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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have recently got chatting to someone who is arranging an ‘event ‘ and is charging £50 per person to ‘cover costs’ and wants the money before the event to ‘stop time wasters ‘.Firstly is this prostitution? Secondly is this allowed on here ? And thirdly is this type of situation common?

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Don't mind going halves on a room. But £50 for an 'event'?

Walk the fuck away...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't mind going halves on a room. But £50 for an 'event'?

Walk the fuck away...

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I have , especially when she announced the money would have to be out in her account beforehand

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I have recently got chatting to someone who is arranging an ‘event ‘ and is charging £50 per person to ‘cover costs’ and wants the money before the event to ‘stop time wasters ‘.Firstly is this prostitution? Secondly is this allowed on here ? And thirdly is this type of situation common? "

You've missed out

Fourthly.. It's 99 % likely it's a scam unless you can see a history of events and veris from known genuine fabsters

If it's genuine then as in life you make your own choices as an adult whether that's paying for sex or walking away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and move on

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I have recently got chatting to someone who is arranging an ‘event ‘ and is charging £50 per person to ‘cover costs’ and wants the money before the event to ‘stop time wasters ‘.Firstly is this prostitution? Secondly is this allowed on here ? And thirdly is this type of situation common? "

I'd report and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently got chatting to someone who is arranging an ‘event ‘ and is charging £50 per person to ‘cover costs’ and wants the money before the event to ‘stop time wasters ‘.Firstly is this prostitution? Secondly is this allowed on here ? And thirdly is this type of situation common? "

Report and block. It's against fab rules

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have recently got chatting to someone who is arranging an ‘event ‘ and is charging £50 per person to ‘cover costs’ and wants the money before the event to ‘stop time wasters ‘.Firstly is this prostitution? Secondly is this allowed on here ? And thirdly is this type of situation common?

You've missed out

Fourthly.. It's 99 % likely it's a scam unless you can see a history of events and veris from known genuine fabsters

If it's genuine then as in life you make your own choices as an adult whether that's paying for sex or walking away"

‘She’ has 4 very dubious verifications , so I can be pretty sure it’s a scam. Where do you draw the line though? Is charging and making money from ‘events ‘ prostitution?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I have recently got chatting to someone who is arranging an ‘event ‘ and is charging £50 per person to ‘cover costs’ and wants the money before the event to ‘stop time wasters ‘.Firstly is this prostitution? Secondly is this allowed on here ? And thirdly is this type of situation common?

You've missed out

Fourthly.. It's 99 % likely it's a scam unless you can see a history of events and veris from known genuine fabsters

If it's genuine then as in life you make your own choices as an adult whether that's paying for sex or walking away

‘She’ has 4 very dubious verifications , so I can be pretty sure it’s a scam. Where do you draw the line though? Is charging and making money from ‘events ‘ prostitution? "

It depends if it's a real event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a working girl to me!

Nothing wrong with her working her sex but not on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently got chatting to someone who is arranging an ‘event ‘ and is charging £50 per person to ‘cover costs’ and wants the money before the event to ‘stop time wasters ‘.Firstly is this prostitution? Secondly is this allowed on here ? And thirdly is this type of situation common?

You've missed out

Fourthly.. It's 99 % likely it's a scam unless you can see a history of events and veris from known genuine fabsters

If it's genuine then as in life you make your own choices as an adult whether that's paying for sex or walking away

‘She’ has 4 very dubious verifications , so I can be pretty sure it’s a scam. Where do you draw the line though? Is charging and making money from ‘events ‘ prostitution? "

You’re not paying for sex just for her time and company

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have recently got chatting to someone who is arranging an ‘event ‘ and is charging £50 per person to ‘cover costs’ and wants the money before the event to ‘stop time wasters ‘.Firstly is this prostitution? Secondly is this allowed on here ? And thirdly is this type of situation common?

You've missed out

Fourthly.. It's 99 % likely it's a scam unless you can see a history of events and veris from known genuine fabsters

If it's genuine then as in life you make your own choices as an adult whether that's paying for sex or walking away

‘She’ has 4 very dubious verifications , so I can be pretty sure it’s a scam. Where do you draw the line though? Is charging and making money from ‘events ‘ prostitution?

It depends if it's a real event."

What if it is a ‘real ‘ event ? It is still profiteering from sex?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Is it an organised event?

2 choices.

Turn up on the night and pay then if it’s a proper event or walk away.

Or just follow your gut instinct.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

If you did transfer money, what assurance do you have this is genuine? None, by the sounds of it. Pass on by.

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

“Costs for the event”? Is she putting on a decent three course meal with wine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask if she is providing a buffet, OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it an organised event?

2 choices.

Turn up on the night and pay then if it’s a proper event or walk away.

Or just follow your gut instinct. "

I am walking away but not sure wether I should report them or not ??

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By *r_TrojanMan
over a year ago

In The North

Seems to be a pattern that I have noticed on here of late.

Said accounts sign up, advertise the event usually within the same day, get re-verified and after the event, the account disappears.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Is that the same when you take a lady for dinner? I can't see much difference. Always wondered, and if so, am I expected to 'put out' later?

I have no idea about etiquette

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Ask if she is providing a buffet, OP."

For £50 I'd expect a 3 course meal with wine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask if she is providing a buffet, OP.

For £50 I'd expect a 3 course meal with wine!"

And a band

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Report, block and move on. The only money that should ever exchange hands on here is for hotel rooms and club entry imo

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Ask if she is providing a buffet, OP.

For £50 I'd expect a 3 course meal with wine!

And a band "

And a personal waiter.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Ask if she is providing a buffet, OP."

Yes she is ..... for the whole of her family on boxing day

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

There are a few mobile clubs. They rent an apartment or house for the weekend, lay on food and soft drinks, provide towels condoms etc. And they charge as they pay out for accommodation and extras. I’ve been to a couple and they were well organised. However they were also well verified. An events planner should have tons of veris.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Do i get extra necter points for that amount....

No chance......walk away or donate to a worthwhile cause

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By *ver-my-dad-bodyMan
over a year ago

North Lincs

I had one couple (supposedly the lass only) agree a meet, but only if I stopped off to pick them up some Charlie on the way?!

Steered clear and blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had one couple (supposedly the lass only) agree a meet, but only if I stopped off to pick them up some Charlie on the way?!

Steered clear and blocked. "

Yeah. Thats so 1975

Go for ladies that wear Dior

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Ask if she is providing a buffet, OP."

Yes you definitely need to ascertain if it’s a finger buffet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

One question , " Why," !!

So many clubs that you could go to with full support and the safety of the organisers and hoists.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Tell em you’ll pay on the gate ..

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"I have recently got chatting to someone who is arranging an ‘event ‘ and is charging £50 per person to ‘cover costs’ and wants the money before the event to ‘stop time wasters ‘.Firstly is this prostitution? Secondly is this allowed on here ? And thirdly is this type of situation common? "

Dodgy. Report and block themi would not pay for meets no way

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By *sername Bi CDTV/TS
over a year ago

Richmond, North Yorks and Kent


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So many clubs that you could go to with full support and the safety of the organisers and hoists. "

Not just hoists. I always insist on seeing a proper risk assessment and watching a demo first

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I have recently got chatting to someone who is arranging an ‘event ‘ and is charging £50 per person to ‘cover costs’ and wants the money before the event to ‘stop time wasters ‘.Firstly is this prostitution? Secondly is this allowed on here ? And thirdly is this type of situation common? "

You would normally pay for an event on the night not before. £50 seems quite steep as well. I wonder what is provided for that price?

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

There's still a couple on here whom I know when they were in London years ago, would ask (once you arrived at their place), for payment, to fund the road tax on their car, or the new annual car or home insurance!

If you objected, you were politely asked to leave & then blocked you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do organise fetish and sex events where there's a charge to cover the cost of the venue etc. I wouldn't call it prostitution and its legitimate. The problem here is that if you want to advertise it or find guests for it then you have to pay for the privilege and this person is using fab as free advertising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People do organise fetish and sex events where there's a charge to cover the cost of the venue etc. I wouldn't call it prostitution and its legitimate. The problem here is that if you want to advertise it or find guests for it then you have to pay for the privilege and this person is using fab as free advertising. "

Oh and you would never pay in advance. You'd pay on the door as you arrived.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently got chatting to someone who is arranging an ‘event ‘ and is charging £50 per person to ‘cover costs’ and wants the money before the event to ‘stop time wasters ‘.Firstly is this prostitution? Secondly is this allowed on here ? And thirdly is this type of situation common? "
4thly is it a con before the event!!!!! lol dont do it unless you B&Q it

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