FabSwingers.com forum: Should everyone try bi?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Something Bi?

Like a cumquat and samosa sandwiche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would do but the only problem with a man is that they look like a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll only do bi stuff with 2 women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they should only try it if they are curious about it, not everyone is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to try with a TV/TS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world? "

Yes and Yes

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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Most people already have......A bicycle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No they should only try it if they are curious about it, not everyone is "

OK, fair point!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Not one for telling anyone what they should do with their own body.

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

I think its more important that people follow their own desires without worrying about it. If you're curious then explore... Fortunately society is now more accepting than ever. Bi nights at clubs are a good place to experiment without the pressure to fulfill others needs at a private meet. Just dip your "toe" in and out as you feel comfortable!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think its more important that people follow their own desires without worrying about it. If you're curious then explore... Fortunately society is now more accepting than ever. Bi nights at clubs are a good place to experiment without the pressure to fulfill others needs at a private meet. Just dip your "toe" in and out as you feel comfortable! "

Been trying to message you for ages!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world? "

Definitely not. No one "should" try anything they aren't comfortable with. There are already far too many "shoulds".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here as I think I'm up for trying it, haven't found anyone to tempt me yet though...

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world?

Definitely not. No one "should" try anything they aren't comfortable with. There are already far too many "shoulds"."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did. Fucked a TS few yr back. Prefer girls tho.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Ive never regretted trying bi though now favour women or trans people more nowadays but did make me more understanding of how guys and girls work sexually.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"Would do but the only problem with a man is that they look like a man"

Stop being manist! Lol

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"I'm here as I think I'm up for trying it, haven't found anyone to tempt me yet though..."

Well looking at your pics I’m sure they’ve been tempted by you! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world? "

Being Bi chooses you, it's not a passing fancy ... just a thought. For me it's who I am.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Well if anyone wants to dip their ‘toe’ with me I’d be more than happy. I’m good friends with most of my previous ‘toe’ dippers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is a little bi at least - if they are honest with themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world?

Definitely not. No one "should" try anything they aren't comfortable with. There are already far too many "shoulds"."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do my thing and you do your thing.

I am not in this world to live up to your expectations,

And you are not in this world to live up to mine.

You are you, and I am I,

and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful.

If not, it can't be helped.

Fritz perls

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over a year ago

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world? "

Read my story on forums

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"I’ll only do bi stuff with 2 women

That would not fit the definition of "bi"....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll only do bi stuff with 2 women

That would not fit the definition of "bi"...."

What the women do would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone is a little bi at least - if they are honest with themselves

Wrong

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"I’ll only do bi stuff with 2 women

That would not fit the definition of "bi"....

What the women do would

Oh yes, they would be "bi" but he would not be "bi".... He would be heterosexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll only do bi stuff with 2 women

That would not fit the definition of "bi"....

What the women do would

Oh yes, they would be "bi" but he would not be "bi".... He would be heterosexual. "

I’d be watching bi stuff don’t that count then

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Everyone is a little bi at least - if they are honest with themselves

That is totally wrong and more than a bit silly. It's like saying everyone likes pain at least a little bit if they're honest with themselves, the justification being that some people are turned on by pain.

As a woman I enjoy being sex with other women, but my partner is completely turned off by guy on guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would do but the only problem with a man is that they look like a man

Stop being manist! Lol "

Don't think I like a hairy face lol

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By *azzle-me-TazzMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

I've tried it and I love playing with guys and girls now.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, why on earth should it be mandatory?

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Not one for telling anyone what they should do with their own body."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone is a little bi at least - if they are honest with themselves

Not at all in reality though and it's ok to not be bi in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not one for telling anyone what they should do with their own body.

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Fuck off.

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By *hill44Man
over a year ago

hinckley

It's not for everyone, but hey if your curious give it a try if you don't like it you don't have to do it again, me I tried it & liked It

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By *ophiaCDTV/TS
over a year ago

St Asaph

"Would do but the only problem with a man is that they look like a man"

Maybe a TV would be the place to start

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Yep

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
over a year ago

West London

I tried and am very happy I did

I haven’t had much experience and don’t know if it will be a regular thing or not yet, but I felt so much better after doing it after years of curiosity. I’d highly recommend it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing wrong with being straight.

Anyone who's even remotely curious and is in a position to try though absolutely should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's nothing wrong with being straight.

Anyone who's even remotely curious and is in a position to try though absolutely should. "

who said there was anything wrong with being straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. What a weird question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fritzl style question

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Only if you are curious. No point trying something that you don't have an interest in.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Obviously I agree with everyone saying no-one “should” do anything they don’t want to, but I’m also going to point out that a lot of us who actually are bi don’t really want to be anyone’s “experiment” - imagine turning up for a meet with someone only for them to turn round and say they don’t actually like your gender after all, what a frustrating waste of time that would be!

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

You're confusing sexuality for a choice here.

People don't choose what gender they like.

Are you attracted to both genders?

Are you sexually attracted to both?

Yes...

Then you could be bi or horny, have a wank before taking action.

No...

Congrats/condolences, you're not bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kissed a guy and i liked it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its something that takes ones fancy.

But i dont think straight and not at all curious people should take a deep breath and try it just because

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

There would definitely be a lot less threads about guys not getting meets

Try it if you want to, don't if you don't

Just so happens i did and I'm glad I did

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

No I'm definitely gay

Cudnt contemplate sex with a woman so I'm happy being me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should only try if happy, its not compulsory

I have (male) tried and enjoyed it as part of a 4 sum , may again if the atmosphere was right so not set in stone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never thought I’d ever try it . I still prefer women but I must admit it can be fun every so often especially if it’s with a couple . Best of both worlds .

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By *appyman3943Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Yes if you are thinking about it, just do it. It’s opened up more opportunities for fun.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

It doubles your chance of a date on a Saturday night!

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"It doubles your chance of a date on a Saturday night!"

Lol, I wish! It just doubles the opportunities for getting turned down in my experience!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Everyone is a little bi at least - if they are honest with themselves

I'm completely honest with myself and me, myself and I concur unanimously...we are 100% straight...and proud to say it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true, I dipped a toe in and so glad that I did, it was the best thing I did, and have had some amazing fun that I would have missed out on had I not followed my feelings.

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By *acky RacersCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Everyone is a little bi at least - if they are honest with themselves

no, they're really not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am meeting a couple, I just suck whatever is waved in front of my face or if I am being sucked, I don’t mind which one of the couple is doing it but I wouldn’t have a one on one meet with a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd try it tbh but I don't think it's something everybody should try if they don't feel comfortable

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Everyone is a little bi at least - if they are honest with themselves

We are very honest with ourselves and not in the least bit interested in trying or being bi thanks.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"Everyone is a little bi at least - if they are honest with themselves

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no sorry I'm 100% gay and proud of it

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Yes!!!! Best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sites like fab open it up to a lot of people, i hadnt thought about until joining fab then just sexually explored, so tried couple guy meets, were fun,

still pref fems and cpls but good to have tried,

may even have guy meets again.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If some of them are going to try stuff but be a shit shag, then they could at least ensure that they won't deter others for life. Do what you want to, invest yourself in it, so that you and others with you get the most out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the 'straightest' man ever on paper. But our minds wonder. We think about different things and persue them. I love women and would only ever be in a relationship with a woman. But sex... Both turn me on and I enjoy both

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

"I'm the 'straightest' man ever on paper. But our minds wonder. We think about different things and persue them. I love women and would only ever be in a relationship with a woman. But sex... Both turn me on and I enjoy both "

Best post of the day man

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Should"? Definitely not. Only if you're tempted, have sexy thoughts about it or are in a situation where you want to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really great response. Get in contact mate!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Not one for telling anyone what they should do with their own body."

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

Yes

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Some things in life you don't need to try as you already know you won't like it.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not one for telling anyone what they should do with their own body."

No one is telling anyone, OP simply asked a question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A person being gay or bi is something that happens by birth I thought. You can't change someone to have interest on being bi by trying.

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world? "

I have absolutely no interest in sexual activity with a male, so never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something I'd like to try but don't think everyone would

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Tried a bi-cycle and loved it.

And tried to be bi-lingual but failed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a word no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world?

Definitely not. No one "should" try anything they aren't comfortable with. There are already far too many "shoulds".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This heralds the coming of a day I've dreaded for a while. I'm totally tolerant of anybody else's sexuality. Doesn't bother me if you're gay or bi or whatever. But the day it becomes compulsory is now looming...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world? "

Had enough problems with a bi-fold door opening a room, think that was sufficient experimenting for me.

Why do you think people should do things they dont want to OP?

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By *hom_1981Man
over a year ago

Manchester

10 years ago the idea of bi was a million miles from my mind.

Though people and circumstances change over time.... whilst experiences can change people for the better too.

I've never looked back after trying bi.

I'd wholehearted advise anyone to try it if they had the itch...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone is a little bi at least - if they are honest with themselves

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if it makes you feel better....

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By *aughty trucker 01Man
over a year ago

st Austell

Possibly open to be played with and then sucked to see how it felt. Only this way once

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world? "

No.

I'm all for trying new things, and I'm glad that I realised I'm pansexual (it has opened my eyes, if not my world)

But saying everyone should try it?

No, no, no.

People should feel free to experiment as much as they want, not as much as someone else says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys give good head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi men don't seem to know the meaning of the word straight.

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By *utton SimonMan
over a year ago

Sutton

I’m happy ( and my comfort zone limit) in giving guys ( polite guys) full O,, nothing else ( whatsoever) either way.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

No everyone should do what they feel like doing not to conform to someone else's bias

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By *aughty trucker 01Man
over a year ago

st Austell

"No everyone should do what they feel like doing not to conform to someone else's bias"
very true

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Not one for telling anyone what they should do with their own body."

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By *unnyone32Man
over a year ago

london

bi mmf is the best sex I have ever had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bi mmf is the best sex I have ever had"

Agree with you there!

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By *op couple TelfordMan
over a year ago

Telford - Shropshire - Midlands

You are so right.. you either are naturally or you are not bi...

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By *rontmanMan
over a year ago

Derby and often London

I’m definitely curious, although may sound strange but I’d only like to try that in an mmf scenario

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By *arex2Couple
over a year ago

Bradford

"Everyone is a little bi at least - if they are honest with themselves

This. Everyone's thought about it. And if they say they haven't then the can't claim to have an opinion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. People should do what they’re comfortable with. Should every gay man have to try sex with a woman? Should every lesbian try a man?

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor

I’ll try anything once.. or twice

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Well, it’s certainly very erotic. Horny and exciting with a touch of kink if it’s something you never imagined enjoying, like me.

But each to his/her own. The thing I would absolutely recommend is to try new experiences that turn you on.

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

If the situation is right, then why not. If it's not for you, no harm done

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By *oupleseekingCouple
over a year ago

nearby…..

Yep, you only live once.

But play safe for exactly the same reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agreed

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By *wingwithus1983Couple
over a year ago

Philipsburg

I dont think everyone should try it. Only because its not for everyone.

But i do think, if you dont want to try it or are not interested in trying it ever, that you shouldnt give those a hard time who are into it. They always say don't knock it till you try it.

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