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By *picknspan OP   Man
over a year ago

North West Leeds

I frequently drop a lady or couple a brief message to say that whilst perusing new photos, profiles of interest etc how much I enjoyed seeing their photos/pics

Do you think that it is appreciated generally or not?

Have had mixed responses to 'no response at all'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are appreciated by myself but unless there is an attraction I’m likely not to respond.

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"I frequently drop a lady or couple a brief message to say that whilst perusing new photos, profiles of interest etc how much I enjoyed seeing their photos/pics

Do you think that it is appreciated generally or not?

Have had mixed responses to 'no response at all'"

Can't really go wrong as long as you don't throw your toys out of the pram if they say no thank you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I sometimes say how much I like photos. It’s just appreciation for sharing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are appreciated by myself but unless there is an attraction I’m likely not to respond. "

Well this isn’t a message but I appreciated your pics..

OP.. I’ve found it works with some people, some others it’s just brushed passed. But I suppose it’s the same with all messages. You win some you lose some

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

I appreciate comments on our pics. I think it's lovely someone has taken the time to send a msg and I always reply but if there's no attraction the conversation doesnt go much further than very tiny small talk.

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

I always appreciate compliments, however if D opens the message he's a little more blunt and likely with not respond.

I will however though, if the conversations moves on and I'm not particularly interested I shall just say unfortunately not my type etc xx

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By *picknspan OP   Man
over a year ago

North West Leeds

Yeah I guess it is a bit win some, lose some

I am not trying to engage in conversation really. Just willing to express admiration or perhaps some cheer.

If somebody ever (unlikely as it is as 1) male & 2) only showing avatar photo) then I would definitely send a 'thank you' back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are appreciated by myself but unless there is an attraction I’m likely not to respond.

Well this isn’t a message but I appreciated your pics..

OP.. I’ve found it works with some people, some others it’s just brushed passed. But I suppose it’s the same with all messages. You win some you lose some "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I frequently drop a lady or couple a brief message to say that whilst perusing new photos, profiles of interest etc how much I enjoyed seeing their photos/pics

Do you think that it is appreciated generally or not?

Have had mixed responses to 'no response at all'"

Why don’t you just fab the pics and show your appreciation that way?

I’ve found if I reply saying thanks, that most think it’s an opening to chat more and nine times out of ten they haven’t bothered to read my profile so now I don’t say anything and just delete their message.

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By *picknspan OP   Man
over a year ago

North West Leeds


"I frequently drop a lady or couple a brief message to say that whilst perusing new photos, profiles of interest etc how much I enjoyed seeing their photos/pics

Do you think that it is appreciated generally or not?

Have had mixed responses to 'no response at all'

Why don’t you just fab the pics and show your appreciation that way?

I’ve found if I reply saying thanks, that most think it’s an opening to chat more and nine times out of ten they haven’t bothered to read my profile so now I don’t say anything and just delete their message."

I do both

It doesn't have to open a conversation and frequently doesn't unless the appraised so wishes and induces it. If I get a 'thank you' then I slip away quietly

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