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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

I visit a daytime CD club occasionally, and it also hosts regular swinging nights.

I was wondering about the attitude to lone crossdressers at these events; if I turned up at your club (see profile) would you be friendly? Intrigued? Hostile?

Thx

Pxxx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You'd have no issue at Club SX in Blackpool, or the Gatehouse in Bolton. I'd be friendly personally.

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By *ina JonesTV/TS
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Hi

I visit a daytime CD club occasionally, and it also hosts regular swinging nights.

I was wondering about the attitude to lone crossdressers at these events; if I turned up at your club (see profile) would you be friendly? Intrigued? Hostile?

Thx

Pxxx"

The Greenhouse in Newport have a Bi night every Saturday which is popular with swingers. It's also a designated tgirl night.

For more info see http://www.gay-sauna.com/newport-gay-sauna/

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Some clubs, like Club SX, Gatehouse and Townhouse welcome Tgirls at pretty much any time. Other clubs will only "allow" us in on designated events. Then there are other swingers clubs where we are not welcome at all. It's just a case of doing a bit of research and seeing what is best for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks so much for the replies! ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The ?? Was a heart btw! X

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"The ?? Was a heart btw! X"

You mean one of these !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ?? Was a heart btw! X"

Here you go

Emojis don't work on here.

Do ( love ) but without the spaces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh we’re all there for the same thing and to have good night, regardless if we’re a couple single female male tv. It should be open to all and people are free to do as they please, I’ve witnessed cd/TVs on couples and singles nights and no one batted a eyelid.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

No attitude from me. Part of why I love the scene is just seeing people shine being them self and expressing their self. It's a shame that many cross dressers I've know have had to confine it to a club environment. It's very sad and shows something of how the attitudes of the outside world can be quite oppressive. Me and my partner have cross dressing and trans gender freinds. And from our conversations we know there are some clubs were cross dressers don't feel overly welcome (especially on the main nights). To be fair some of the clubs we've been to we've got the feeling that l

cross dressers may not go down well. Not in terms of club policy, more in terms of the attitudes of the clientele. However there are some clubs that feel welcoming and safe for cross dressers which is awesome. You'll normally know these clubs because there will be a few cross dressers normally there. I could say similar things in terms of gay or bisexual men with clubs (or at least open expression of it). But I do think people are becoming more liberated in their views. Maybe one day everyone will feel secure and welcome in any club regardless of gender, how they dress or sexuality? Maybe one day the world will be like that too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No attitude from me. Part of why I love the scene is just seeing people shine being them self and expressing their self. It's a shame that many cross dressers I've know have had to confine it to a club environment. It's very sad and shows something of how the attitudes of the outside world can be quite oppressive. Me and my partner have cross dressing and trans gender freinds. And from our conversations we know there are some clubs were cross dressers don't feel overly welcome (especially on the main nights). To be fair some of the clubs we've been to we've got the feeling that l

cross dressers may not go down well. Not in terms of club policy, more in terms of the attitudes of the clientele. However there are some clubs that feel welcoming and safe for cross dressers which is awesome. You'll normally know these clubs because there will be a few cross dressers normally there. I could say similar things in terms of gay or bisexual men with clubs (or at least open expression of it). But I do think people are becoming more liberated in their views. Maybe one day everyone will feel secure and welcome in any club regardless of gender, how they dress or sexuality? Maybe one day the world will be like that too."

Well said. Hopefully I'll bump into some lovely people like yourselves one day. Xxx

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We both understand it must be difficult for TS/CD in some ways it's not difficult for others.

Fem half of us is friendly and talks to all the CDs at the attic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very welcome at The Attic in Derby

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Club SX, Townhouse and Gatehouse are very inclusive when it comes to TGirls and CD’s. And the clientele are also supportive and open minded, so I will only attend their nights and events.

It is a shame that some clubs certainly appear to want to exclude us, but I know where I prefer to spend my money

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By *hill44Man
over a year ago

hinckley

No hostility from me I would just be friendly were all there to have fun, life's to short not to

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