FabSwingers.com forum: Single F first time at a club?

By *rouble1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I’m quite keen to try out some of the clubs in my area but also understandably nervous.

Mainly nervous because I’m a young single female, I won’t know anyone and I don’t want to be pestered by single men (as I’ve heard they sometime do this).

I was thinking of maybe trying to meet someone who has been to the club before and go together?

Any other advice/ unspoken rules?

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I would love to go to a club but I've heard that a single guy gets a bit of trouble from other guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been to clubs on my own, my advice would be to message whichever club you are planning to visit before hand and most of them will give you a tour round and introduce you to a few regulars. Once you have broken the ice and spoken to a few people it comes quite easily. If you go with the mind set that you are just going to look and have a drink then it takes the pressure off of trying to find people you want to play with. If any men are following you or bothering you and it’s unwanted then a quiet word asking them to give you some space usually does the trick.x

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By *rouble1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I’ve been to clubs on my own, my advice would be to message whichever club you are planning to visit before hand and most of them will give you a tour round and introduce you to a few regulars. Once you have broken the ice and spoken to a few people it comes quite easily. If you go with the mind set that you are just going to look and have a drink then it takes the pressure off of trying to find people you want to play with. If any men are following you or bothering you and it’s unwanted then a quiet word asking them to give you some space usually does the trick.x"

Thanks for the advice! I definitely think it’s something I’ll enjoy once I there but just don’t want to feel uncomfortable or anything x

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By *ohnjames08Man
over a year ago

sunderland

This is something that I am thinking about trying but just don't know how things work. One of my friends goes to these when she is away with work and speaks highly of them.

Need a wingman/girl haha

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We would perhaps be willing to take you to a club with us so you aren't going alone. We wouldn't expect you to hang around with us all night and certainly wouldn't expect to you to play with us.

Mrs has played as a single fem so appreciates your concerns. We would look out for you with nothing expected in return.

We tried to PM you but we are out of your age range.

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By *rouble1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"We would perhaps be willing to take you to a club with us so you aren't going alone. We wouldn't expect you to hang around with us all night and certainly wouldn't expect to you to play with us.

Mrs has played as a single fem so appreciates your concerns. We would look out for you with nothing expected in return.

We tried to PM you but we are out of your age range.

Messaged you x

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