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By *ady and Dj OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We've been Ghosted a few times lately. Which has really confused as we we've been talking alot on her the conversation has been going well. Even meet up for a social with one got really well again. But since then nothing. We message them all but have given up now cause we get nothing back. How's everyone else feeling on this and there rules of time limit etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant get passed massages seems to be the thing atm

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

yes, we've been ghosted. If someone doesn't respond to a message we assume they've lost interest, even if we've met for a social. The usual thing is that you suggest a date to meet, they agree but never respond to your message suggesting times

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By *ady and Dj OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think it's more difficult for a single male tbh. One of our couple friends have recently gone separate accounts and the male is struggling and female gets 100 a day

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

I only figured this out the other day, it's possible that your messages get lost amongst the barrage of messages the recipient gets.

I met on lady, she showed me her unread messages 300 in her inbox. And she had to trawl to find my messages. If you time your message wrong it means likely lost through the mass influx of 000s messages they get. If you look in your sent messages and see its not read that's a sign it's lost. Try and time it when they online. Even then it's a small window of opportunity.

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

Some ladies get 700+ messages in day especially those on hot pics

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

I’ve got it a bit lately myself I just ignore it but just seen a status that says single blokes deserve their bad rep which in my mind is just a couple complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fab should introduce a separate inbox for people you are having a conversation with. Would help women in particular so much.

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville


"I think fab should introduce a separate inbox for people you are having a conversation with. Would help women in particular so much."

Suggested that as a site improvement

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I don't do private meets anymore. I network through existing friends and organising swingles socials. It's more fun having a night out and I get to meet lots of interesting people.

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By *ellafemmeWoman
over a year ago

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"I think fab should introduce a separate inbox for people you are having a conversation with. Would help women in particular so much."

This would actually be amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only figured this out the other day, it's possible that your messages get lost amongst the barrage of messages the recipient gets.

I met on lady, she showed me her unread messages 300 in her inbox. And she had to trawl to find my messages. If you time your message wrong it means likely lost through the mass influx of 000s messages they get. If you look in your sent messages and see its not read that's a sign it's lost. Try and time it when they online. Even then it's a small window of opportunity.

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I agree with this! If I’m interested in talking further to someone after exchanging a few messages then I suggest moving on to Kik

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By *ady and Dj OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We don't real use 3rd party apps or messaging apps. As we try to keep it all on hear, we understand that some people do get inundated with messages. We still class us as fairly inexperienced with the swinging etc as theres only couple we've played with on regular basis. This might but people off.

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