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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Unless you have rippling muscles or a long schlong (or simply the owner of a black penis), is it harder for men to be attractive to women?

Yes I am ruling out the attraction of women to men because....well basically on Fab any hole's a goal to most men. Lol

In person for example, I know I'm not a total minger and have some semblance of personality to attract. But on Fab, I don't think I'd be atrractive to many.

Discuss....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly you don’t have a clue

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No it isn't harder to be attractive to women if you don't possess those characteristics.

Women are not that shallow and not all the same. They're attracted to different things and personalities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, you have to be 'attractive' to attract people, but that doesn't necessarily mean 'rippling muscles or a long schlong'.

Attractiveness is completely subjective. Some prefer a guy with military bearing while others would go for a the exact opposite. Some like suave and charm, some like filthy banter. Some like skinny, some like heavy set. And the amount of bi women on this site proves that a 'big schlong', or indeed any schlong, isn't necessary.

Don't spend your days worrying about people who aren't attracted to you - work out what makes you attractive and emphasise that!

There is one thing that's almost universally not attractive -the whiff of horny desperation.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Unless you have rippling muscles or a long schlong (or simply the owner of a black penis), is it harder for men to be attractive to women?

Yes I am ruling out the attraction of women to men because....well basically on Fab any hole's a goal to most men. Lol

In person for example, I know I'm not a total minger and have some semblance of personality to attract. But on Fab, I don't think I'd be atrractive to many.

Discuss....lol"

Short answer - nope! Different strokes for different folks

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re struggling think about your profile. If that’s why people are turning you down, consider revamping it.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"If you’re struggling think about your profile. If that’s why people are turning you down, consider revamping it. "

Ok. It wasn't about me actually; it was a general topic of discussion based on my observation. I used myself in a very humble way to illustrate a point. But it appears to have been taken as a cry for help. Lmao

It sounds like you have an opinion on my profile though. So do elaborate.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, you have to be 'attractive' to attract people, but that doesn't necessarily mean 'rippling muscles or a long schlong'.

Attractiveness is completely subjective. Some prefer a guy with military bearing while others would go for a the exact opposite. Some like suave and charm, some like filthy banter. Some like skinny, some like heavy set. And the amount of bi women on this site proves that a 'big schlong', or indeed any schlong, isn't necessary.

Don't spend your days worrying about people who aren't attracted to you - work out what makes you attractive and emphasise that!

There is one thing that's almost universally not attractive -the whiff of horny desperation. "

This

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Unless you have rippling muscles or a long schlong (or simply the owner of a black penis), is it harder for men to be attractive to women?

Yes I am ruling out the attraction of women to men because....well basically on Fab any hole's a goal to most men. Lol

In person for example, I know I'm not a total minger and have some semblance of personality to attract. But on Fab, I don't think I'd be atrractive to many.

Discuss....lol"

No. I am attracted to personality over looks. In my opinion it’s normally men who are more attracted to physical attributes. I however don’t look at more attractive women and blame them for me not being as successful as I would like to be. I embrace me and try to show myself in the best possible light. If someone doesn’t like me for being me, then it wasn’t meant to be.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Unless you have rippling muscles or a long schlong (or simply the owner of a black penis), is it harder for men to be attractive to women?

Yes I am ruling out the attraction of women to men because....well basically on Fab any hole's a goal to most men. Lol

In person for example, I know I'm not a total minger and have some semblance of personality to attract. But on Fab, I don't think I'd be atrractive to many.

Discuss....lol

No. I am attracted to personality over looks. In my opinion it’s normally men who are more attracted to physical attributes. I however don’t look at more attractive women and blame them for me not being as successful as I would like to be. I embrace me and try to show myself in the best possible light. If someone doesn’t like me for being me, then it wasn’t meant to be. "

Oh Miss Saucy, you always have the best answers. I'm going to ban you from playing in my posts because you tend to just circumvent the discussion. Lol

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By *r_TrojanMan
over a year ago

In The North


"Unless you have rippling muscles or a long schlong (or simply the owner of a black penis), is it harder for men to be attractive to women?

Yes I am ruling out the attraction of women to men because....well basically on Fab any hole's a goal to most men. Lol

In person for example, I know I'm not a total minger and have some semblance of personality to attract. But on Fab, I don't think I'd be atrractive to many.

Discuss....lol"

- Rippling muscles ... No

- Long Schlong ... No

- Black cock ... Yes

Just because I have a black cock does not mean everyone wants to meet me. I have to say I have been fortunate enough to meet some great people off the site, some who have become great friends. Personality counts for a lot in my humble opinion.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'll go for personality above and beyond anything else, and reject plenty of guys who are ripped, with huge schlongs, and who are conventionally attractive, of all skin colours, every single day.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I'll go for personality above and beyond anything else, and reject plenty of guys who are ripped, with huge schlongs, and who are conventionally attractive, of all skin colours, every single day. "

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