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"Yes totally looking for a boyfriend on side of our cuckold marriage " Oh it’s yr lucky, take the advert down, you’ve found that bf | |||
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"We are a cuckold couple and looking for a regular hopefully bicurious local guy ,but finding it difficult to find one" For sure, sometimes it can feel like its as rare as rocking horse shite. | |||
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"Any couples actually into this as a lifestyle? As in wife has a steady boyfriend. Not just hotwifing with a bit of tease and denial thrown in for good measure. " real cockholing is about the man having a good time as well as the wife as its all for him not the people they invite | |||
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"Had a wonderful 2 year relationship with a married couple, it would range from a full on MMF to him just watching, also a few occasions when she’d stop overnight and he’d pick up in the morning. There was never any humiliation, which I think a lot of people wrongly think cuckold is, but just a lot of mutual fun for all.i miss those days " yes its about her needs that he cant give her but they stay together | |||
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"Any couples actually into this as a lifestyle? As in wife has a steady boyfriend. Not just hotwifing with a bit of tease and denial thrown in for good measure. " Clem this is my lifestyle..... I have successfully trained and own 3 cuckold couples.... Meaning we have a three way bond and I will make sure everyone is happy while still pushing boundaries.... What I have found works best is to establish boundaries very early on , then push them very slowly..... It’s been a long journey and I’m still learning.... | |||
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"Clem this is my lifestyle..... I have successfully trained and own 3 cuckold couples.... Meaning we have a three way bond and I will make sure everyone is happy while still pushing boundaries.... What I have found works best is to establish boundaries very early on , then push them very slowly..... It’s been a long journey and I’m still learning...." see this makes me laugh im not trained or owned by anyone and never will be cuck does as i tell him and i dont know of any other cuckold couple who ''needs'' training or being ''ownd'' sounds very porn film like rather than normal life like | |||
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"Clem this is my lifestyle..... I have successfully trained and own 3 cuckold couples.... Meaning we have a three way bond and I will make sure everyone is happy while still pushing boundaries.... What I have found works best is to establish boundaries very early on , then push them very slowly..... It’s been a long journey and I’m still learning.... see this makes me laugh im not trained or owned by anyone and never will be cuck does as i tell him and i dont know of any other cuckold couple who ''needs'' training or being ''ownd'' sounds very porn film like rather than normal life like " I don’t think there is a one size fits all for a cuckold relationship because a cuckold relationship is always evolving..... You being 50 in a cuckold relationship is very different from a couple in their 20’s and 30’s in a cuckold relationship... You guys being older will know what you like and don’t like because you have experience gained over the years.... Younger couples tend to want to try every dynamic in a cuckold relationship before they settle on what they like.... | |||
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"ah yes can see what you mean now ..well said .... " Thank you | |||
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"A boyfriend or bull who can perform in front of hubby.Someone to take me out on dates with hubbies full permission. Sometimes think its just never going to materialise as been left dissapointed by many guys on here x" Seems to be a common and undoubtedly annoying theme of fab, which I think both parties have experienced, I always find when that's the case I just have a bit of a break and come back refreshed | |||
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"A cuckold is a man whose wife has had it off with another man. From that point there are any number of shades from a secret one-off at the office to an acknowledged and regular lover. If it works for you, it's real. It doesn't require anyone from FS or the outside world to define it for you. It does amuse me to see single women giving 'cuckolding' as an interest - how does that work?" Maybe they're not single women... | |||
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"I wonder what appeals to ladies in cuckhold relationships about leaving their husband in a chastity cage whilst they go out for a date or to have sex. Or is it the man's kink. " Submissive men are the biggest single group in the fetish scene. It's been no surprise at all how popular this is. | |||
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"I wonder what appeals to ladies in cuckhold relationships about leaving their husband in a chastity cage whilst they go out for a date or to have sex. Or is it the man's kink. Submissive men are the biggest single group in the fetish scene. It's been no surprise at all how popular this is. " What do women get out of that though | |||
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"I wonder what appeals to ladies in cuckhold relationships about leaving their husband in a chastity cage whilst they go out for a date or to have sex. Or is it the man's kink. Submissive men are the biggest single group in the fetish scene. It's been no surprise at all how popular this is. What do women get out of that though " Some women enjoy dominating men. Some of them are absolutely amazing at it too. I've been really lucky and met some women who've turned it into an art form. | |||
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"My wife has been seeing the same guy every week for the past 2 years and we both love it" That is SO hot! | |||
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"Sounds fun " As an organiser its hard work which is why I only do this about once a year but it always feels worth it in the end. Being around like minded people and not having to self censor cuckold play around others is such a great feeling. | |||
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"Any couples actually into this as a lifestyle? As in wife has a steady boyfriend. Not just hotwifing with a bit of tease and denial thrown in for good measure. " Definitely ! I dated a hotwife for couple fo years. She wasnt a swinger at all - but a happily married lady who like to have boyfriends. We acutally met thru a vanilla site. We went to cinema, dinner, galleries. On the first dat, she told me she was married. It was such a head rush. And that she had husband and other boyfriends. As I said, she was not a swinger but loved to date. i still get a rush thinking about it | |||
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"A cuckold is a man whose wife has had it off with another man. From that point there are any number of shades from a secret one-off at the office to an acknowledged and regular lover. If it works for you, it's real. It doesn't require anyone from FS or the outside world to define it for you. It does amuse me to see single women giving 'cuckolding' as an interest - how does that work?" You are absolutely spot on . A cuckold is simply a man whose wife has has sex with another man. | |||
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"A cuckold is a man whose wife has had it off with another man. From that point there are any number of shades from a secret one-off at the office to an acknowledged and regular lover. If it works for you, it's real. It doesn't require anyone from FS or the outside world to define it for you. It does amuse me to see single women giving 'cuckolding' as an interest - how does that work?You are absolutely spot on . A cuckold is simply a man whose wife has has sex with another man. " Well put.... | |||
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"Yes and my wife is actively looking for a new bf now having ended a two plus year relationship in August !" Welcome back | |||
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"A cuckold is a man whose wife has had it off with another man. From that point there are any number of shades from a secret one-off at the office to an acknowledged and regular lover. If it works for you, it's real. It doesn't require anyone from FS or the outside world to define it for you. It does amuse me to see single women giving 'cuckolding' as an interest - how does that work?" It always makes me chuckle when people add " but we're not cuckoldlds " like stag and vixens etc . Even swinging is a form of cuckolding. No matter how much they claim it isn't. | |||
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"My wife has been seeing the same guy every week for the past 2 years and we both love it" Lovely to read - great for all of you... | |||
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"Sorry to hear that Coco, I hope 2020 brings you everything you wish for! " Thank you, that's very kind of you and my fingers are very firmly crossed xx | |||
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"Happy new year coco! " A happy new year to you too | |||
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"My long term relationship came to an end last year (2019). Now that I'm single again my mission this year is to find 1-3 cuckold couples that I can meet on a regular basis. One would be the ideal but past experience tells me 1-3 semi regular couples is a more realistic goal. " Damn - i would love this as well ! Would love to have 1 to 3 semi regular couples - its easier said than done... FYI - cant wait for updates to your blog...! | |||
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"Any couples actually into this as a lifestyle? As in wife has a steady boyfriend. Not just hotwifing with a bit of tease and denial thrown in for good measure. " Most couples who call themselves a cuckold couple don't know what real cuckolding is. Most "cuckold" couples have never heard of a cuckold contract. | |||
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"A cuckold is a man whose wife has had it off with another man. From that point there are any number of shades from a secret one-off at the office to an acknowledged and regular lover. If it works for you, it's real. It doesn't require anyone from FS or the outside world to define it for you. It does amuse me to see single women giving 'cuckolding' as an interest - how does that work? It always makes me chuckle when people add " but we're not cuckoldlds " like stag and vixens etc . Even swinging is a form of cuckolding. No matter how much they claim it isn't. " I think this is due to humiliation and cuckholding in some peoples minds being assumed as a necessary component within every cuckhold relationship. Which it is not cuckholding can take many forms and included many different elements and kinks that are unique to each couple. Some may be similar but for some these are totally different. So I believe that's where the we are not 'cuckhold' part comes in..its an effort to distinguish their kinks away from the popularised one size fits all or 'porn' fetishised version of cuckoldery. I myself have been in cuckhold relationships some short and some 2 years plus with some couples and each one has included different kink elements to them some including humiliation and others not with the husband enjoying the wife being pleasured as he watched or myself and the wife sharing the marital bed as he would be assigned to the spare bedroom to listen and her us fuck or being sent videos and pictures when his wife would stay over at mine. So cuckholding comes in many forms and shapes. Communicating is the best way to find out what your cuckhold couples needs are and how you can set about meeting those. | |||
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"I have met a very genuine cuckold couple recently (they know who they are) and when you click with a cuckold couple and start to explore with them both the fun to be had is endless. " Good for you, you deserve it. I'm still crossing my fingers for a cuck couple that I get on well with and is local. | |||
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"cuckold is simple its married women having sex with other men thats the be all and end off to seed another mans wife as the cuckoo bird does with its eggs in another birds nest so thats the real term of cuckold everything else is added fun or added kinks so from the basic cuckold couple to the kinkest cuckold couples the are ''All'' real cuckold couples. cuckold is century's old lots of stories written in old books dating right back to god knows when and lets face it this went on before the word was invented and before the wheel no doubt and it will continue to carry on forever in the future. so not matter how your cuckold fun is its all real as long as your in a real relationship then anyone can cuckold..." | |||
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"We’re experienced with Cuck play. A go-to couple or guy is fine, but a regular ‘boyfriend’ for us is a step too far" Everyone is different. Me personally I would be comfortable with both scenarios because I think a poly dynamic with work quite well for me. | |||
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"Would love to have a regular bf. Real life just gets in the way" The logistics are the biggest hurdle - many moons ago, i dated a hotwife for year. She lived in london and her hubby enjoyed the fact she took several lovers.. | |||
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