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By *uckold couple for BBC OP   Couple
over a year ago

just north of Birmingham

Hey guys. We’re hoping for some advice and guidance here.

So we’ve been a ‘cuckold’ couple for a while now, but it’s always been behind closed doors. Although we’re happy enough, a lot of people still don’t understand/approve. So we’ve always been discrete in public.

Recently our long term bf/bull/alpha has started suggesting public dating; taking my wife to restaurants, movies etc. For me this is more humiliating that just sex, this is friendship. Does that make any sense at all?

So, any advice? Is this just normal evolution of the cuckold dynamic? Or do I have cause for worry.

Thanks in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't want it to happen then say so.

You have a say in this too.

Personally I don't get people who are into cucking. I just don't get why you would cuck the person who you love most in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it works for you and you agree boundaries go for it. Have heard of situations where the cuck helps prepare and dress the wife for her dates as he sits home alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I LET GUYS PICK MY WIFE UP AND TAKE HER TO LOCAL PUB WHY I STAY AT HOME. I THEY CLICK SHE BRINGS THEM HOME AND SHE FUCKS THE BULL IN FRONT OF ME.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I'd say it was perfectly normal. For the sake of discretion maybe they should go to places where none of you are known. It might even involve a weekend away somewhere.

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By *abyC-OldskoolCouple
over a year ago

Somerset

Does Bull/alpha Take you wife tonhis bed?.Only if there is plenty of trust there we hope?

But if you really want to be a good cuckold then you need to be in chastity.lock your cock up and give her the key while she go's on date.Get her to send pics and vids with him while she has the key in frame.As long as you can't get to your cock and she can get to his then this is the most amount of frustration needed

Love locking Oldskool in chastity.It works great when playing with a hard cock while his is straining in a chastity device

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By *objgukMan
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

I used to meet a couple where i took his wife out to dinner or the pub.

she would text him to let him know what a great time we were having.

we would then drive back to their house where he stayed upstairs listening to us play downstairs.

we all loved it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, it's only a 'normal evolution' if you're comfortable with it. It sounds like you have doubts, so you might want to sit down with your wife and share your feelings before going any further.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

It won't be for everyone. You need to chat with your wife about it.

I met a couple before where he was very keen on the idea and she seemed to like the idea too. But after me and her met with him she felt something was missing in the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I don't get people who are into cucking. I just don't get why you would cuck the person who you love most in the world."

Sex is not love.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Personally I don't get people who are into cucking. I just don't get why you would cuck the person who you love most in the world.

Sex is not love."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Personally I don't get people who are into cucking. I just don't get why you would cuck the person who you love most in the world.

Sex is not love."

I agree but the suggestion in the op is more than sex or at least that's where his doubts lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I don't get people who are into cucking. I just don't get why you would cuck the person who you love most in the world.

Sex is not love.

I agree but the suggestion in the op is more than sex or at least that's where his doubts lie"

I wasn't replying to the op

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Personally I don't get people who are into cucking. I just don't get why you would cuck the person who you love most in the world.

Sex is not love.

I agree but the suggestion in the op is more than sex or at least that's where his doubts lie

I wasn't replying to the op "

Oh, my bad. Soz

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

We done this in the past with a long term bf was great fun

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Done this many times. We love it and it was a natural progression for us both which is key. You both need to decide or it will not work.

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Something we have done quite a lot.

Sometimes Mr is allowed to follow on later and watch from a distance as we have drinks etc. He is not allowed to approach and we never aknowledge him. in fact most times we never see him.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"If you don't want it to happen then say so.

You have a say in this too.

Personally I don't get people who are into cucking. I just don't get why you would cuck the person who you love most in the world."

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Hey guys. We’re hoping for some advice and guidance here.

So we’ve been a ‘cuckold’ couple for a while now, but it’s always been behind closed doors. Although we’re happy enough, a lot of people still don’t understand/approve. So we’ve always been discrete in public.

Recently our long term bf/bull/alpha has started suggesting public dating; taking my wife to restaurants, movies etc. For me this is more humiliating that just sex, this is friendship. Does that make any sense at all?

So, any advice? Is this just normal evolution of the cuckold dynamic? Or do I have cause for worry.

Thanks in advance. "

We’ve done that with her former regular. He drove to ours, I drove them both to the pub and then drove them back to ours after waiting outside for them. Then listened through the door. Extremely erotic.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

It's how we roll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a natural evolution OP. You cant expect your wife to regularly meet up with someone for sex and not at the very least become friends if not actualy develop feelings for the guy.

There is a chance she will be discovered in public with her lover so you and her need to consider if your both okay with that or not.

If not then it is a bad idea obviously.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

The been discovered in public is the risky bit..that needs to be given serious consideration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't want it to happen then say so.

You have a say in this too.

Personally I don't get people who are into cucking. I just don't get why you would cuck the person who you love most in the world."

I agree, i understand the fantasy but in reallity i think it crosses lines that are hard for the male to cope with - in the cold light of day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't want it to happen then say so.

You have a say in this too.

Personally I don't get people who are into cucking. I just don't get why you would cuck the person who you love most in the world.

I agree, i understand the fantasy but in reallity i think it crosses lines that are hard for the male to cope with - in the cold light of day."

A lot of people could say the same about swinging.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Hey guys. We’re hoping for some advice and guidance here.

So we’ve been a ‘cuckold’ couple for a while now, but it’s always been behind closed doors. Although we’re happy enough, a lot of people still don’t understand/approve. So we’ve always been discrete in public.

Recently our long term bf/bull/alpha has started suggesting public dating; taking my wife to restaurants, movies etc. For me this is more humiliating that just sex, this is friendship. Does that make any sense at all?

So, any advice? Is this just normal evolution of the cuckold dynamic? Or do I have cause for worry.

Thanks in advance. "

cant give you advice really but this id love to try...

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