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By *chilles and Raven OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven "
youre the only one

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By *appycouple300Couple
over a year ago

North Dorset

No, they are usually a twat in their profile. Can’t write or understand English

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do hope I come across like one on here

Does it work ?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven "

My block list is full of either racist, homophobic and sexist people, they may not see themselves as such, however that’s how they come across to me. Due to this I don’t want anything to do with them.

I have no doubt I’m on block lists due to my comments, cest la vie

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By *chilles and Raven OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Some really do hide their true colours well but they definitely come out in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do hope I come across like one on here

Does it work ?"
yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some really do hide their true colours well but they definitely come out in the forum. "

I am white but hope ppl would confuse Me with a black man

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Oh yeah. Theres a regular in the forums that have a disgusting attitude.

Based on profile they seem great but after the forums, no thanks.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I try not to judge too quick because comments can often be misconstrued and taken out of context on here. Tone and intent can be hard to get across with just the written word x

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By *chilles and Raven OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


"Some really do hide their true colours well but they definitely come out in the forum.

I am white but hope ppl would confuse Me with a black man "

Your profile has me chuckling. With your status and Nutella on tits.

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By *chilles and Raven OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven

My block list is full of either racist, homophobic and sexist people, they may not see themselves as such, however that’s how they come across to me. Due to this I don’t want anything to do with them.

I have no doubt I’m on block lists due to my comments, cest la vie "

Our block list is the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone judges. I'd be disappointed not to be judged. Despite the negative stance taken in the opening post and some of the replies, let's be honest here we all love it when we are judged positively and they are the judgements that matter

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By *chilles and Raven OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


"Oh yeah. Theres a regular in the forums that have a disgusting attitude.

Based on profile they seem great but after the forums, no thanks. "

I know there has been quiet a few recently that i am like ermm your a huge No No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do hope I come across like one on here

Does it work ?"
a gay man who loves Aldi yes it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven "

Nope, you're definitely not alone!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I must be a twat ... try be witty with my forum comments and a tad sick at times, just to bring a smile to at least someone over sensitive face ad my profile is average I think .. but get fook all in comments or messages, so my conclusion, is I must be a twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree some come across as totally not our cup of tea. However, based on one subject and that the context could be misinterpreted along with tone, we usually give some slack. The thought still lingers sometimes though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some really do hide their true colours well but they definitely come out in the forum. "

That is really true, some people's profile are great and very engaging, but there forum comments are just dull-witted.

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By *chilles and Raven OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


"I must be a twat ... try be witty with my forum comments and a tad sick at times, just to bring a smile to at least someone over sensitive face ad my profile is average I think .. but get fook all in comments or messages, so my conclusion, is I must be a twat "

Witty comment do tend to come across as they are intented. It is the hate speak and pure arrogance in some of the comments.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I judge people on their comments aaaallll the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try not to judge too quick because comments can often be misconstrued and taken out of context on here. Tone and intent can be hard to get across with just the written word x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m actually crazy, I like reading different opinions on the forums....

I don’t block anyone from the forums , because if I block them .....

I can still see there forum post.....

Now a quick guide to forum threads that usually bring out the most people being blocked..... Search these keywords

Bareback

Married and playing away

Leboudoir club in London

Bi sexual men

Fit/skinny/athletic women appreciation thread

BBC

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By *rof_cplCouple
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross

The opposite is also true. We've chatted to some lovely couples having read their comments on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

Comments on forums that come across badly do mean a block from me.

Aggression

Overly confrontational

Racist

Too negative

Downright stupid....

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By *chilles and Raven OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


"The opposite is also true. We've chatted to some lovely couples having read their comments on the forums."

That os also very true.

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By *martin1001Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

I’ve looked at certain comments and thought “what a twat” then looked at their profile and thought “yep...definitely a complete twat” but then realised that they are my own comments and my own profile!!!

Is there any way I can block myself?!?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

.

Yet people still go on about the need for a well written profile,

I've always said you can write what you like on a profile but It doesn't make it true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven "

each to their own love

happy fabbing Tuesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call a spade a spade, I know that may get some people’s backs up. But then others may agree with me. Just the way a busy forum can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet people still go on about the need for a well written profile,

I've always said you can write what you like on a profile but It doesn't make it true "

guess you cannot please everyone syndrome

short long fat or wide and that is my homemade chips everything comes in different sizes and what you do not like is someone else's pot of gold!

I do study and I cannot write lies in my work so why do it on here makes no sense really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I call a spade a spade, I know that may get some people’s backs up. But then others may agree with me. Just the way a busy forum can be "

people here can be good bad and ugly and yeah spade is a spade it sure is not a heart and some folk are heartless but hey I am only a robot not a human after all because most here think sex is robotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try not to judge too quick because comments can often be misconstrued and taken out of context on here. Tone and intent can be hard to get across with just the written word x"

Thank god, I'm not the only one who thinks this way.....

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I once couldn’t bloody STAND a certain fella and every time he posted it made my teeth grit and my hair stand on end.... then I met him... at a party... Nicest man EVER.

I think that was probably a rarity though

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I think I've blocked more people from the forum - due to them being unkind, spiteful,racist, misogynistic or homophobic etc - than I have from getting creepy/pushy/offensive/stalky messages. I wouldn't say their profiles are usually great but I've often been surprised at how 'normal' their profile seems compared to the bile they spout.

I've blocked *four* profiles today which I must be a record!

Not sure to be honest that blocking serves much purpose 'cos I doubt they'd be looking at my profile anyway, but it gives me a small sense of satisfaction to stop them seeing my pics if they did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck yeah, I put private notes on rather than block just incase I've taken something the wrong way, or not learned someones humour or writing style yet.

Ultimately comments made on threads and reactions to comments can absolutely turn someone from a "really want to meet" to a "not in this lifetime" rather quickly.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve looked at certain comments and thought “what a twat” then looked at their profile and thought “yep...definitely a complete twat” but then realised that they are my own comments and my own profile!!!

Is there any way I can block myself?!?"

Hahaha love that!

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By *chilles and Raven OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


"I’ve looked at certain comments and thought “what a twat” then looked at their profile and thought “yep...definitely a complete twat” but then realised that they are my own comments and my own profile!!!

Is there any way I can block myself?!?

Hahaha love that! "

Yes same here made me chuckle

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Some people can be downright sanctimonious and self righteous but perhaps I shouldn't judge myself too harshly.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

We’ve never blocked anyone from the forum... actually I’m not sure we’ve ever blocked anyone full stop. Most of the comments we leave on the forums seem to pass unnoticed, and very few people send us messages. Most people who post here regularly seem pretty decent though, and I tend to just ignore the comments I don’t like. Everyone is entitled to an opinion, and peoples opinions vary from topic to topic. Just because you don’t agree with someone about one thing, doesn’t mean you won’t be in agreement about something else. I alway try to think the best of people.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I sometimes post what I think is a witty comment but look back on it later and it seems a bit sarcastic or judgemental...so sorry about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the pot needs stirring or we play devils advocate, not bothered what people think of us who don’t know us....

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I dont focus on the negatives

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven "

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I judge more on photos and appearance.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I dont focus on the negatives"

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"I try not to judge too quick because comments can often be misconstrued and taken out of context on here. Tone and intent can be hard to get across with just the written word x"

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’ve looked at certain comments and thought “what a twat” then looked at their profile and thought “yep...definitely a complete twat” but then realised that they are my own comments and my own profile!!!

Is there any way I can block myself?!?"

Funny when that happens.

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By *chilles and Raven OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


"We’ve never blocked anyone from the forum... actually I’m not sure we’ve ever blocked anyone full stop. Most of the comments we leave on the forums seem to pass unnoticed, and very few people send us messages. Most people who post here regularly seem pretty decent though, and I tend to just ignore the comments I don’t like. Everyone is entitled to an opinion, and peoples opinions vary from topic to topic. Just because you don’t agree with someone about one thing, doesn’t mean you won’t be in agreement about something else. I alway try to think the best of people. "

It is not that i judge people on not having the same opinion as me. No one is going to agree with me on everything. It would be boring as if we all agreed. But there are some people who's comments on the forums are just nasty. There is no your just reading it wrong it is completely nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually judge people by their actions not just pixels that disappear in the ether and are in any event far too one dimensional lacking in tone and all those other non verbal elements that make real communication....well just more real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet people still go on about the need for a well written profile,

I've always said you can write what you like on a profile but It doesn't make it true "

Yeah but verifications are always true. 110%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’ve never blocked anyone from the forum... actually I’m not sure we’ve ever blocked anyone full stop. Most of the comments we leave on the forums seem to pass unnoticed, and very few people send us messages. Most people who post here regularly seem pretty decent though, and I tend to just ignore the comments I don’t like. Everyone is entitled to an opinion, and peoples opinions vary from topic to topic.

*** Just because you don’t agree with someone about one thing, doesn’t mean you won’t be in agreement about something else.***

I alway try to think the best of people. "

***

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven "

Also, it's the totally negative comments that anger me, and makes me think "why have you even bothered coming onto this thread"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven

Also, it's the totally negative comments that anger me, and makes me think "why have you even bothered coming onto this thread""

I get that not everyone agrees or has the same point of view but it’s the sarcastic, condescending and patronising comments that put me off someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I read some comments and the word twat does indeed sring to mind

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By *martin1001Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove


"I sometimes post what I think is a witty comment but look back on it later and it seems a bit sarcastic or judgemental...so sorry about that "
I think you’ve just encapsulated my life story - my headstone will read “here lies smartin...he thought he was being funny”

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Yet people still go on about the need for a well written profile,

I've always said you can write what you like on a profile but It doesn't make it true "

So true. Mine says I'm a woman

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We we’re speaking to a couple on here, seemed all fine and good, then bam, just dropped in with the most racist bigoted views you could ever imagine. We tried to direct the conversation away from that and got called rich arrogant pricks who didn’t understand what the real world was like.

Apparently all of their failings in life were due to a certain ethnic group. No, your failings are your own

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We read some comments and makes us roll our eyes. We find it's a useful filter for sussing out those that we wouldn't be compatible with....no matter how good their profile is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is lots of drama and negativity on the forums which bemuses me when you know it is grown adults behaving in that way.

Lots of nastiness goes on behind the scenes which is pathetic.

I have only blocked on person on the forums after I made a comment on a thread they didn't like agd was very vocal about in PM, absolutely no need for it and just was not worth my time or attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven "

Well, I would say that is a bit harsh. Why would you judge others by their words or actions, but judge yourself by your intentions? I dont get it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven

Also, it's the totally negative comments that anger me, and makes me think "why have you even bothered coming onto this thread""

Sorry typos in last post. I have seen a fair bit of this, they like to kick some people when they are down or have low confidence, good filter though on the other hand

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Totally

Especially the ones that try too hard to be controversial or incite agg with bitchy replies (and not women I might add)

Normally from accounts you wouldn’t bother with anyway but still a great filter anyway

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven "

I do always that

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Yes we do. The forums are a good filter.

Some hot profiles but then they open their mouths on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If having a different opinion means i miss out on a fuck or strangers on the tinternet think I’m a wanker then I’m happy with that.

Rather that then be a creep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If having a different opinion means i miss out on a fuck or strangers on the tinternet think I’m a wanker then I’m happy with that.

Rather that then be a creep "

Totally agree mate, I have upset some members of cliques before with my difference if opinion but really could not care less. Far to much capitulation and arse licking on here and I don’t mean in the sensual sense. I admire people who stick to their guns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be a bit too abrasive or dickish sometimes, so I can't really blame anyone for thinking ''what a fucking bell end''.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I always try and leave positive or friendly comments. I stay away from controversial posts. Although I will state my opinion on things especially in the politics section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven "

You’re definitely not the only one. I enjoy reading the authors thoughts. How relative to their profile, etc

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I try not to judge too quick because comments can often be misconstrued and taken out of context on here. Tone and intent can be hard to get across with just the written word x"

True, the written word project’s information to the recipients to project back on the person who writes it,

Gosh your sexy, in so many ways.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yeah my block list is mostly made up from people I've been put off by in the forums. The rest of it are people who specify they don't like my ethnicity height body hair etc.

Also found some great people on here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah because reading is one of those things where it’s easy to misinterpret what someone means. Also a persons post about a certain topic is only a tiny slice of their whole personality. Especially on a site that focuses on sex. A forum comment isn’t going to provide any deep insight into them as a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's healthy to have differing opinions but if it's put across in a condensing manner thats what gets people's backs up.

Updates and forum posts are a great insight into the person behind the profile especially if that profile is virtually blank and that person has winked you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah I only look at womens pictures

and only read their profiles if they are good looking

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we need not to be fragile but understanding and accepting we all different use this site for different reasons too.

How someone seems on the forum is not necessarily a true picture. We all have a trigger that gives a different opinion to yours.

Mental health varies for all of us and at any time could be one of us.

Forums are funny and serious helpful and crazy.

Let's not analyse it.. We could end up losing it.

Accept each other "

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I think we need not to be fragile but understanding and accepting we all different use this site for different reasons too.

How someone seems on the forum is not necessarily a true picture. We all have a trigger that gives a different opinion to yours.

Mental health varies for all of us and at any time could be one of us.

Forums are funny and serious helpful and crazy.

Let's not analyse it.. We could end up losing it.

Accept each other "

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Only the ones who argue for the sake or arguing and think they are never wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we need not to be fragile but understanding and accepting we all different use this site for different reasons too.

How someone seems on the forum is not necessarily a true picture. We all have a trigger that gives a different opinion to yours.

Mental health varies for all of us and at any time could be one of us.

Forums are funny and serious helpful and crazy.

Let's not analyse it.. We could end up losing it.

Accept each other "

Well put...

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You definaterly see different sides of people between profile and comments, hope i dont come across badly in either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only the ones who argue for the sake or arguing and think they are never wrong "

Or those who lie so much they believe what they are saying 100%

x

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

That’s the great thing about the green arrow.

You can see if it’s a misconstrued comment or the chain of comments show they are one of a same pattern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s the great thing about the green arrow.

You can see if it’s a misconstrued comment or the chain of comments show they are one of a same pattern. "

Oh is that what the arrow is for, never know that

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I have never blocked anybody but have been blocked a few times by people who do not alternative points of view. I get on with most people in real life. Imagine if a real life block button existed though !

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By *chilles and Raven OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


"That’s the great thing about the green arrow.

You can see if it’s a misconstrued comment or the chain of comments show they are one of a same pattern.

Oh is that what the arrow is for, never know that"

Your joking thats what the arrow does i just thought it like pointed to the man, women, couple, tv, ect... God i would be worse if i was blonde

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do hope I come across like one on here

Does it work ?"

Oh yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s the great thing about the green arrow.

You can see if it’s a misconstrued comment or the chain of comments show they are one of a same pattern.

Oh is that what the arrow is for, never know that

Your joking thats what the arrow does i just thought it like pointed to the man, women, couple, tv, ect... God i would be worse if i was blonde "

Looks like we are in the same boat ha ha

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By *chilles and Raven OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


"That’s the great thing about the green arrow.

You can see if it’s a misconstrued comment or the chain of comments show they are one of a same pattern.

Oh is that what the arrow is for, never know that

Your joking thats what the arrow does i just thought it like pointed to the man, women, couple, tv, ect... God i would be worse if i was blonde

Looks like we are in the same boat ha ha"

It does indeed

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Everyone judges. I'd be disappointed not to be judged. Despite the negative stance taken in the opening post and some of the replies, let's be honest here we all love it when we are judged positively and they are the judgements that matter "

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"That’s the great thing about the green arrow.

You can see if it’s a misconstrued comment or the chain of comments show they are one of a same pattern.

Oh is that what the arrow is for, never know that

Your joking thats what the arrow does i just thought it like pointed to the man, women, couple, tv, ect... God i would be worse if i was blonde

Looks like we are in the same boat ha ha

It does indeed "

Every day is a school day

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Can imagine we come across a bit grumpy at the moment.

Just having a difficult time on fab. Really struggling to find meets, etc.

We're a nice couple really... honest!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine I come across as a twat most of the time.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven "

Yes!!! I feel like peoples ture colours come out in the forum and can make for very interesting reading. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

I try no to juge people with what they put its better to chat to them 1st take it form there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven "

Can you truly understand people's personalities, considering sarcasm can often be taken as something else, giving the lack of facial expressions, body language, tone of voice etc. Personally I don't think you can get the the jist of someone soly from what people have read online.

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By *chilles and Raven OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven

Can you truly understand people's personalities, considering sarcasm can often be taken as something else, giving the lack of facial expressions, body language, tone of voice etc. Personally I don't think you can get the the jist of someone soly from what people have read online. "

I can understand that i would read something one way and someone else will read it in a different way. I am talking about the judgmental a d derogatory comments, those you can only read them one way.

For example read the thread Dirty Houses!! If you want an idea about what i am talking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven

Can you truly understand people's personalities, considering sarcasm can often be taken as something else, giving the lack of facial expressions, body language, tone of voice etc. Personally I don't think you can get the the jist of someone soly from what people have read online.

I can understand that i would read something one way and someone else will read it in a different way. I am talking about the judgmental a d derogatory comments, those you can only read them one way.

For example read the thread Dirty Houses!! If you want an idea about what i am talking about."
yea that thread brought out all the pieces of shit to avoid on here

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By *chilles and Raven OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven

Can you truly understand people's personalities, considering sarcasm can often be taken as something else, giving the lack of facial expressions, body language, tone of voice etc. Personally I don't think you can get the the jist of someone soly from what people have read online.

I can understand that i would read something one way and someone else will read it in a different way. I am talking about the judgmental a d derogatory comments, those you can only read them one way.

For example read the thread Dirty Houses!! If you want an idea about what i am talking about.yea that thread brought out all the pieces of shit to avoid on here "

I completely agree with that statement. It got very nasty very quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one that reads the post in the forum and has a look and a read of the profiles of the commenters. All tht goes through my mind is wow great profile but what a total twat in their comments.

Raven "

You're not the only, some people appear pleasant on forums but not in messages or tone. You sometimes write something of the cuff and what makes me laugh is their response to what's written starts of benign and pleasant, but by the time it's ended. True emotion has taken over, they've worked in a few insults along the way while appearing to themselves a victim and a sheep. I've blocked more people this month than I have ever done in the on and off again 6 years I've been here.

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