FabSwingers.com forum: Abusive messages

By *izzyRascal OP Woman
over a year ago

North Hants

Can we start a thread to warn people about accounts that send abusive messages for no reason? I always report these but I worry that other people may end up meeting them. Usually those kinds of people are the ones who don’t respect boundaries and take advantage.

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By *izzyRascal OP Woman
over a year ago

North Hants

Would it be classed as naming and shaming?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we start a thread to warn people about accounts that send abusive messages for no reason? I always report these but I worry that other people may end up meeting them. Usually those kinds of people are the ones who don’t respect boundaries and take advantage."

Can you contact admin? Think you can

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Gossip is highly underrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get permission from admin that is

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's naming and shaming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still reckon it would be a good idea that if someone gets serially reported and it's not bad enough to get banned, an icon appears next to their name warning others to contact with caution.

After a certain time and log ins this disappears once the account holder behaves him/herself

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"It's naming and shaming. "
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...and open to people misusing it..

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I still reckon it would be a good idea that if someone gets serially reported and it's not bad enough to get banned, an icon appears next to their name warning others to contact with caution.

After a certain time and log ins this disappears once the account holder behaves him/herself"

It should be a ban straight away, no one should be sending abusive messages

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By *tam3Man
over a year ago

Bromley

Why on earth would anyone send you abusive messages????

What's wrong with people?

You look stunning babe!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still reckon it would be a good idea that if someone gets serially reported and it's not bad enough to get banned, an icon appears next to their name warning others to contact with caution.

After a certain time and log ins this disappears once the account holder behaves him/herself

It should be a ban straight away, no one should be sending abusive messages"

It's too easy to delete then reopen a new account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweet talk them back around and arrange a meeting. Then have some burly types to meet them. They will behave after.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I still reckon it would be a good idea that if someone gets serially reported and it's not bad enough to get banned, an icon appears next to their name warning others to contact with caution.

After a certain time and log ins this disappears once the account holder behaves him/herself

It should be a ban straight away, no one should be sending abusive messages

It's too easy to delete then reopen a new account "

It shouldn't be though...

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By *izzyRascal OP Woman
over a year ago

North Hants

It’s the most ridiculous thing. He sent me a one letter message so I deleted it. Then he followed up with abuse because I didn’t respond. Reported and blocked but seriously! People like him shouldn’t be on here. They are the type who assault women because they think they are entitled to attention.

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton

The world is full of narcissists so to speak, and they tend to get upset when people don't fawn on them!

Just block them and don't lose any sleep over them or an abusive message.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"It’s the most ridiculous thing. He sent me a one letter message so I deleted it. Then he followed up with abuse because I didn’t respond. Reported and blocked but seriously! People like him shouldn’t be on here. They are the type who assault women because they think they are entitled to attention."
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You could block new profiles from messaging you, hopefully they would get fed up waiting to message you.

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