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Age, looks or technique?

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By *aughtius Maximius OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromley

Hi Folks,

I was just thinking what is the most important decision to meet someone? Is it their age, looks or their sexual experience and technique?

Would be interested to hear people’s views.

Max

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't know their sexual technique until I meet them - people often talk a big game about being really good at kissing or fucking.

For me the most important thing is how compatible I think I am with someone. That's what makes me interested in someone and keep interested in them.

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By *aughtius Maximius OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromley


"I don't know their sexual technique until I meet them - people often talk a big game about being really good at kissing or fucking.

For me the most important thing is how compatible I think I am with someone. That's what makes me interested in someone and keep interested in them."

So someone’s profile is the most important thing if you haven’t met them regardless of their age or looks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Folks,

I was just thinking what is the most important decision to meet someone? Is it their age, looks or their sexual experience and technique?

Would be interested to hear people’s views.

Max"
how much dosh they have in bank for me also i like a woman that drives a skoda

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't know their sexual technique until I meet them - people often talk a big game about being really good at kissing or fucking.

For me the most important thing is how compatible I think I am with someone. That's what makes me interested in someone and keep interested in them.

So someone’s profile is the most important thing if you haven’t met them regardless of their age or looks? "

No. How they interact on the forum, how they interact with me on messages. They are what make me decide to meet someone. If you mean initially, it's a combination of all of those things but more a feel I get for someone.

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

Personality for me. Attraction starts with stimulating the mind and the body will follow!

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

The chat, banter & innuendo for me...

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By *sSforfunCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Hi Folks,

I was just thinking what is the most important decision to meet someone? Is it their age, looks or their sexual experience and technique?

Would be interested to hear people’s views.

Max"

For us we have had meets straight from fab and gone with looks (shallow maybe but there has to be an attraction) some have worked out great others not so much. The meets we’ve had when we really clicked with them as that’s when the experience is best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks everytime.

I need to be attracted to someone physically to have sex with them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Personality, which I gauge on the forum (where applicable), profile, and in messages, above all else. Looks a bit. Age unimportant outside my limits, sexual technique, as Meli says lots of people talk the talk and it means nothing.

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By *aughtius Maximius OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromley


"Looks everytime.

I need to be attracted to someone physically to have sex with them."

Even if they seem to have little experience or not many verifications you still go for looks first?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

A little bit of looks, not so much the age, but more the way they communicate, their sense of humour and the connection we feel.

Sexual skills and experience doesn't feature when deciding who to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is irrelevant for me, it’s based on personality and if they can hold a conversation and not stuck up their own arse, then it’s looks. Sounds shallow but you have to be sexually attracted to that person right?

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Looks in the first instance.

Age is of less importance.

Experience and technique I'll work out from their profile and through messaging.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number looks is in the eye of the beholder so I guess it’s personality for us

Oh and a bottle or two of wine hides the looks and makes me look better to others

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By *aughtius Maximius OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromley


"A little bit of looks, not so much the age, but more the way they communicate, their sense of humour and the connection we feel.

Sexual skills and experience doesn't feature when deciding who to meet."

Even though they may have little or no sexual skills or experience? Somebody could be really attractive but have little experience or skill

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"A little bit of looks, not so much the age, but more the way they communicate, their sense of humour and the connection we feel.

Sexual skills and experience doesn't feature when deciding who to meet.

Even though they may have little or no sexual skills or experience? Somebody could be really attractive but have little experience or skill "

And somebody could be lying about their sexual technique, or it be not your cup of tea. Sexual technique is unreliable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Folks,

I was just thinking what is the most important decision to meet someone? Is it their age, looks or their sexual experience and technique?

Would be interested to hear people’s views.

Maxhow much dosh they have in bank for me also i like a woman that drives a skoda "

I drive a Skoda lol

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"Looks everytime.

I need to be attracted to someone physically to have sex with them.

Even if they seem to have little experience or not many verifications you still go for looks first? "
judging a book by its cover does not make it a good read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i look for humour..gotta have that and then i look how many miles they are from me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time I’m chatting someone up I’ll make sure to ask them their techniques. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks is important to both of us, personality next x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks, age, attitude and they way they come across in the "first impression" all count equally and why shouldn't they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First criterion is we get along well and are genuinely interested in each other. Couple that with a mutual physical attraction then meeting is a possibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's attitude/personality first by the way they are in forums and the way their profile is written, age is just a number to be honest. Looks are not so important to me, but I wouldn't just jump in to bed with anyone either if that makes sense.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Hi Folks,

I was just thinking what is the most important decision to meet someone? Is it their age, looks or their sexual experience and technique?

Would be interested to hear people’s views.

Max"

Looks initially. Then technique makes me want to come back for more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Predominantly how they interact. Age is important in that I dont want to meet anyone under 30. Personal choice. Looks not massively so. Technique will make me want to meet again

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Next time I’m chatting someone up I’ll make sure to ask them their techniques. lol "

Best you do!

We were talking to a guy from here some time ago - he mentioned he doesn't like skinny arses because it bruises him - when I asked him to elaborate it turned out he really likes to BANG HARD! So yes, with good communication you can often learn a lot about people and their technique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality & compatibility through chat and banter first from messaging on here

I play in clubs where age & skills irrelevant as you don’t have a profile to refer to its on a face to face basis there and then x

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

For us age isn't important really. We do have an age filter, but that's because I don't want to actively look for someone my parents age.

If we were to approach someone then looks would somewhat come in to play. But we aren't the type to look for the mainstream beauty standards. Imperfect is perfect to us.

Experience doesn't come into play at all. If we all get along and can have fun together that's the main thing. We find we have more fun with a regular than random one off meets because you learn what each other likes and for us that makes for a better experience.

Gem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks are what initially reel us in but then there has to be a connection through banter or another shared interest.Also might sound snobbish but a certain level of intelligence, or at least be able to string a sentence together!

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