FabSwingers.com forum: FAB Relationships

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This might be an odd question but has anyone met their partner via FAB? I’m single and not overly fussed about meeting anyone, however I would like to meet someone who’s into this lifestyle. It’s not really the kind of thing you can bring up on a first date! I’m really curious whether people have fun love on here!!!!

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Theres quite a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found my fwb on here, he isn't and never will be my "boyfriend" but we have been seeing each other for over 3 years and cohabiting for about half of that. Confuses the shit out of most people but it works for us and saves on rent, as he was round most nights anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on a spanking website. But I've known plenty of people who've met partners here and ended up married to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in the process of becoming single and yes, I’d love to meet my next partner on here so that we could enjoy the lifestyle together. I think it would be amazing to watch my partner grow in. Incidence as we experimented together x

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

We met on here when I (Devil) was at a very low point in my life, after breaking my knee. We have been spending most weekends together ever since. And swinging together.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I sort of met my partner here. It was via a BBW event at Chams advertised on the forums. I stalked him after the event via Fab. We have been together 6 years now. Lived together for 5.

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By *euschMan
over a year ago

peterborough

Still looking for the elusive FB....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here about 6 years ago, started as fwb and naturally developed from there.

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

We met at a swingers club and it was love at first sight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm currently trying to get someone on here to be my gf

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Met our joint gf on here actually so it does work

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By *aulupforitMan
over a year ago

Corbridge

I met my ex off another swingers site and lasted just short of 9 years.

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Partner no. We met at playschool when we were four. We did however meet 2 bi female couples here just a few weeks apart over 3 1/2 years ago. Over that period we have formed definite unconventional relationships with.

It wasn’t something we were or had considered looking for and although our intention was to keep our adult and vanilla lives entirely apart they have merged in most senses. We’ve met each others kids and families, been on holidays together, merged friendship groups been to a wedding and recently started to convert the 2 x 2 couple relationship into a 1 x 3 couple incarnation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MrD & myself met in pof last year.

On here now. He mentioned he was on the scene yrs ago & I told him I had dipped my toe in with my ex. We waited a while for our initially casual then more serious relationship to develop before we joined the scene.

We are loving it so far & I consider us both very fortunate to have met, be compatible, mad about each other & want to swing. Win win win xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to meet a like minded man x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Partner no. We met at playschool when we were four. We did however meet 2 bi female couples here just a few weeks apart over 3 1/2 years ago. Over that period we have formed definite unconventional relationships with.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’ve been with my man 4 years now , met through Fab and Eureka

Didn’t meet in the most conventional way , he will say the first time we met he knew we would be together but I didn’t see it then

Anyway conventional is boring

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

london

Was this hard to maintain ( keeping all happy ect) or more just accidentally flowed?

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I am on my own but would dearly love FAB relationship. I wonder if, at 72, I am being unrealistic? Feel I am a decent guy who has quite a lot offer....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This might be an odd question but has anyone met their partner via FAB? I’m single and not overly fussed about meeting anyone, however I would like to meet someone who’s into this lifestyle. It’s not really the kind of thing you can bring up on a first date! I’m really curious whether people have fun love on here!!!!"

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We met on here.

The meets got more frequent and longer until we realised we were a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes met a ex off here an we were swinging together on here

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

We met at Xtasia a few years ago now in the sort of dungeon area? Like the poster above, the meets became longer and more frequent. We're now engaged and very happy. It does happen and can happen. I hope you find what you're looking for OP, x

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Yes, met my fiancee on FAB. It was not in the plan but just by chance I met my perfect match. She is rather everything to me and I love we get to share everything together (including FAB).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard of some yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having read the other comments, it is a thing afterall. I've not found my fwb as yet, the people nearby don't seem to be in the same frame of mind it seems, oh well!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP

We met on here 3.5 years ago, started a relationship 6 months later and we have been living together for the past 18 months... blissfully happy and completely in love.

C and P

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

I met my fwb on here. I quite literally put an advert out and he answered, we have been together since. We are not a couple who are ever going to go to ikea on Sundays, I wouldn't want to I would end up coming home with star wars bedding or something, not good. But it works for us. I get my big bed most nights and get to call him when I want him... Perfect if you ask me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

loads on here have gotten married and met their partners but claim it is not a dating site

why not

I have spoken to a few on here that are shacked up already and met on here if things are meant to be they are meant to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met my fwb on here. I quite literally put an advert out and he answered, we have been together since. We are not a couple who are ever going to go to ikea on Sundays, I wouldn't want to I would end up coming home with star wars bedding or something, not good. But it works for us. I get my big bed most nights and get to call him when I want him... Perfect if you ask me x"

what is wrong with ikea on sundays

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh wow loved reading all your comment! Love that so many found someone on here! There’s hope for me yet ha ha!

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By *uto564Man
over a year ago

Widnes

Yes we met through Fab and kik and now live together as a couple

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I got engaged to one chap. Ended horribly though. 8/10 my fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why can't you talk about it on the first date being open and honest from the start is a must surely, not found love on here more negatives from people in thanet who think we are wham bam and want it when they call the straw but got to love a trier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through fab almost three years ago. Been together ever since and it's amazing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on Fab

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

There has definetly been a few couples who have got together through Fab (not us though)

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

what is wrong with ikea on sundays

Ikea on Sundays, you have to be in that honeymoon stage on your relationship or else it is a kind of purgatory lol "I only came in for a bookcase why do I have to walk through a load of kitchens?"!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

loads on here have gotten married and met their partners but claim it is not a dating site

why not

I have spoken to a few on here that are shacked up already and met on here if things are meant to be they are meant to be "

It's the perfect dating site for people who are looking for the same thing.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Met my other here six years ago. Hardly unique, lots of couples: many married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe have a dating forum for those genuinely seeking love and a long term relationship with a like minded person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met my other here six years ago. Hardly unique, lots of couples: many married."

Some are even married to each other.

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By *eltic KinkstersCouple
over a year ago

Manchester/Leeds

We met at a club a little over 18 months ago, we're now engaged and the happiest either of us has ever been. We love that we get to share fabulous experiences together and explore our desires!

A&J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to know it is possible to find love on here. I cant be meeting the right guys then. We seem to have fun and a connection but then after 2 or 3 meets they disappear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did yes but was years ago before things changed

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

I did, moved Cities to be with him and 5 years later still going.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I am open to the idea of meeting someone off Fabs or through the clubs and socials that I attend via Fabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to meet someone from fab, I want a girlfriend but want someone who’s not vanilla.. someone to love who’s just as filthy as me... is it possible I ask !! ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met in a swingers club after a little help from friends we have in common

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe have a dating forum for those genuinely seeking love and a long term relationship with a like minded person? "

Love this idea!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

China ha ha ha!!!

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By *ceKweenWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

Fab can be wonderful when you meet a partner and the relationship develops and grows. BUT affection, communication and no lies is key!!! Shame as he’s just failed on all three!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are so right ..... x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I met a lady on here. Dated for six months. Now my best friend. I’m lucky I’ve met some lovely people on Fab.

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By *old1974Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I had two great years with someone on here but the trust issue was always there on both sides although I never strayed.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

I brought up Fab on a first date (OkCupid) ... turns out she was on here too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wouldn’t risk it on a first date personally as this is a very private part of my life and I wouldn’t want my family knowing. I’d rather get a sense of what the person is like before revealing my kinks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t risk it on a first date personally as this is a very private part of my life and I wouldn’t want my family knowing. I’d rather get a sense of what the person is like before revealing my kinks! "

I agree totally it’s not something I’d reveal straight away, maybe build it into our foreplay and sense her response x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had one 3 year fwb arrangement and another 6 month one, i dont tend to go for one offs... relationships? Cant really say they were relationships par say but i didnt meet with other people during them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my ex on here, we started as casual and before we knew it things escalated.

We werent a swinging couple because neither of us wanted that but ultimately he couldn't look past how we met and constantly accuse me of cheating because I was active on here before we met he thought I would never be happy sleeping with just him.

I think how people meet is neither how nor there is you meet someone and click with them then who cares whether you met on fab or in asda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is amazing however you find it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think most singletons want to meet someone and for them to stay in the lifestyle would be a bonus, sometimes you find people who meet in the scene and get together and leave the scene. We met in the scene and are happily together and there is loads more like us, it’s just finding the right one for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what is wrong with ikea on sundays

I would rather drag my testicles through broken glass the dip them in vinegar than spend 5 mins in ikea

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

Really want this but for now iv been enjoying encounters. Love mfm scenarios so would love a partner who enjoys this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m genuinely quite happy single at the moment after coming out of a long marriage nearly a year ago, but I just can’t see me going back to vanilla now! I had a FWB I met on here who I would have liked a relationship with but it wasn’t meant to be! It’s encouraging to hear it’s happened for so many people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great question, I guess if it’s meant to be it will be !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually yes, we met outside fab, I mentioned fab and she arranged to meet me and some months later we are now a couple. She's a TS lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here and get married next year so you can find the one on here

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