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By *bbyBiTV OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I am beyond the bi-curious stage now. I thoroughly enjoy sucking cock. I have tried giving anal and decided its not for me. I am keen to now try receiving anal. Does anyone have any advice or offers to fuck me.

A

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Start small (finger maybe?) and build up to larger body parts

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By *bbyBiTV OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Start small (finger maybe?) and build up to larger body parts "

Thanks for the advice. I hear aromas also help.

A

xxxx

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I agree .... make sure you are relaxed and try it on your own, at your own pace first to find what is right for you xx

.... and use plenty of lube!

R xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

start with a Hb and work up to a 3L bottle of Pepsi max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biy a beginners butt plug, use plenty of lube and once you feel comfortable inserting that one step it up. Above all, have fun

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By *xkritTV/TS
over a year ago

High Wycombe (ish)

Take your time, loads of lube and chill out.... May / may not happen the first time or too but stressing about it will only make things tight!!

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By *bbyBiTV OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Take your time, loads of lube and chill out.... May / may not happen the first time or too but stressing about it will only make things tight!!"

What should happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To much lube is just enough!

Go slow and let yourself enjoy it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To much lube is just enough!

Go slow and let yourself enjoy it xxx"

I mean Too much lube

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

Try gently playing with your ass, use a small dildo to enter yourself so you can get used to something being in there.

Try a butt plug to help with gently stretching moving up to bigger plugs or dildos.

Yes aromas can help you relax.

When your ready to try properly get really relaxed, plenty of lube up you and on his cock and take things slowly.

I find doggy best for anal as it helps open and spread your ass. As he pushes into you try to push out as if doing a poop, once the head of his cock has popped in (best feeling ever!) get him to stay still until you have got used to it and then just slowly back onto his cock.

Enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am beyond the bi-curious stage now. I thoroughly enjoy sucking cock. I have tried giving anal and decided its not for me. I am keen to now try receiving anal. Does anyone have any advice or offers to fuck me.

A"

If it is not for you then you have answered your question. If it is practice, then practice makes perfect.

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By *hicodiezMan
over a year ago

Newport

Douche!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hated anal for years . My partner would always try and it never happened. Then I got myself some butt plugs , 3 in a kit and slowly worked my way up to the biggest one. Once I could get that in comfortable we started trying again. I’ve been loving anal for about a year now but still use a butt plug first. We also have to start / stop a few times until I feel comfortable. Positions make a difference massively and you need to find one that works for you. I find on my back first , then doggy !

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Buy training butt plug (wide flat base), don't use a woman's toy, otherwise its potentially a trip to a&e

no junk food 12 - 24 hrs before, bran/ weetabix for breakfast, go to the loo approx an hr before, and wash thouroghly, no need to douche

Start small on toys, lube up, relax, deep breathing relaxes muscles, shouldn't need to push in. then build up as your confidence grows. suggest butt plug at the time of a session to limber you up and give you again confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hated anal for years . My partner would always try and it never happened. Then I got myself some butt plugs , 3 in a kit and slowly worked my way up to the biggest one. Once I could get that in comfortable we started trying again. I’ve been loving anal for about a year now but still use a butt plug first. We also have to start / stop a few times until I feel comfortable. Positions make a difference massively and you need to find one that works for you. I find on my back first , then doggy ! "
couldn't agree with you any more x brilliant knowledge

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By *bbyBiTV OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Buy training butt plug (wide flat base), don't use a woman's toy, otherwise its potentially a trip to a&e

no junk food 12 - 24 hrs before, bran/ weetabix for breakfast, go to the loo approx an hr before, and wash thouroghly, no need to douche

Start small on toys, lube up, relax, deep breathing relaxes muscles, shouldn't need to push in. then build up as your confidence grows. suggest butt plug at the time of a session to limber you up and give you again confidence"

Thanks for all the advice. Am making this my new years resolution

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"I am beyond the bi-curious stage now. I thoroughly enjoy sucking cock. I have tried giving anal and decided its not for me. I am keen to now try receiving anal. Does anyone have any advice or offers to fuck me.

A"

It's fabulous, but you need to practise.

Anal muscles are different from vaginal muscles.

They need stretched.

Practise.

Stretch a bit more every day.

(It's perfectly safe )

You want your muscles to be:

a) supple and stretchy

b) relaxed

Then lie back and enjoy

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"Start small (finger maybe?) and build up to larger body parts "

Left leg perhaps????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm curious to try receiving anal to, Ive given anal yo women and had fingers in my bum but I'm desperate to try receiving

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"I'm curious to try receiving anal to, Ive given anal yo women and had fingers in my bum but I'm desperate to try receiving "

Ah bless...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am beyond the bi-curious stage now. I thoroughly enjoy sucking cock. I have tried giving anal and decided its not for me. I am keen to now try receiving anal. Does anyone have any advice or offers to fuck me.

A"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame you so far away would love to show you how lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always found fingers painful. I've got a glass buttplug and have found that massively helpful, plus it feels amazing.

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Not for me up the bum

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By *infonyCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Decomposing body nasal paste if the taker hasn’t washed their arse, and digestive biscuit for lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

_infony _infony he's got it _infony

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Loads of lube and then add some lube x

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By *ownhamguyMan
over a year ago

Battle


"Start small (finger maybe?) and build up to larger body parts

Left leg perhaps???? "

You put your left leg in,left leg out and shake it all about

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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

There is a lube you can get that helps your anal passage to relax.

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By *bbyBiTV OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"There is a lube you can get that helps your anal passage to relax. "

Sounds useful

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By *nowman_77Man
over a year ago

Weston

Plenty of good advice about use of lube, self practice and the such like.

My advice is to no underestimate the mental side of things. Try and relax; don’t build it up to be a major event. If it doesn’t work, don’t stress. Try again another time.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Decades since I have had the experience. Wonder what it would be like now???? Fun to try, I guess...!!

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey


"Biy a beginners butt plug, use plenty of lube and once you feel comfortable inserting that one step it up. Above all, have fun "

This is what I was going to suggest xx very good advice, good luck OP xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Buy training butt plug (wide flat base), don't use a woman's toy, otherwise its potentially a trip to a&e

no junk food 12 - 24 hrs before, bran/ weetabix for breakfast, go to the loo approx an hr before, and wash thouroghly, no need to douche

Start small on toys, lube up, relax, deep breathing relaxes muscles, shouldn't need to push in. then build up as your confidence grows. suggest butt plug at the time of a session to limber you up and give you again confidence

Thanks for all the advice. Am making this my new years resolution

"

My new years resolution as well lol

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By *nfinitylandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Decades since I have had the experience. Wonder what it would be like now???? Fun to try, I guess...!!"

Didnt think anal was invented back then?

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Use good lube and work it slowly otherwise its very painful, I know that from experience on doing it on myself. It's ace when you get used to it though I love being fucked and giving if the lady likes it

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