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Looking for someone to go to a club with for the first time

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By *amLuke OP   Man
over a year ago

M

Looking for a couple or singles to meet with me to introduce me to clubs as i have never been before and would Like someone to break me into it. Any offers much appreciated.. manchester only.

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

If you're not brave enough to go alone how will you ever be able to preform?

Babysitting people in clubs takes all the fun away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not brave enough to go alone how will you ever be able to preform?

Babysitting people in clubs takes all the fun away. "

I never understand replies like this

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By *amLuke OP   Man
over a year ago

M

I am far from shy &know i can perform in front of people but never going to one before just makes it all seem a bit overwhelming as im new to the scene it would be more comforting having someone youve met before to chat to to start things off as i donk know what to expect..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am far from shy &know i can perform in front of people but never going to one before just makes it all seem a bit overwhelming as im new to the scene it would be more comforting having someone youve met before to chat to to start things off as i donk know what to expect.."

I went with someone I met on here for my first club experience and it definitely helped going with someone. I’ve been alone since but much prefer attending with someone. It’s certainly not babysitting if you’re going together and get on well!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"If you're not brave enough to go alone how will you ever be able to preform?

Babysitting people in clubs takes all the fun away.

I never understand replies like this "

Why?

Alot of men just want a woman to take them so they can get in cheaper. If it really is just for someone to hold their hand they need to grow some balls, I used to go to chams on my own, I still do sometimes, admittedly ive got mates that go now but that wasn't always the case.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Mate go on a newbie night and ask to be shown around. Once you know the dos and don'ts the rest comes easy.

Honestly mate the hardest thing is going through the door the rest is simple.

Clubs are great for networking into the scene.

Do it mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not brave enough to go alone how will you ever be able to preform?

Babysitting people in clubs takes all the fun away.

I never understand replies like this

Why?

Alot of men just want a woman to take them so they can get in cheaper. If it really is just for someone to hold their hand they need to grow some balls, I used to go to chams on my own, I still do sometimes, admittedly ive got mates that go now but that wasn't always the case."

A single females first time at a club or anytime for that matter is very different to a single males. The club will bend over backwards to welcome a single female. You are the £££ signs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily take nervous newbies along to club nights as long as they are chilled and don’t expect couples membership or assume play date

More Midlands based though sorry good luck OP

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"If you're not brave enough to go alone how will you ever be able to preform?

Babysitting people in clubs takes all the fun away.

I never understand replies like this

Why?

Alot of men just want a woman to take them so they can get in cheaper. If it really is just for someone to hold their hand they need to grow some balls, I used to go to chams on my own, I still do sometimes, admittedly ive got mates that go now but that wasn't always the case.

A single females first time at a club or anytime for that matter is very different to a single males. The club will bend over backwards to welcome a single female. You are the £££ signs. "

I didn't get treated any different to anyone else but I also just put my big girl pants on and went. I didn't ask for someone to take me or hold my hand, I just did it.

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By *amLuke OP   Man
over a year ago

M

Thanks for all the good hearted replys everyone

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Thanks for all the good hearted replys everyone"

Sorry, I know it seems like I'm being bitchy but every week I get men asking for me to take them to a club. Often it's just so they can get in.

It really is better if you can get your nerves under control and go yourself.

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By *amLuke OP   Man
over a year ago

M

I appreciate your constructive criticism

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By *nlyoneruleMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Treat it like walking into a pub in a town your visiting and don't know anyone. When I first went to a club that's what I did. I guess I'm used to going into places like pubs and cafes on my own and talking to strangers ( not in a weird way but like we used to!)

Tell reception you're new and they'll more often than not show you around. After that socialise, expect nothing more and if you play or meet people in the future as a result then happy days.

Remember not all clubs are the same and not all days are the same. Some are nightclubby and others more overtly playing. Some expect you to dress down to a towel, others don't. Like all things there's normally something for everyone. You just gotta get out there and find if it's for you! Clubs aren't everyone's taste.

Good luck

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