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By *eventysix OP   Couple
over a year ago

glossop

Non swap couples do they exist

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

I was wondering what non swap couples would do? Thought bare minimum would be soft swap unless you'll only ever look for that 1 person to join you guys

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some couples like to play with each other while people watch but don't touch

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We are happy with "soft" non swap swing but are also happy to play full swap if the couple chooses swings that way. We think you will find many couples are like us. Just be up front with your limits and preferences and everything should be ok

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By *eventysix OP   Couple
over a year ago

glossop

Seems to be a real put off as soon as we say non swap the conversation stops even though it's on our profile. we wanna watch and join join with our own not just in clubs

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull


"Some couples like to play with each other while people watch but don't touch"

Exactly....xxxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Seems to be a real put off as soon as we say non swap the conversation stops even though it's on our profile. we wanna watch and join join with our own not just in clubs "

Make it absolutely clear on your profile where your boundary lies. That way anybody who reads it will know exactly what you want. E.g. No opposite partner touching at all or kissing opposite partners only, that sort of thing

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By *eventysix OP   Couple
over a year ago

glossop

Sound advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some couples like to play with each other while people watch but don't touch"

Where's the fun in that?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Some couples like to play with each other while people watch but don't touch

Where's the fun in that? "
what

It's obviously not for you but if other people enjoy it what's the problem?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Some couples like to play with each other while people watch but don't touch

Where's the fun in that? "

It is similar to some people enjoying playing on cam or sharing photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some couples like to play with each other while people watch but don't touch

Where's the fun in that? what

It's obviously not for you but if other people enjoy it what's the problem?"

Its actually very sexy to just watch another couple have sex in front of you and to be watched

Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, we like this

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool


"Some couples like to play with each other while people watch but don't touch

Where's the fun in that? "

Plenty of people find fun in that.

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By *orkshirefucktruck2Couple
over a year ago

barnsley

Ignore the negative posts we find a lot of newbies to the scene start of this way,its all fun and exciting being close by

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
over a year ago

london

This is us but we haven’t yet got to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some couples like to play with each other while people watch but don't touch

Where's the fun in that? what

It's obviously not for you but if other people enjoy it what's the problem?"

Where did I say there was a problem? I said where's the fun in that!

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By *eventysix OP   Couple
over a year ago

glossop

Plenty fun in watching others or being watched without the need to swap . being in close proximity to another couple doing the deed is a massive turn on for us and we are happy to join in with our own

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Sure do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have watched and been watched by other couples in the past and found it a huge turn on, Sometimes soft play with others mutual masturbation is equally a turn on. Whatever makes people comfortable can never be a problem. Just enjoy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Some couples like to play with each other while people watch but don't touch

Where's the fun in that? what

It's obviously not for you but if other people enjoy it what's the problem?

Where did I say there was a problem? I said where's the fun in that!"

You rolled your eyes. That to me at least, indicates that it annoys you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some couples like to play with each other while people watch but don't touch

Where's the fun in that? what

It's obviously not for you but if other people enjoy it what's the problem?

Where did I say there was a problem? I said where's the fun in that!

You rolled your eyes. That to me at least, indicates that it annoys you"

Nope it doesn't, that's just your Interpretation.

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

One long term partner and I enjoyed meeting other couples for 'voyeuristic' fun. It's still very exciting to meet others, have fun evenings with drinks etc, then get naked and enjoy watching the other couple have fun.

Our limits were always soft-swing (masturbation/oral) with the other couples if felt comfortable, but we set the expectation that watching / non-swap would probably be as far as it went.

Full Swap is definitely not essential for an erotic evening!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although we openly play in clubs and sometimes not play with others so kind of the same thing ...its not really something that we would really enjoy if it was a private one to one meet . I'd say definitely tell others or make it clear( you have on profile ) before meeting as we had it with one couple who invited us to a room in a club and it made us feel awkward as we didnt know beforehand and in conversation it wasnt obvious so we left them to it.

Everyone likes different though so pretty sure there will be many who do enjoy it .

Mrs xx

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By *one swap cplCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yep we are one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do like this sometimes we don't swap especially in clubs but also within own home. We find it can be very erotic Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it extremely intimate and erotic without feeling the need to push our boundaries. Watching others stop what they are doing to watch us is an incredible feeling.

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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago

Nearly

Was the best for me when had partner. So erotica and felt more and more in love.

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By *r-mrs inkedCouple
over a year ago

rugby

We dont swap but like being watched or watching

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By *ouple36DDCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Some couples like to play with each other while people watch but don't touch"

We started like that and then went to soft swap and eventually full swap.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We'd be happy having sex next to another couple having sex. It's not the only way we'd do it but we'd still find it sexy to make eye contact an/or say things to each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exhibitionists and Voyeurs. Sexy folks indulging in sexy times.

What’s not fun in that ?

S&S x

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(Ray) yes for me playing with another woman other than Lou does nothing for me as it's not my thing I've done FFM before and hand on heart can say it wasn't what I wanted as I felt like I was cheating.

My pleasure comes from the confidence (which I find a massive turn on) that Lou can explore her naughty side more and that she feels secure (again big turn on for me) and that she wants me to be part of the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is on our to do list, see if Santa thinks we have been good this year

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By *eventysix OP   Couple
over a year ago

glossop

We get massively turned on by being next to other couples having sex but so far only in clubs. we are looking for couples near to us for something more intimate so far no luck

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Yes we do, and enjoy it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I played with a new couple ,i suppose you could call it soft fun ,teasing watching etc ,great fun, we all enjoyed it .I think perhaps they would go a little further next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and sher want to do this and have had a bit of flack so thanks for the support of other couples

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By *eventysix OP   Couple
over a year ago

glossop

Weve had no flak. the conversation just stops because of no swapping shame as we'd bring the porn haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weve had no flak. the conversation just stops because of no swapping shame as we'd bring the porn haha "

The problem with relying on the term 'non-swap' to communicate your wishes is that it will mean different things to different people. You might want to make it clear on your profile that you only want to watch and be watched, without any physical contact. There are definitely couples into this - we did it ourselves when we first started out.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We've involved others on a few occasions (light touching mainly) but the majority of our club visits were to play in open rooms where we could be seen

We had a great hotel meet with a couple where we just shared a bed with them, no touching at all. It was so much fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It is important to be clear about where your boundaries lie. We had a very awkward experience with a couple who didn't reveal they didn't want physical contact until the point of physical contact. We would still have met them had we known but as it was we were left very confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're a soft swap couple.

We're very happy to play and kiss with other couples but we're not ready for full intercourse swap.

We're clear about this from the offset.

We are open to thinking about full swap but we're just not ready for it yet. We personally feel this should be with a couple we feel completely comfortable with and trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love same room fun just watching and being watched it's our main way to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t full swap

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By *iznMalcCouple
over a year ago

greater manchester

We play soft swing , we play with others touching,kissing ,oral but not full sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy and would like to meet couples for same room non swap scenarios.

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