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By *ifeandhubby400 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

This probably happens a lot ,but after a certain few meets which we thought went really well the guy has either hinted or just asked would i meet them alone ,now it says in our profile i dont and sometimes it comes out in conversation ,there is no harm in asking but i dont always tell hubby as i think that would make him feel the meet was a bit of a lie and a way of getting just to me (He is Bi ),so we tend not to meet them again ,but hubby is very switched on and will say to me sometimes "they were just after you "he isnt jealous at all he want me to be happy but is annoyed they were not totally honest with both of us ...

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Yea it happens regularly with us.

B works away alot so some guys just assume you are gagging for it because you are on a swinger site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience that suggestion should ALWAYS come from the couple first.

Single guys need to always be aware there entering a couples intimate space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of our meets have felt like this, we simply don’t meet those guys again, at the end of the day there are two of us, we find it very disrespectful when guys act this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this too. They start hinting 'well he doesn't have to know'. Then it's definitely not going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time. We are honest about what our boundaries are so there’s no room for any misunderstanding but there are always those who think you will bend the rules for them.

We just never meet with them again.

V

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By *ifeandhubby400 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland


"In my experience that suggestion should ALWAYS come from the couple first.

Single guys need to always be aware there entering a couples intimate space "
IF only this was the way it was

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

I love to play with couples, especially if the hubby is bi, but would never consider trying to make moves on the female alone. If a couple are willing to invite you in to their intimate space then it is grossly bad mannered to abuse their hospitality.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"This probably happens a lot ,but after a certain few meets which we thought went really well the guy has either hinted or just asked would i meet them alone ,now it says in our profile i dont and sometimes it comes out in conversation ,there is no harm in asking but i dont always tell hubby as i think that would make him feel the meet was a bit of a lie and a way of getting just to me (He is Bi ),so we tend not to meet them again ,but hubby is very switched on and will say to me sometimes "they were just after you "he isnt jealous at all he want me to be happy but is annoyed they were not totally honest with both of us ... "

There’s just quite a few disrespectful guys sadly. I find there are quite a few that try to get round my social only initially rule. It’s a great filter though!

It’s so annoying when people are dishonest, but it’s par for the course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet again I was asked to meet a couple and I was supposed to be playing with the two of them. But when I got there he said she got called into work would I play with him alone.

I said no but I can be free later.

Funny no call back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This probably happens a lot ,but after a certain few meets which we thought went really well the guy has either hinted or just asked would i meet them alone ,now it says in our profile i dont and sometimes it comes out in conversation ,there is no harm in asking but i dont always tell hubby as i think that would make him feel the meet was a bit of a lie and a way of getting just to me (He is Bi ),so we tend not to meet them again ,but hubby is very switched on and will say to me sometimes "they were just after you "he isnt jealous at all he want me to be happy but is annoyed they were not totally honest with both of us ... "

OP, yes it happens but shouldn't! If you're lucky enough to be invited for fun.. You should feel happy about it.. Respect someone's relationship and conduct yourself accordingly... Sadly lots don't give a monkeys.. Its very sad..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If we meet someone and they start to just talk to me in messages or suggest that we meet separately we just cut all contact.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Long before I used fab I met a couple for a mff at their place. Afterwards he asked me to meet him in secret. I was furious. Told him he had the good luck to marry a woman who lets him have sex with other women and he’s fucking her over. I didn’t see them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These are thoughts that should be kept in the mind however fun the idea is lol. Leave it to the couple to ask and make sure both are ok with it

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I am not a couple but hapen quite often in the end only one half of the couple will meet and most times is always the half man .

What a surprise right ?

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By *issy and hotCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Yes hot has had this happen with a guy i sissy didnt feel threatened by it ,

But unfortunately he then became to heavy and wanted more than what was just fun.

Which resulted in not meeting him again, if he had stayed whithin the rules of playing . He could of had a lot of fun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never dream of actually asking to meet a half of a couple ...

To me its like asking them to cheat and nothing in this " lifestyle" is more important than trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience that suggestion should ALWAYS come from the couple first.

Single guys need to always be aware there entering a couples intimate space "

This is exactly how I feel.

I think it's a bit rude to ask to meet alone and you never know what feelings it may stir up, could be poking a Hornets nest. If one part of the couple wants to meet alone, let them call it.

P

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