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Meeting somebody before you have seen their profile

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By *litterbabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Do you ever meet someone by chance at a club and then they give you their profile name, when you see their profile you realise how you never would have met them (off their profile) if you'd seen the profile first, as it does then no justice.

I don't feel it's my business to tell them how to run their profile, so I keep quiet, but sometimes I'm shocked at how much nicer presented they are in person and how they really are not showing themselves pictures or text wise to their best advantage.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Do you ever meet someone by chance at a club and then they give you their profile name, when you see their profile you realise how you never would have met them (off their profile) if you'd seen the profile first, as it does then no justice.

I don't feel it's my business to tell them how to run their profile, so I keep quiet, but sometimes I'm shocked at how much nicer presented they are in person and how they really are not showing themselves pictures or text wise to their best advantage. "

Yeah, this has happened loads of times to me.

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By *xpertiMan
over a year ago

The Dales

This happens all the time to me for various reasons: age, sexuality and such...

The amount of people I can't message due to their filters after meeting in a club is hilarious.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I have met people in clubs and looked at their profile afterwards but have never see anything that was contradictory. Some profiles are more helpful than others in determining possible mutual attraction

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By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish

Yes I definitely get what you mean by this.

I met a couple at a club recently. They were lovely, we chatted and got on really well. We exchanged fab user names and when I checked them out. They certainly wouldn't have been a couple that I would have gone out of my way to try and make contact with or meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a couple at a social..great couple..but when we got ready to play it was a real turn off. If we had seen their profile befor it wouldnt have happened.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Do you ever meet someone by chance at a club and then they give you their profile name, when you see their profile you realise how you never would have met them (off their profile) if you'd seen the profile first, as it does then no justice.

I don't feel it's my business to tell them how to run their profile, so I keep quiet, but sometimes I'm shocked at how much nicer presented they are in person and how they really are not showing themselves pictures or text wise to their best advantage. "

Yes!!! Actually happened to Lou at MILF on Wednesday

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

Yes, we met some lovely people at a social who I may have passed by or would have passed me by due to age, looks etc

That why I love social events, personality goes along way for me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met couples,and singles at clubs and parties,whom we have previously blocked for whatever reason,and found when we actually got to know them in person they were great company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never met anybody in a club but I think am a different person compared to my profile.

I chat to people who think I'm amazing, but looking at my profile you would think I'm really boring, that's just because I suck at talking about myself

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes. Usually they are well better in person. That's why I like clubs. Profiles can only tell you a bit about someone. Personality shines through in person. Photos often don't do justice either, they look well better in 3D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, more than once. Met a guy at a private party, we really clicked there and had great time. His profile on here has, I think, one word in it, and either no private pictures or nothing appealing.

That's why people should not be relying just on their profile to find meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Which is why I believe chemistry is more important than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet people in clubs as you can see if there is a spark there and then. I get messages from couples wanting to meet but they have all their pics set to private. Then when you add them as a friend to see what you look like they ghost you. I find that quite odd.

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By *ez1987Man
over a year ago

Great Harwood, Blackburn

Yeah I met some fantastic people at a club before reading or viewing their profile.

It's wierd that some of them I was outside their filter range on the profile lol.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Do you ever meet someone by chance at a club and then they give you their profile name, when you see their profile you realise how you never would have met them (off their profile) if you'd seen the profile first, as it does then no justice.

I don't feel it's my business to tell them how to run their profile, so I keep quiet, but sometimes I'm shocked at how much nicer presented they are in person and how they really are not showing themselves pictures or text wise to their best advantage. "

Omg soooo many times !!!

In fact that’s why I like clubs so much .... some of my best meets have actually come from a chance meeting in a club

When I’ve seen their profile I would never ever even considered meeting

Whether it be bad photos or lack of personality showing through

I have actually given them a few pointers - things women like to see etc and it’s worked for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why any form of messaging/profile is just impossible without body language and real time social interaction ... why I love social events, clubs and parties more for meeting

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