FabSwingers.com forum: How to make my missus cheat on me?

By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds york

My wife is quite vanilla not into swinging but how could i plant a seed so she cheats on me would love her to fuck a black guy behind my back

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Just ask her straight out.

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By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds york

Not sure that would work she would start the dont you fancy me any more talk lol ive tried hints but get no real posative response

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I dont think it's possible to make someone cheat? That's a choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife is quite vanilla not into swinging but how could i plant a seed so she cheats on me would love her to fuck a black guy behind my back "

Never going to happen

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By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds york

Proberbly right i just want her to have a real good pounding with another guy i cum too wuick and cannot satisfy her

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Show her your profile on here...

She might fancy a bit of revenge sex

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By *arentsgonebadCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

You cant lol , my partner had this fantasy but i explained that i was happy to try swinging with him but never without him.

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By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds york

Haha proberbly right there!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Not sure that would work she would start the dont you fancy me any more talk lol ive tried hints but get no real posative response"
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Well if she "starts the don't you fancy me talk" she obviously has some insecurity around that and the reasons you're asking. How about you continue that talk with some reassurance? You'll be amazed how well talking to women works along with ensuring you make them feel loved.

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By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds york

She would not swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Show her your profile on here...

She might fancy a bit of revenge sex "

Or you could just ask her about sleeping with other men? As someone in a similar thread mentioned before, make sure to let her know your views on how love and sex aren't the same thing to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure that would work she would start the dont you fancy me any more talk lol ive tried hints but get no real posative response"

Then leave it.

Jesus can you not respect your wife and what she wants?

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By *arentsgonebadCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Then unfortunately your out of luck and should respect her and her wishes u married her for her not to be someone she isnt

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By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds york

Good idea i do treat her well she does have her insecurities though women are quite complicated if shes not into it i do t want to just put it out there or she would feel i dont want her no more

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

"I dont think it's possible to make someone cheat? That's a choice."

your right if she want or does not cheat don't even try

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By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds york

We would both bennefit from it shes perfect in every way i just want her to want more cock lol

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By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds york

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By *arentsgonebadCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Then u should respect her and realise that although u wsnt to swing she doesnt. Is your marriage worth it ? Because if u gey caught it sounds like it would crush her and would be over

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

"She would not swing "

I know where you're coming from. She's hard wired into conventional forms of relationships so she is not going to swing and you cannot make her.

But, yes, revenge sex might help her along.

By the way, what are you doing on Fab if she is unaware of you being here? Are you meeting people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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If she’s perfect the way she is why change her?

Ask her outright if she wants to swing. My husband did that. And here we are. And I was 20 and newly married.

But if she says no, drop it. Leave it alone. Respect that, and respect her. If she’s made it clear she doesn’t want it, then stop.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

She probably already is ,but you are to interested in what you want to notice what she wants

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By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds york

Im looking to meet black guys and trans

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By *arentsgonebadCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

From what u hage said it sounds like this is all for you and not for her - u wsnt her to cheat , u want her to have more cock- but unfortunately its not about what u want her to have its about what she wants to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then u should respect her and realise that although u wsnt to swing she doesnt. Is your marriage worth it ? Because if u gey caught it sounds like it would crush her and would be over "

Exactly.

If my husband wanted me to swing and instead of actually speaking to me had cheated on me, I’d leave. I wouldn’t cheat on him back, I wouldn’t be having revenge sex. I’d leave. Or kick him out, more likely.

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By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds york

"She probably already is ,but you are to interested in what you want to notice what she wants

Haha i wish

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By *errysMan
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

Forget those thoughts and train your brain to not cum quick or carry on after you cum.

Turn yourself (in your head) into the man she cheats with.

I say these things because clearly you are not swingers.

You may have cheated on her and be suffering with guilt, but making her do the same is not the cure.

Also unfortunately for you honesty is the key.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"We would both bennefit from it shes perfect in every way i just want her to want more cock lol"

What about what she wants

Sounds like this is all about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forget those thoughts and train your brain to not cum quick or carry on after you cum.

Turn yourself (in your head) into the man she cheats with.

I say these things because clearly you are not swingers.

You may have cheated on her and be suffering with guilt, but making her do the same is not the cure.

Also unfortunately for you honesty is the key."

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By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds york

Ok point taken i cant she wont thanks folks

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Good idea i do treat her well she does have her insecurities though women are quite complicated if shes not into it i do t want to just put it out there or she would feel i dont want her no more"

The thing is anybody, not just women,will feel that their partner thinks they're not enough or that they are no longer interested in them if they ask them to have sex with other men for their benefit.

The bottom line is if she doesn't want to do it there's nothing you can say that will persuade her, why should she. If she quite likes the idea she's still not going to do it if she feels insecure in your relationship. I would add that you're treading on thin ice asking a woman who feels there's no emotional intimacy between you to have sex with another guy...just saying

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By *arentsgonebadCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Sorry to poo on your party but its just reality if u force it your only gonna make yourself frustrated sexually like someone said above live your fantasy yourself pretend to be someone else , maybe txt sex flirt with her like your this other dude see what response u get may help u and turn her on

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By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds york

Ok thank you

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By *hank you sirMan
over a year ago

colchester

Just get yourself a little and have a smoke, you'll last all night

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By *hank you sirMan
over a year ago

colchester

And if you're really that into her with someone else, why not suggest doing it together? You can have someone else join you both and perhaps she'll feel a little more comfortable going into with you rather than just setting up an anonymous liaison with a stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We would both bennefit from it shes perfect in every way i just want her to want more cock lol"

How the hell do you know she will benefit from it?

You think she'll benefit from cheating? You think her conscience can not only handle it but be ok with lying to you and sneaking around behind your back?

You want her to feel guilty and think that will benefit the both of you?

I think you REALLY need to examine your motives

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By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds york

"We would both bennefit from it shes perfect in every way i just want her to want more cock lol

How the hell do you know she will benefit from it?

You think she'll benefit from cheating? You think her conscience can not only handle it but be ok with lying to you and sneaking around behind your back?

You want her to feel guilty and think that will benefit the both of you?

I think you REALLY need to examine your motives

Ok then not cheat as such but to fuck some one else she would bennefit as she gets to orgasm somthing i cannot do using my cock as i cum too quick for her

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

"We would both bennefit from it shes perfect in every way i just want her to want more cock lol

How the hell do you know she will benefit from it?

You think she'll benefit from cheating? You think her conscience can not only handle it but be ok with lying to you and sneaking around behind your back?

You want her to feel guilty and think that will benefit the both of you?

I think you REALLY need to examine your motives

Well said,swinging is all about being open and honest with each other,she may not be the cheating tipe, but that dose not mean she isnt the swinging tipe if you speak to her about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We would both bennefit from it shes perfect in every way i just want her to want more cock lol

How the hell do you know she will benefit from it?

You think she'll benefit from cheating? You think her conscience can not only handle it but be ok with lying to you and sneaking around behind your back?

You want her to feel guilty and think that will benefit the both of you?

I think you REALLY need to examine your motives

Ok then not cheat as such but to fuck some one else she would bennefit as she gets to orgasm somthing i cannot do using my cock as i cum too quick for her"

Do you know how many women don't cum from penetrative sex? Fucking masses.

If she values sex highly as part of something some between 2 loving partners then you can give the impression you don't love her as much as she loves you. Seems she wants to keep the intimacy a private thing, as many many many couples do.

Hell even on a swinging site where people are "liberal" there are couples who don't swap, who only like to be watched.

Sounds to me like she thinks it will devalue your relationship and love.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

"We would both bennefit from it shes perfect in every way i just want her to want more cock lol

How the hell do you know she will benefit from it?

You think she'll benefit from cheating? You think her conscience can not only handle it but be ok with lying to you and sneaking around behind your back?

You want her to feel guilty and think that will benefit the both of you?

I think you REALLY need to examine your motives

Ok then not cheat as such but to fuck some one else she would bennefit as she gets to orgasm somthing i cannot do using my cock as i cum too quick for her"

Have a tactical wank before sex with her

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By *hank you sirMan
over a year ago

colchester

I thought that, theres a fair few ways to train yourself not to shoot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure that would work she would start the dont you fancy me any more talk lol ive tried hints but get no real posative response

Then leave it.

Jesus can you not respect your wife and what she wants?

I find it even stranger that there’s a specific colour of penis that you would prefer her to cheat on you with.

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By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds york

"Not sure that would work she would start the dont you fancy me any more talk lol ive tried hints but get no real posative response

Then leave it.

Jesus can you not respect your wife and what she wants?

I find it even stranger that there’s a specific colour of penis that you would prefer her to cheat on you with. "

Thats because i like black guys and would like her to too , not sure how to stop cumming so quick

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

"Not sure that would work she would start the dont you fancy me any more talk lol ive tried hints but get no real posative response

Then leave it.

Jesus can you not respect your wife and what she wants?

I find it even stranger that there’s a specific colour of penis that you would prefer her to cheat on you with. "

Oh that's just because it's a current fixation for many these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t believe I’ve actjally read this

speaking as someone who’s wife did cheat then leave me I can assure you when it happens for real the results are pretty devastating. What if she did do it then think actually I’m better off without you and left for good?

I apologise if that’s a bit of a dark or shitty response lol wasn’t my intention to bring the mood down

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By *hank you sirMan
over a year ago

colchester

You don't need to stop cumming quick, just keep fucking after you've cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's also a choice to 'walk' and not return...dangerous game.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t believe I’ve actjally read this

I apologise if that’s a bit of a dark or shitty response lol wasn’t my intention to bring the mood down

It's a valid point though. It happened to me - I was with someone who was convinced he was 'bad in bed' and wanted me to have sex with other men... this was a few years ago and I wasn't keen but he talked me into it... so I started seeing another guy, and ended up falling in love with him.

In our case, I was always honest with my original partner and we have remained good friends, but yeah, it can be a potential minefield in reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t believe I’ve actjally read this

I apologise if that’s a bit of a dark or shitty response lol wasn’t my intention to bring the mood down

In our case, I was always honest with my original partner and we have remained good friends, but yeah, it can be a potential minefield in reality. "

Mine wasn’t something I had knowledge of lol or wanted in anyway

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

You really want her to cheat? So you are happy that she finds someone behind your back...possibly falls in love and leaves you taking half of your money at least..if you have kids take them and even more money.

If you mean you want her to have sex with someone else ok....but be part of the process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife is quite vanilla not into swinging but how could i plant a seed so she cheats on me would love her to fuck a black guy behind my back "
stop paying the bills and treating her to new outfits she will soon look elsewhere

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"My wife is quite vanilla not into swinging but how could i plant a seed so she cheats on me would love her to fuck a black guy behind my back "

pass her my number or pass me hers and ill see if i can persuade her

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

"She would not swing "

Then how about you stop asking and accept her decision.

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

maybe if she finds out your on here and talking about some black guy fucking her hard and deep behind your back and your ok with your wife going of with another guy and no doubt filling her with a big black cock , and a huge load of his cum, if you want it just tell her , you never know she might surprise you by telling you she has been fucking lots of guys for years, good luck to you and your wife, hope it works out after all there are lots of guys looking for married pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How’s it cheating if you know and want her to?

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"How’s it cheating if you know and want her to?"

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Had plenty of opportunities, but I could never cheat. I'd play with permission, but that would have to be agreed on every session.

Perhaps you need to respect her wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By posting on here but you might find so so annoyed she goes off with someone who is not going to use her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you do know swinging is not cheating right ??? therefore if she's cheating it means your relationship is bad ? rather than swinging your relationship is good .... big difference

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By *ltrMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"you do know swinging is not cheating right ??? therefore if she's cheating it means your relationship is bad ? rather than swinging your relationship is good .... big difference"

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

It sounds as though it’s more about turning you on than satisfying her.

Maybe she likes a small willy that cums quickly, it gives her more time to get on with the housework

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps she has ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Show her your profile on here...

She might fancy a bit of revenge sex "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We would both bennefit from it shes perfect in every way i just want her to want more cock lol"

Hot

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"you do know swinging is not cheating right ??? therefore if she's cheating it means your relationship is bad ? rather than swinging your relationship is good .... big difference"

However, being on a swinging site behind your wife’s back is most definitely cheating!

Does she know you’re bi? Does she know you’re on Fab looking for men & tv’s?

If not, you’ve got very little honesty in your marriage anyway. Might as well come clean, see if she wants to join you & if not, let her leave & build a new life with someone who isn’t living a while secret life behind her back.

She deserves better day the sounds of it

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"My wife is quite vanilla not into swinging but how could i plant a seed so she cheats on me would love her to fuck a black guy behind my back stop paying the bills and treating her to new outfits she will soon look elsewhere

Could you be any more of a misogynist?!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

1. You can't make your wife do anything she doesn't want to do. She's an autonomous human.

2. Her sexual fantasies are hers. Yours are yours. Maybe some of those fantasies match. If not, tough.

3. Does she know you're on here already?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All in all, it’s a no for me simon.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"My wife is quite vanilla not into swinging but how could i plant a seed so she cheats on me would love her to fuck a black guy behind my back "
god dame why is it always black guy

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(ray)

Sorry to say pal but it sounds like you need to iron out your own demons and desires first before you try and use phycological bullying to make her subconsciously do something she doesn't want to do.

I wish you all the best and truly hope you find happiness

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

"Not sure that would work she would start the dont you fancy me any more talk lol ive tried hints but get no real posative response

Then leave it.

Jesus can you not respect your wife and what she wants?

He's on fab behind her back.. he obviously cannot respect her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow.

Just... Wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife is quite vanilla not into swinging but how could i plant a seed so she cheats on me would love her to fuck a black guy behind my back "

In your mind - did this set out to be a wanking fodder thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Show her your profile on here...

She might fancy a bit of revenge sex "

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

"My wife is quite vanilla not into swinging but how could i plant a seed so she cheats on me would love her to fuck a black guy behind my back god dame why is it always black guy

right?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you be any more of a misogynist?!

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i could try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you be any more of a misogynist?!

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i could try

having said that i like women so it might be in vain lol

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

I would concentrate on being a better lover rather than opening up your wife to a sea of men who will blow her mind.

My ex... Struggled shall we say but I stayed with him as we were married and had a child together. Once that relationship ended and I started to play properly I remembered what I had been missing throughout my marriage. There is no way I would have stayed with him if we were in an open relationship, my head was truly turned

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Proberbly right i just want her to have a real good pounding with another guy i cum too wuick and cannot satisfy her"

Well that statement just got you put on a lot of wanted lists......Not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you be any more of a misogynist?!

i could try

having said that i like women so it might be in vain lol

You want or desire women. You don't like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you be any more of a misogynist?!

i could try

having said that i like women so it might be in vain lol

You want or desire women. You don't like them. "
of course i like them, I'm a gentleman always but because i make one comment in jest this means i dont like them lol omg hung drawn and quartered

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"My wife is quite vanilla not into swinging but how could i plant a seed so she cheats on me would love her to fuck a black guy behind my back "

Show her your profile then hope to god she doesn't chop your dick off, she probably still won't swing but at least she wont have a husband that is trying to manipulate her into something she doesn't want to do.

This is one of the reasons I shall forever be single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you be any more of a misogynist?!

i could try

having said that i like women so it might be in vain lol

You want or desire women. You don't like them. of course i like them, I'm a gentleman always but because i make one comment in jest this means i dont like them lol omg hung drawn and quartered

I based what I said on all the posts of yours I've seen. I think you and I probably have incredibly different definitions of the word gentleman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you be any more of a misogynist?!

i could try

having said that i like women so it might be in vain lol

You want or desire women. You don't like them. of course i like them, I'm a gentleman always but because i make one comment in jest this means i dont like them lol omg hung drawn and quartered

I based what I said on all the posts of yours I've seen. I think you and I probably have incredibly different definitions of the word gentleman. "
we must have and my comments are meant to be humerous but of course all comments can be read with a negative bias, if you met me you'd know I'm a gent always but hey i can't change how you want to perceived me its life in this world have a great Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you be any more of a misogynist?!

i could try

having said that i like women so it might be in vain lol

You want or desire women. You don't like them. of course i like them, I'm a gentleman always but because i make one comment in jest this means i dont like them lol omg hung drawn and quartered

I based what I said on all the posts of yours I've seen. I think you and I probably have incredibly different definitions of the word gentleman. we must have and my comments are meant to be humerous but of course all comments can be read with a negative bias, if you met me you'd know I'm a gent always but hey i can't change how you want to perceived me its life in this world have a great Christmas

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perceive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have a great Christmas

Same to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife is quite vanilla not into swinging but how could i plant a seed so she cheats on me would love her to fuck a black guy behind my back "

why shylock you want to force your wife into something against her will ...

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London

If the desire is all consuming for you then perhaps you should be open with her about it.

That said whatever her response is has to be accepted. Its not the kind of things that should be forced on anyone.

Speaking as a single male I love meeting couples but if I get the vibe that the wife is being pushed into things I give that couple a very wide berth.

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over a year ago

What would you do if she went along with your wish, albeit unwillingly, and then decided she'd wasted all those years with a guy who obviously didn't love or respect her ie you and left you for way more fun than you are?

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By *aintance_guyMan
over a year ago

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"Not sure that would work she would start the dont you fancy me any more talk lol ive tried hints but get no real posative response"

Yeah it dont always work and that's all they said to me. But then cheating is unfaithful and you need trust

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