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By *iner69er OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness

As one of the guys who has no success on here for years, i was wondering, how do the ladies find it? Do they have any luck when messaging guys or girls? Is one or the other better for meets?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Women generally find it easier to meet men. I don't know about women meeting women though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've stated many times, women are the superior gender and guys..you know it too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a 10% (ish) reply rate to any messages we send to women.

I (her) am the one sending the messages, so no dick pics, no "how you doin" kind of messages, I always read the profile and message accordingly.

It can get frustrating, but the way I see it is that if I've put effort into sending a message and get no reply, then at least I know that the replies we do get are from people that are genuinely interested.

x Niki

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate


"We have a 10% (ish) reply rate to any messages we send to women.

I (her) am the one sending the messages, so no dick pics, no "how you doin" kind of messages, I always read the profile and message accordingly.

It can get frustrating, but the way I see it is that if I've put effort into sending a message and get no reply, then at least I know that the replies we do get are from people that are genuinely interested.

x Niki"

Totally agree and would add when people don’t reply they clearly have seen or read something they have decided isn’t for them so replying would be pointless, I don’t get why people feel angry or offended when they don’t get a reply and complain about it we are all adults here just move on and stay positive

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"As one of the guys who has no success on here for years, i was wondering, how do the ladies find it? Do they have any luck when messaging guys or girls? Is one or the other better for meets? "

I don’t meet them! Prefer clubs.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I do alright. If i don’t meet it’s because i don’t want to, not because of lack of interest. I guess that’s typical of most women on here.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We have a 10% (ish) reply rate to any messages we send to women.

I (her) am the one sending the messages, so no dick pics, no "how you doin" kind of messages, I always read the profile and message accordingly.

It can get frustrating, but the way I see it is that if I've put effort into sending a message and get no reply, then at least I know that the replies we do get are from people that are genuinely interested.

x Niki

Totally agree and would add when people don’t reply they clearly have seen or read something they have decided isn’t for them so replying would be pointless, I don’t get why people feel angry or offended when they don’t get a reply and complain about it we are all adults here just move on and stay positive "

Well supposed to be adults!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women mailing other women don't have it easy as the first though that comes into a woman's head receiving a message is Hmmm this is probably a guy" however when I message a guy I read his profile send him a personalised message with a face pic and nearly always get a positive reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a problem, but it's not so easy for guys on here. Unfortunately there are many idiots obscuring the good guys

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"As one of the guys who has no success on here for years, i was wondering, how do the ladies find it? Do they have any luck when messaging guys or girls? Is one or the other better for meets? "
I find fab really hard work and actually dont try to meet via here anymore. I just use it for clubs and the forums .. occasionally chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do alright. If i don’t meet it’s because i don’t want to, not because of lack of interest. I guess that’s typical of most women on here."

Exactly this.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Meeting women is quite tricky - you fall into platonicness or just think that's all there is, you don't get particularly interesting chat (u okay hun?). Men? I do okay when I can be arsed. Better than actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I too have the same issue when messaging women, I check a womans profile and see they have numerous verifications from meets with guys and yet I don’t even get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it relitive easy to find couples but si gle females is hard

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"As one of the guys who has no success on here for years, i was wondering, how do the ladies find it? Do they have any luck when messaging guys or girls? Is one or the other better for meets? "

It's easy to get a meet if you just want to fuck anything, finding a decent guy is hard though.

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

I must be having a good run. Seem to get replies from most messages sent. But then, I don't send many and they do contain lost of words (some long ones) and humour

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By *iner69er OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness


"As one of the guys who has no success on here for years, i was wondering, how do the ladies find it? Do they have any luck when messaging guys or girls? Is one or the other better for meets? I find fab really hard work and actually dont try to meet via here anymore. I just use it for clubs and the forums .. occasionally chat "
where do you look for meets then?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"As one of the guys who has no success on here for years, i was wondering, how do the ladies find it? Do they have any luck when messaging guys or girls? Is one or the other better for meets? I find fab really hard work and actually dont try to meet via here anymore. I just use it for clubs and the forums .. occasionally chat where do you look for meets then? "

Clubs

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

As long as men are desparate, women will always hold the upper hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't message men. But I'm doing ok

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"As long as men are desparate, women will always hold the upper hand "

This again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message those I'm interested in and if they pass all my entry requirements I'll meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about matching your requirements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as men are desparate, women will always hold the upper hand

This again "

Keeley, as much as I’d hate to be on the receiving end of your wrath.. there is an element of truth in this

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"As one of the guys who has no success on here for years, i was wondering, how do the ladies find it? Do they have any luck when messaging guys or girls? Is one or the other better for meets? "

As a coyote we get lots of messages but sadly we have been disheartened as so many folk on here aren't all they seem. Although some are lovely. We had 1 cringy meet and put us off arranging more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as men are desparate, women will always hold the upper hand

This again

Keeley, as much as I’d hate to be on the receiving end of your wrath.. there is an element of truth in this "

Sure is an element of truth. There will always be desperate men around who are looking for any hole for a goal.

Women can be desperate too, they just don't show it so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting women is quite tricky - you fall into platonicness or just think that's all there is, you don't get particularly interesting chat (u okay hun?). Men? I do okay when I can be arsed. Better than actually."

Exactly this. I had a solo profile for a while. It was purely to meet other women. I deleted it in the end as the messages would turn into girly chat or the profiles would be fakes. Really disappointing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just men that find meeting single ladies difficult! They are in extremely short supply, for anyone that is looking for them. Even harder for other single ladies as we are still quite picky and easily put off, aswell as, not all are bi, so why are there not more single ladies moaning about not being able to meet other women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

King here saying not long since since became a couple on the scene but been on here for 2 years as single guy until a few month ago. And i rarely even bothered with meets until just before going to clubs. clubs are the main best place for single guys to start. Alot of guys dont know how to start a convo with women and couples

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"We have a 10% (ish) reply rate to any messages we send to women.

I (her) am the one sending the messages, so no dick pics, no "how you doin" kind of messages, I always read the profile and message accordingly.

It can get frustrating, but the way I see it is that if I've put effort into sending a message and get no reply, then at least I know that the replies we do get are from people that are genuinely interested.

x Niki"

This is basically the same for us. And we feel the same way. It doesn’t take much to be mature about it

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