FabSwingers.com forum: Girls first message!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do girls on here like in there first message

Seen some asking for naughty and some asking for a normal convo,

What’s the best opening line you had and what are you more likely to reply to ?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Never ask me how i am. It gets right on my tits!

If it’s an early message don’t be uncouth. I prefer to keep it clean until i’m awake enough to deal with sauciness.

Don’t message when d*unk.

Just be friendly and yourself.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Just be yourself. A polite, friendly, message that shows you have read her profile and that tells her something about you & shows a bit of your personality.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"Never ask me how i am. It gets right on my tits!

If it’s an early message don’t be uncouth. I prefer to keep it clean until i’m awake enough to deal with sauciness.

Don’t message when d*unk.

Just be friendly and yourself."

"How you doin?" first messages annoy the hell out of me!

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Dont ask if I've had much luck here or any other variation.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Dont ask if I've had much luck here or any other variation. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is very similar to another post running atm so I've copied and pasted my reply :

I reply to all my messages. The ones that I chat with though are different ... unlike most I don't need an essay (quite often find them overly prescriptive and rather dull prefer the more pub/real life approach) a "hi" has worked because I respect not everyone is a word smith but a decent profile is required as I always check out their profile before I message back (I have all my filters on so need a public pic, verifications etc), what we're looking for has to match and if a face pic is included that's a bonus!

What's way more important to me and where most let themselves down is what's next and this shows whether they have read my profile and whether I would like to continue chatting

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Doesn’t care what I send, it’s always something wrong, so fuck it

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"What do girls on here like in there first message

Seen some asking for naughty and some asking for a normal convo,

What’s the best opening line you had and what are you more likely to reply to ? "

Just introduce yourself, compliment whoever you're messaging but in a sincere way, be polite, friendly and be sure to include a face pic

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Ladies should take note of this thread as well.

"Hi" or "hello" ain't a message.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I think before a message is written it is important to read the profile. This will give you a general idea of the type of person he or she is.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

There's no magic formula, we're all different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think before a message is written it is important to read the profile. This will give you a general idea of the type of person he or she is."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ask me what I'm looking for on fab.

Don't get all shirty if you ask me a question you don't like the answer I give.

No I don't want your phone number in first message..

Oh its endless...

Oh.. Blokes.. Whatever you start convo with 50% will love it n reply 50% won't.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I don't like too many compliments in a first message, I find too much arse kissing insincere

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Dont ask if I've had much luck here or any other variation. "

This really annoys me! I know they think it’s a conversation starter, but all anyone needs to know about my “luck” is in my veris, I’m not interested in giving my full history to someone in the first message. Especially when if I asked them the same question, the answer would be “no”.

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