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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have been on the seen for years and now looking into the hotwife scenarios. Its something we have toyed with over the years but I now want to make it reality.

I'm potentially meeting a guy on Friday and for the first time I'm going solo.

We have discussed all the safety part so happy there.

Any other advice would be appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say discuss any boundaries either of you have and make sure you stick to them, also make sure hubby gets vids and pics of things he wants to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been on the seen for years and now looking into the hotwife scenarios. Its something we have toyed with over the years but I now want to make it reality.

I'm potentially meeting a guy on Friday and for the first time I'm going solo.

We have discussed all the safety part so happy there.

Love to do this with J , she loves solo play, keep the hubby in the loop and make sure he knows you are enjoying yourself, it will turn him on even more .

Any other advice would be appreciated. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be prepared for your hubby to get very nervous closer to the time and he might start showing signs of 2nd thoughts.

If you have both talked it through thoroughly though and both really want to do it then you should ignore his 2nd thoughts and still do it because deep down he wants you to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck and I have sent you in box with a few tips

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By *enonlyMan
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent

When you come back you might think the hubby is being funny with you but it's just him getting his head around it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good luck and I have sent you in box with a few tips

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be prepared for your hubby to get very nervous closer to the time and he might start showing signs of 2nd thoughts.

If you have both talked it through thoroughly though and both really want to do it then you should ignore his 2nd thoughts and still do it because deep down he wants you to.

Lol he is already. We both are x

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By *otwife for useCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I’ll meet women solo, but not men for safety reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just make sure you keep in contact throughout the night..... and you should be fine.....

Just relax and enjoy yourself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be prepared for your hubby to get very nervous closer to the time and he might start showing signs of 2nd thoughts.

If you have both talked it through thoroughly though and both really want to do it then you should ignore his 2nd thoughts and still do it because deep down he wants you to.

Lol he is already. We both are x

Im sure

If its really bad then maybe take the guy back to yours and go into your bedroom alone with him.

But i think you should just go for it. Turn your phone on silent when out and only look at it again when your taking photos for hubby.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be prepared for your hubby to get very nervous closer to the time and he might start showing signs of 2nd thoughts.

If you have both talked it through thoroughly though and both really want to do it then you should ignore his 2nd thoughts and still do it because deep down he wants you to.

Lol he is already. We both are x

Im sure

If its really bad then maybe take the guy back to yours and go into your bedroom alone with him.

But i think you should just go for it. Turn your phone on silent when out and only look at it again when your taking photos for hubby."

Well the hotel is booked so I guess I'm doing it lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be prepared for your hubby to get very nervous closer to the time and he might start showing signs of 2nd thoughts.

If you have both talked it through thoroughly though and both really want to do it then you should ignore his 2nd thoughts and still do it because deep down he wants you to.

Lol he is already. We both are x

Im sure

If its really bad then maybe take the guy back to yours and go into your bedroom alone with him.

But i think you should just go for it. Turn your phone on silent when out and only look at it again when your taking photos for hubby.

Well the hotel is booked so I guess I'm doing it lol. X"

You will have an amazing time with your husband not being there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be prepared for your hubby to get very nervous closer to the time and he might start showing signs of 2nd thoughts.

If you have both talked it through thoroughly though and both really want to do it then you should ignore his 2nd thoughts and still do it because deep down he wants you to.

Lol he is already. We both are x

Im sure

If its really bad then maybe take the guy back to yours and go into your bedroom alone with him.

But i think you should just go for it. Turn your phone on silent when out and only look at it again when your taking photos for hubby.

Well the hotel is booked so I guess I'm doing it lol. X

You will have an amazing time with your husband not being there."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be prepared for your hubby to get very nervous closer to the time and he might start showing signs of 2nd thoughts.

If you have both talked it through thoroughly though and both really want to do it then you should ignore his 2nd thoughts and still do it because deep down he wants you to.

Lol he is already. We both are x

Im sure

If its really bad then maybe take the guy back to yours and go into your bedroom alone with him.

But i think you should just go for it. Turn your phone on silent when out and only look at it again when your taking photos for hubby.

Well the hotel is booked so I guess I'm doing it lol. X

You will have an amazing time with your husband not being there.

Are you staying the night with the guy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be prepared for your hubby to get very nervous closer to the time and he might start showing signs of 2nd thoughts.

If you have both talked it through thoroughly though and both really want to do it then you should ignore his 2nd thoughts and still do it because deep down he wants you to.

Lol he is already. We both are x

Im sure

If its really bad then maybe take the guy back to yours and go into your bedroom alone with him.

But i think you should just go for it. Turn your phone on silent when out and only look at it again when your taking photos for hubby.

Well the hotel is booked so I guess I'm doing it lol. X

You will have an amazing time with your husband not being there.

Are you staying the night with the guy?"

I'm undecided yet but possibly.....why is that bad. God I'm rubbish at this lol x

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area

"Be prepared for your hubby to get very nervous closer to the time and he might start showing signs of 2nd thoughts.

If you have both talked it through thoroughly though and both really want to do it then you should ignore his 2nd thoughts and still do it because deep down he wants you to.

Lol he is already. We both are x

Im sure

If its really bad then maybe take the guy back to yours and go into your bedroom alone with him.

But i think you should just go for it. Turn your phone on silent when out and only look at it again when your taking photos for hubby.

Well the hotel is booked so I guess I'm doing it lol. X

You will have an amazing time with your husband not being there.

Are you staying the night with the guy?

I'm undecided yet but possibly.....why is that bad. God I'm rubbish at this lol x"

Have you met him before?

Kissing or not kissing? Have all this stuff worked out and agreed beforehand I would say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be prepared for your hubby to get very nervous closer to the time and he might start showing signs of 2nd thoughts.

If you have both talked it through thoroughly though and both really want to do it then you should ignore his 2nd thoughts and still do it because deep down he wants you to.

Lol he is already. We both are x

Im sure

If its really bad then maybe take the guy back to yours and go into your bedroom alone with him.

But i think you should just go for it. Turn your phone on silent when out and only look at it again when your taking photos for hubby.

Well the hotel is booked so I guess I'm doing it lol. X

You will have an amazing time with your husband not being there.

Are you staying the night with the guy?

I'm undecided yet but possibly.....why is that bad. God I'm rubbish at this lol x

Have you met him before?

Kissing or not kissing? Have all this stuff worked out and agreed beforehand I would say. "

Never met but chatting. Kissing for sure lol no real rules so I can Express myself as I wish. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d say discuss any boundaries either of you have and make sure you stick to them, also make sure hubby gets vids and pics of things he wants to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t be afraid to walk away if you don’t feel right..

Don’t feel pressured to do something you don’t really want to do.

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Good luck

Enjoy yourself

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

I've been the single guy from such meets previously.

It is a fantastic dynamic scenario, as the cuck hubby has been chatting more to me significantly more than the wife!

The meets were always at their home, and the wife too various photos and videos which were sent to the hubby at work! It would seem it brighten up his day in his high powered job, and encouraged him to rush home.

The tension is something that goes hand in hand with the scene.

Enjoy is the only suggestion I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been on the seen for years and now looking into the hotwife scenarios. Its something we have toyed with over the years but I now want to make it reality.

I'm potentially meeting a guy on Friday and for the first time I'm going solo.

We have discussed all the safety part so happy there.

Any other advice would be appreciated. "

Make your partner a part of the experience even if he’s not there. Ask him what he also wants from it, use it afterwards whether it’s video or talking about it, to improve your experience with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe have a couple of meets with the new guy with your fella present and then when completely comfortable go solo.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

My advice would be try relax and enjoy it as much as you can, and tease the hell out of hubby during the meet with pics and vids.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah thanks guys. Lovely support

Well il no doubt be finding out on friday.

Date night her we go lol. Xx

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

"Good luck and I have sent you in box with a few tips

take your hub with you just to meet him and make sure your safe

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By *opjonnyMan
over a year ago

Braintree

I'd like to try that , I'm new to all this so little in the dark about it all , I am looking for NSA fun but not having to much luck , wish I knew what I was doing wrong

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

I have met a couple of wives on their own.

On one occasion I actually spoke with the gent on her phone. So that is one security measure. She was happy with me and I guess the phone call was her confirmation to him that all was well. Then speaking to him was a double check if not pure courtesy.

On another occasion, the hubby escorted her over and we had a quick drink and chat together. But then that may have been his thrill of "handing her over" and going home alone rather than a security measure.

But may be on the first occasion, not stay overnight. Work out your comfort zones, logistics, security measures (check-ins with each other, etc) and the whole process before you take that leap.

I would recommend checking in with each other hourly or every couple of hours the first time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have met a couple of wives on their own.

But may be on the first occasion, not stay overnight. Work out your comfort zones, logistics, security measures (check-ins with each other, etc) and the whole process before you take that leap.

I would recommend checking in with each other hourly or every couple of hours the first time."

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

"I’d say discuss any boundaries either of you have and make sure you stick to them, also make sure hubby gets vids and pics of things he wants to see.

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Totally agree that should lead to a successful meet.

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By *ideandvibeCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We’re in the same boat, as Hannah has her first solo hotwife meet this Saturday night funnily enough.

Both massively excited, some nerves but we’ve both met him before and know he’s reliable and respectful.

Wonderful to read the input from folks thank you - hope your Friday date goes well and please keep us updated!

H&C x

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

Guys keep us posted on how everything goes for you. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope it all goes well for you mate.

Hotwife scenario is the best one in swinging life, almost every cpl does it. The only issue is to find the right guy which is very very rare on Fab or anywhere .

Best wishes .

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

"Hope it all goes well for you mate.

Hotwife scenario is the best one in swinging life, almost every cpl does it. The only issue is to find the right guy which is very very rare on Fab or anywhere .

Best wishes ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be prepared for your hubby to get very nervous closer to the time and he might start showing signs of 2nd thoughts.

If you have both talked it through thoroughly though and both really want to do it then you should ignore his 2nd thoughts and still do it because deep down he wants you to.

Hubby will be very horny and nervous as your getting ready to leave. He’ll be so horny he’ll suggest playing / you making him cum. Don’t!!!! The second he cums he’l go off the idea. Tease him, make him hornier and then leave. Keep in touch with texts / pics / vids. Tell him not to cum. He’l have the best orgasm and reclaim sex ever when you get back and tell him all about it

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"We have been on the seen for years and now looking into the hotwife scenarios. Its something we have toyed with over the years but I now want to make it reality.

I'm potentially meeting a guy on Friday and for the first time I'm going solo.

We have discussed all the safety part so happy there.

Any other advice would be appreciated. "

Don't forget to include hubby with regular updates so he feels part of it.

Expect him to be super horny when you get home.

Safety first always tell him where he you are and if hotel tell him room number.

Have you met the guy before?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have been on the seen for years and now looking into the hotwife scenarios. Its something we have toyed with over the years but I now want to make it reality.

I'm potentially meeting a guy on Friday and for the first time I'm going solo.

We have discussed all the safety part so happy there.

Any other advice would be appreciated.

Don't forget to include hubby with regular updates so he feels part of it.

Expect him to be super horny when you get home.

Safety first always tell him where he you are and if hotel tell him room number.

Have you met the guy before?"

No never met this guy but all safety precautions are now in place xx

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By *ue and robCouple
over a year ago

ware

First time we did this hubby was in same pub watching until he got the correct sign he stayed very close once all were happy he kept at a distance until another sign then went home and the fun began

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you've discussed your likes and dislikes. And your don't s and if your negative to anything make sure he understands that .tell hubbie if hotel and room number .have safe word with hubbie in case he needs to fetch you .enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just been in a restaurant and the guy serving us was handsome and fit . I looked at my Mrs and she had a naughty glint in her eyes . I asked her if she likes to chat with him or want to pass on her number , she was excited and smiled at me and said " how did u know that I liked him?"

Fuck, my cock twitched in my pants so hard that thought it would pop out lol

Anyway, she didn't give the number as it would have been silly if the guy would have turned out to be in a relationship or married .

But that day would be soon when someone will pick up my Mrs from a restaurant or a pub, one of our fantasy .

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"We have been on the seen for years and now looking into the hotwife scenarios. Its something we have toyed with over the years but I now want to make it reality.

I'm potentially meeting a guy on Friday and for the first time I'm going solo.

We have discussed all the safety part so happy there.

Any other advice would be appreciated. "

id advise you that the fellas for this are better in Merseyside

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We just been in a restaurant and the guy serving us was handsome and fit . I looked at my Mrs and she had a naughty glint in her eyes . I asked her if she likes to chat with him or want to pass on her number , she was excited and smiled at me and said " how did u know that I liked him?"

Fuck, my cock twitched in my pants so hard that thought it would pop out lol

Anyway, she didn't give the number as it would have been silly if the guy would have turned out to be in a relationship or married .

But that day would be soon when someone will pick up my Mrs from a restaurant or a pub, one of our fantasy .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"First time we did this hubby was in same pub watching until he got the correct sign he stayed very close once all were happy he kept at a distance until another sign then went home and the fun began "

Love the idea of doing this x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have been on the seen for years and now looking into the hotwife scenarios. Its something we have toyed with over the years but I now want to make it reality.

I'm potentially meeting a guy on Friday and for the first time I'm going solo.

We have discussed all the safety part so happy there.

Any other advice would be appreciated.

id advise you that the fellas for this are better in Merseyside

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck. I’d like a woman to hand her hot hubby over to me. Mmmmmm xx

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By *lim Jim 69Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Good luck. I’d like a woman to hand her hot hubby over to me. Mmmmmm xx"

Lol..

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"We just been in a restaurant and the guy serving us was handsome and fit . I looked at my Mrs and she had a naughty glint in her eyes"

We were in a hotel in York with an attached pub/restaurant. Same thing happened with our waiter and after a few drinks at the end of the night I grew enough balls to go and ask him if he wanted to join us upstairs when he finished his shift. He declined

Bry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay safe and have lots of dirty fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well that went tits up.

What a waste of time and hotel.

I'm not impressed to say the least.

Good job I have a husband lol.

Xxx

Onwards and upwards hey xxx

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By *ideandvibeCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

So sorry to hear

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

If you have the safety measures under control then all there is left to say is enjoy every dirty minute of it. From experience I often get so wrapped up in what I’m doing that I forget to text/call my husband... so I would advise trying to keep your other half involved - for him to know you are safe, ok and enjoying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear your first time didn't go well.

Was it at a swingers club, I find that the best place for a first meet. Then if it goes tits up there are lots of other genuine swingers there you can at least chat to, even start a few new friendships.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Well that went tits up.

What a waste of time and hotel.

I'm not impressed to say the least.

Good job I have a husband lol.

Xxx

Onwards and upwards hey xxx

I feel your pain

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Well that went tits up.

What a waste of time and hotel.

I'm not impressed to say the least.

Good job I have a husband lol.

Xxx

Onwards and upwards hey xxx

Shit I missed this... what went wrong!? Hang in there and don’t be too put off - I’ve never had a bad experience meeting on my own yet!

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

"Well that went tits up.

What a waste of time and hotel.

I'm not impressed to say the least.

Good job I have a husband lol.

Xxx

Onwards and upwards hey xxx

Sorry to hear this. Don’t let this one let down reflect upon the rest of us single men. And as you say husband will always be there when you get home!

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Well that went tits up.

What a waste of time and hotel.

I'm not impressed to say the least.

Good job I have a husband lol.

Xxx

Onwards and upwards hey xxx

no way. hope it doesn't totally put you off for future meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be prepared for your hubby to get very nervous closer to the time and he might start showing signs of 2nd thoughts.

If you have both talked it through thoroughly though and both really want to do it then you should ignore his 2nd thoughts and still do it because deep down he wants you to.

Sorry to hear it didn't go well, hopefully.. Next time.

The quote above for me is spot on, back when my wife went out with her friends, dressed up I'd be so horny and nervous, wish I knew then what I do now lol,to be able to hear her tell me what went on and then the "reclaim sex hmmm

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Well that went tits up.

What a waste of time and hotel.

I'm not impressed to say the least.

Good job I have a husband lol.

Xxx

Onwards and upwards hey xxx

I feel your pain

Yup another one here frequently let down

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By *ideandvibeCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Same happened to us on Saturday night, genuine reason given, rescheduled it for Monday night, yet more issues, then Tuesday morning and again messed around. Hannah was dressed waiting in the hotel room and no show.

So very frustrating (and costly) when there are plenty more Fab guys that would’ve jumped for the opportunity

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By *otHungGuyMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Shocking to see two gorgeous hotwifes stood up - not an opportunity I would miss.

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

It happened to us prior to Christmas as well. All talk no action. So many time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happened to us prior to Christmas as well. All talk no action. So many time wasters."

Likewise for us, but a few months back, which is why we no longer actively look for single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well that went tits up.

What a waste of time and hotel.

I'm not impressed to say the least.

Good job I have a husband lol.

Xxx

Onwards and upwards hey xxx

What happened... a no show?

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By *irtySexyDawgsCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge & Welwyn NOT the east midlands!!!

We always book refundable hotel rooks and split bills with whoever we're meeting.

They (men, women, couples) have to pay their share the day before, into our PayPal acct and we make it clear that there are no refunds unless we're forced to cancel.

Soon sorts out the fakes from the fuckers...have never been let down yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does this work in Dussledorf ?

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By *irtySexyDawgsCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge & Welwyn NOT the east midlands!!!

"Does this work in Dussledorf ? "

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I wish

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"I wish "
Yes as above book in advance and you need to chat clarify a few things after all you're going to be making love , then home to hubby for more sex , all the best for next time , Ir trip to Ireland for the weekend mmmm

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