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By *eddy and legs OP   Couple
over a year ago

the wetlands

Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy."

Do you do the same to couples and single women that fab and hide too?

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By *issyK69Couple
over a year ago

wokingham

Not creepy, we’ve turned our ‘looked at me off too’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep mine on and have never thought otherwise, I very rarely perve too much at the same profile hahaha

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By *rand GestureMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy.

Do you do the same to couples and single women that fab and hide too?"

The first thing that I thought also

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy.

Do you do the same to couples and single women that fab and hide too?"

This is exactly what I was thinking, women can perve quite happily men can't. Works for me I get to perve away

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By *eddy and legs OP   Couple
over a year ago

the wetlands


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy.

Do you do the same to couples and single women that fab and hide too?"

Of course we do, but the vast majority of couples don't hide so it's not really an issue whereas almost 100% of single men do.

It's just seems strange as we have no problem with anyone looking at our profile, that's why we put it there.

Single women fab our photos lol ? We should be so lucky but quote a few that have done usually get blocked because they mostly look fake

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By *eddy and legs OP   Couple
over a year ago

the wetlands

It's just curiosity, not losing any sleep over it lol

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy."

Fanned a few of yrs, very hot .. hope u like a few of mine

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By *eddy and legs OP   Couple
over a year ago

the wetlands

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't show up on who's viewed. Stops me getting messages from people who assume a view is a meet.

Sorry I'm creepy. (not actually sorry, not sure I'm actually creepy)

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


" "

thanks

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Tbh if I had to guess, more women hide than men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LMAO some people will witter about anything! Its not like you don't know who has fabbed you. At least threads like those let you know who to avoid or block.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy.

Do you do the same to couples and single women that fab and hide too?

Of course we do, but the vast majority of couples don't hide so it's not really an issue whereas almost 100% of single men do.

It's just seems strange as we have no problem with anyone looking at our profile, that's why we put it there.

Single women fab our photos lol ? We should be so lucky but quote a few that have done usually get blocked because they mostly look fake "

I find it to be the opposite, that more couples and single females hide from looked at me lists.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

In honesty don’t know if I show up or not, but of a techno phobe

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

But got nowt hide, only my face on my profile

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By *eddy and legs OP   Couple
over a year ago

the wetlands


"LMAO some people will witter about anything! Its not like you don't know who has fabbed you. At least threads like those let you know who to avoid or block. "

says the one with the hidden profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always in stealth mode.

What confuses me is people blocking you but still fabbing your pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy."

I’ve just hidden all of my details because single men don’t half cop abuse on fab for all sorts of reasons ... it’s not because ( from my perspective ) all single men are being creeps ...

I’m get abuse as a single man from women couples men and ts/tv ... but generally if I post a meet say for a woman I get couples and ts/tv looking or messaging trying their luck so it’s easier to go anon

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By *ireupthequattroCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

It’s only like 99 percent of men hide their faces , half of couples hide their faces and a lot of single women hide their faces as well , important people need to hide , or ashamed to be on here people need to hide ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy."

most people view in ninja, certainly most women are you saying women are creepy?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy.most people view in ninja, certainly most women are you saying women are creepy? "

I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy.most people view in ninja, certainly most women are you saying women are creepy?

I am "

what i am

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy.most people view in ninja, certainly most women are you saying women are creepy?

I am what i am"

I am creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy.most people view in ninja, certainly most women are you saying women are creepy?

I am what i am

I am creepy "

dont want praise, dont want pity

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy.most people view in ninja, certainly most women are you saying women are creepy?

I am what i am

I am creepy dont want praise, dont want pity "

OK....

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Most fab users, of all genders, use "stealth mode". If you find that creepy, perhaps you're in the wrong place. There's far more creepy stuff going on, usually men not taking "no" for an answer.

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By *eddy and legs OP   Couple
over a year ago

the wetlands


"Most fab users, of all genders, use "stealth mode". If you find that creepy, perhaps you're in the wrong place. There's far more creepy stuff going on, usually men not taking "no" for an answer.

"

The fact that there are 2 or 3 decent people fit every hundred weirdos is why we are here. Shame none have replied lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

When we upload pics we are potentially releasing them to the world forever, whatever the restrictions that we would like to be in place.

We're open to be able to post suggestions for improvements and changes, in the relevant forum area, if we have an idea for viewing restrictions that doesn't exist currently.

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By *eddy and legs OP   Couple
over a year ago

the wetlands


"When we upload pics we are potentially releasing them to the world forever, whatever the restrictions that we would like to be in place.

We're open to be able to post suggestions for improvements and changes, in the relevant forum area, if we have an idea for viewing restrictions that doesn't exist currently. "

This is nothing to do with sharing pics, we put them there to be looked at, it's those that can't be honest enough to let us know that they have looked.

Not really the point of a swingers site

I'm didn't post this to get a load of shite I raised a simple point of fact.

Anyway I bored of it now so enjoy the pics and let us know if you like them and BE HAPPY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you have put not looking for single guys on your profile. If you block them they wont show up on the who's viewed profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep mine on and have never thought otherwise, I very rarely perve too much at the same profile hahaha"

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"It’s only like 99 percent of men hide their faces , half of couples hide their faces and a lot of single women hide their faces as well , important people need to hide , or ashamed to be on here people need to hide , "

Or people who dont want the hassle of everyone knowing what they get up to. Just because you are happy for everyone who knows you to know you have sex with strangers, doesnt mean everyone else has to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep mine on and have never thought otherwise, I very rarely perve too much at the same profile hahaha

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Why the face lol

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I have mine turned off as well so propel don't see if I look at them. Don't think it's creepy just better than getting messages if I happen to look at someone's profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First 3 words of the OP's profile - "no single men", so I blocked and got on with my day.

I suspect most other blokes would also move swiftly on, based on those 3 words, so why does it matter if their view is visible or not?

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy."

But you aren’t looking for single men, so fab automatically doesn’t show them in your “looked at me” part. It’s the same if you put a message filter on for single men, they won’t show on your looked at me. All other categories still show up though regardless of filters etc.

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy."

Sometimes you can fab pictures showing in the local updates page or newly added photos without the need to view the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy.

But you aren’t looking for single men, so fab automatically doesn’t show them in your “looked at me” part. It’s the same if you put a message filter on for single men, they won’t show on your looked at me. All other categories still show up though regardless of filters etc."

Oic I did always wonder how that worked lol, I wish was as clever as that lol

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By *eddy and legs OP   Couple
over a year ago

the wetlands


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But you aren’t looking for single men, so fab automatically doesn’t show them in your “looked at me” part. It’s the same if you put a message filter on for single men, they won’t show on your looked at me. All other categories still show up though regardless of filters etc.

"

Hmmm maybe that's it then, thanks for the explanation.

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By *udewhennudeMan
over a year ago

newport


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy."

You have single guys blocked so apparently they won’t show up on your looked at me , so far from creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't show up on who's viewed. Stops me getting messages from people who assume a view is a meet.

Sorry I'm creepy. (not actually sorry, not sure I'm actually creepy) "

Exactly this

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By *eddy and legs OP   Couple
over a year ago

the wetlands


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy.

You have single guys blocked so apparently they won’t show up on your looked at me , so far from creepy "

See the post above sherlock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hide. Feel free to block us

The reason we hide is it stops the messages of you have looked at me/us why don't you message us

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish


"We hide. Feel free to block us

The reason we hide is it stops the messages of you have looked at me/us why don't you message us "

Totally agree It just encourages people that you dont want to message, sending a message thanking us for viewing their profile and asking if we would be interested in meeting.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy.

You have single guys blocked so apparently they won’t show up on your looked at me , so far from creepy

See the post above sherlock"

Wow, rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think a fabbing frenzy is on the cards

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By *udewhennudeMan
over a year ago

newport


"Why is it that single men can fab pictures but turn off visibility when they profiles.

Obviously not all do, bit every one that has ever fabbed any of ours doesn't come up as having viewed us

Shame because I just block them as we think it's creepy.

You have single guys blocked so apparently they won’t show up on your looked at me , so far from creepy

See the post above sherlock

Wow, rude "

exactly try to help someone and get abuse back.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Perhaps the men don't want to be pestered by couples, hence going in to ninja mode?

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By *eddy and legs OP   Couple
over a year ago

the wetlands


"Perhaps the men don't want to be pestered by couples, hence going in to ninja mode? "

Entirely possible, that and a couple of the other points ( repeated ) have cured our curiosity.

Those that took offence at the question are undoubtedly the creepy ones lol

Thanks all

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