are just a few very highly sexed single women out there, just pumping away, day in, day out?

So just to clarify your statement, you're suggesting, as an example if 100 men are cheating, then 100 women?

If that's the case, science can contest that.

Of course not. But if 100 men are fucking, homosexuals and other situations aside, then so are 100 women. And there's no reason to suggest that cheating men all manage to dupe single females, rather than hooking up with like-minded cheating females.

Just saying it takes 2 to tango, and statistically there's no reason to suggest women don't cheat just as much.

Errrrm you state no and then elaborate as to yes.

Anyway, as I stated, science (biology) does suggest the numbers don't match. Oxycontin!

Also, the pure numbers on this site suggests men and women do not view casual sex equally. "

I'd love to see that science (seriously).

Men and women fuck *together*, so excluding homosexual encounters there is a 1:1 relationship unless, as I say, a few women are having a LOT of sex. Good luck to them if that's true.

Maybe we don't view see exactly equally, but we must engage in it equally - 1 dick to 1 pussy at 1 time (with obvious exceptions).

And the imbalance in the demographic here doesn't mean men are having more than women, just that a lot of us go to bed each night all needy and sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laughing emoji without the spaces r o f l

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over a year ago


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok!

This

Personally, this could just be me, anyone who betrays trust, is not trustworthy.

If you want to fuck someone’s wife., look the husband in the eye and ask.

Grow some meat clackers.

Don't be so naive.

Do the maths - fucking around takes 2, ergo, for every cheating male, odds are there's a cheating female.

Unless there are just a few very highly sexed single women out there, just pumping away, day in, day out?

So just to clarify your statement, you're suggesting, as an example if 100 men are cheating, then 100 women?

If that's the case, science can contest that.

Of course not. But if 100 men are fucking, homosexuals and other situations aside, then so are 100 women. And there's no reason to suggest that cheating men all manage to dupe single females, rather than hooking up with like-minded cheating females.

Just saying it takes 2 to tango, and statistically there's no reason to suggest women don't cheat just as much.

Errrrm you state no and then elaborate as to yes.

Anyway, as I stated, science (biology) does suggest the numbers don't match. Oxycontin!

Also, the pure numbers on this site suggests men and women do not view casual sex equally.

I'd love to see that science (seriously).

Men and women fuck *together*, so excluding homosexual encounters there is a 1:1 relationship unless, as I say, a few women are having a LOT of sex. Good luck to them if that's true.

Maybe we don't view see exactly equally, but we must engage in it equally - 1 dick to 1 pussy at 1 time (with obvious exceptions).

And the imbalance in the demographic here doesn't mean men are having more than women, just that a lot of us go to bed each night all needy and sad. "

Sex, not see - stupid bastard.

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By *arkmanMan
over a year ago

hounslow

Like this. Terrific non judgemental response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Like this. Terrific non judgemental response. "

Did I miss one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok!

This

Personally, this could just be me, anyone who betrays trust, is not trustworthy.

If you want to fuck someone’s wife., look the husband in the eye and ask.

Grow some meat clackers.

Don't be so naive.

Do the maths - fucking around takes 2, ergo, for every cheating male, odds are there's a cheating female.

Unless there are just a few very highly sexed single women out there, just pumping away, day in, day out?

So just to clarify your statement, you're suggesting, as an example if 100 men are cheating, then 100 women?

If that's the case, science can contest that.

Of course not. But if 100 men are fucking, homosexuals and other situations aside, then so are 100 women. And there's no reason to suggest that cheating men all manage to dupe single females, rather than hooking up with like-minded cheating females.

Just saying it takes 2 to tango, and statistically there's no reason to suggest women don't cheat just as much.

Errrrm you state no and then elaborate as to yes.

Anyway, as I stated, science (biology) does suggest the numbers don't match. Oxycontin!

Also, the pure numbers on this site suggests men and women do not view casual sex equally.

I'd love to see that science (seriously).

Men and women fuck *together*, so excluding homosexual encounters there is a 1:1 relationship unless, as I say, a few women are having a LOT of sex. Good luck to them if that's true.

Maybe we don't view see exactly equally, but we must engage in it equally - 1 dick to 1 pussy at 1 time (with obvious exceptions).

And the imbalance in the demographic here doesn't mean men are having more than women, just that a lot of us go to bed each night all needy and sad. "

Women have more opportunity of overloading on oxytocin as it is needed to start labour contractions (and continue) ; it's needed for producing milk, lactation; and it's the hormone that "aids" nurturing/loving required to bring up a family. Hence why there is more maternal feelings in the world than paternal. It all happens in the brain.

Also, I'm sure there are stats somewhere, I was informed by a family solicitor, more women seek divorces because of cheating men. And women are more likely to cheat if she no longer feels loved, whereas men are more likely to cheat to get their leg over.

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over a year ago


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok!

This

Personally, this could just be me, anyone who betrays trust, is not trustworthy.

If you want to fuck someone’s wife., look the husband in the eye and ask.

Grow some meat clackers.

Don't be so naive.

Do the maths - fucking around takes 2, ergo, for every cheating male, odds are there's a cheating female.

Unless there are just a few very highly sexed single women out there, just pumping away, day in, day out?

So just to clarify your statement, you're suggesting, as an example if 100 men are cheating, then 100 women?

If that's the case, science can contest that.

Of course not. But if 100 men are fucking, homosexuals and other situations aside, then so are 100 women. And there's no reason to suggest that cheating men all manage to dupe single females, rather than hooking up with like-minded cheating females.

Just saying it takes 2 to tango, and statistically there's no reason to suggest women don't cheat just as much.

Errrrm you state no and then elaborate as to yes.

Anyway, as I stated, science (biology) does suggest the numbers don't match. Oxycontin!

Also, the pure numbers on this site suggests men and women do not view casual sex equally.

I'd love to see that science (seriously).

Men and women fuck *together*, so excluding homosexual encounters there is a 1:1 relationship unless, as I say, a few women are having a LOT of sex. Good luck to them if that's true.

Maybe we don't view see exactly equally, but we must engage in it equally - 1 dick to 1 pussy at 1 time (with obvious exceptions).

And the imbalance in the demographic here doesn't mean men are having more than women, just that a lot of us go to bed each night all needy and sad.

Women have more opportunity of overloading on oxytocin as it is needed to start labour contractions (and continue) ; it's needed for producing milk, lactation; and it's the hormone that "aids" nurturing/loving required to bring up a family. Hence why there is more maternal feelings in the world than paternal. It all happens in the brain.

Also, I'm sure there are stats somewhere, I was informed by a family solicitor, more women seek divorces because of cheating men. And women are more likely to cheat if she no longer feels loved, whereas men are more likely to cheat to get their leg over. "

I get all that, but it doesn't overcome the underlying fact that a cheating man needs *someone* to cheat with. We can't do it on our own. Not properly cheat, anyway

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West


"It's one thing when someone (of either gender) is upfront about it & another if you've found it they've been lying later on. I guess for us honesty scores highest. "
I state it on my profile so as open as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one thing when someone (of either gender) is upfront about it & another if you've found it they've been lying later on. I guess for us honesty scores highest. I state it on my profile so as open as possible."

Ditto. I get it that a lot of people won't want to know as a result, but there it is.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

An survey from the USA in 2018 found 20% of men had cheated compared to 13% of women.

The reason for the discrepancy is obvious. Married men will generally have to lie about their married status to get extra curricular sex. Married Women less so.

Hence lots of married men are having sex with unaware single women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An survey from the USA in 2018 found 20% of men had cheated compared to 13% of women.

The reason for the discrepancy is obvious. Married men will generally have to lie about their married status to get extra curricular sex. Married Women less so.

Hence lots of married men are having sex with unaware single women. "

So a 7% difference. Allowing for statistical errors in such surveys, that's pretty much neck and neck.

But even at 7% I wouldn't characterise that difference as "lots". And what makes you think the women involved are unaware? I don't believe women generally are that easily duped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An survey from the USA in 2018 found 20% of men had cheated compared to 13% of women.

The reason for the discrepancy is obvious. Married men will generally have to lie about their married status to get extra curricular sex. Married Women less so.

Hence lots of married men are having sex with unaware single women.

So a 7% difference. Allowing for statistical errors in such surveys, that's pretty much neck and neck.

But even at 7% I wouldn't characterise that difference as "lots". And what makes you think the women involved are unaware? I don't believe women generally are that easily duped."

One more thing - if the survey only shows 13 and 20%, I don't think all their respondents were being honest. Too low. Sounds way too low.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"An survey from the USA in 2018 found 20% of men had cheated compared to 13% of women.

The reason for the discrepancy is obvious. Married men will generally have to lie about their married status to get extra curricular sex. Married Women less so.

Hence lots of married men are having sex with unaware single women.

So a 7% difference. Allowing for statistical errors in such surveys, that's pretty much neck and neck.

But even at 7% I wouldn't characterise that difference as "lots". And what makes you think the women involved are unaware? I don't believe women generally are that easily duped."

It's almost twice as many men as women. Put it this way. Of people who cheat 65% are male.

I think most women are unaware as most women don't want to shag attached men if they're single.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

So even if all the cheating women are having sex with the cheating men, out of every 100 male cheaters 46 are having sex with single women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An survey from the USA in 2018 found 20% of men had cheated compared to 13% of women.

The reason for the discrepancy is obvious. Married men will generally have to lie about their married status to get extra curricular sex. Married Women less so.

Hence lots of married men are having sex with unaware single women.

So a 7% difference. Allowing for statistical errors in such surveys, that's pretty much neck and neck.

But even at 7% I wouldn't characterise that difference as "lots". And what makes you think the women involved are unaware? I don't believe women generally are that easily duped.

It's almost twice as many men as women. Put it this way. Of people who cheat 65% are male.

I think most women are unaware as most women don't want to shag attached men if they're single. "

If you want to look at this that way, then 60.6%, on the basis of those figures. Just over half.

And I give females a lot more credit than you seem to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bored now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are many reasons why somebody might be doing it without their partners knowledge. Relationships are complicated. As long as the person is honest with us we don't mind what their complications are. Other people's relationships aren't our business "
Great reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea loads of women are playing away and hiding it

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"An survey from the USA in 2018 found 20% of men had cheated compared to 13% of women.

The reason for the discrepancy is obvious. Married men will generally have to lie about their married status to get extra curricular sex. Married Women less so.

Hence lots of married men are having sex with unaware single women.

So a 7% difference. Allowing for statistical errors in such surveys, that's pretty much neck and neck.

But even at 7% I wouldn't characterise that difference as "lots". And what makes you think the women involved are unaware? I don't believe women generally are that easily duped.

It's almost twice as many men as women. Put it this way. Of people who cheat 65% are male.

I think most women are unaware as most women don't want to shag attached men if they're single.

If you want to look at this that way, then 60.6%, on the basis of those figures. Just over half.

And I give females a lot more credit than you seem to. "

You're right, bad maths on my part.

But I would not say 60.6% v 39.4%,is a small difference. If the EU referendum had given a lead of 21.2% like that people would be talking about a landslide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally prefer a married woman. There's no hidden agenda. They don't want a relationship with you. They most usually just want a bit of fun, something different. I'd personally have no problem with my wife telling me she wants a bigger cock. Sex and love are two different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are many reasons why somebody might be doing it without their partners knowledge. Relationships are complicated. As long as the person is honest with us we don't mind what their complications are. Other people's relationships aren't our business Great reply"

Until the husband finds out, then it becomes your business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have had dealings with a fiew women who are playing behind there partners back and it's strange...

Many people find this happen? "

Makes a changefrom the blokes getting it in the neck

But if they play behind hubby’s back it’s up to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've decided that because I was cheated on years ago, and want to talk to married or attached women, to have some fun as want to do it. Is it wrong?

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Not strange really, lots do it on here and I won't meet them. If you don't want to meet them, you don't have to. Like wise, if you do then your choice. X"

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok! "

exactly, ladies do want they want - no differences.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok! "

Neither is ok. Wasnt aware it was different rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id probably say 8 out of 10 messages i receive are married women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id probably say 8 out of 10 messages i receive are married women "

Same for men! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot people think going with someone they know is a married woman is all harmless fun but when the husband finds out and you get a smack i imagine its not so funny. Cheating is scummy full stop. If you have ever been cheated on you wont approve this behaviour

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By *lina75Couple
over a year ago

dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah .. had a few messages

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

This is an old thread

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By *ox.Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

It all depends does it not on the individual and what floats their boat. If they arnt getting it at home you can't blame a woman that needs feeding

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By *ox.Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"It all depends does it not on the individual and what floats their boat. If they arnt getting it at home you can't blame a woman that needs feeding "

If there’s no food in the cupboard at home, a hungry woman (or man) will go out to forage.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's strange i think it's a bonus lol. There's a lot guys on here playing behind their wife's back so what's the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny how guys playing away are lambasted, yet when a woman does it, it's ok! "

Absolutely correct x what's the difference between the guys playing away from home and the women x none x

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