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By *hades Of Grey OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Why do some members not like winks? Surely it's a perfectly acceptable way to show an interest. A wink says "hi, I'm interested", so wink back if you're interested too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did wonder the same because I agree with you. I have heard from others than some consider winking lazy - just send a message if you are interested.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

How would I know if I was interested without reading a profile and if I read every profile that winked this would be a full time job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am much more likely to miss a wink than message. I just think you may aswell message, it portrays a lack of confidence or effort to me otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get so many winks from people with nothing on their profile. So we dont bother with them as much now.

Really don't understand their logic when they wink with no pics or bio to look at. How are we supposed to know if they are worth winking back?

P.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I like winks. One of my best meets started with a wink. Its a way of showing interest without messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its an underused feature on here. Saved a lot of peoples time

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By *bbyandethanCouple
over a year ago

Bury

We don't care about them either way, but we never react to them and would never message someone just because they've winked us

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"We don't care about them either way, but we never react to them and would never message someone just because they've winked us "

Why not?

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By *oung heartMan
over a year ago

Prestatyn

I get winked a lot its annoying most of the time because if they were that bothered they could just message

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By *bbyandethanCouple
over a year ago

Bury


"We don't care about them either way, but we never react to them and would never message someone just because they've winked us

Why not?"

To be entirely honest I'm not sure! It was the same when Facebook used to have pokes, just never responded to them because we didn't see the point of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a bit different though, on here it registers interest for someone/couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me i think winks are good. If i winked at someone they can then take a look and see if they want to wink back or not, however if i send a message they might feel obliged to feply as not to appear rude and then have to awkwardly say they dont like me.

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By *odd4funnMan
over a year ago

Walthamstow Leyton

winks make alot of sense as some have said all good points

works for me

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